M46
gym pickups??
July 28 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
1) Communication is the key to the universe .. so maybe offer to buy the lady a nice fresh icy cold bottle of water at the end of the session might be a good start to what ever comes . 2) Not possible from my side .. Because I go to "Curves" gym .. and GUYS are a nogo there .. Best of luck in what you chose ..
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'm the same, I love watching a girl on a treadmill... that ponytail bobbing up and down... or a girl on a exercise bike set to 'cobblestone street' is also most pleasurable. I have never picked up there though, unfortunately most gyms have some sort of unwritten policy against setting up a deckchair on the footpath out the front. Seems stupid to me... what are the big windows for??
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RHP User
14 years ago
I am always getting in trouble from my PT for perving and not working on my own workout as hard as I could be. I fantasize about hooking up with one of the guys....but not that brave yet lol.
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RHP User
14 years ago
was at the gym today and looking at this girl across the gym.....swore she kept looking at me....then swore she smiled....then could've sworn she blew a kiss at me! Turns out her boyfriend was working out right behind me! haha i was just glad i didn't approach her and make an ass of myself! Had a good chuckle to myself about it though. Enjoying the comments guys - keep em coming!
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playful4u
14 years ago
The gym is a good place to meet single girls, but be prepared to workout in the gym area's where they are plentiful, such as treadmills etc and especially the group fitness classes (98% girls). Some basic tips: wipe down any equipment you use afterwards, use a nice deodorant and wear cool gym gear. Success story: I met a girl at the gym who became a great friend of mine, we would always have a chat at the gym which we both looked forward too every visit. We married a few years later and have been together ever since.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I stopped going to the gym because of the perves there! Makes me feel uncomfortable...if I want to pick up I will go to a club or bar not to a bloody gym! Also amazes me how many guys go the gym every day but all they do is sit at equipment and just gas bag! And you guys reckon us girls can talk!!!!! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Yeah I don't bother girls at gym they look too busy :( but damn I'd like to give them a good workout
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think im fantasizing at the thought of being stuck in a sauna with you after a PT Session Quoting 'mumme' I am always getting in trouble from my PT for perving and not working on my own workout as hard as I could be. I fantasize about hooking up with one of the guys....but not that brave yet lol. Quoting 'mumme' I am always getting in trouble from my PT for perving and not working on my own workout as hard as I could be. I fantasize about hooking up with one of the guys....but not that brave yet lol.
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RHP User
14 years ago
fantyfunI think im fantasizing at the thought of being stuck in a sauna with you after a PT SessionI think I would pass out in a sauna after a workout lol....spa sounds better.
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RHP User
14 years ago
My rule is I can look, but no touching. I've got a lot of female friends and some have expressed annoyance at being perved on in the gym, but some love it too, and go there to perve on guys. Personally, seeing a good looking girl with a great body is inspiration for me to work harder. Not to pick up at the gym, but to (and this might sound weird) be worthy of someone with a body like that.
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RHP User
14 years ago
OK.. if only they would shower in the men's change rooms. that's the time to pick up with all those post gym endorphins running rampant.Mind you.. there's enough action in the men's showers as it is... hehe.HugsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
As I am sweaty puffed and exhausted..err no, do not approach me ..I like to go, work out, and leave without chatting or meeting anyone I know.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Getting to the point in age where joining a gym is looking like it will have to happen, lifestyle is not cutting it for me to keep properly in shape. the concept is appealing, working out at the gym, then working out in the bedroom, generally would have a bit more stamina and flexibility especially the ones that do yoga. Where do i sign up?
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think seeing you hot and sweaty at the gym Del would be a huge turn, but hey that just me :)Quoting 'DeliciousCplBris' As I am sweaty puffed and exhausted..err no, do not approach me ..I like to go, work out, and leave without chatting or meeting anyone I know.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'd be receptive to being picked up at the gym. The suggestion of buying her a bottle of water is a cute one - I'd go with that! I'm more interested in the girls though and at the gym my gaydar goes completely haywire! Am I the only one who has that problem?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Out of all the gyms in the area I actually chose to join not the best, but the one with the hottest guys (and somehow also the most expensive ) I love going to the gym and having a good perve, all the while knowing damn well I am not gonna be approached while I am all hot and sweaty. I can have my fun, my workout goes quicker while I am imagining what I would like to be doing to those young hard bodies , and my heart rate stays up which stops the bloody cross trainer from trying to kill me by constantly increasing the resistance!
