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how did you start your threesome / mfmf
May 16 2016
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RHP User
10 years ago
I play as a couple with a guy and our first time with another couple was at a swingers club. However since then we have met a few people of here. On here you just have to message people and explain that even though you have a singles profile what you are actually after. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Here's a tip, just lean in and start kissing, that's all it takes.
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Laidback_Fun
10 years ago
We arent the most experienced in swinging but find just being open honest with what you are looking for tends to work! :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
if it failed then there was no connection or missed infomation..... or they just whern't into you and what you wanted,. we have started in lots of ways and i have found most times it just starts, and away we go. Jan has walked in naked , we have mastibated each other, we have flirted openly with our hands on them and them on us. just do something or do nothing and reap what you sow
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RHP User
10 years ago
Still waiting for it to happen. .. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've been the third wheel a couple of times now and find it practical to meet somewhere first to determine if you think you'll enjoy the other person/ couple. If you do than it will just happen easily on the night. As Social Suicide said...... start with a kiss, it's easy 👌 - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
10 years ago
You did not specify at what point the " attempt" failed. Were you unsuccessful in setting up a meeting ? Or did things not pan out during your meeting?
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RHP User
10 years ago
A few useful tips I'd suggest you (the lady) do the talking as we find single guys telling us they have a friend a little unbelievable. We'll usually meet at a bar and see if everyone clicks and take it as read that if you're invited back to there room it's probably gunna progress Despite meeting several couples and playing we still find that initial part of suggesting we "get down to business" difficult and awkward, on a recent play meet the other couple played a simple card game where the loser got naked and we found once we'd got our clothes off it happened pretty easy :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'WomanWhisperer' I've been the third wheel a couple of times now and find it practical to meet somewhere first to determine if you think you'll enjoy the other person/ couple. If you do than it will just happen easily on the night. As Social Suicide said...... start with a kiss, it's easy 👌 Funny how the most complicated situations only require a simple solution.
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JohnAnn2227
10 years ago
We find there is less pressure at a swingers club. You can meet a lot of lovely people there and what you get up to is up to you. You can swap (if you click with someone), simply play together as a couple or even just watch if you are having a few nerves. We have found it awkward meeting someone over dinner knowing that there is pressure on us to like them and jump into bed in 2 hours time. Everyone is different in how they like to approach swinging. You just have to try different things and see what suits you both best.Good luck!
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RHP User
10 years ago
At parties and sex clubs are great places to meet up with people in the scene - and have a good time. ;-)
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MnauMnau
10 years ago
My tip would be go to the swingers club. Go there and talk to anyone or just watch. My first one was with a GREAT couple at the club. I only asked "Can I touch" and we went from there. At the end it was MMMF. There was no pushing, everyone was open and very friendly. I can tell you, it was way beyond my expectation and I enjoyed the moment/s. I think, if you do things you like you'll be ok. And for me, meeting people in person is way better approach than chatting and messaging for ever. It's more personal and you can see/feel any connection, or not and move on (to the bar). Too bad you are too far, we could go to club together ;)
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RHP User
10 years ago
First time to this but would just love try any ideas for me - Posted from rhpmobile
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sahzpete
10 years ago
If you have gone back to there place or you have invited them after the meeting them and they is a connection it is usually going to happen, so some one needs to take charge and maybe sit next to the other couples wife or husband and start kissing and touching. Or one way that some friends of ours use is the lady will ask where the toilet is and come back in some thing naughty or naked. and us males love it if you do that as we then know you want to have fun with us,,, they said they use that all the time to get things going and it work well also if the lady gets naked first its much better that the man doing it. Or a Spa is a great ice breaker as well if you have one.
