RHP

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is it a find line between Friends with benefits and selling yourself for sex

December 16 2010

sex

Ok heres a curly one - a guy wants sex but the girl will only do it if she is wined and dined and spoilted. A guy can go and pay a call girl 200 for her services but he is also paying for the other girls services too. Have you ever slept with any one for that reason or was it just for lust and attraction, no benefits , diamonds chamapge, holidays

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Is all very well. Yes it is nice when it happens but is not necessary. I only sleep with / have sex with those I am attracted to anyway irrespective of wether they take me out to dinner, wine and dine me or not. Not interested in the diamonds, champagne or holidays. I can pay for my own thanks. I will not feel beholden to any man. Anyway all the goodies under the sun does not guarantee sex soooo if this is the aim, maybe the person is better off paying for it. At least then sex is gauranteed.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    i had coffee once...does that count??? Sweetie can i borrow your little black book please?? roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'TassieRose' i had coffee once...does that count??? Sweetie can i borrow your little black book please?? roxxy Roxy, gorgeous, I know it's been said before but I shall take the opportunity to say it again. Come to Sydney! I have no doubt what so ever that you would be wined and dined to decadent, debaucherous excess with your only problem being how to fit all your invitations into 7 short days a week.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I always think that part of the fun for sex is the hunt. Laying the right traps, use the right bait. Play the line out a bit pull it in a bit. Sure every now and then you throw a line in the water and a fish jumps right on top of it and that is great but if it happened every time it would be a bit boring don't you think. LC

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    well, why would a real woman give it away for free? kinda makes it cheap and nasty for me, regardless of what the arrangement is, from my male point of view, if its free,I don't want it. dinners and outings are great, quite often more "soul satisfying" than sex, and they don't have to mean shes my "chosen-one". I've been proud to show off the girl who was my "Fuck Buddy", as they've all been relationship material.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Im thinking that you think RHP is for Free Sex! lol I dont think so! Not Me! Cant have the Prostitutes out of Buisness! Sweetiepie! well said! Quoting 'SWEETIEPIE2010' A bit of class never hurt anybody. If you want the professional services of a lady of the evening along with all her gifts and talents then by all means pay for one,either way...it's a standard i set for my dates. When you give her money in exchange for sex you pay for her beauty and her sexual and sensual gifts. (you may just pay for her company) When you spend money on a date it can be thought that it's the same thing just not on a professional level. It matters not. If i'm on a date i already lust/like the person i'm about to become intimate with but there is a certain standard of treatment that i give and expect. I'm used to it, i've been spoiled and treated like a princess for well over a decade now. If you don't like it don't go out with me. People will treat you the way you allow them to treat you, if you set the bar high you will very rarely be disappointed.End of. Very simple really. xx Sweetie

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'QLH454' Quoting 'TassieRose' i had coffee once...does that count??? Sweetie can i borrow your little black book please?? roxxy Roxy, gorgeous, I know it's been said before but I shall take the opportunity to say it again. Come to Sydney! I have no doubt what so ever that you would be wined and dined to decadent, debaucherous excess with your only problem being how to fit all your invitations into 7 short days a week. thanks sweet thing but i went to Sydney, spent 4 wonderful days there and the closest i came to getting laid was Focus feeling me up (she fondled me in places no man has been in months)lol but i did meet some wonderful people...just never got laid, no interest from anyone roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    does it really matter ... if your not after a relationship ... its just sex

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    so is masturbation.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    any one interested in having a coffee this subject is strating to gain momentum it could climax soon have a good weekend all

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Sell themselves all the time for various different things. Some may consider a wedding ring the price to pay for sex, others a relationship. Some may consider dinner and others cold hard cash. When has masturbation been sex? I thought it was a quick fix so one could sleep at night. How silly of me. Coffee? Yes please. No sugar for me as I am sweet enough!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'wowwow09' does it really matter ... if your not after a relationship ... its just sex Sex without emotional engagement is just masturbation - so why waste money when you have a perfectly good hand...I like to think that when I have sex with a women I give her something of myself and I receive something from her - even with a (hypothetical) call girl...Mr. SR.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    let me see if i have this right the fella i met at the park, bent me over the bonnet of his car and rammed his hard cock in me till we both cum...then dropped me home that was just maturbation??? well i didnt know that roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    does that mean when you fly in you will bend me over the wing of the plane then fly out again or will you buy me coffee first?? but after that (if you have time) can we maturbate together...mmmmm roxxy...no thread killing here lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    To answer question, no i can honestly say i have never slept with a person because I was obtaining any benefit other than mutual sex for mutual satisfaction. I personally think that women who do play this game (sex for goods) are just trying too avoid the tax man ;-) but wonder if this characteristic is owned solely by women, or if men play this game too? Either way, its not a game I find attractive and a disgrace too both genders, and too those who play it and those who allow it.