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  RHP User

  19 years ago

  im not into judging people we dont know, but why worry what people think about you, i think that you have done wonderful posts, and you have invited people for parties (including us, but couldnt make it to) etc which is more than most people do.. well done..and keep on posting...... but as far as being discriminated against as swingers, i believe some of us like the secrets, as nearly every thing in our lives is so routine and dictated these days and if we have our little spontaneous flings, it makes our lives much more fun... i love the fact we do what we do discretely, because if it it was out in the open, i would be afraid it then would become routine and dictated... so i hope this opens your eyes a little on how some of us feel about swinging... from someone who reads your posts!!!!

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  RHP User

  19 years ago

  I have read your party posts, and the replies seem to be overwhelmingly of people wanting to join you. Like sixtyniners, I think it is great that you organise the parties. If you do get criticism, the first question to ask, are the critics doing something to facilitate swingers getting together. If not, tell them to put up or shut up. There are only a handful of people doing it, and you are one of them. You keep doing what you are doing, ignore any unwarranted negative feedback. RHP needs more people like you.

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  RHP User

  19 years ago

  Hey... good on you for what ur doing. As the others said don’t worry about what other people say, as long as you are enjoying what ur doing and whoever joins you is having fun, don’t worry about the rest. Yes, we definately keep our swinging secret, as we have discussed with a few already, don’t think most of the friends or family would understand! Although we have one set of friends who also swing and they were friends before we even began swinging, which is kinda nice to have another close friend to talk about it with instead of it being completely secret. It would be interesting to see if we told more of how friends about our swinging would we actually be discriminated against. And how many of us would be prepared to risk it? Food for thought, and hey continue what ur doing, ur doing okay.

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  RHP User

  19 years ago

  "only a handful of people doing it" that you know of. Guess what, many are keeping it secret from you too lol. You really think this is the only place swinging contacts are being made? ;)

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  RHP User

  19 years ago

  lol why am i not suprised you made a sarcastic,obvious comment.of course we arent the only dating site around i mean from our friends that dont swing.didnt i make that clear enough? anyways yeah we enjoy the parties but perth is proving a rather snobby bunch.They are expecting girls slim with 6 packs and tans.....so average girls like us dont get the run of the bunch.I host parties,yes that is true...but i only ever get thankyours from maximum 3 people,as i said.perth people are rude snobby and inconsiderate. what about all our effort???!!!they wouldnt be there if it wasnt for us staying online and making sure all their interest didnt go ignored.Its really getting to us just how selfish all these people are...we are considering taking a break but i reckon when we come back it will be just as bad...anyone else get that feeling?

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  RHP User

  19 years ago

  i really beg to differ on the subject of prefer slim girls with tans.... i hold parties (privately) of up to 80 people. I see the bigger...medium and smaller girls with the same amount of men.. Maybe your inviting the wrong people? When i first started off i was inviting the wrong people lol..trial and error niki

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  RHP User

  19 years ago

  looking at your pic there double you like you cant be more than a size 10? so what do these other women look like skin and bone with a six pack? i would have no problem moving close to you i do prefer a woman that has a little meat on her bones dont like soup bones. we love to come to one of your parties but live out of town and work away as well so never really get much chance to enjoy each other let alone mix it up with other couples but if the opertunity knocks you never know. tans is a little big only a size 14 and i think very sexy but she is very self consucious of her body which is an other thing that holds us back a little. one day it will happen. but double you look good enough to eat for me and tans dont give just do as mudusa dose be selective pick the right couples from what i hear her parties are great well cHeers everyone macca’s

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  RHP User

  19 years ago

  yeah i would be about a size 10-12....i drop and gain all the time...especially recently.But i am so self concious about it.I dont parade myself around..nor judge anyone...yes definatly a trial and error....why arent we getting invites medusa?LOL.I dont mind bigger girls they are usually alot of fun.I dont know what people expect anymore..as i said..the people here are just so rude and want fantasy land....time to come back down to earth i suppose.

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  RHP User

  19 years ago

  "why am i not suprised you made a sarcastic,obvious comment." A: You aren’t even the person, or couple?, who stated that "only a handful of people doing it". B: Regards the rest of your post have you ever considered the problem may not lay with, "everyone else..." C: Its so funny seeing you lot jump on my case every time i put fingers to keyboard when every comment i’ve had personally from people that acually do know me have said they look forward to my posts in here. There are just too many "xperts" who have no idea what they’re talking about lol. Have a nice day, and goodbye ;).

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  RHP User

  19 years ago

  hi there double the fun im anne anytime u and ur man want to catch up for a few drinks with me and my man we would love to have yous over i have put ads up for bi girls couples and etc and had know joy at it but we ar genuine and out to have a great time so let me know hun xxx anne

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