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how many larger people find it hard to pick up on here?
April 23 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
like surrounding myself with extremely large people.one day you guys may aspire to be that big........ahahahahahahahaahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaBear HuggsEarl
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RHP User
16 years ago
I haven't met anyone on here yet but it's early days and I'm very insecure bout meeting people for many reasons one is due to rejection and size. As Sweetiepie says it really is about preference I seriously will look at someones profile if says smokes or just ask me in the are you a smoker section, I will avoid. Some like men bald some don't. Some like Blondes god forbid lol yet some like brunettes. Many are repulsed by dare I say it fat people (I can call myself that) and yet skinny people can repulse some others as they would rather soft skin and bodies. I do not believe it isn't because they don't believe you to be fun, lot of bigger people are more intimate and make good lovers and partners. But the world has never promoted Big as Sexy. Which I guess health wise rightfully so. Until the right couple or person comes along why not try being happy with just each other?Bubbly
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RHP User
16 years ago
ok people you all need to learn to love the fat....if they dont want you cause you fat...fcuk them off they arent worth shitbe fat and be proud people xxroxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
that guys are happy to fuck a fat chick...but very few actually see us as girlfriend material.Sad really....coz under this well-padded exterior...is a fun, smart, caring, loving girl...just waiting to shower her attention on the right man.BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
@BigBrite_Bubbly I agree. I find other traits (heavy smoker, signs of substance abuse, sucky attitudes) more of an issue than with someone for being a little more curvier. I'm sure others might disagree though.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'geturroxyoff' ok people you all need to learn to love the fat....if they dont want you cause you fat...fcuk them off they arent worth shitbe fat and be proud people xxroxxy xxxOh Roxxy I do love you , you know that don't you. I'll never be proud of my weight though I am WHO I AM. Anyone who passes me up due to it HA HA HA as your loss stay lonely and miserable looking with perfect catch too look at with no personality dull life I say.And when we are together Roxxy its just never dull for anyone we get people laughing always not at us WIth Us. Love Bubbles x x x x they so need Hot Pink Font Colour its killing me I miss my Pink Bits
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have always found fuller figured people, a lot more genuine and in touch with them selfs. I guess dealing with body requires a lot more analysis with who you are and not just rely on I look hot. I know it might not be pc but, once you've had fat, you never go back. I just can't get enough of a full bodied woman.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Size doesn't really come into it much. There is a point where it is an issue. Personality shines over size. If this was a night club guys might give you the the look over. Here you can let your personality shine. Before even meeting. Fab
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am the total opposite, of what you describe, I enjoy larger ladies on a platonic level, but unfortunately for me i just don't find them sexually appealing, for me the cut off is about a size 12. I don't no why, i have tried but nope nothing there, I know this must sound incredibly shallow but i guess its no different to women who will only date guys who are tall, or ripped or have that biggus dickus thing going on.Cheers Nev
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'MissBJ' that guys are happy to fuck a fat chick...but very few actually see us as girlfriend material.Sad really....coz under this well-padded exterior...is a fun, smart, caring, loving girl...just waiting to shower her attention on the right man.BJxxx You said it BJ! I told one guy I was a fat chick...he said it was fine because we got along so well, and had so much fun, so much in common. Then we met the night of the Melbourne meet and greet. Don't think it was that I was flashing a lot of breast that made him never even bother speaking to me again. I just wish these bigots would grow some manners...is it so hard to say that I'm sorry but we're not going to happen? Was ready to throw it all in (because I don't just want one-night stands) until Taipan made a nice comment on the forum about me being sexy. Thank god there are sweet guys out there to make up for the jerk-offs!!! xxILTS
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RHP User
16 years ago
many people have replied to your thread...it's the people who judge a book by the cover who are...going to miss out on a DAMN GOOD BOOK !!!...i think that if you are having trouble meeting up with sexy people to play with...it may because you don;t let your personality shine through....posting in the forums is one way to show your true nature...and then people may decide that you (as a book)... are worth opening and reading some more about...BIG hugs...Jose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
More cushion for the pushin'?
