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i think there is a problem
April 23 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
How do you mean intimidated and scared Roxxy? . And be honest... you kinda like to scare 'em dontcha :-D
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Jean_Girard' How do you mean intimidated and scared Roxxy? . And be honest... you kinda like to scare 'em dontcha :-D I'd actually prefer Roxxy define 'intimated' instead. There's a big difference, you know? . For example, "She intimated her intention to wrap him in clingwrap and whip him silly!" is a very different kettle of fish to "She intimidated him as she ground her stiletto heel into his testicles". . I really can't answer your question though Roxxy (even if it is the men you are pumping for info here). I do agree with Mrs P that men like to insist they know better. Personally, I'm fine with this though, because I gain a special enjoyment from hearing that I am oh so right once they realise it!
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mexicans
15 years ago
People that are intimidated suffer from a complex and therefore have to lash out ,on the other hand the receiver of an answer my read it in the wrong context . Man and women are equal in my eyes and neither has the upper hand . Have fun in life meeting different personalities
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RHP User
15 years ago
After sitting back and pondering your question for awhile, I came up with a blank... No, I dont feel intimidated, I dont feel threatened by any woman either on here or in real life. I am aware there are woman who for some reason or other think while ever they have a pussy they can demand whatever they like and hold a man to ransom. True' there are some guys who become timid at the sight of a pussy, and become panting puppies, but thats not all and probally not the majority.. I love a nice pussy as much as the next guy, but not at any cost.. The pussy must belong to someone I fancy, and a aggessive owner would put me off.. These woman who tell you to look out in the bedroom because they know what they want is fine. But at the end of the day, they still like the idea of being seduced.... cant have it both ways you know.. Mr JJ
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RHP User
15 years ago
scared? wtf? who is scared? we think you are very mistaken. there's nothing about anyone that scares either of us, especially not some single woman. lol that's the funniest thing any-ones written in a long time............lol we do find tho that some women are so wrapped up their 'inependance' that they mistake 'stubbornness' for 'strength of character' and 'arrogance' for 'determination'. omg u made me laugh so loud... lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
Oh I am sorry, I thought this was actually posted with the intent of it being a forum topic but from what I can gather it was one of those 'let's say how we feel about someone in public, maybe even put him down a little, but with the privacy of not mentioning who it was so if he queries it we can say "Oh it wasn't about you, I was just asking"' threads. . Take it back to SWB.... or primary school.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Jean_Girard' its not all men on here that seem scared of a strong, independant woman...mainly just a few married ones Oh I am sorry, I thought this was actually posted with the intent of it being a forum topic but from what I can gather it was one of those 'let's say how we feel about someone in public, maybe even put him down a little, but with the privacy of not mentioning who it was so if he queries it we can say "Oh it wasn't about you, I was just asking"' threads. . Take it back to SWB.... or primary school. Maybe thay just have a personality that doesnt agree with DOMINANCE .. Maybe he/they are in a married existance with a mutal amlicable woman .. and not used to having dominance .. in their lives .. In the situation of a married partner .. JUST DONT ASK QUESTIONS >> DO what you both like and part company untill the next encounter .. and definatley ... DONT BAGOUT or PUT down someone public or privately ..
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'justjuice' After sitting back and pondering your question for awhile, I came up with a blank... No, I dont feel intimidated, I dont feel threatened by any woman either on here or in real life. I am aware there are woman who for some reason or other think while ever they have a pussy they can demand whatever they like and hold a man to ransom. True' there are some guys who become timid at the sight of a pussy, and become panting puppies, but thats not all and probally not the majority.. I love a nice pussy as much as the next guy, but not at any cost.. The pussy must belong to someone I fancy, and a aggessive owner would put me off.. These woman who tell you to look out in the bedroom because they know what they want is fine. But at the end of the day, they still like the idea of being seduced.... cant have it both ways you know.. Mr JJ what colour was your blank? mine was a lovely sea blue.....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Jean_Girard' Oh I am sorry, I thought this was actually posted with the intent of it being a forum topic but from what I can gather it was one of those 'let's say how we feel about someone in public, maybe even put him down a little, but with the privacy of not mentioning who it was so if he queries it we can say "Oh it wasn't about you, I was just asking"' threads. . Take it back to SWB.... or primary school. JG, surely nobody would do such a thing? snarky threads on a forum? *hands to face in horror*
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RHP User
15 years ago
I mean, it's very early days in the life of this thread, and it's already becoming a little cryptic and convoluted, I agree, but I just cannot take my eyes off the chocolate eruption taking place between your legs!
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RHP User
15 years ago
It looks a bit flaccid over there HSC.... but I reckon if anyone can fix it.. Flirty can . . Mind if I watch?
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RHP User
15 years ago
But the moderators said NO! Topics like this just get me into twubble! Sorry Roxx...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Instant posting is........ Back!!! Yay!! (no more norti forum tAlk, promise :))
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RHP User
15 years ago
My blank was a hazy light blue... close enough to yours I guess... must be the same blank
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RHP User
15 years ago
"single, strong, open minded, opinionated, independant ladies." For real they exist. It is the opposite that is most scary. All should be so.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Just wanted to say that I think you're very cool Roxxy and I hope that whatever it is that's bothering you won't be doing that for too long. I'm not going to try to give answers on this one coz my guess is that you're a smart lady and already know what to do. Loz
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'HotSexyChilli' Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem' I mean, it's very early days in the life of this thread, and it's already becoming a little cryptic and convoluted, I agree, but I just cannot take my eyes off the chocolate eruption taking place between your legs! Flirty... Be MY GUEST Chilli xx Quoting 'Jean_Girard' It looks a bit flaccid over there HSC.... but I reckon if anyone can fix it.. Flirty can . . Mind if I watch? .I think Vesuvius rates fairly high on the explosivity scale .... has buried thousands of people before ... I'm not so sure I'm up to this task JG ... High temperature ... High velocity ... Although, I have been known to sustain such conditions before ... Will you hold my hand if she hurts me? . . ... Or do you require two hands to operate the video camera?
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RHP User
15 years ago
so why are you guys intimadted by a strong woman???...please explain I would ask "why are you ladies so afraid of a strong man"?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Scubaseven'so why are you guys intimadted by a strong woman???...please explain I would ask "why are you ladies so afraid of a strong man"? You are so funny!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Strong and independent, usually used where boorish and loud, might be more appropriate? (not saying this in relation to the OP) How do people narrow it down to it being the 'strong' or 'independent' parts of the person that are not attractive? Or is it easier to tell ourselves that? (I've become aware that the kids who teased me for having golden curls as a child, may no have been ' just jealous', he way Mum said they were ;) )
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Scubaseven'so why are you guys intimadted by a strong woman???...please explain I would ask "why are you ladies so afraid of a strong man"? As strong, independant women we are generally not afraid of 'strong men'?? Some men think they are & this is where there is usually a problem because they generally need to be in control, instead of being able to share their control. Frankly, I beleive in equaility & if your confident in yourself you will get on with anyone so why should we be afraid???