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RHP User
10 years ago
New to this I'd love some tips on all aspects, after spending years talking about it, the mutual decision has been made to bring a lady into our bedroom. Being from a small town we have tried heading to new places in a hope to "randomly" meet a mutually minded miss... Though it's not as easy as we first thought. Attempts on sites such at this have also been a tad disappointing, after our 4th cancelled meet (reasons like sorry I'm now partnered. And couples posing as single women in a hopes to sway us into a group evening) I'm beginning to wonder if our fantasy will ever become a reality.. Any advice for some fantasising newbies would be very welcomed 😊
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have met a few couples and they have all been different but they have all ended well. What I think I do right is allow the couple to play out their fantasies. I am just the guy in the middle (Best seat in the house IMO) I suggest start with a friendly chat. Playing a card game where the loser has to do a sexy dare works wonders to build confidence. eg highest card wins, winner chooses the dare, loser does it. Limit the time and be more risqué each time. I would not start with a swingers club those places are for the hardcore swingers, if you just want to have sexual fun meet first and invite to play later.
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RHP User
10 years ago
You have clearly come to meet us before..
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Countryfun2205' New to this I'd love some tips on all aspects, after spending years talking about it, the mutual decision has been made to bring a lady into our bedroom. Being from a small town we have tried heading to new places in a hope to "randomly" meet a mutually minded miss... Though it's not as easy as we first thought. Yeah we are in the same boat as well. We live outta town and have tried to do meets and get excuses all the time. Hang in there mate I have learnt to be patient. Attempts on sites such at this have also been a tad disappointing, after our 4th cancelled meet (reasons like sorry I'm now partnered. And couples posing as single women in a hopes to sway us into a group evening) I'm beginning to wonder if our fantasy will ever become a reality.. Any advice for some fantasising newbies would be very welcomed 😊
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RHP User
9 years ago
It needs to be the girl who approaches or gives eye contact, if you are at a club. A lot of girls are bi curious and I always say, that the first time is always nice being with a male and a female, the best of both world... Bi girls, if they are with their gay girlfriends, may give all the right signs but will not do anything about it because of her friends. The old fashion, pass a note with our phone number in the toilet works well:) Everyone is different, most of the time when meeting, everyone has a feeling if playtime is going to happen....the sexual tension, the first time nerves, someone said it before go in for the soft yummy kiss, usually the girls first, then my partner joins us in a three way kiss and well :))....we do what our new friend wants, most come to our place, and sometimes we go to theirs...when we do meet out, usually no drinks are totally finished, and we head home for fun. We don't play unless she wants both of us and we both want her:)))....we value honest open communication, and if she wants to just walk in the door, start kissing and touching me or both of us, cool, we will just take her que:))... She is the one who is coming to be with a couple, so just be open and honest and welcoming, you will find her or them:)) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Honestly I know if it's going to work by how much interest the other f shows in me (f) if she isn't keen on me or is more interested in m than me it's probably not going to work - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Keep it light hearted have some drinks /chat some and don't rush it.Another way is swap couples and then come together back into same room and continue.Taking time to know the other couple also helps.Go for a meal or drinks at a Tavern.
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RHP User
9 years ago
We dropped our clothes on the floor and had sex. Just made sure everyone was on the same page first then the same bed........
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have been with several couples and the best approach by far is to suggest the men massage the woman. Once she is naked on the bed and being stroked by four hands and lots of oil, our underwear is usually next to come off and it all flows very naturally from there. I had one friend who really wanted to experience another woman, so I took her to Wet on Wellington for the Swingers Night. She was very shy so I blindfolded her and she loved it. We played in a room and then I invited another couple in to join us. She loved the touch of an unknown tongue on her pussy and then, for the first time, tasted pussy herself while the other man entered her and sucked me. The anonymity takes away some of the responsibility and can unleash your wild side
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RHP User
9 years ago
I woke up drunk with a bed full of naked ppl having wantin sex. No not really. There is no formula. It happens or it doesnt. No need to stop trying though. Thsts our motto
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RHP User
9 years ago
We have found that chatting via skype cam to cam is best way to overcome awkwardness. Build up relationship online then meet in real. We usually stop when couple or other person on other side of the computer screen says that they dont have a webcam. Cmon, everybody has a webcam and if they are not willing to show themselves that means they are either fake or shamed. There is nothing more sexier than a confident partner i'd say.
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