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deltoid
14 years ago
There was a period that lasted a number of years where I did not go out with a girl that I did not meet at the gym I was working in the gym at the time though, perks of the job. members picking up members at the gym does happen and often, no different to anywhere else people gather. One thing I found often works is going to the gym on a friday night, often the people mainly training Friday night are those that are serioius trainers and or single
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'tee_jay86' I think seeing you hot and sweaty at the gym Del would be a huge turn, but hey that just me :)Quoting 'DeliciousCplBris' As I am sweaty puffed and exhausted..err no, do not approach me ..I like to go, work out, and leave without chatting or meeting anyone I know. I lurve to be chatted up at the gym :) see you there TJ :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
great comments i'm loving hearing the different prespectives.... stranger76...i totally know what you mean.... SHMiss...but how would you feel if you WERE approached by one of those hot men you were perving on?? Deltoid....good tip, i'll give it a go...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Re: Lookn4abuddy How would I feel? It depends on the guy and the approach he took. I will never say never but at the same time I would rather be looking my best when I am approached. It's a confidence thing, but if he is attracted enough to approach me while I am working out then that's gonna make me feel great! Hmmm I may have to check if my gym has a unisex shower. Never know when it may come in handy!
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tamworthguy46
14 years ago
I've never realy chatted anyone up at the gym.....But I certainly have done some looking.....lets face it, gyms are like freaki'n lolly shops, so much temptation everywhere.....One of the classes I do sometimes I partner up with ladies !...all that sweating and panting.....You just can't help thinking about it....lol....just recently I was holding punching mits for a girl while she was sitting on the ground with her back to me, and she kept bumping into my cock with her head, I realy was trieng to avoid contact, but it just kept hapening......I'm not that vein to think she was doing it on purpose..............but what else am i supposed to think about.......I'm only human.....lol I love training with women !...lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
I always choose a spin bike facing the gym for that reason.Same thing with working out, sometimes there are glances exchanged. I quite enjoy catching some hot young thing staring at me in the mirrorUnfortunately, the ones who make it very obvious are the ones I wouldn't want to talk to. We have one guy in particular who has no personal body space, touches women inappropriately in just such a way that it is hard to complain about, and truly thinks he is doing no wrong. I confronted him recently and told him never to touch me again. The other women are saying they wish I'd included all of them in that request. With that in mind, if you are going to talk to women at the gym, be mindful of their body language. Maybe a simple compliment telling them that you see them often and are impressed by how hard they work. If they respond well then you can introduce yourself and take the conversation further.In terms of fantasies, I have one about our unisex spa and steam room
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playful4u
14 years ago
Quoting 'irresponsibility'In terms of fantasies, I have one about our unisex spa and steam room Hmm, ok I will bite irresponsibility, why not tell us more about this fantasy. I have often wondered about the unisex spa and steam room, it would be more adventerous if clothing was optional and one could just wear a towel in and then...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'irresponsibility'Unfortunately, the ones who make it very obvious are the ones I wouldn't want to talk to. We have one guy in particular who has no personal body space, touches women inappropriately in just such a way that it is hard to complain about, and truly thinks he is doing no wrong. I confronted him recently and told him never to touch me again. The other women are saying they wish I'd included all of them in that request. Easy up! I was just adjusting their underwear which I thought had crawled up their bottom and might have been uncomfortable. How was I to know it was a g-string, and that I shouldn't use my teeth
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RHP User
14 years ago
i know what you mean about wanting to look your best when youre approached. . but i think its a pretty awesome confidence when youre looking your worst! red faced, sweaty, huffing and puffing with hair everywhere , and STILL getting approached :Dmy gym is a bit of a mix, there was some nice eye candy there on monday night!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Some people go to the gym just to work out, some people like to be admired and others are more than happy if someone is to approach them. Be mindful that a smile when eyes meet may just be a friendly smile but eyes locking across the room more than once may mean something more (unless of course you have been staring at someone the whole class and their smile might then be an uncomfortable one). As someone who has met someone at the gym, I'd just say have your mind in gear and watch for the visual as well as non visual clues....and remember there can be a lot of adult fun had in a sauna, as long as no one walks in ;-)
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RHP User
14 years ago
a pick up from one of the hot guys I see in the two gyms I'm a member of... wow, what a great end to a awesome work out. I'm in a bit of an exercise funk at the moment, motivation is at an all time low, getting over some pretty serious illness and surgery, but what an awesome motivational tool a hot guy's promise of sex would be.... if he's got a great tool or knows how to use what he's got.... even better finish... whether it's all hot and sweaty straight up ripping off workoutshorts and just doing it standing up, or taking the time to shower and get clean, but still having that endophin tingle in your system..... either way would be awesome for me.... ohhhhhh jumping into the pool top cool off and letting it all come off.... what a great idea..... might go to the gym this afternoon......