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'sydneyboy3au'Strong and independent, usually used where boorish and loud, might be more appropriate? (not saying this in relation to the OP) How do people narrow it down to it being the 'strong' or 'independent' parts of the person that are not attractive? Or is it easier to tell ourselves that? (I've become aware that the kids who teased me for having golden curls as a child, may no have been ' just jealous', he way Mum said they were ;) ) I'll sell you a 't' ... Because I think you might be onto something there
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'sydneyboy3au' Strong and independent, usually used where boorish and loud, might be more appropriate? (not saying this in relation to the OP) How do people narrow it down to it being the 'strong' or 'independent' parts of the person that are not attractive? Or is it easier to tell ourselves that? (I've become aware that the kids who teased me for having golden curls as a child, may no have been ' just jealous', he way Mum said they were ;) ) Mike left me a thesaurus....in case anyone needed some extra adjectives....want some?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Roxxy was actually talking about strong and independent women and all of a sudden the men have lept to thier own defence with substitute words...stubborn, arrogant, borish and loud. This in itself intimates that any woman who dares to express thier own opinion is not strong, nor is she independent. News flash guys (and shell) we are just as intitled to express our opinion as you. By suggesting otherwise just goes further to prove Roxxy's point. All the put-downs show that maybe there is thruth there. You are just a little intimidated by an independant woman capable of expressing her opinion. Quoting 'mikeandshel' Mike left me a thesaurus....in case anyone needed some extra adjectives....want some?How nice of Mike to do that for you. Cant you think of the words for yourself?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' Roxxy was actually talking about strong and independent women and all of a sudden the men have lept to thier own defence with substitute words...stubborn, arrogant, borish and loud. This in itself intimates that any woman who dares to express thier own opinion is not strong, nor is she independent. News flash guys (and shell) we are just as intitled to express our opinion as you. By suggesting otherwise just goes further to prove Roxxy's point. All the put-downs show that maybe there is thruth there. You are just a little intimidated by an independant woman capable of expressing her opinion. Quoting 'mikeandshel' Mike left me a thesaurus....in case anyone needed some extra adjectives....want some?How nice of Mike to do that for you. Cant you think of the words for yourself?yes, and I can think of quite a few for you...want to hear some?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' Roxxy was actually talking about strong and independent women and all of a sudden the men have lept to thier own defence with substitute words...stubborn, arrogant, borish and loud. This in itself intimates that any woman who dares to express thier own opinion is not strong, nor is she independent. News flash guys (and shell) we are just as intitled to express our opinion as you. By suggesting otherwise just goes further to prove Roxxy's point. All the put-downs show that maybe there is thruth there. You are just a little intimidated by an independant woman capable of expressing her opinion. Quoting 'mikeandshel' Mike left me a thesaurus....in case anyone needed some extra adjectives....want some?How nice of Mike to do that for you. Cant you think of the words for yourself? as Barak Obama said to Sarah Palin....."You can put lipstick on a pig, but it's still a pig".......women need to behave like women and ladies. Behaving like some rogue bull elephant doesn't win anyone any praise or admiration, and that's how some of you behave. Try a little sugar honey, it gets you much farther than being overtly opinionated and pigheaded about life, love and relationships. I really don't need a thesaurus either as my vocabulary is very well developed, although I do exclude some of the more 'colorful' and 'agricultural' language others seem so fond of.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Frankly, I beleive in equaility So do I. But I am realistic and believe that you should earn equal rights. Giving people who are not equal equal rights causes major probs for all parties.I treat women equally and believe they should be equally on the dating front. And when I do this I often get the line; "I am only a woman". If we are all equal, why do 90% believe that we are better than someone else?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Did everyone have a great easter?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' Roxxy was actually talking about strong and independent women and all of a sudden the men have lept to thier own defence with substitute words...stubborn, arrogant, borish and loud. This in itself intimates that any woman who dares to express thier own opinion is not strong, nor is she independent. News flash guys (and shell) we are just as intitled to express our opinion as you. By suggesting otherwise just goes further to prove Roxxy's point. All the put-downs show that maybe there is thruth there. You are just a little intimidated by an independant woman capable of expressing her opinion. Hehe... actually the way I see it is everyone went off on a tangent for their own amusement.... But I guess if you look through carefully enough you see a minority of comments from men, but I wouldn't say they overly jumped to the brotherhoods defence though, unless that's what you want to see. . fwiw.. I think every relationship is about oral sex and balance. I love a strong independant woman, but does that mean when she cries on my shoulder she becomes a weak, dependant woman? Or does it just mean that she is in touch with her feelings and comfortable enough to share them when she needs to? . When she has an opinion or point of view and listens to other peoples thoughts with a mind open enough to change if she sees merit in their point of view, is she weak? Or is she intelligent enough to consider other people opinions and life experiences and let them shape her views? The same applies when the sexes are reversed. . Strong and independant is not a substitute for stubborn, arrogant, boorish and loud, but they are often used to dress up those personality traits as a feature, not a fault. But it really doesn't matter, each to their own - people should behave however they feel comfortable. Regardless of gender anyone stubborn, arrogant, boorish and loud is dropped from my circle of friends pretty quickly for someone more intelligent, no matter how they want to dress it up.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Disclaimer: my previous post was banged out on the phone, and it's autocorrection is sometimes less than helpful. So, apologies for missing letters (which just got corrected to 'petted' wtf?!), strange words and punctuation. Fionabee: I specifically mentioned that I was not referring to the thread's OP.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'fionabee' Roxxy was actually talking about strong and independent women and all of a sudden the men have lept to thier own defence with substitute words...stubborn, arrogant, borish and loud. This in itself intimates that any woman who dares to express thier own opinion is not strong, nor is she independent. News flash guys (and shell) we are just as intitled to express our opinion as you. By suggesting otherwise just goes further to prove Roxxy's point. All the put-downs show that maybe there is thruth there. You are just a little intimidated by an independant woman capable of expressing her opinion. Quoting 'mikeandshel' Mike left me a thesaurus....in case anyone needed some extra adjectives....want some?How nice of Mike to do that for you. Cant you think of the words for yourself? as Barak Obama said to Sarah Palin....."You can put lipstick on a pig, but it's still a pig".......women need to behave like women and ladies. Behaving like some rogue bull elephant doesn't win anyone any praise or admiration, and that's how some of you behave. Try a little sugar honey, it gets you much farther than being overtly opinionated and pigheaded about life, love and relationships. I really don't need a thesaurus either as my vocabulary is very well developed, although I do exclude some of the more 'colorful' and 'agricultural' language others seem so fond of. And while on the subjects of pigs and all things porcine one for you as well....sugar...you cannot make a silk purse out of a sows ear. l Some couples on here are contantly telling us that women should act like ladies. I do beleive I have asked this question before...what is a lady? How is she different from a woman? l Bye the way, I would actually appreciate it if you could decide whether I was a rogue elephant or a pig so then I could behave in such a manner. Oh no! Maybe I am a pig with an identity crisis and am acting like a rogue elephant? Considering you have never met me, I fail to understand how you could be so generalistic and scathing of my personality. For all you know, this could be a persona. My my. You are fond of the animals today even though you eschew agricultural language, you seem to be awefully fond of WTF and FFS though. Isn't text swear counted then?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Jean_Girard' Hehe... actually the way I see it is everyone went off on a tangent for their own amusement.... But I guess if you look through carefully enough you see a minority of comments from men, but I wouldn't say they overly jumped to the brotherhoods defence though, unless that's what you want to see. No, nobody JUMPED to the defence of the "brotherhood". The Only men who did comment have substituted words instead of strongwilled and independent. Which is actually what I am pointing out. . fwiw.. I think every relationship is about oral sex and balance. I love a strong independant woman, but does that mean when she cries on my shoulder she becomes a weak, dependant woman? Or does it just mean that she is in touch with her feelings and comfortable enough to share them when she needs to? It is normal, healthy and natural for a woman to cry. Strong and independent does not mean she does not need a hand every now and then, or will not appreciate even so much as an offer of help. Nor does it mean she is a hard arsed bitch. . When she has an opinion or point of view and listens to other peoples thoughts with a mind open enough to change if she sees merit in their point of view, is she weak? Or is she intelligent enough to consider other people opinions and life experiences and let them shape her views? The same applies when the sexes are reversed. This may come as a surprize but I do actually agree with this. . Strong and independant is not a substitute for stubborn, arrogant, boorish and loud, but they are often used to dress up those personality traits as a feature, not a fault. But it really doesn't matter, each to their own - people should behave however they feel comfortable. Regardless of gender anyone stubborn, arrogant, boorish and loud is dropped from my circle of friends pretty quickly for someone more intelligent, no matter how they want to dress it up.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'sydneyboy3au'Disclaimer: my previous post was banged out on the phone, and it's autocorrection is sometimes less than helpful. So, apologies for missing letters (which just got corrected to 'petted' wtf?!), strange words and punctuation. Fionabee: I specifically mentioned that I was not referring to the thread's OP. I only offered to sell you a consonant so your arse would reappear on the forum. Call it a hidden agenda, but I kinda like your autocorrection and find it very helpful indeed
