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is it just me...??????/
April 01 2012
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RHP User
14 years ago
Men are visual creatures Pictures And there are a shit load of em from WA ,its like they grow wild out here and I am loving it good luch hon Get a couple of mine guys, those hard working hard fucking men yeah baby
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RHP User
14 years ago
Just read all of your profile and yep you are looking in the wrong place is you want a realationship sorry just the way it is its fly in fly out fucks here but there are lots of other date sites around.
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RHP User
14 years ago
yeah i know.....but all the same lol......worth a try wherever i reckon.....but sadly same story all over......oh well....
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RHP User
14 years ago
just looked at your profile.... maybe a picture of some sort, doesn't have to be a face pic but profiles without any pictures generally get overlookedyou are aloud a profile pic being a guest i presume or is my last comment pointless, a size 10 - 12 in my books is sexy.... put that in for your 'body type' don't leave it up to the viewers imaginationthe 'ask me' in your relationship section i believe needs to be filled out... people know straight up thenalso, i'm guessing most men aren't chasing an ongoing thing no need for you to change however
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think that it is possible to find a relationship here but you you need to be happy with a starting point of let's just have fun first and see how it goes. If that's not what you're comfortable with then I agree you probably are better off on another site. Your size has very little to do with it but a needy or chippy attitude will scare anyone off. Also, people are only able to treat you as badly as you let them... So I'm curious as to what you mean by your comment about men treating women badly.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I read your profile and agree with Tuscan Red, maybe not the best site if you are loking for a long term relationship but I have seen the odd male profile or two saying the same. Why not be proactive and look through profiles and send a flirt if someone floats ya boat. Revamping your profile might be a good idea too....men do read...sex it up a little...say what you want...not so much what you don't want, hugs H x
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hi Schimmel Yep I heard the same news item whilst driving to work on Friday and Im amazed I didnt run off the fricking freeway , from laughing so hard (not that one can even attempt to do the speed limit up the Kwinana from Mandurah nowdays...hello roadworks and traffic !!!) 38,000 ...............yep .....and Im with you ...... WTF are they ? But then I did the analysis Say half of them aren't in our age group. (as they probably arent looking for a relationship) ...so lets cull 19,000 cause they are all young buck s18-38 ish seeking same age ladies...,....so lets say 18,000 are between say 40-50.....well MY EXPERIENCE (and mine only ) is half of them are partnered and cheating....so lets rub out that 9,000 out , leaving approx 9000..... and of those 9000: 1) They are just out of longterm relationships and are pissed because they have lost half the house/super to the ex, paying child support, they are starting to experience niggling medical problems and are shagging anything and everything cause the big 50 is looming and they need to feel like 25 again !!! ! and in their mindset, they are running out of time !! - dont they make for riveting conversation when your meeting them for the obligatory coffee/bourbon before you decide whether you want to bonk them or not !!!......yep, we all have a story, but trust me I really dont want to hear in the first 12 minutes of meeting you, what a F...6%%#$Y)% C....%*^%% your ex is !!! 2) Half are gay or bi, but wont admit it - hey thats fine...but dont contact us then !!! 3) Are serial players and not the least bit interested in "having a relationship" but at least they are more honest of the lot.... This leaves in my expert scientifc diagnosis of the situation..., that there are only 38 decent men left in Perth....and seeing Perth stretches pretty much from Yanchep to Mundaring to Mandurah..good luck in finding him....(and btw Id flip you for him !!!) But honestly hon, after reading your profile, Im in agreeance with my good friend Tuscan Red, you are definitely on the wrong site if what you state is really what you want....trust me, most men will give you a wide berth...(fromthis site anyway) .......I did met a former partner on here near on 4 years ago and we were together for 3 years but I think that was luck and timing and a exception to the rule.......and we didnt work out cause of his serial cheating and he always said we woulodnt work out cause we met on a sex site (love his thinking) ...so go figure (warning to you, stay away from Redcliffe !!) I do think you can meet people from here and have a relationship......however...in my opinion (before all the blokes jump down my throat and can me) ALOT of guys look at this site (and some girls do too so Im not stereotyping..) for what it exactly is...a medium to meet people for NSA fun...end of story...occasionally two will meet and click and become a couple (Yay to my friend Happy Chick) but I think its rare.. And trust me, the "Vanilla" sites are no different....on there, are "nice polite guys" pretending ....they more than likely have a profile on here as well..... Im like you Schimmel...I would love to meet a great guy and work at a future together...but the reality is that we are getting older and a lot less appealing, than our sisters in their 30 age bracket...and even though we are keeping it together, looking after our appearance - endless trips to the gym, shellac nails, lash extensions......we are not what they want.......now thats not to say, that the yonger guys dont want us.....hell even I am constantly bombarded with the offer of a "cougar" situation..but it doesnt do anything for me....if I want sex I can get it, no probs, aaahhh but to have someone like to go out and have a date with - you know dinner, chat, bottle of red..............conversation !!!!!!, getting to know someone !!!!, ..............................nope...............tell her shes dreaming !!!!!!!!!!! Am I jaded and cynical. ???......yes I am.........I have been single for 15 months - most of my g/f are also single, most of them now into 3-5 years of singledom...and we all lament the same thing....where are all the lovely guys ?????....its like the quest for the Holy Grail.....do you believe in it existence and where the frigging hell is it ???????????????????? However...I say this.....deep down I am a true romantic...Elizabeth Bennett (google if you need to) is my second name...and one day (I wish and also live in hope ) that my Mr Darcy will ride on into my life....and my mother alway said never take hope away from anyone, otherwise you leave them with nothing.......... Tuscan Red said to me yesterday..everything is Kismet, she is rite, if it is meant to be ...it will be Meanwhile..Carpe Diem and enjoy every day while you can with whoever you can with!!,...thank god for our girlfriends !!