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RHP User
14 years ago
The gym is like my second home. It is where I find the most peace. It relaxes my mind and when the endorphins kick in I close my eyes and think of very little. I wouldn't like to date anyone at the gym. The regulars are all fantastic people but too much like a second family. I also wouldn't want to have a fling with anyone there in case it went bad and then it would be uncomfortable for us. I do admit to flirting with a guy I see there every day but wouldn't want to put any pressure on in case it changed the dynamics. ( lucky he can't see my heart race when he says " Hi" ). For regular gym attenders though I think it is a bit like work and I wouldn't date anyone there either. I do admit to occasionally perving on a random male that comes as a guests who you never see again. I enjoy the culture of the gym, like minded people sharing a passion. I don't talk to people in the middle of their sets or when I can see they are really getting in to it. I suppose it's because I don't like being interrupted then either. There are a lot of people I admire at the gym because of their discipline and dedication to clean living. I also enjoy the people that get a new membership, go every day for a week and don't come back for 3 months. At least they are people having a go. All that aside....I have fucked lots of guys at the gym in my mind and that's where I like to keep it. Might account for that cheeky, shy smile you get from me when I look up at you when you give me that look that says" I know what your thinking" Lol!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I go twice a week. There are some nice ones in there that i'd love to chat with but never pickup the courage to do anything about it, after all if it goes horribly wrong I still need to go back there The gym I normally use has a strech area outside one of the group exercise rooms which has glass walls, so always good for a perve while streching.
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RHP User
14 years ago
lil_chef.....i'm pretty sure you'd look fucking hot red faced, sweaty, huffing and puffing with hair everywhere.... oh, and you'd look pretty good at the gym too ;)
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RHP User
14 years ago
hahahah!! well when you put it that way! i didnt think of that!us females are thinking we look like crap - no makeup, not dressed up or having hair done, no jewellery, no sexy shoes. . . but the guys are looking at us, post workout, thinking "thats what she'll look like once im finished with her, hells yeah":P
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'playful4u' Quoting 'irresponsibility'In terms of fantasies, I have one about our unisex spa and steam room Hmm, ok I will bite irresponsibility, why not tell us more about this fantasy. I have often wondered about the unisex spa and steam room, it would be more adventerous if clothing was optional and one could just wear a towel in and then... There are a few football teams that happen to do recovery in my gym's spa and steam room... The fantasy requires that all the little old ladies and all the not so little old men vacate the spa and steam room for a few hours, leaving it to me and just 2 of the football players. It also requires that they don't do any talking because I've heard them talk and it would ruin that fantasy. I'll let you fill in the gaps from this point onwards...Quoting 'Jean_Girard' Quoting 'irresponsibility'Unfortunately, the ones who make it very obvious are the ones I wouldn't want to talk to. We have one guy in particular who has no personal body space, touches women inappropriately in just such a way that it is hard to complain about, and truly thinks he is doing no wrong. I confronted him recently and told him never to touch me again. The other women are saying they wish I'd included all of them in that request. Easy up! I was just adjusting their underwear which I thought had crawled up their bottom and might have been uncomfortable. How was I to know it was a g-string, and that I shouldn't use my teeth Crikey, it really is you!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Lil_chef... you always seem to know what's on my mind ;) To be quite honest the women i notice more and find more attractive ARE the ones who go to the gym and work out, hard! I have no time or inclination to get to know the posey girls that come made up like they are going out on the town, hair and makeup all done, sit on the recliner bike for 20 mins ticking over at 60rpm while reading a fgossip magazine, followed by 5 minutes of ab work and stretching. Come on, if you're going to bother going to the gym, get something out of it. Also, if they're not willing to get down and dirty, hot and sweaty etc in the gym...chances are they won't in the bedroom either.... and i'm not into starfish! :P
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'HotSexyChilli' Quoting 'parttimedad78' Some people go to the gym just to work out, some people like to be admired and others are more than happy if someone is to approach them.... have your mind in gear and watch for the visual as well as non visual clues.... Working in the fitness industry, I can say people have varied motivations for working out and many are just gyming to pick up. While we like to think the majority of people are there for health, the truth is up to half of gym users are probably there for body beautiful and love to be recognised and admired. Lookn4abuddy, you can only please her by approaching, so if she's meeting your eye and engaging in flirty smiles you know she wants you, too As Deltoid says, it's "no different to anywhere else people gather" and, yes, I've been known to train seriously on Friday nights when there's far less people and the work out is fast and sharp. Personally, I'm in a gym to either work (in a paid capacity) or to work out and so I keep my head down and don't make eye contact. I must have a huge "don't fuck with