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'fionabee' Roxxy was actually talking about strong and independent women and all of a sudden the men have lept to thier own defence with substitute words...stubborn, arrogant, borish and loud. This in itself intimates that any woman who dares to express thier own opinion is not strong, nor is she independent. News flash guys (and shell) we are just as intitled to express our opinion as you. By suggesting otherwise just goes further to prove Roxxy's point. All the put-downs show that maybe there is thruth there. You are just a little intimidated by an independant woman capable of expressing her opinion. Quoting 'mikeandshel' Mike left me a thesaurus....in case anyone needed some extra adjectives....want some?How nice of Mike to do that for you. Cant you think of the words for yourself? as Barak Obama said to Sarah Palin....."You can put lipstick on a pig, but it's still a pig".......women need to behave like women and ladies. Behaving like some rogue bull elephant doesn't win anyone any praise or admiration, and that's how some of you behave. Try a little sugar honey, it gets you much farther than being overtly opinionated and pigheaded about life, love and relationships. I really don't need a thesaurus either as my vocabulary is very well developed, although I do exclude some of the more 'colorful' and 'agricultural' language others seem so fond of. And while on the subjects of pigs and all things porcine one for you as well....sugar...you cannot make a silk purse out of a sows ear. l Some couples on here are contantly telling us that women should act like ladies. I do beleive I have asked this question before...what is a lady? How is she different from a woman? l Bye the way, I would actually appreciate it if you could decide whether I was a rogue elephant or a pig so then I could behave in such a manner. Oh no! Maybe I am a pig with an identity crisis and am acting like a rogue elephant? Considering you have never met me, I fail to understand how you could be so generalistic and scathing of my personality. For all you know, this could be a persona. My my. You are fond of the animals today even though you eschew agricultural language, you seem to be awefully fond of WTF and FFS though. Isn't text swear counted then? ah dear, you do go on ..dont you petal?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' Quoting 'Jean_Girard' Hehe... actually the way I see it is everyone went off on a tangent for their own amusement.... But I guess if you look through carefully enough you see a minority of comments from men, but I wouldn't say they overly jumped to the brotherhoods defence though, unless that's what you want to see. No, nobody JUMPED to the defence of the "brotherhood". The Only men who did comment have substituted words instead of strongwilled and independent. Which is actually what I am pointing out. . Thanks for pointing that out Fi but if you look beyond your nose you'll see there were actually more comments from men who said they LIKED a strong and independant woman*. There was only one couple (for all we know, maybe not even the male) who suggested you could substitute the words stubborn, arrogant, boorish and loud and Sydneyboy paraphrased boorish and loud in a rhetorical question. Hardly a defence, or an attack. *admittedly the same thing happens if you ask 'Where are the men who like to root girls with a face like a dropped pie.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yes I kind of understand where you’re coming from but, realistically in an ideal world we are seen as women first, soft, affectionate, loving & caring. But because of circumstances beyond our control, we have had to learn to be independent & capable to be able to cope with everyday issues. Maybe we have become too independent & when a person treats us equally we may became cautious. I am realistic as well & if you call a coin a coin well you’re going to get zip, just remember that dating is a two way street & not everyone thinks or acts the same. We are all individuals with minds of our own, you know what you expect & we know as well, it’s all about compromise & communication, more so than equality in relation to dating.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Charles_Dickens' obviously you have nothing better to do than stir trouble....called "shit".... .... it's forum topics like this "shit" that turns people away from "sex sites".... I would have thought it was the "Namecalling. Backstabing, Catfights" that turn people away ... or do thay stay for the laugh that the post create
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Romancefor4' Did everyone have a great easter? sensational easter guys. took our 'gay' bike out for a ride to run it in...... sounds n feels sensational, cant wait til 1000k service.........
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Jean_Girard' *admittedly the same thing happens if you ask 'Where are the men who like to root girls with a face like a dropped pie. Probably on RHP forums whinging that they cannot get a root. Personally I always thought that you do not look at the mantle piece when stoking the fire. That girl with the face like the dropped pie may have the best body, give the best head and hold a half way decent conversation.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' Quoting 'Jean_Girard' *admittedly the same thing happens if you ask 'Where are the men who like to root girls with a face like a dropped pie. Personally I always thought that you do not look at the mantle piece when stoking the fire. That girl with the face like the dropped pie may have the best body, give the best head and hold a half way decent conversation. Well I hope she finds somebody really nice, she sounds like she deserves it.... . . . .I'm a big fan of eye contact..... it helps if I don't have to use a paper bag to make it palatable.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Jean_Girard' Quoting 'fionabee' Quoting 'Jean_Girard' *admittedly the same thing happens if you ask 'Where are the men who like to root girls with a face like a dropped pie. Personally I always thought that you do not look at the mantle piece when stoking the fire. That girl with the face like the dropped pie may have the best body, give the best head and hold a half way decent conversation. Well I hope she finds somebody really nice, she sounds like she deserves it.... . . . .I'm a big fan of eye contact..... it helps if I don't have to use a paper bag to make it palatable.A dropped pie may have gorgeous eyes.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Dropped a pie? You'll find that its easy to patch up and disguise with a whole lot of cream. .Oh...were we talking about faces? Yeah...actally...my rule still works. Quoting 'Jean_Girard' *admittedly the same thing happens if you ask 'Where are the men who like to root girls with a face like a dropped pie.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'Romancefor4' Did everyone have a great easter? sensational easter guys. took our 'gay' bike out for a ride to run it in...... sounds n feels sensational, cant wait til 1000k service.........\ Was that you guys? On the Gold Coast Freeway, Pink Bike and White Leathers? Serious hope you enjoy, big cruiser isnt it?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Damn it, I've been awol and come back to check on what fun I've missed, none apparently!Tassie, I've never found you to be perceivable as intimidating. I would definitely say you're strong and independent though. Sure some guys wont like it but then isn't it best to weed those ones out so you can connect with the ones who really appreciate you?I knew there'd be other words bandied about: "stubborn, arrogant, borish and loud." for a few. I've said this before and I'll say it again and again and again (as it never sinks in) some on here think being strong and independent is best displayed by being intimidating and stubborn and arrogant and borish and loud. Further, if a man comes along and points this out these strong women jump up and down and the name calling really starts in earnest! It has become obvious to me that these women only have nice things to say about people who agree with everything they espouse. Of course there are many strong women on here that aren't like this at all but it's the very loud and vocal few who take over and dominate just about every single forum thread worth reading. We're told to just not read if we don't want to - but it's EVERY forum!!! So we're supposed to just quit the whole forum I guess? Well wouldn't that be a tad borish?I really enjoy the many and varied opinions and life experiences that people display through their posts. I've learned a lot, had a few of my opinions changed along the way too...what is life without learning anyway? But the over-voiced minority has lead this forum site from somewhere light and fun where one could also discuss the dark and heavy stuff without being intimidated (unless you really pushed the boundaries) to a place where this minority will sabotage any forum topic they see fit.So this is the only forum I've ever got hooked by (as it used to be fun, then became really open and honest and interesting) but as this seems to have changed for the worse and for good, does anyone know of any other forums elsewhere that have a similar vein of discussions without the dominance of a borish few?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'puppy'So this is the only forum I've ever got hooked by (as it used to be fun, then became really open and honest and interesting) but as this seems to have changed for the worse and for good, does anyone know of any other forums elsewhere that have a similar vein of discussions without the dominance of a borish few?Then you will just denigrate it to the same level as this one is.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Ha so predictable! I am not the one who seems to post on every second comment on every single forum every single day of the week!I've tried to tolerate the minority leader for so long as the world needs all sorts but then there are some people that should never be tolerated..I seem to remember there was another pea in that pod around the 1940's. He had strong opinions too and he was adept at repeating crap over and over again until some of the repressed and feeble started to think he made sense. Some minorities seek to educate whereas SOME use repetitive brainwashing dribble to make themselves feel smart. Before SHE got here this forum was doing mighty fine. My absence hasn't halted the absolute crap that flows on here...maybe SHE should take a holiday or get a hobby or do something else for a whole week and see if this place falters or flowers without her presence...take the challenge will SHE? I suspect she'll just throw her weight around as usual.Tassie, a prime example of why the NICE, strong and confident women on here might be getting a rough deal. Anyone else got an opinion (or allowed to have one?)(and isn't one of the underlings)?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Ha Chilli, we just got a private message lamenting the lack of Bunny Tails on Mrs Pups butt so she seems to have a couple of fans out there!She did flash the campsite a nice view of some lovely red satin undies whilst running through the mud in her gumboots and a way too breezy sundress so likely has a few more fans there too!How desperate are you really Chilli? It'll be a year till we're back in Perth but there's always a spare bed at our place for you (not that we'd let you out of our bed anyway)OK off to read the bunny pic posts :( would rather have perved too!
