is it fair do give bj

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  playfulminx

  14 years ago

  To be honest, with all the limbs and tongues that fly around in a foursome or moresome, it's really hard to keep score. Not sure anyone really sits there ensuring that oral goes around evenly? I suppose if you have played with the same couple a few times before and noticed that oral isn't forthcoming from one particular person then you might feel less likely to reciprocate over time? Hard to say, some people enjoy giving more than receiving in which case no one probably cares about things not being even.

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  erotictouch4u

  14 years ago

  Am I the only one who thinks all this playing is about MUTUAL pleasure ? Giving and receiving doesn't have to be about "I do to you what you do to me". My preference is to give the lady all she wants, pleasure her as much as I can because Karma is about giving and then getting back what you deserve based on the quality of your giving. ET xox

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I think that if you consider going down is a chore you only do because you expect something in return, then don't do it. You're going to eventually realize that you're not always going to get what you need from every interlude. Just say next. Hugs Stalky

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  im sayign general this chick exspect it to happen

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  there should be no 'expectation' for anyone to do anything at all....to us its a case of doing what feels nicest, and what you are comfortable with.....as others said....keeping 'score' isnt in the spirit of play... and to make 'demands', or play with 'expectations'?...well....thats just not nice at all.....the only thing close to an expectation should be the desire to have fun..........

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  If your keeping score, then you're not having as much fun as you should be... Personally, I prefer my partner(s) to say/comment on whatever it is that they would like or think that they are missing out on...

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Its allways nice to get back what you give. There are those who do suck and those who dont, Just like swallowing. I dont mind not getting a BJ back. I just love the taste and the look on her face. As long as there is some interaction i think its all good.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  to a previous thread...it shouldn't be about doing someone a favour (e.g. a blow job) to get something in return. Do it if you enjoy doing it, if not, don't do it :-)

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I love giving women head, simple as that.Whilst I also love recieving, I wouldn't want to forsake one for the otherCutting off nose to spite the face anyone?

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  We have noticed when playing, it occurs too regular the guys get too excited to give oral! they place their cock by the ladies mouth to receive then have sex and blow in a couple minutes.Like if they feel the urge to cum, whats wrong with the guys pulling out and giving the lady oral?So both are satisfied?Don't the guys catch on the ladies are missing out?....duh?Or they are just concerned about themselves getting off?Or are they concerned about getting a STD / SDI if they give a lady oral?Or are some just Duds in bed?

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  If the foursome just happen to be me and three nubile adorables of the much fairer sex then I would do my very very best to be a gentleman and accommodate each and every one of them. Really, I would...although odds are that I might just have a fair bit of help licking them all out, surely there would be at least one other all out licker in the mix? That's fine with me...honestly it is, as I could end up looking like a beagle chasing rabbits with my tongue flapping out of the side of my mouth after something like that. Ahhh we can dream...can't we? | Just go with the flow and don't worry about any dumb ol' rule book...there isn't one, and you could issue "rain checks" just like they do at Target if anyone misses out. Chances are you will all crawl away as happy little campers anyway...tongues flapping and tails wagging. | ...stop that, it could happen you know.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I think you get what you give..if there is a selfish lover involved then kick them off the team !

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Quoting 'ChasingChilli' remember to include small print such as "If I fail to provide a service of cunnilingus to Ms Lisanjt, I hereby consent to her restraining me and giving it to me up the ass with a strap on, on the condition that she uses a sandpaper condom" | ...could make watching Judge Judy a hell of a lot more fun. Maybe all those toothless hillbillies would quit fighting over who owned the Dust Buster when they will living together in the 14ft. long caravan being towed behind a stolen car! | ...I plead not guilty. Want to sit across the table from me in court? | | Sharks...they leave the water when I swim both out of fear and professional courtesy.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  If that is the case ET then karma has a whole heap of pleasure lined up just waiting for me. Bring it on.

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  DonnaBrett

  14 years ago

  It's all about fun isn't it? There should be no expectations and demands or pressures put on anyone to do anything..but, that being said when there is a selfish lover who wants it all done to him or her and they just lay there expecting to be 'serviced' then that is a big turn off. If everyone involved truly wants to be there...all the good stuff will come (no pun) naturally.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  and if there's something you would like, ask for it. A lot of people appreciate a bit of direction.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I guess at 19 you still consider whats fair and whats not fair. In the end it's a legal term defining what's 'Fair and Just' between two or more parties. . The act of generosity, which is probably the issue here, is that the act of being generous to another without expectation. . The act of receiving generous acts, is to accept them not with suspicion/obligation but believing in the good intention they are given. . Don't feel obliged by offerings from others, but enjoy the freedom to offer others what you have to share.

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