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magsluvsoral
16 years ago
I agree with some of the other ladies, if you dont like us move on but we dont have 2 heads, jst more of us to devour or enjoy lol. I have found the men that chat to me dont have any issues at all so Iam happy with that as long as they are. I have DD tits and the men Ive been with cant get enough of them for sure. I myself dont like certain things in men myself, I prefer taller men and ones with hair (hubby is bald could be why) and those with a bit of meat on them also . Jst my 'fat' cents worth and I will keep enjoying those men that enjoy bbw xxxxxxxxxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey I'm willing to give anyone a chance but sometimes there has to be a limit. I find that some larger women are fine but others just have such a woe is me attitude that it puts you off. Having said that MissBJ makes a good point as well and I believe I come under that category. As much as I'm happy to play with someone that is larger, they just don't fit into my idea of a serious relationship material. Given that I am at a perfect weight level per the BMI scale, I would prefer someone that is more my level I suppose. A bit more is not a problem.There is also the fact that some larger figured women actually look very attractive despite their size while others...well just don't. Having said that there are also women with top bodies that get let down in the looks department in other areas.In essence it comes down to preference. I have seem skinny guys with women that are 3 times the guys body weight, good luck to them. I have seen skinny girls with guys 3 times their body weight, lucky guys. Sometimes opposites attract but more often than not people go for those that are similar to themselves.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Everyone has something that they dont like about themselves. Me, well yeah, I have areas that could do with improvement.. but all in all.. Im happy in my own skin..Its a work in progress type of thing :) Some things I dont like about me ... others love! ... each to their own hey! Every guy I have ever been with has had an awsome body..( well, what I like anyway), but awsome body or not, if the personality was less than average... then there would be little chance that I would have 'sexy time' with them. Like they say.. sexy is an attitude... not a size! Most larger people I know, male or female, young or older.. always seem to have a wicked sense of humour and can make people laugh until they cry.. or god forbid.. pee them selves! Its not always about size, (sometimes yes) but sometimes its just easier to blame size as the reason for feeling rejected. It might actually be something else that is the reason... as simple as the distance to travel, or just no chemistry there for anything sexual. Just be yourself, and be optimistic, smile and enjoy who you are as a person... how boring would life be if we all looked like the next person? A mixed bag of lollies is always more exciting.. ya pick out the favourites first, then the next etc etc... but sometimes there always seems to be some left in the bag that you just dont like... no matter how much you are craving for something sweet, ya just can't eat it! Hope what you are looking for comes your way! - Maple -
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RHP User
16 years ago
With some people body image is a real issue and they can't get sexually excited about someone that doesn't fit their criteria for a sexual partner, that said a lot of people are just biggoted against many things it could be fat, smoking,drinking or garlic eating. Just ignore these shallow ones and let them miss out on meeting lots of interesting human beings and eventually you will find some real people that are willing to meet and judge a person on what they find rather than a preconceived idea of who is fit to speak to, it is their loss in the long run and mostly they will only meet the ones they deserve.
