how much of your sex-life is inspired by porn...?

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  i think it's part of getting older, especially the need for new or harder stimuli.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I only bother with BDSM porn and only watch it to pick up some tips and ideas when my creative juices dry up.I was involved for years with BDSM before I saw any porn on the subject. I usually find it boring and not a turn on.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  have new movies on and some old faves. l must admit though. yes l am getting kinkier and kinkier by the minute and love the art of binding at the moment. I am also finding submission quite exciting for now. Just the other day, l was talking to my friend on the subject of limts and it sems the more we push boundaries the less limits there are. Hmmmm Enjoying my 40's cause they are HOT HOT HOT

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  we rely on our imagination..........so far its not failed us.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  the internet has a lot to do with the awakening of women.     all of a sudden your in your prime and have a place to learn about your sexuality Meet other women to talk with who do not judge you , like an underground girlfriends club   You have all the pretty pictures of guys who want to show you ,what they have to offer.   You have choice, you no longer have to lay back and think of England and take one for the team   One day you realise life is to short to live a small sexual life and you step into the rabbit hole of the sizzle zone   Yerpppp for everything you said.   Like in Shirely Valentine, the clitorus is no longer thought to be some european car , its a small gear shift that drives you to heaven and back   Some think us older women are booring as bat shit, but truth be known tradies are very afraid as we may just seduce them now rather than just thinking about it as our mothers once did. Kinky is just expanding the horizons

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  There is also the added fact that women don't hit their sexual prime, until roughly around 35 onwards whereas we guys are in our peak, from early 20's onwards.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  We're both fans!   I found porn pretty boring till one day a girlfriend who liked to watch porn introduced me to porn plus oral sex. I think it can be a little tedious unless its exactly what interests you or you find some new ideas there. We're both very well read so it would be difficult to imagine finding something in a porn vid we haven't already tried.   I read somewhere that the average couple watch porn for an an average of eight minutes at a time.     We had a friend turn up to a party here with a swag of dwarf and pregnancy porn. Not boring but it took a long time to get the images out of my head of those stubby little dwarf fingers going in and out. I do not recommend this as an ice breaker at a party! Looking at you zebra girl :)

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I'm not nearly that athletic.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I'm not sure whether it has to do with age per se, but rather about the openness of the mind. I've always had an open mind but having said that, I too find that I'm into trying new things recently - is that my age or just that I'm meeting people who already do things differently or is it just that everything in my life is where it should be right now?Porn doesn't really play a part in that. Sure I watch it, but nothing overly kinky. I talk about sex a fair bit with my girlfriends of similar age and I'm the only one to have an 'active' and fulfilled sex life so I think it's more about all the ducks lining up in life, love and body and us being in the right head space for those boundaries to be challenged and embraced.Whatever your reason Sensual, just go with it and enjoy it

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  ...my love life has inspired a few porns.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Quoting 'inspirit'"have new movies on and some old faves. l must admit though. yes l am getting kinkier and kinkier by the minute and love the art of binding at the moment. I am also finding submission quite exciting for now. "i am finding myself getting into submission myself....there is something primevalabout submitting to my man...

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Quoting 'tuscanred' "the internet has a lot to do with the awakening of women.     all of a sudden your in your prime and have a place to learn about your sexuality Meet other women to talk with who do not judge you , like an underground girlfriends club   You have all the pretty pictures of guys who want to show you ,what they have to offer.   You have choice, you no longer have to lay back and think of England and take one for the team   One day you realise life is to short to live a small sexual life and you step into the rabbit hole of the sizzle zone   Yerpppp for everything you said."i have to say i couldn"t agree more....

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