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'm confused...your relationship status is "Ask Me" and I can only guess (with so many others on here as they do it to men)...that you are already in a relationship or married and looking for more? I agree with Tuscan too...there are so many of us women out there that are here for the sex with one or two or many...that a girl that wants a relationship specifically goes to the bottom of the men's barrells. The way to a man's heart on this site is by feeding him lots and lots of pussy! Hugs...xFunlovingx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hun you have nailed all my sentiments on the head in one fell swoop.....!!! ..... Thnx Fun....bottom line is it doesnt matter what you put as relationship status....think SLK has summed it up perfectly....... Single by the way lol..... Thnx Mrs Peachy... and yeah girls (and guys) may well be on the wrong site, but to date, all other sites seems to be full or RHP men hahahaha.....guess gotta put it out there and see what karma sends our way.... xx
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RHP User
14 years ago
thnx for the input every one xx
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QLDtwo4fun
14 years ago
Whilst I am not looking for a FWB or a partner, if I was, I would definitely look at women on RHP, sex is an important part of an ongoing relationship. Why not start there and work out the rest? I also pass through Perth regularly, whilst there are lots of guys in Perth most of them also seem to be passing through. I reckon the pool of available quality guys is small. Schimmel, your profile doesn't say much about you. Look at you profile from a guys perspective, what reasons have you given for them to want to know more. j
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hi Schimmel I used to have a pic up and found that every bloke on the site seemed to be messaging me. It wasnt an explicit pic just suggestive and no face. I took my pic off and decided to put more information in my profile. That seems to have done the trick. Less messages but the guys that take the time to find out about me are generally the type I (and you) am looking to meet. I haven't had any bad experiences here and maybe my screening process is doing its job. I have enjoyed meeting great men on this site. They are out there and they are interested in ongoing FWB NSA friendships. Some are looking for more too. Try to be more confident in yourself, get the sexy thing happened in your head. A sexy outlook on life is so empowering. Just a thought but how about changing your profile to be more about the type of person you are and make it a bit more fun instead of so serious and demanding. So many gorgeous men on this site I am sure you will find what you are looking for. Just a matter of packaging your wares in the right way to appeal to the men you are looking for. Good luck
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RHP User
14 years ago
...just booking me a flight to WA ASAP MInxy xx
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RHP User
14 years ago
No your right it is Just You
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RHP User
14 years ago
wowwow....it is twats like you I seem to constantly attract no matter what I put up !!!!.....and the very reason I am so particular in what I write in my profile !!!!! For those with constructive advice.....I thank you......xx :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hey dont mention it .. But if you knoe it was you why ask Easy Tiger just making light of the matter
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RHP User
14 years ago
In Fact Schimmel Sorry I never mean to cause you grief so for that I apologies .. You put yourself out there and I may have hurt your feelings and that IS NOT COOL. So In the same place Publically Sorry I Honestly mean that
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RHP User
14 years ago
I was always taught if i had nothing nice to say, say nothing at all..... why antagonise....???? Quoting 'wowwow11' No your right it is Just You
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RHP User
14 years ago
didnt know it was just me......and as has been mentioned in the comments above....it ISNT just me.....I am normal after all hahahahah/.....
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RHP User
14 years ago
Ummm I'd just like to repeat my earlier comment about a certain type of attitude having the potential to scare people off.
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RHP User
14 years ago
i am impressed......thank you :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
i appreciate what it is you are saying.......... but i have in time on here had the total slut wanting nothing but sex profile with 2000+ hits in the first week and now have that profile locked as it truly is not what I want..... this one is what I want and I am happy with where it stands.......it was a simple put it out there for comment written in a moment of loss after yet another knockback...... appreciate all responses.....thank you
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luvsilver
14 years ago
I don't think wowwow meant anything by it at all. I have never met the guy but have read a lot of his comments over the time and he is certainly not spiteful at all. I think read what he says and have a laugh as thats all he is trying to do Mr Luvsilver
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RHP User
14 years ago
The problem with this medium is that tone and inflection are missing....if you aren't familiar with a persons dry style of humour it;s easy I suppose to be offended....takin' the piss is a great Aussie tradition but sometimes we girls are a tad sensitive.....I agree with Mr.Luvsilver I doubt there was a spitefull intention.....x hugs H
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6exxy
14 years ago
I have felt the same about women here but simply pick myself up and keep going. Somewhere here , there....out there is someone for me. Hopeless romantic I know
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RHP User
14 years ago
things have certainly changed on here ,,,,,,,,,,long before i started transforming ,,,,,i was on here looking for a relationship with a nice lady around my age ,,,,,,,,,,,,,i found it very hard tomeet someone ,,,,,,,,,,,everyone said i was to old ,,,,,,,,,,,,,i finally did meet a lovely lady ,,,,,,,,,,,,unfortunaitly she passed away ,,,,,after that no one was interested again ,,,,,,,,,,,,,so i threw caution to the wind and started what im doing now ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,i think theres heaps of guys over 40 on here looking for something long term ,,,,i was ,,,,,,,,,,,may be your projecting yourself in the wrong way or something ,,,,,,,,,,,,yes i am bi ,,,,,,but that doesnt mean i couldnt be in a loving monogamous relationship ,,,,,,,my old profile is still on here ,,,,,kingkee666.........check it out n tell me if something was wrong ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,because i could never work it out ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,bit late now i guess ,,,,,,,,,xxxxxxx
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