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RHP User
16 years ago
At least you girls still get laid, try being a middle aged overweight single father - christ I have no hope lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have only been on RHP for a couple of months and have observed some great natured people chatting in these forums. However, there is that element of arrogant individual on this site only looking for one off conquests. Therefore they think that their bedside manner can be sloppy or non existent. In my opinion those that reject others on the basis of size, colour, creed etc. would unlikely be caring enough to ensure their partners needs are met anyway. I say be grateful if you are rejected early because being left hanging mid excitement is far worse (and yes being an Exec have slept with women that fcuk like selfish men). I do not consider myself large (about 8 to 10 kg overwieght) but I would not reject a woman that is large or what I consider BBW/voluptuous/curvy/chunky as long as she is a nice person, has a sense of humor, the corrent number of erogenous zones and wants to be pleasured.....I am available. Ray of Sunshine
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RHP User
16 years ago
Aww I love a full figured lady :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
LOL BBW & Single mother.... do some men actually consider half of the single mothers are single due to something serious from past relationship why can us having children be held against us and not all kids from single raised homes be Bratty and Feral then again maybe these are the men I don't want around my kids anyway..Mummy has taught them to not judge people by anything but their personality and to always try be understanding of someones reasons and background. Here is hoping I am raising some of the new generation of kids/adults that are more accepting and understanding.Generally speaking Single Mums or Dads ARE NOT AFTER ANOTHER MUMMY/DADDY!!!! They either have their own or had their own they can't be replaced they just might need another trusted adult friend to look up too or go to for guidance.BUBBLY
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RHP User
16 years ago
hi all thanx for all your comments , i guess it's the people that are shallow that might be missing out on the best thing or maybe not the best but still some damn good fun anyway , good luck to all you larger people out there and good luck on your search , :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
This site is no different to life. Really if you go somewhere and don't have fun, you only have yourself to blame. Naturally there's occasionally going to be people who for no apparent reason at all are intent on spoiling your fun but that's another story. I will add that I have long held the opinion that the sexiest fuckers are very often most surprising.. so appearances do not always disclose the full story. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'bulldog216'hi all thanx for all your comments , i guess it's the people that are shallow that might be missing out on the best thing or maybe not the best but still some damn good fun anyway , good luck to all you larger people out there and good luck on your search , :) Thank you and good advice! - I mean I don't know what the fuss is about - I'm pretty large, but have never had any complaints, in fact, most recently it's been praise... and to be honest, there's no shortage of guys here that brag about how large they are.. some even do it in a self-promoting kinda way in reply to other peoples threads. But I won't name names. Amusingly though - some are, possibly unknowingly, doing the opposite, - One profile pic I've seen uses a Nivea moisturiser tube as a reference point so we can judge his size. Erm - those tubes ain't big... maybe he's trying to prove he's 'petite' - who knows.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm attracted to women purely on sex appeal. I have found myself wanting particular women and having no idea what it is that has me so turned on but I just know I want to fuck them real bad. It has nothing to do with shape, size or looks it would seem, it's just pure animal attraction. I must say though that I really do prefer curves on women and have never been attracted to the no bum body type. 36-24-36?? ONLY IF SHE"S 5'1".........
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am a bigger sexy curvy girl and i love who i am. If men or women dont want to play with me well then thats their choice. I dont think it really matters what size you are as long as you look after what you have and have good personal hygeine then its all good. xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
hi there mags are you interested in hooking up sometime?
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RHP User
16 years ago
sorry for getting the name mixed up
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RHP User
16 years ago
I learn so much on this site... 1 - Bukkake isn't that nice sweet treat the turkish girl used to bring into work 2 - The man at the turkish bakery isn't giving me a polite smile everytime I ask for bukkake and he gives me baklava. 3 - Overweight people can have tight vaginas. Who'd have thought! But isn't it a bit unfair on non-overweight people that we seem inclined to say "Oh overweight people are great, they have personalities... not like those thin people" I think we've had just about enough 'I'm overweight, should I be self-concious?" posts for a while... or do we need to set up a big, beautiful and insecure quarantine area... it worked a treat for the whiny nice guys.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Nick_Wilde'In short, long live the BBW's as long as they're medically healthy I have no objection. But lets taks this one step further, any woman feel undesirable or unloved, message me and I will absolve you of your sins. Forgive me for being inner beauty's #1 fan...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'MissBJ' that guys are happy to fuck a fat chick...but very few actually see us as girlfriend material.Sad really....coz under this well-padded exterior...is a fun, smart, caring, loving girl...just waiting to shower her attention on the right man.BJxxx I know we might be hard to find, but some of find a woman that is fuller in figure are definitely girlfriend material, I have the opposite problem, I want a shapely woman, but have trouble finding them.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Nope...I dont think youre shallow for not being sexually attracted to bigger girls.Not at all!It's the guys that are happy to fuck us on the sneak so none of their mates find out.THEY are the ones that shit me.But anyway.There are some types that Im not sexually attracted to as well.But that doesnt mean I dont like them!JMO...BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
The Gardener...for best newcomer to RHP whose motto appears to be...'he who tries the hardest......will eventually get something somewhere sometime' even if its just to shut him up!! 'The Crowd Roars'......