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15 years ago
Quoting 'puppy'Ha so predictable! I am not the one who seems to post on every second comment on every single forum every single day of the week!I've tried to tolerate the minority leader for so long as the world needs all sorts but then there are some people that should never be tolerated..I seem to remember there was another pea in that pod around the 1940's. He had strong opinions too and he was adept at repeating crap over and over again until some of the repressed and feeble started to think he made sense. Some minorities seek to educate whereas SOME use repetitive brainwashing dribble to make themselves feel smart. Before SHE got here this forum was doing mighty fine. My absence hasn't halted the absolute crap that flows on here...maybe SHE should take a holiday or get a hobby or do something else for a whole week and see if this place falters or flowers without her presence...take the challenge will SHE? I suspect she'll just throw her weight around as usual.Tassie, a prime example of why the NICE, strong and confident women on here might be getting a rough deal. Anyone else got an opinion (or allowed to have one?)(and isn't one of the underlings)?You think you are being very very clever but in actual fact you are not. Dont start all that crap again. People in glass houses should not throw stones. Plenty have opinions and plenty express them as well. If you have something to say, then do so and stop being arrogant, condescending and extremely childish.
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15 years ago
Quoting 'puppy'Ha so predictable! I am not the one who seems to post on every second comment on every single forum every single day of the week!I've tried to tolerate the minority leader for so long as the world needs all sorts but then there are some people that should never be tolerated..I seem to remember there was another pea in that pod around the 1940's. He had strong opinions too and he was adept at repeating crap over and over again until some of the repressed and feeble started to think he made sense. Some minorities seek to educate whereas SOME use repetitive brainwashing dribble to make themselves feel smart. Before SHE got here this forum was doing mighty fine. My absence hasn't halted the absolute crap that flows on here...maybe SHE should take a holiday or get a hobby or do something else for a whole week and see if this place falters or flowers without her presence...take the challenge will SHE? I suspect she'll just throw her weight around as usual.Tassie, a prime example of why the NICE, strong and confident women on here might be getting a rough deal. Anyone else got an opinion (or allowed to have one?)(and isn't one of the underlings)? But SHE did...infact she spent the week with myself and my baby brother and still the forums flourished it isnt until she actually posted anything that may have seemed a wee bit offensive: Quoting 'fionabee' Roxxy was actually talking about strong and independent women and all of a sudden the men have lept to thier own defence with substitute words...stubborn, arrogant, borish and loud. This in itself intimates that any woman who dares to express thier own opinion is not strong, nor is she independent. News flash guys (and shell) we are just as intitled to express our opinion as you. By suggesting otherwise just goes further to prove Roxxy's point. All the put-downs show that maybe there is thruth there. You are just a little intimidated by an independant woman capable of expressing her opinion. Quoting 'mikeandshel' Mike left me a thesaurus....in case anyone needed some extra adjectives....want some?How nice of Mike to do that for you. Cant you think of the words for yourself? That anyone started to take any kind of notice...I know she didnt have much time online for the week leading up to Easter - the only computer in the place she could have used is mine and its password protected.... v Now seriously we know that if anyone else other than my Mother had posted this it would have been met with an lol not a tirade against her... come on people yes I am going to stick up for my family - as I would expect any of you...but lately it seems that a comment when written by any other would have been taken as a joke is considered offensive if written by a certain few and personally I feel that was really what Roxxy was trying to get at . Oh and has it escaped anyone else's notice that not only has Roxxy not come back to this thread but her profile is locked down also??? Have we finally, and quietly, lost one of our more vocal and favoured few?? . Kisses Focus
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15 years ago
as part of the rules you can't direct anything at anyone personally in case they get offended. Of course some would be way too high on their perch to ever be offended by me and if they were they'd just get the post pulled by RHP mgmt!OK so to be 100% upfront!!!1/ Please oh please oh please take one week off here and give us all a rest!!! 5 minutes of posting and YOU cant let me have my say without starting YOUR crap - you are the biggest, blackest pot I've ever thankfully never met!!!!!! 5 minutes of posting and I have numerous supportive pms from people who have proven their intelligence and wit on here, they are also wiser than I and know there's no point in telling you directly as you absolutely enjoy being a pain and plastering yourself over everyone's forum.2/Oh so MY opinion doesn't count does it??? I have issue with YOU so I must be childish???? 3/ shall we also open up a poll on who is the most arrogant and condescending out of the two of us? The winner has to leave the forums for good..I'll even let you count your underlings!!!!4/ This bores me to tears, I'd gladly leave it alone but you just have to post on EVERY topic!!!!!!5/ When you start showing the wisdom of your years I'll stop being so damn childish as surely I'll be able to see your wisdom won't I????Blah blah F@#kin blah do you ever do anything else or is this forum it?6/ The only real thing of concern here is getting Chilli over east to play dress ups with Mrs Pup, oh and a spanking can always be arrangedYou take offense at me calling a spade a spade. Who is it that posts negative responses and damning opinions on EVERY post they disagree with, me or you? Me thinks I only have one recurring negative opinion on here and I'm pretty damn sure it's warranted. If you have a lucid argument of why it isn't warranted I'd love to hear it. Or you could just call me names as usual?
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15 years ago
Credit where credit is dueWell if there's truth to nurture over nature then Fi must have got something right as Focus, I really enjoy your input here (whether agreeing with you or not) as you try and keep things balanced and steer clear of personal insults. Now I know you'd naturally want to stick up for Mum and sometimes you might rightly want to tear me a new one but you post with some thought of others ideas and I'd say feelings as well. I'm sorry but your mother does not afford other people the same respect so yes it just wears too thin some times. I hate that I feel like I have to get down to her level and "scrap it out". She is unfaltering of her hard arse opinions and dealings with people but then you think she should be met with "lol's"?You get what you give and isn't it indicative that I'm by far not the only one taking issue with her? I look closely for responses to my posts here to gauge whether or not I'm out of line as this is a forum "community" so we kinda should check our right to opinion to what is good for the community shouldn't we?????I take what you say Focus, I actually hate expressing my thoughts on your mother knowing you're here too as I would never berate someone in front of their children no matter how justified I thought I was. I'll be sad to see Tassie lost from here. I'm not sure i'd be confident to say I'm one of the favoured around here but I think I'll be handing my staff in soon too!!!Reciprocated KissesMr Pup
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15 years ago
Quoting 'puppy'You take offense at me calling a spade a spade. Who is it that posts negative responses and damning opinions on EVERY post they disagree with, me or you? Me thinks I only have one recurring negative opinion on here and I'm pretty damn sure it's warranted. If you have a lucid argument of why it isn't warranted I'd love to hear it. Or you could just call me names as usual? but isnt that the point??? If you disagree with something shouldnt you be allowed to point this out with your reasons why??? You do it, I do it, others do it...so why should the rules be any different for anyone else???