me" zone around me as I'd only get approached maybe once a fortnight. The gym junkie regulars are most likely to approach me and when they do I'm always really friendly and polite but won't stop and chat for long unless I'm in my finishing stretching stage as I don't want to cool down. And even then, I'm such a shaking mess it can be a little deterring for people who don't realise they can push their body that far Only very confident guys approach me when I'm training and then it's usually with a serious question about the advanced core work I'm doing or the sport-specific weighted combat type of exercise I make up and gives the guy a good excuse to ask me all about it, which usually leads into a conversation about their own style of combat or military training. I love guys doing combat so I guess I actually do like their subtle pick up efforts while I'm training.... hmmmm I've never really thought about it that way before I still remember a US navy seal who tried to pick me up in a city council run gym not too far from where you live. I smiled all the way home remembering him telling me he hopes he will see me at the gym another time because he'd really loved meeting me... Was attached at the time so it wasn't appropriate to give him my number, but god damn, I always kept a sneaky eye out for him after that Chilli xx Still have the occasional gym fantasy featuring several navy seals in a gym spa... m mm mmmmmmmm Im sure it was good, Im just so glad to see you I had to come crash tackle you before I forgot what i was gonna say. MMMWWWaaahhhhh I've missed you Chilli
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RHP User
14 years ago
dont come near either of us while at the gym....we are there to work out, not socialise or have casual conversations.......if anything its a place to escape our kids and not think about anything other than the job at hand...........besides, smelly, sweaty bodies are hardly a turn on...............
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RHP User
14 years ago
I mainly do the yoga classes but love it when guys perve at me through the windows when I'm in compromising pissitions wondering what's on there minds ;) I'd def jump at the chance if u hit on me at the gym tho ;D nothing sexier than a guy with confidence but there's a fine line between confident n cocky :s hehe
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RHP User
14 years ago
I prefer to work out at home, but on my rare visits to the gym I'm usually too busy being annoyed by people misusing the equipment or acting like tools to focus on the scenery. Might try a more positive outlook next time.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I train at FF when I am home, and I must say there is a hell of a lot of eye candy floating around. (Nothing wrong with it)I also change up my routine, adding extra cardio by jumping into a spin class is good for the heart and also for the mind.There are also the wankers that are more concerned with their mohawks in the mirror and beach muscle workouts!!!!!It kind of kills any chance of normal people meeting others at the gym. (A few ruining it for the rest of us......)But at the end of the day, we are there to jack steel,if we meet new hot friends at the gym,that is a bonus!!!!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Give me sweat, muscles and motivation any way phewwww what a turn on for me! HUGE fantasy of mine..... Hence I spend a lot of time at the gym! Jks I go for other reasons, more that I spend a lot of Time at the gym fantasing :-) :-) :-) A
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RHP User
14 years ago
I don't really think there are any hard and fast rules on where you should attempt a pick up...lol...I have had no problems at all accepting a guy's number at the gym (mind you, he was a freaking hottie!). My last boyfriend was met at the gym as well...turns out he was a mechanic, and I was looking for someone to fix my car....hehe...I don't particularly like being pestered while trying to work out though....some don't know when enough is enough....You can have a bit of a flirt, but don't hang off them for the rest of the workout...you need to know when to move on...If you go to the same gym, chances are you are going to bump into each other again, and there will be plenty more opportunities to pick up!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Which gym. Volunteers will be queuing up. Funny, went out for a while with girl. Often met at the gym after work. Tip: never stand behind a curvy bum during pump. And careful what you look at if wearing lycra. Pressure pamts are dangerous. Or wear baggy pants ;-)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'lookn4abuddy'Also, if they're not willing to get down and dirty, hot and sweaty etc in the gym...chances are they won't in the bedroom either.... and i'm not into starfish! :PHahaha i agree with that totally, in my experience the girls who are scared to get sweaty are starfish experts indeed!!Nothing better than going to the gym and having great scenery, I've also thought about this subject often but always came back to 'naaah gyms aren't for picking up people are just here to workout'......but reading some of these comments i think i may have to try next time a sexy lady catches my eye!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Being a personal trainer i know all about this rule! Have to be very careful as its a very hands on industry and some of your clients love it but there are the few that dont!...Definetly can pick up at the gym as a lot of my clients being female have told me that they love coming for a perve and to work out of course!... And few have told me how them and friends have met people through gym whilst working out....Things they said they liked were guys who looked but didnt stare, Guys with good hygene, And guys who didnt attract a lot of attention by throwing weights or loud grunting!. End of the day if you decide to approach someone at the gym just be respectful and mindful that they may not want to be bothered whilst working out... Good luck : )