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'thegardener68' I know we might be hard to find, but some of find a woman that is fuller in figure are definitely girlfriend material, I have the opposite problem, I want a shapely woman, but have trouble finding them. KFC? . . . . Aww - c'mon humour police - put your bottle of hatorade away - it's just a joke. I'd do the same to a blonde.. or a jew. :p or you!
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RHP User
16 years ago
leave KFC alone you shmuck youEarlstien
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RHP User
16 years ago
I like curves other wise you think you are snagging a boy. Lol. But every long term gf has put on weight to the point of it then affecting the relationship. Mybe I should go the other way date a larger girl and have her loose the weight through a good lifestyle instead. That way she will always love me. Fab.
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RHP User
16 years ago
fab69 - My ideal woman is 12-14That's illegal on many countries.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'WAMvictim' fab69 - My ideal woman is 12-14That's illegal on many countries. pretty sure it illegal here tooahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaaEarl
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RHP User
16 years ago
I just got slam dunked by WAMvictim. Who wouldda thought that? Hell they were all around size 12 when I met them. Then they grew to size 16+ sorry I was always too polite to ask how much they weighed. Just noticed the sizes when they were out dress shopping. That's all. It never meant a bugger to me except I couldn't carry them to the bedroom anymore. One easy way to say hey I want to make love to you now. Now I've got my tail between my legs.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Only Illegal if you get caught, what was that other thread about "how did you lose it" i was astounded by the number of underage people who had done it. I think lots of people have no regard for laws....Cheers Nev.....Rules are meant for breaking....right?
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RHP User
16 years ago
At the end of the day we all have our own discriminations, whether we know/or like it or not. Dont like long hair, dont like short hair, dont like big, dont like small, dont like blonde, dont like brunette, dont like tall, dont like short, dont like shy, dont like arrogant, dont like pushy, dont like men, dont like women, dont like hairy, dont like shaved... the list goes on. I think all you can do is try to be happy with yourself, and accept the fact that some people will like it, and some wont. But as long as you feel comfortable in your own body then that is what counts. If you dont, then try to take measures that will help move you towards that goal - if possible. But despite our physical limitations, personality is the most attractive, and aspiring asset of them all, and is the one we are the most in control of.
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RHP User
16 years ago
LOL...you have missed what WAM was meaning.The way you wrote your heading sounds like you like girls AGED 12 to 14.not SIZE 12 to 14....hence the suggestion to use the unit of measure when making statements like that!Just on your earlier comment...why would a girl always love you coz she lost weight??If she was with you...wouldnt she love you already??One would hope so anyway.And Lovenlust...you said...."Given that I am at a perfect weight level per the BMI scale,"...unfortunately...the BMI scale does not take into account body shape... build.... muscle to fat ratio....genetic disposition...fluid retention...etc etc...so is not considered to be an accurate formula to rate healthy body weight.JMO...BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'MissBJ' LOL...you have missed what WAM was meaning.The way you wrote your heading sounds like you like girls AGED 12 to 14.not SIZE 12 to 14....hence the suggestion to use the unit of measure when making statements like that!Just on your earlier comment...why would a girl always love you coz she lost weight??If she was with you...wouldnt she love you already??One would hope so anyway.And Lovenlust...you said...."Given that I am at a perfect weight level per the BMI scale,"...unfortunately...the BMI scale does not take into account body shape... build.... muscle to fat ratio....genetic disposition...fluid retention...etc etc...so is not considered to be an accurate formula to rate healthy body weight.JMO...BJxxx Thanks for the rescue babe doh!! I totwlly missed it
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