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15 years ago
..I just saw your pofile pic "if you think I'm a bitch, you should see my mother"A funny little sentiment but really I think this is at the core of Tassie's initial post. This idea of being a bitch as being a good thing is just not right. A strong, confident and successful woman does not need to be a bitch!!! The best, most successful human beings are not bitches or bastards. I wish we'd get away from this idea. Focus's reply shows all the inner strength and fortitude one could hope for without adding the bitch (she may well have liked to add it but her post carries so much more weight without it). Your mother could learn from her daughter then lead the way for the childish ones like me to step up as well....now that's a challenge I'd love to see and would stay around for!
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15 years ago
Focus you're right but Mum seems to state an opinion then state her right to think she's right above all else. She has admitted numerous times that she will argue till the end even if she realises half way through the other person has it more right that she does. This, in my opinion, is arguing for the sake of arguing and adds nothing constructive to the pie.
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15 years ago
Quoting 'puppy' as part of the rules you can't direct anything at anyone personally in case they get offended. Of course some would be way too high on their perch to ever be offended by me and if they were they'd just get the post pulled by RHP mgmt!OK so to be 100% upfront!!!1/ Please oh please oh please take one week off here and give us all a rest!!! 5 minutes of posting and YOU cant let me have my say without starting YOUR crap - you are the biggest, blackest pot I've ever thankfully never met!!!!!! 5 minutes of posting and I have numerous supportive pms from people who have proven their intelligence and wit on here, they are also wiser than I and know there's no point in telling you directly as you absolutely enjoy being a pain and plastering yourself over everyone's forum.2/Oh so MY opinion doesn't count does it??? I have issue with YOU so I must be childish???? 3/ shall we also open up a poll on who is the most arrogant and condescending out of the two of us? The winner has to leave the forums for good..I'll even let you count your underlings!!!!4/ This bores me to tears, I'd gladly leave it alone but you just have to post on EVERY topic!!!!!!5/ When you start showing the wisdom of your years I'll stop being so damn childish as surely I'll be able to see your wisdom won't I????Blah blah F@#kin blah do you ever do anything else or is this forum it?6/ The only real thing of concern here is getting Chilli over east to play dress ups with Mrs Pup, oh and a spanking can always be arrangedYou take offense at me calling a spade a spade. Who is it that posts negative responses and damning opinions on EVERY post they disagree with, me or you? Me thinks I only have one recurring negative opinion on here and I'm pretty damn sure it's warranted. If you have a lucid argument of why it isn't warranted I'd love to hear it. Or you could just call me names as usual? can i just say quietly (lol yea right) that i agree? shes into 'both' of us at the moment, and its taken me months to get Shel to even sit back at the damned keyboard after the last tirade she was subjected to........
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15 years ago
What I did actually say Puppy was that had anyone else had made the comment it would have been met with lols...I did actually say some would have found the comment offensive....but thats my point...many have a personal grudge against someone on these forums without having met them in person and ANY comment they make riles them whether its in jest or not...I sometimes wonder is this because they are too much alike in personality (please do not bite my head off here just keep reading) and thats why they rub against each other the wrong way?? It is said that there is a fine line between love and hate and we all know that often is the time when we have met someone we just cant stand - they are too opinonated (especially when they disagree with us), they are too stubborn.... when we look upon reflection at what makes us dislike them we realise that in fact it is those traits that we ONLY see in them that we dislike within ourselves....that we wish to alter within ourselves...now I am not saying this is the case here but instead giving one thought as to why we may be intimdated as such by others or why we feel the need (and yes I am including Mother in this) to niggle at someone in the safety of annonymity . Now my profile pic - strangely I had this loaded in one of my proivate galleries BEFORE Roxxy had posted this thread just as a bit of a laugh and knowing that forum regulars would get the joke behind it....hmmm and if you dont like this one you sure wont like my next one.... , Kisses Focus PS am always happy to argue this out with you in person you could come to Tibooburra - the western air might be good for you or we could find a bar somewhere closer to Sydney - cause it will be a stretch for me to get there as we all know....lol
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15 years ago
Quoting 'Romancefor4' Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'Romancefor4' Did everyone have a great easter? sensational easter guys. took our 'gay' bike out for a ride to run it in...... sounds n feels sensational, cant wait til 1000k service.........\ Was that you guys? On the Gold Coast Freeway, Pink Bike and White Leathers? Serious hope you enjoy, big cruiser isnt it? lol no...black bike. black leathers ..... kawasaki meanstreak 1600, also sold as a suzuki marauder 1600 as they couldnt build a big v-twin at the time.... they had a range of 'girls bikes' only lol.
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15 years ago
Quoting 'puppy'Focus you're right but Mum seems to state an opinion then state her right to think she's right above all else. She has admitted numerous times that she will argue till the end even if she realises half way through the other person has it more right that she does. This, in my opinion, is arguing for the sake of arguing and adds nothing constructive to the pie. I do this myself (just because some days I am in the mood for an argument - must be that nature thing lol) and so do many others when they feel strongly about something...other will just walk away and leave the forum be (and I have had personal messages relating along those lines from OP's and others who feel strongly about topics) and others still will just acquiese to the majority on the thread for the sake of keeping the peace (again many messages along those lines also) how can it be that just because soemone feels stingly about something and stands up for it or is not willing to conced they are worng anything bad??? Its not just mother who does this but it seems that her (and another profile who has been attacjed lately) that seem to get the brunt of it all...I have tried the nasty thing and made the same comments as Mum and been ignored, others have said the same thing using very similar wording to Mum and been ignored it just seems that at times because it has her name attached to it that it can not be right regardless of the stance she has taken... . JMO (thanks MissBJ) Kisses Focus
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15 years ago
..Focus stop it!!! Your well written and insightful thoughts are a little bit of a turn on for me and I think I've realised I'm starting to lust after you. I love reading posts from others that can say things better than I seem to be able to. Bugger, I can't fight with ya mum and want to do naughty things with you out behind the shed now can I?I can't find anything in your last post to disagree with and I hate myself for not being able to eat the urge to niggle. I actually do a lot of let and let live and refrain from niggling but when there is one person constantly niggling at any and everyone she can well it just gets overbearing. Yes I can see the similarities and in the past I've been intrigued with her life experience and had hoped to learn something from her insight but I can honestly say (without trying to fuel fire or be clever or anything) that I haven't seen her light yet. I see stereotypical negatives with loads of spite and at best all I can think is feel she's been too negatively affected in life to balance out the bad opinions of everyone else. Ah bugger see this really isn't coming out as eloquently as I'd like but I'm hopeful you get the gist?OK I just google mapped Tibooburra....faaaaark!!!! Could you find anywhere further for me to come for a lustful weekend? Haha. I have always had an attraction to see your corner of the world though, although I don't think my licence would last the trip, damn lead foot!
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15 years ago
..ok last post was for your 2nd last postI think forums work (or dont work) by a different set of conversational rules. If we're face to face, we can see so much on what is meant by facial expressions, body language, tone of voice etc etc. Here it's just words on a page. I guess one needs some consistency to their style on here, mind you this doesnt mean we have to be all giggles or all stoney faced. So yes there's the funsters, the serious ones and then ones who like stirring shit for shits sake. Now funsters and serious ones can mix and match and get their vibe across and even stir a little shit every now and then. But if you're primarily a shit stirrer then you can't expect to post serious opinions as who knows when you're shit stirring or not?You say mum and another seem to be experiencing more than their fair share of attacks? Surely this says something in its self? Your mum actually knows more people in person who post here so has a greater support team, so why is she getting negative press? There are plenty of people in here with ideas I think are positively balmy but they don't get the same flack. So are all these people just bullies picking on the weak kid? I'm sure mum would thump me for implying this as she's no weakling. Could it just be that the weaklings are finally standing up against the bully?I had a great bottle of wine at the pub in Coonabarrabran a long time ago, I could be convinced at a weekend away in the Warrambungles :)
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15 years ago
OK I hate hijacking, but here I am perpetrating!!!I don't feel so bad as this is Tassies topic anyway and if she's gone then so has the topic so I've staked a claim on this for personal enlightenment between Focus and myself, sorry for any inconveniencexxx
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15 years ago
...and I knew what your 2nd to last post referred too...but only a certain few that appear to target anything and everything she posts...and it appears to me that it is mainly couples profiles (and here we come in full circle to Roxxys inital comment about married men being intimidated by strong women) so it makes many of us (who are sinlge) wonder what it is couples have against strong single women when it is single women that the majority of couples on here are seeking...we arent all door mats and yes I know you dont want a door mat in the bedroom please give me a little license for creativity... . I have stated many times on other threads - and been ignored for it - that many times the written word can be misunderstood with out seeing the facial intention behind it...thats sometimes we need to take things with a grain of salt...but if you only read comments posted that appear to you in the negative then you have missed out on her many fun things which have been said elsewhere and often been ignored...again its is only the negative that people pick up on . Mmmm a nice bottle of wine will win me over every time but Please I implore you dont make me acknowledge where I really live honestly I have had enough of idiots sending me messages (even with my profile the way it is) and love my new 'hometown'...it is peaceful out here...and I can approach anyone I choose to with a well written message...my inbox really does look much nicer these days....but needless to say I am alot closer to you than one might think......and the shed??? I hate sand (thats all thats out the back of sheds out here)and it really gets in all the wrong places...and I dont camp (we were talking a 3 star or below motel right - I mean this is Coonabarabran you mentioned...lol) , Kisses Focus
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15 years ago
Quoting 'puppy'OK I hate hijacking, but here I am perpetrating!!!I don't feel so bad as this is Tassies topic anyway and if she's gone then so has the topic so I've staked a claim on this for personal enlightenment between Focus and myself, sorry for any inconveniencexxxon a school night - who is here to argue with us????