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'd be more than happy to be chatted up at the gym, I perve at the hot guys...makes me train harder...I train in the free weights area with the boys I dont do the "girly" stuff...someone cute suggesting a coffee wouldnt offend me in the slightest!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Who knows where that might lead, im always pumped after a workout!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I agree I go to the gym to exercise I do notice attractive women but I don't perve and I don't believe its a good place to chat up chicks.I hardly think I'm looking my best when I'm straining and sweating either.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I never approach a girl at the gym, Hell I hardly Even perve on them too much :D I feel that they are there to work out just like me but I must admit it's hard sometimes for the girls are always wearing such tight Lycra I mean one glance and and boom heart rate rising. But when I'm not in my Perth gym i I like to use the sauna afterwards and there has been a few occasions where I have got talking to a cute girl or sexy woman, So I'm going to go with if the opportunity for talking arises it is best after the work out. You feel satisfied and confident as will the girl if she has done a good work out and your endorphins are running through your system giving you a great mood best time I think :D Primal :D
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RHP User
14 years ago
I go to a womens only gym, thinking that the last thing i needed was distraction with all those hot men around at a standard "co-ed" gym. WRONG!!!!! Since i do love girlies too ....I have found that they are just as much of a distraction. From hardbodies to Kardashian juicy bums....oh my! There's one in particular and somehow she's always in front of me on the treadmills!!! I do love watching her work it.......erm....work out xxgoodgrl
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'HotSexyChilli' Quoting 'mikeandshel'..besides, smelly, sweaty bodies are hardly a turn on............... Then call me a freak, but I LOVE the look of sweat beads glistening on well formed pecs peaking out from the top of a tank top. It looks hot in the bedroom and hot in the gym. I've been known to lick sweat droplets from a perfect specimen or two as those pheromones dance onto my subconscious and primal radar... ... Which is another reason why I keep my eyes to myself at the gym - I'm there to work hard and earn my play time for later Chilli xx and just for the record the lapping sweat off a chiselled chest was not in a work context each to their own i guess....personally it does nothing for me.....having coached soccer at a reasonably high level, and finding myself surrounded by 14 or 15 sweaty and odourous young women at a time, I can honestly say that I found it to be overwhelming...lol...not arousing......Shels trained at competition level in previous years and like me, finds no time for sexy thoughts when at the gym....its all business....
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tamworthguy46
14 years ago
Quoting 'HotSexyChilli' Then call me a freak, but I LOVE the look of sweat beads glistening on well formed pecs peaking out from the top of a tank top. It looks hot in the bedroom and hot in the gym. I've been known to lick sweat droplets from a perfect specimen or two as those pheromones dance onto my subconscious and primal radar... ... Which is another reason why I keep my eyes to myself at the gym - I'm there to work hard and earn my play time for later Chilli xx Ohh stop it with that dirty talk.........licking sweat droplets !....and such...Your going to make me think about that, next time I'm at the gym !...But it's good to see you like the taste of pheromones.....mmmm That's the best ! XO Tam
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RHP User
14 years ago
Had a guy chat me up at the gym tonight actually.... He says "hi, you look hot, do you want a cool drink?" I said "man, I just got here & the pain is yet to begin... thanks, but I don't need a drink just yet!" he says "thats cool, how about I buy you a drink Friday then...?"LOL! smooth, really smooth....;)
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tamworthguy46
14 years ago
Quoting 'HotSexyChilli' I've gotta admit, Tam, that I'm kinda curious about the "and such..." you refer to... ??? Could it be that the "and such" tastes just as good as those intoxicating pheromones when it mysteriously appears, tantalising me until I slowly lap that small droplet up with my tongue and savour the man-juice flavour, making sure a whole heap more is gonna satiate my thirst??? Chilli xx sorry, getting all carried away fantasising.... and such OMFG....." I swallowed my chewing gum when I read that......!! yes the such could be that !...aparently its better if you drink a lot of pineapple juce !!! lol.... Actually I found the best tasing pheromones are under someones armpitt......It's a coincidence that someone else on here put me onto that !......You know who you are " you dirty bastard " !!! " damn The Chilli is HOT !! at this restraunt ".....Now I'm getting all carried away fantasising now and such ! XX Tam
