i found pics of my ex in a profile

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  that is one of the reasons why you are no longer together.If you are happier now,then be thankful.She did you a favour.Let it go,if you don't then she will still occupy your mind,and that will only lead to unhappiness.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  you are worried she had a sexlife without you? Or you didn't know she was on here before you?   Get over it sunshine.   Mike

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  How long were you seeing each other for? Just because someone is on here for a long time doesn't mean the profile was active the whole time! I have been on here for years but I have taken a break at times! How to deal with it? You have moved on and should just keep on moving on! They are an ex now anyway, whether they were here while you were together or not is a reflection on that person and not on you! It is in the past and should stay there! Stay happy! xFunlovingx

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  to true, xfunlovingx. we were together 12 years, and the profile was actualy on another dating site, which showed a sign up date, which was mid way thru our relationship, just b4 we got married. i dont think i really have a big deal of worrie about it other that the fact that i get all the blame for the relationship demise. she admitts to the pics but will never admit that it began so long ago? i mean im not shy when it comes to playing and i get amongst it as much as i can, but for the sake of our relationship as parents i still think we need to be honest, she has nothing to loose, only to gain realy, maybe a bit of respect for actualy admitting the obvious, and to give me a bit of a breather from the finger pointing. If she'd ever let me know she was interested in playing, id have been happy to watch and join in on all the fun, maybe it could have saved the destruction that our split has created? ,maybe not?

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  miketheduc, im not worried at all mate about her sex life, the grass is to green over here, its just the goodie 2shoes attitude she has that she was the perfect wife and never harmed our relationship,i mean realy, how hard is it to just be honest, thats all i ask, i dont realy give 2 hoots how many cocks she had, but it would go a long way in my books if she could just admit it rather than deny? i mean there's kids involved and were always going to have some kind of contact with each other, it would be good to clean the slate, whats to loose??

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  i thinkit was a slow demise over the last few years, life became complicated, but there were always unfinished or unanswered situations that she had that had caused me a bit of doubt to her miss perfect sharade that she put on, maybe if she'd just been honest we could have just became players and enjoed the fruits of life and retained our love for each other. As for moving on and being happier, yeah, were both moving forward, i know she has some bootie calls, and i have my fair share, its just dealing with the legal stuff and mainly i worrie about the impact on the kids, why i dont know, its just the norm these days, but there my world and i hate them having to go thru it all aswell, i never experienced it but i can imagine it must be hard for there little brains to process??a bit sad i supose?

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  It happened to me too... Well.. SORT OF... It actually happened in my life.. to my ex.. I WAS ON RHP FOR ALL OF THE RELATIONSHIP DURATION!!! but... as funloving says... I was not active..   Tell us her profile mate, and I will check her out.. she MIGHT be someone I know/knew

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  So your not happy that she had a profile on here when (Im assuming) you were together...   Yeah lifes a bitch isn't it ??? - dont you hate it when the people you love like kinda lie and cheat behind your back ...yep...but like hello nearly a year on..time to get on over it...move on, let it go..and every other damn cliche.   And as Funloving said..she could have had a profile on here for many reasons   Maybe she was fishing for you both...maybe she loved reading and contributing to the forums, maybe she was just perving, ...maybe she got off on being a timewaster on here and played around online to fed her ego...who knows. ?.only she does., who cares ? not her...and if you still do, then you need to have a good hard look at yourself   So my advice to you, is, ditch this couples profile - which isnt a couples profile..get yourself a single guys profile and act like a single guy...you two sadly broke up for a reason......remember that

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I dearly wish people would read what is written instead of what they want to see .. The OP did say .. she wasn't on this site .. There are a number of sights which show the membership date, that are social sites only .. \there are a number of sights which show a membership date which are vanilla sites.there are a number of sights which show a membership date ..... which whilst they don't have forums like this ... they do have extremely good sexual health advice and events.She could have had a profile on anyone of these for any amount of reasons ... maybe just a chat friend without ACTUALLY MEETING ..

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  as his responses clarifying, only appeared here today after most of us posted last nite :)

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Just send her a little flirty message to let her know ypou have seen her profile. Maybe a nice little message saying remember when...It is all good. Move on. No biggie at all. I find my partners profiles all ove the net. I make a game of it to see if I can hack into them and create all sorts of mischeif...

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  If it's really bugging you and you can't stop thinking about it. By a Pinata, hang it up somewhere. Get a heavy wooden object. Close your eyes and think about all those emmotions inside you about this and then open your eye's and destroy that pinata. Then gorge yourself into a sugary coma from all the treats that fall from inside it.

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