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15 years ago
It is only those who HAVENT met her that seem to take issue with what she says........ , Kisses Focus
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15 years ago
I have been following your conversation puppy & focus. Just to thow in my two bobs worth..... It is an extremely rare occassion when I ever see anything positive from fionabee....I do agree with you focus, words can very often be taken the wrong way when read from a screen, without the inflection of voice and facial expression......many folk on here are capable of conveying their message and for it to be accepted in the tone it was intended. Focus, Your mum is not one of these people. Her style is extremely blunt and nearly always comes across as opinionated , pig headed, stubborn,...she slams people for having having a thought that differs to hers....more often than not, turning a fun lighthearted post into something not so pleasant. . You may be surprised to know that I do know many people who have met her, and feel the same way I do...they do take issue with what she has to say most of the time. . puppy......I always enjoy reading your posts and comments (even if you do think oldies are just grumpy old farts)...you do try to see both sides of an opinion, more often than not, your comments appeared to be considered - not just a lash out. If someones comments sway your origional comments you are able to admit it, often graciously and with humour. . Thats all I have to say.....heading off to bed now .
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15 years ago
It's hard to disagree with you when you put things so well. Now knowing mother as you do don't you think it's a damn shame that those of us (who me?) who should be gleaning bits of her wisdom to make the world a better place are missing anything she has to offer? Now it could all be our fault, as we are a simple lot, or maybe it's in mother's delivery? Maybe just maybe there's something she could learn from us? Grains of salt are fine and very handy but when we are continually throwing this salt around all the time maybe we just get sick of it and wouldn't mind a bit of sugar every now and then.Of course our real true friends love us with all our foibles and those we choose to befriend on here are more likely to be those we've banded together with. Isn't the trick to share stuff on here that will better our lives and others especially the ones we don't know?There is another poster here who I have taken as strong if not stronger objection to in the past, so much so that they ended up getting temporarily banned and my tongue tied by the moderator. Through their initiative and age old (yep they're oldies) wisdom we came to a good understanding of each other. I'll still object to a few of their opinions that form their core beliefs but they can accept that another persons view has merit too. We still have a few great arguments in private, which works heaps better as everyone else isn't subjected to our twoing and froing. Your Mum does not discuss, she states what her truth is and there is no discussion. She can be scathing but then is the first to become abusive if anyone is scathing back. So if anyone has an opinion against her they are childish (she's called me this a hundredmillionthousandbillion times - if ya say it enough we'll become it!) or even better they are childish and arrogant and oh my god condescending (yep i can be) but who's talking glass houses here, really does she not realise what she says?What was it someone said about those who bark loudest? Y'know I have a mum, she's done it hard too, she remains the strongest most independent and caring person I've ever met. Mind you she would be eaten alive in these forums as she doesn't like confrontation (even though she's handled her fair share). She might even be seen as "meek" in here, she actually wouldn't be seen at all as she'd just think it too rough and crass (oh and she'd be shocked at what people get up to). I owe most of my opinions here to her influence mixed with the things learned from the mostly negative influence from my father. I often joke with friends that I'm a man hater too as we can be complete dicks, but then again so can women. We can all be pretty damn fine too and it makes life worth living everytime I meet another fine one.Arghhh I have to get to bedSweet dreams Focusxxx
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15 years ago
...is more posters so us forum hogs are filtered down a bit :)Ruby thanks for seeing me the way I try to be, I often think I must fail dismally when others can get across what I mean so much more eloquently. See tarred with the same brush is never a good thing - I hope I've never come across age-ist, some of my favorite people are REALLY old . Honestly I feel like I've caught premature grumpy old man syndrome, I've given wifey strict orders to do me in if it gets out of hand....surely she can use all that salt in my food? Hang on, I do all the cooking so that won't work!Ok definitely bed timeNigh night allxxx
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15 years ago
Character assasination is all very well BUT..... Sorry Focus I did tell you I would stay out of it however, now we have all gone to bed and slept a bit, I reserve the right of rebuttal. I do not think that I hijack each and every single post at all. If you bother to check there are maybe three or four currently that I have commented on. IF something is a topic that I feel strongly about (and these will usually be centred around social norms) then yes I will get fairly vocal. I have stated that I wont back down and again it has been misconstued. I have actually stated that IF IT IS IMPORTANT TO ME I will not backdown. The last time Puppy and I locked horns (or rather words) he asked for proof, I gave him proof, he asked for proof without stats, I gave him proof without stats and it was not good enough....so he asked for more stats. Well obviously there is no pleasing SOME. Yes I realise that the traits I dislike in Puppy are the traits that annoy others about myself. My writing style is very blunt and this does come across but I will not be changing that any time soon. I will not be writing eloquent and flowery prose to avoid upsetting a few. What I would NEVER do....and here we do differ, is start a post deliberately to put down someone else. Neither do I deliberately make such an obvious attack on another as has happened here. Puppy I have called you childish approximately twice so please stop with the grandstanding and exaggerating as it is *gasp* childish. You are about to go through the next major stage in life's maturity stakes and in maybe about ten years will look back on the man you are today and realise just how young you really do sound. Yes I have a wealth of experience and I am sorry but I am tired.....no I am more than tired.... but bone weary of everyone turning everthing into one big joke. Some things should not be joked about, some things are serious and that is just life. 80% of people on this forum come across as empty headed little morons who think that life actually revolves around what they have between thier legs and yet you want me to just spout platitudes for them? You want me to agree to the concept of "each to thier own and whatever turns you on" When my whole being goes against such a concept? My very job shows what can and does happen when society forgets a few conventions. Focus is right...it is maybe three profiles (and mainy couples) that attack each and every single little comment I make, whether made in jest or not. Ruby Blossums...yes I would be very surprised if those that actually knew me thought that about me. Maybe those that have met me for five minutes might but those that have taken the time to know me, taken the time to speak to me more than at a time when they are pissed (I dont handle pissed people very well) would not. I am neither condescending nor arrogant and I am very sorry if I do come across as this. Personally I have yet to see Puppy back down and admit anyone was wrong either. Whether in a humourous note or not. No I am not ageist. Many of my wonderful friends are teenagers and belive it or not (I really do not care either way) I have a natural affinity with teens. Maybe it is my sarcastic sense of humour that appeals to them. Emo kids are usually pretty dark. No I dont normally recieve more than my fair share of attacks......except from a select few. Because of the inability of people to see what Roxxy meant....I do belive she has "slipped quietly away" and that is a sad loss to the forums. When I closed down my profile recently over Puppy's last personal attack she was one of the many who sent me messages asking me not to leave and now I will do the same to her. You will not get me to leave Puppy, I am not loud, stubborn, arrogant, nor am I borish. I am strong and independant........to a fault.