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'lookn4abuddy' Also, if they're not willing to get down and dirty, hot and sweaty etc in the gym...chances are they won't in the bedroom either.... and i'm not into starfish! :PDo people starfish cos they dont like sex? Is it cos theyre lazy? Are they tired? shy?? boring??? ! I dont even know how to starfish. Even when im on the bottom and im being totally pinned/smothered! I push back up with my hips, scratch his back, wrap my legs around him, grab fistfuls of his hair, push his head back and bite his neck. . theres soooo many things to do! One time when i was at the gym this chick was there with her boyfriend. she had the workout gear on, lil gloves so weights dont slip. . not muscly at all, but quite slim. then she goes and gets one of the 1kg dumb bells and does one armed bicep curls. then does the other arm. whats the point!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I did lunch time or after work spin classes at a city gym for years, peeps like myself dash in go hard dash out. I'd gone only once on a Friday after work and it was not what I was used to, which is a full class and everyone focused and giving it their all. Instead it was 1/4 full, so I went to the back as did a couple other girls. The guy in front of us not only chatted to each of us (ignoring our closed body language), but spent half the bloody class with his head turning around trying to be funny hoping one of us would engage. Worst spin class Eva... Did muay Thai for 3 years in my early 20s, probaly only ever 10-15% being girls. I think I musta been there well over a year and somehow the trainer had owed me a massage for some reason, coz we always whinged about how badly we needed one. He is Thai and I know the crazy acrobatic 2 I had in Thailand, but this was not that and it had me in frozen shock when his hands were at my inner thigh not a cm from somewhere that if he crossed the line to I would have smacked him us best as I could someone who had probaly trained in the art for his whole life?! The only reason i did.or said nothing as he spent minutes (which felt too long) on each upper thigh, with me thinking yes massage, no he's gonna grop, could be q Thai thing..? Well with kicking and the everything it might have been ligit. And it hurt like hell too. So I choose the sport I loved ova wot that might have been and no thanks when he suggested another. And for me to refuse a free offer of massage, especially while I was a student is sad. I was talking to another girl and it came up and exact same. She was new so she didn't get to feel of the place enough to overcome how questionable it was, so she didn't come back after. I carried on and was ready to say something if he ever did anything else that creeped me out. In my mind I think it may have actually been beneficial as it was a pained area, but i reckon a handy angle for him to take advantage to... Lastly, really enjoyed salsa dancing classes, until u have to spend time with partners who are there it feels to be able to have close hold of females and because of them it made me dread those parts of the class when I'd have to touch someone that was ewwwwwww bummer
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RHP User
14 years ago
I recently met a lady at my local gym, I finished my workout and then talked to her for a bit, she was on the treadmill, then I followed her over as she stretched down, and we were flirting outrageously. mind you, our total conversation was all but a few minutes. We then went for coffee, and as she sat down in her car, I lent in a kissed her, and asked her would she like to come over to my place, all within a few hours. she came over shortly after and we had hot and wild post workout sex...fantastic!.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'BoobaliciousFG'I did lunch time or after work spin classes at a city gym for years, peeps like myself dash in go hard dash out. I'd gone only once on a Friday after work and it was not what I was used to, which is a full class and everyone focused and giving it their all. Instead it was 1/4 full, so I went to the back as did a couple other girls. The guy in front of us not only chatted to each of us (ignoring our closed body language), but spent half the bloody class with his head turning around trying to be funny hoping one of us would engage. Worst spin class Eva... Did muay Thai for 3 years in my early 20s, probaly only ever 10-15% being girls. I think I musta been there well over a year and somehow the trainer had owed me a massage for some reason, coz we always whinged about how badly we needed one. He is Thai and I know the crazy acrobatic 2 I had in Thailand, but this was not that and it had me in frozen shock when his hands were at my inner thigh not a cm from somewhere that if he crossed the line to I would have smacked him us best as I could someone who had probaly trained in the art for his whole life?! The only reason i did.or said nothing as he spent minutes (which felt too long) on each upper thigh, with me thinking yes massage, no he's gonna grop, could be q Thai thing..? Well with kicking and the everything it might have been ligit. And it hurt like hell too. So I choose the sport I loved ova wot that might have been and no thanks when he suggested another. And for me to refuse a free offer of massage, especially while I was a student is sad. I was talking to another girl and it came up and exact same. She was new so she didn't get to feel of the place enough to overcome how questionable it was, so she didn't come back after. I carried on and was ready to say something if he ever did anything else that creeped me out. In my mind I think it may have actually been beneficial as it was a pained area, but i reckon a handy angle for him to take advantage to... Lastly, really enjoyed salsa dancing classes, until u have to spend time with partners who are there it feels to be able to have close hold of females and because of them it made me dread those parts of the class when I'd have to touch someone that was ewwwwwww bummer we had a guy at the local who was hitting on the girlies....a real sleaze...he hit on the wrong one eventually...a friends daughter who happens to be a SERT officer with the Qld police....to say that she 'took him down' is an understatement.... but yea, no matter where you are there will always be those who will push the boundaries of decency and good behaviour.... where we go now is safe....we all have lanyards with a panic button around our necks, and the perves know well enough to stay away...while there may be an attratice element in hot n sweaty.............its got to be in an appropriate environment..
