how do you find what you want?

April 10 2010

been here a few months now, getting to know the site, but still unsure on how to make the most of it. am getting plenty of email action, but not a lot of that is interesting me enough to turn into real action... seems to me i'm attracting the wrong type of guy... and ones that don't read profiles :P

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    You need dick pics on your profile... By all accounts they're a guaranteed winner.. oh hang on.. I may have that wrong. *thinking* - no it's cleavage shots for you women... - oh.. you've got that.. Maybe post you love MMF... oh - you've done that.. Hmmm. In that case I'd just hang around the forums and see what happens. It seems like a nice enough crowd here.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Why not? Spoils the fun of discovery! Hang in there and give it time. You will meet your guy eventually.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    proactive and sign up for a paid membership then you can contact whomever you like the look of! Cheers Nev

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Deanna, You look like a lovely fun gal, and I have not actually looked at your profile, but being a guest like me does have its disadvantages. But, as Trish pointed out, and as I am desperately trying to save as much money as I can, you can get by quite well by sending flirts to members that you like and attracting their attention with lovely cleavage shots like you have (which I have in a private gallery - makes them message you to get to see the pics!!!). I like to follow up most messages if I can too, even if I'm not interested, and I like to make sure I do make some of the sexy platinum members happy that they paid their memberships too!! Probably everyone here finds that only a fraction of the messages and contacts they get on here are from the right sort of people - the rest is still nice attention though! Keep searching, there are some really great, sexy, fun playmates here!! XXX S

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    THAT THE TALL GUYS YOU REQUIRE CANT READ LOL

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Yes seriously, if I were female, I think the best advice is remove your photos altogether pay for membership and contact those who have a decent profile and a few photos. However remember this is a sex site, you may have to leave your feelings at the door, and sometimes when you really like someone that may be a little hard to do.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Well, you're dead sexy. If you cant get some action.. what chance have any of us got? Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    such a shame when all the decent guys...are over 35...ya see...that's ya problem right there....cheersjose...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    that as a woman you haven't found what you're after... It's usually us men who are left wanting. :S

  • Tart_Du_Jour

    Tart_Du_Jour

    16 years ago

    Does something happen to all men on their 35th birthday that makes them into decent people? Is it a little pixie that casts a spell in their sleep? ;)

  • Tart_Du_Jour

    Tart_Du_Jour

    16 years ago

    mickey1020, I think being a woman on a site like this you will get plenty of people contacting you but that does not always mean they are the kind of people you want to meet or are interested in.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    considering the ration of men to women surely there are some matches for deanna_rose...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    that should have read ratio not ration... :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I think that some menmight like the act of searching more than appreciating the pure elation of an actual hook up. I'm not exactly sure as I am new to the site, but there seems o a lot of guys here how can talk the talk but don't walk the walk. I suppose it's good for me because I've been walking for ages. Just email me to find out... This is for you braise.

  • WATERSIDEGUY18

    WATERSIDEGUY18

    16 years ago

    deanna_roseWithout sounding up myself, I believe you need to look a bit beyond the square, what I mean is give a decent guy a chance. For instance I messaged you a few months ago, yes your very cute, I don't know you well enough to know if your what I'm looking for, but my point is give people a chance to get to know you. OK if creeps want to jump straight to your pants, it's enough to scare you off, but there are decent blokes out there, and it's the multiple jerks out there who ruin it for all the good people like ourselves.Moral is I never heard back from you. I have met a handful of people from this site, and yes the experiences have so far not been too bad, and I offer more than what my brief profile describes.That is all.MF