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15 years ago
Where's the Love? xxx
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15 years ago
We did not find Roxxy intimadating and have no idea what she is talking about. But we were amused where she stood on things, like play hard while I am single but if I get married he is my exclusive property. Plus she is one for " the female is allways right". The open minded statement we hear here, we reckon are from closed minded persons otherwise they would not use that statement! She is fun on the forums, leave a comment that you know will bait her and within a couple days she has taken it. Saying that she would not follow the crowd either! Very similiar to Fiona ...both trouble but likeable! Cheers and Kisses LOL!
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15 years ago
Just stating my views as I have directly to you in the past on the forums fionabee. . My sober friends, from across 3 states (maybe more parts of Australia the way people are moving about these days) have shared their thoughts with me at various times, whilst many of us can be quick to judge at times, first impressions count. . I dont believe anyone is trying to chase you off the forums. . Many have asked, suggested, requested etc that you temper your tolerance to others opinions over past and present forum posts, the fact you choose not to is entirely upto you... that is who you are and you must be true to yourself. . Just accept the fact if you keep trying to change others beliefs by cyber whacking them, eventutally those with fortitude will cyber whack back......even the weakest can find strength when feeling downtrodden.
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15 years ago
Quoting 'ruby_blossum' even the weakest can find strength when feeling downtrodden. Oh Ms Ruby...I love that ! xFunlovingx
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15 years ago
Oi... is this the right place for an argument? My parrot is deceased... etc.. etc...Scary women.... whoa... I've seen a few. hehe.HugsStalky
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15 years ago
On the Gold Coast Freeway, Pink Bike and White Leathers? Serious hope you enjoy, big cruiser isnt it? lol no...black bike. black leathers ..... kawasaki meanstreak 1600, also sold as a suzuki marauder 1600 as they couldnt build a big v-twin at the time.... they had a range of 'girls bikes' only lol. You have it right now Suzuki, and you sure you dont inpersonate elvis in white leathers? Now you and Puppy leave Fiona alone am sure you guys have the hots for her!......kisses??
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15 years ago
...80% of us are empty headed morons (absolutely no character assassination intended here but!). So statistically speaking 8 out of 10 of us do not have worthy opinions, gee what are the odds that every single one of us that has replied to this topic are in the 8? Ah I love statistics! How dare they also come in here with their minds primarily concerned with sex! I mean RHP was started as purely a hook up site, oh yes they call it an adult social site now to broaden the earnings but we all know what it's primarily here for, don't we?Ah Chilli, there's a real woman, or is that lady? Well definitely a strong, independent woman. Chilli I do try my best to temper my passion when it flares but as one of the antagonists repeats over and over again she will never back down or change the brutality of her opinions. So what do we do? Compassion and compromise are required for any useful exchange of ideas and this has to come from all camps. As she's said, it's never going to come from hers. It's a pity she says she's worn out, maybe if she doesn't have the energy anymore to see another person's point of view she should stop with expecting everyone to accept hers?Anyway statistically speaking I'm very likely just another moron just like the 7 people around me, I just hope when I grow up (will it really happen in just 10 years..coincidentally I'd be the same age as errmmm guess who ) that I shall break free of my moronic chrysalis and be old enough to bluntly believe I am more right than anyone else!Speaking of scary women, I've just had a flashback to a pic of Stalky in drag, sorry mate but you look better as a bloke
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15 years ago
Quoting 'ruby_blossum' Just stating my views as I have directly to you in the past on the forums fionabee. No you have not ever been direct to me. You have waited for one or another to make a comment and then agreed with what they have said . My sober friends, from across 3 states (maybe more parts of Australia the way people are moving about these days) have shared their thoughts with me at various times, whilst many of us can be quick to judge at times, first impressions count. I have been to exactly one meet and greet night in the 12 months that I have been on RHP (over eight months ago) and I spoke to maybe one dozen people, mostly those I had met previously so I do not understand how you could have so many sober friends spread across three states that do know me as most of those at the night were in fact three sheets to the wind. . I dont believe anyone is trying to chase you off the forums. No where did I say that people were trying to chase me off the forums. What I did say was that I had closed my profile and thought about leaving . Many have asked, suggested, requested etc that you temper your tolerance to others opinions over past and present forum posts, the fact you choose not to is entirely upto you... that is who you are and you must be true to yourself. Exactly five profiles does not count as many . Just accept the fact if you keep trying to change others beliefs by cyber whacking them, eventutally those with fortitude will cyber whack back......even the weakest can find strength when feeling downtrodden. I have been on RHP for almost 12 months. During that time I have felt strongly about maybe four or five topics that I have spoken vehemently on them. This does not amount to ALL topics ALL the time and one of those was a topic I posted myself. Please stop exaggerating the fact that two couples, two males and yourself dissagreed with my point of veiw.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I do have Roxxy's full permission to hijack this topic.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I am not one to copy and quote complete postings, I find it tedious and boring. . * I have been direct with you many times, you just choose to forget. . * No where in my last post did I mention meet & greet drinks nights, as usual, you are trying to put your words in my mouth,... funnily enough, I do know people through other means than meet & greet nights. . * "You will not get me to leave Puppy" I believe these are your exact words from this page. . * If you choose to believe that only 5 profiles have disagreed with you over 12 months.....no-one here needs to do any so called "character assasination" ( your words not mine).....you do a good enough job yourself.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'puppy'...80% of us are empty headed morons(Come across as......not are) (absolutely no character assassination intended here but!).If you wish to believe that you are in this category feel free. So statistically speaking 8 out of 10 of us do not have worthy opinions, gee what are the odds that every single one of us that has replied to this topic are in the 8? Ah I love statistics! How dare they also come in here with their minds primarily concerned with sex! I mean RHP was started as purely a hook up site, oh yes they call it an adult social site now to broaden the earnings but we all know what it's primarily here for, don't we? But is that ALL that is important? If not...then please do not act like it is.Ah Chilli, there's a real woman, or is that lady? Well definitely a strong, independent woman. Chilli I do try my best to temper my passion when it flares but as one of the antagonists repeats over and over again she will never(get it right, never is a bloody long time) back down or change the brutality of her opinions.(Not when it is important NO!) So what do we do? Compassion and compromise ( as your seem to be singulayly lacking and blinded)are required for any useful exchange of ideas and this has to come from all camps. As she's said, it's never going to come from hers.( Did I say that? When? Where?) It's a pity she says she's worn out,( bone weary I think the term was) maybe if she doesn't have the energy anymore (I see more than you would like) to see another person's point of view she should stop with expecting everyone to accept hers?Anyway statistically speaking I'm very likely just another moron( no...just one who acts like a moron) just like the 7 people around me, I just hope when I grow up (will it really happen in just 10 years.(maybe and no you will still be younger).coincidentally I'd be the same age as errmmm guess who ) (Voldemort is it?)that I shall break free of my moronic chrysalis and be old enough to bluntly believe I am more right than anyone else!Speaking of scary women, I've just had a flashback to a pic of Stalky in drag, sorry mate but you look better as a bloke
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'ruby_blossum' I am not one to copy and quote complete postings, I find it tedious and boring. . * I have been direct with you many times, you just choose to forget. When? . * No where in my last post did I mention meet & greet drinks nights, as usual, you are trying to put your words in my mouth,... funnily enough, I do know people through other means than meet & greet nights. No but that is the only place I could possibly have met MANY people from RHP. . * "You will not get me to leave Puppy" I believe these are your exact words from this page. That is right. Alluding to the fact that I nearly did due to his topic previously . * If you choose to believe that only 5 profiles have disagreed with you over 12 months.....no-one here needs to do any so called "character assasination" ( your words not mine).....you do a good enough job yourself. I am sure that more than five profiles have dissagreed with me. BUT it is only five that have been extremely outspoken about it and two out of the five that have made a point of dengrating every single comment I make.