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Lil_Chef'Quoting 'lookn4abuddy' Also, if they're not willing to get down and dirty, hot and sweaty etc in the gym...chances are they won't in the bedroom either.... and i'm not into starfish! :P Do people starfish cos they dont like sex? Is it cos theyre lazy? Are they tired? shy?? boring??? ! I dont even know how to starfish. Even when im on the bottom and im being totally pinned/smothered! I push back up with my hips, scratch his back, wrap my legs around him, grab fistfuls of his hair, push his head back and bite his neck. . theres soooo many things to do! One time when i was at the gym this chick was there with her boyfriend. she had the workout gear on, lil gloves so weights dont slip. . not muscly at all, but quite slim. then she goes and gets one of the 1kg dumb bells and does one armed bicep curls. then does the other arm. whats the point!! the point is that the movement sometimes has as much benefit as the weight.....think about tai chi......its essentially the same movements as some of the forms within shaolin kung fu...but without any of the speed or effort, yet long time practitioners can increase fitness, flexibility and strength, without so much as lifting a weight.............this quite slim and not muscly at all 'chick' was a beginner perhaps? and lucky her if shes got all the gear....she'd be dong absolutely the right thing starting off small..... a 1 kg weight sounds fair... a bit light, but still fair.....
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RHP User
14 years ago
i always do shoulder presses and squats in front of the mirror so i can make sure im lifting evenly and see if im moving correctly. perhaps if she was less dolled up for her workout and didnt park herself in front of me i wouldnt have been shitty.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Lil_Chef'i always do shoulder presses and squats in front of the mirror so i can make sure im lifting evenly and see if im moving correctly. perhaps if she was less dolled up for her workout and didnt park herself in front of me i wouldnt have been shitty. i guess i have as much issue with the guys who are there and who posture and pose, while scouring the mirrors to see who is watching...if anything, its worthy of a little smirk, not derision. the 'aesthetics' of exercise can for some, include the attire......as for makeup? my wife doesnt leave the house without makeup...and that includes the gym. it might be a bit more discreet, but the makeups still there.......different strokes perhaps?
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RHP User
14 years ago
strongly agree teejay! I hate it when people i recognise want to stop and chat...... I come to gym to GYM! But i go on rhp to play :p
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RHP User
14 years ago
But theres a difference between checking your form and admiring yourself. I exercise for strength, not looks (I felt like a complete tool taking photos of myself to put online) and its a good idea to make sure you are using good form on heavy lifts, but I cant help but laugh when some douche is flexing in front of the mirror between sets of concentration curls.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I deliberately don't look at the women at the gym, I figure it's distracting to see yet another guy perving at them.But it can be difficult sometimes to stop the sound of my jaw clanging on the treadmill.
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RHP User
14 years ago
onlylivetwice... good for you for being respectful, i on the other hand will continue to enjoy the marvellous view of the hot sexy fit women at my gym, who i'm sure many of them if they are honest, love the attention they get from guys, as long as it doesn't cross the line. Most of them would probably be disappointed if they didn't catch the occasional guy stealing a glance. I think there's a big distinction between an admiring look or two from across the gym floor, and the seedy old/fat/sleazy guy that just stares and stares with his jaw dragging on the floor, or gets in their personal space. Sound to me like many of the women who have posted here wouldn't mind being perved on, or perhaps even approached, as long as the guy is hot enough! incanberranow.... great story! Straight out of my fantasy world there... maybe there is hope for the rest of us lol
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deltoid
14 years ago
While the gym can be a great place to pick up, a degree of common sense and respect also needs to be applied, two things some people unfortuantely don't have a lot off. If some one has their head down and arse up working hard or is otherwise clearly has thier mind focused on thier work out, then stay clear and let them get on with what they are doing. If some one is in a more relaxed pre/post work mode or less serious about their work then maybe they are approachable. If you can not tell the difference then probably best not to try and chat some one up in the gym. Also if you do happen to strike up a converstation with some one, DON"T sit around on equipement having your little chat, show some respect for other who maybe in serious training mode and wanting to use the equipment. As I state in an early post, a gym can be a great place to pick up and I have had success doing so, but I can also understand what some others have posted that the last thing they want when training is some one coming up with some corny pick up line.