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RHP User
15 years ago
omg shes counting? omg omg omg...... its ok flowerpot, we know you dont cope with criticism very well, do you want a hug?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Puppy...you and I are never going to see eye to eye about ANYTHING...so please...in future, pretend I do not exist...I will do the same to you. I will try my very very hardest to ignore all inflamatory, moronic and sexist remarks made by you...even if I have to choke on my keyboard. l Ruby_Blossum....I will also pretend that your profile is invisible to me. l However, if either of you decide to verbally and openly attack me again...all bets are off. I do not care if you dont mention my name at all....I, and others, do know who you are alluding to.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' Character assasination is all very well BUT..... Sorry Focus I did tell you I would stay out of it however, now we have all gone to bed and slept a bit, I reserve the right of rebuttal. I do not think that I hijack each and every single post at all. If you bother to check there are maybe three or four currently that I have commented on. IF something is a topic that I feel strongly about (and these will usually be centred around social norms) then yes I will get fairly vocal. I have stated that I wont back down and again it has been misconstued. I have actually stated that IF IT IS IMPORTANT TO ME I will not backdown. The last time Puppy and I locked horns (or rather words) he asked for proof, I gave him proof, he asked for proof without stats, I gave him proof without stats and it was not good enough....so he asked for more stats. Well obviously there is no pleasing SOME. Yes I realise that the traits I dislike in Puppy are the traits that annoy others about myself. My writing style is very blunt and this does come across but I will not be changing that any time soon. I will not be writing eloquent and flowery prose to avoid upsetting a few. What I would NEVER do....and here we do differ, is start a post deliberately to put down someone else. Neither do I deliberately make such an obvious attack on another as has happened here. Puppy I have called you childish approximately twice so please stop with the grandstanding and exaggerating as it is *gasp* childish. You are about to go through the next major stage in life's maturity stakes and in maybe about ten years will look back on the man you are today and realise just how young you really do sound. Yes I have a wealth of experience and I am sorry but I am tired.....no I am more than tired.... but bone weary of everyone turning everthing into one big joke. Some things should not be joked about, some things are serious and that is just life. 80% of people on this forum come across as empty headed little morons who think that life actually revolves around what they have between thier legs and yet you want me to just spout platitudes for them? You want me to agree to the concept of "each to thier own and whatever turns you on" When my whole being goes against such a concept? My very job shows what can and does happen when society forgets a few conventions. Focus is right...it is maybe three profiles (and mainy couples) that attack each and every single little comment I make, whether made in jest or not. Ruby Blossums...yes I would be very surprised if those that actually knew me thought that about me. Maybe those that have met me for five minutes might but those that have taken the time to know me, taken the time to speak to me more than at a time when they are pissed (I dont handle pissed people very well) would not. I am neither condescending nor arrogant and I am very sorry if I do come across as this. Personally I have yet to see Puppy back down and admit anyone was wrong either. Whether in a humourous note or not. No I am not ageist. Many of my wonderful friends are teenagers and belive it or not (I really do not care either way) I have a natural affinity with teens. Maybe it is my sarcastic sense of humour that appeals to them. Emo kids are usually pretty dark. No I dont normally recieve more than my fair share of attacks......except from a select few. Because of the inability of people to see what Roxxy meant....I do belive she has "slipped quietly away" and that is a sad loss to the forums. When I closed down my profile recently over Puppy's last personal attack she was one of the many who sent me messages asking me not to leave and now I will do the same to her. You will not get me to leave Puppy, I am not loud, stubborn, arrogant, nor am I borish. I am strong and independant........to a fault. I think that the portion above that I have chosen to highlight RED, indicate best those comments in this thread that you've made that the people above take the most offence to. . I personally consider you to be a valid contributor to the forums, for the same reason I gave to Nick in his thread the other day. Polarising forum posters are what make this community a great one to be a member of. However this reeks of superiority complex and you will always find people who consider this to be abbrasive and irritating. . I look forward to the day you are able to admit to learning something new here or open yourself up to the possibility of having one of your concrete opinions swayed by that of another. I suspect it will be a cold day in hell before that happens, but in the meantime, this place would be a whole lot more pleasant if you occasionally open your mind up to the possibility that every 'strong opinion' you hold is not necessarily infallible.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Oh it's a shame the blind may never see!Ruby let her go and try and find a fun posting she hasn't found yet and post away. There's no sense in reasoning with the unreasonableOh I can cut and paste too: from another topic even how clever am I becoming eh!!! I was not intending to insult anyone Really? Quoting 'stalky' Quoting 'fionabee'One needs to look more closely at top of the lines and one off originals though. Bargain basmement shopping can be cheap and nasty. A person needs to be careful. Hey Fiona.... whilst I appreciate the joke for what it is.. exactly how do you know who you are insulting! A person needs to be careful indeed!! so of course you didn't INTEND but blind freddy and stupid morons could see that you obviously did YES????????HugsStalky If I have, then maybe I hit upon a truth or two accidently NOW she means to insult but she wont admit it and in which case I am certain that the person I have just insulted will start a forum topic just to run me down. Such is life! So you HAVE insulted and you say you are a big enough person to concede when obviously wrong, well instead of adding salt to the would why the fuck could you just not have said SORRY!!! Oh my bad, you think you belong to a minority group and as such never need to say sorryjust a little observation as I was trying desperately to find a fun topic
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RHP User
15 years ago
"Ruby_Blossum....I will also pretend that your profile is invisible to me. " . More than happy to hear that fionabee...... I was beginning to fear you had developed a bit of a girl crush and I was becoming concerned. However, I dont believe you have the power to "gag" me. . flirty-bi-fem ...... . Puppy......I move on every time I hit the 'post your comment' button.... these cute pinkies of mine have fun things to do rather than playing on this keyboard. See you in the sandpit.....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'ruby_blossum' "Ruby_Blossum....I will also pretend that your profile is invisible to me. " . More than happy to hear that fionabee...... I was beginning to fear you had developed a bit of a girl crush and I was becoming concerned. However, I dont believe you have the power to "gag" me. . flirty-bi-fem ...... . Puppy......I move on every time I hit the 'post your comment' button.... these cute pinkies of mine have fun things to do rather than playing on this keyboard. See you in the sandpit.....It is not me talking about you to my friends is it? Glad to know you are interested enough to gossip the girlie hours away about me.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Ha!With the many people participating on this thread apparently dribbling shit, I think RHP should install a bran muffin dispenser at log in.HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
omg will some one please buy the two cat ladies more cats (-:
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RHP User
15 years ago
I get told i am intimidating ...... without saying anything,.kind of sucks realy , as its an asumption, and it never comes from women , always men...hmmmmm... interestingxxxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'northernsubscpl'I get told i am intimidating ...... without saying anything,. kind of sucks realy , as its an asumption, and it never comes from women , always men... hmmmmm... interesting xxxxxWell I am happy for that to be the case so we can keep you for ourselves
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RHP User
15 years ago
Everyone is so bored they need to come back and cannot resist digging thier metphorical hole just that little deeper. Well even when I do applogise it appears I am still wrong. Quoting 'puppy Quoting 'fionabee'One needs to look more closely at top of the lines and one off originals though. Bargain basmement shopping can be cheap and nasty. A person needs to be careful. Hey Fiona.... whilst I appreciate the joke for what it is.. exactly how do you know who you are insulting! A person needs to be careful indeed!! so of course you didn't INTEND but blind freddy and stupid morons could see that you obviously did YES????? Oh look how clever I am. I can cut and paste as well. This is what you were talking about an apology for isnt it?
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RHP User
15 years ago
But not intimidating lol you.. are an angel !! Although I'm taller so I probably come across as intimidating to peeps. No one has ever said... I don't think my thigh high stiletto boots, leather whip and angry scowl make me any less approachable than the other 80%... Mistress Anna
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RHP User
15 years ago
is there still a problem? or, whatever this thread was about?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Hotsexycouple88' omg will some one please buy the two cat ladies more cats (-: lmfao.... the Simpsons have got a lot to answer for!HugsS
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