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eh99a
14 years ago
I used to go to a local gym quite late when it was quiet. I got chatting to one girl a few times. One night we started flirting, so I idly said that I was going to hit the sauna for a while. A few minutes after being in the sauna she arrived and the flirting carried on ,,,
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RHP User
14 years ago
talking about her workout, tell her she looks like she knows what she is doing.Compliments are nice, an easy way to stroke a conversation is at the drink fountains if she is waiting behind you let her in front and go from there hehehe
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have loved reading all of the answers and points of view. I didn't realise so many people frequented the gym. Most of my friends think I'm a freak for going. Mr Wilko and I are regulars at the local gym, and I love my pump classes. Although the majority of attendees are female, there are always a few males and the people in my gym seem to chat a bit before and after (and sometimes during) the class, especially to the guys. If you've never done a pump class before and you want to break the ice with someone, go in 5 min early and find someone you like the look of, tell them you've never done a class before and ask what you need to do to set up. The regulars will always help a newbie and you might just pick the right person and make a connection. Maybe if you could discreetly check for a wedding ring first, it could help. I loooooove perving on the guys in the gym, and I would like to think that they were perving on me, but alas there are so many gorgeous and toned bodies around that I don't think I would even get a second glance, lol! It's ok though, I can just pretend :) Mrs Wilko
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eh99a
14 years ago
I used to go to the gym quite late and there was a girl I used to see there. We started having good-natiured conversation. After a few weeks, I noticed that instead of her wearing a t-shirt, she started wearing quite a tight sports bra and casually mentioned it to her. We started flirting, then one night she said that she fancied a sauna ..
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RHP User
14 years ago
Lookn4buddy I would love you to offer to but me a icy cold water after a workout anytime, I think having a hot gym at the gym actually makes me work out harder.I have at times felt uncomfortable being perved at, at the gym but think it does depend on who is doing the perving ;)
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RHP User
14 years ago
first time was legs workout, squats, weights, presses, lots of stretching, grunting and groaning.... extremely tight glutes, hammies and groins atm.... a few guys in there and two other women... two women who did bloody nothing that would be considered a work out.... ridiculous. I was sweating, red faced, shaking with the effort, laughing and joking around with my mates who I work out with... Second visit for cardio this afternoon.... everyone well into it, then in walked these two young things who did nothing but get on a bike and an elliptical trainer and just sorta made it go.... then they got into the gym and spent their time doing nothing but take up the machines.... lil chef's comment about 1kg weights and an inch of makeup.... totally right... difference would be however that men like women who work out that look great.... I've never had anyone try to pick me up.... sad face
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MegaSin
14 years ago
Quoting '88sexylegs88' I mainly do the yoga classes but love it when guys perve at me through the windows when I'm in compromising pissitions wondering what's on there minds ;) I'd def jump at the chance if u hit on me at the gym tho ;D nothing sexier than a guy with confidence but there's a fine line between confident n cocky :s hehe My mind races when I look through the glass at the ladies in their Gym tights.I'd be more than happy to share my thoughts ;)
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RHP User
14 years ago
I was at the gym last week on the x-trainer, working hard, in front of a window. I was looking out onto the street and, as it was just hitting dusk, I think it was a pretty good view in. Well, good or bad depending on what you're into I guess.Anyway, this super cute guy was in car waiting at lights down below, he was probably laughing at me, but he did grin and wave, and I waved back. I choose to think he was admiring the bounce of my bosum. He could have hit on me! Really, lookswise, right up my alley.Except for that, usually I'm red and sweaty and, whilst feeling great (thanks endorphins) I'll be looking absolute crap, and have no desire to even flirt whilst I'm at the gym. Just because someone isn't pouring with sweat doesn't mean they're not working out.I'm not one of them but I have no problems at all with a woman wanting to get dolled up to go the gym. It doesn't impact on my at all, and if they're sitting on but not using a machine I want, I'll just ask if I can step in and do my set and be on my way. To much bitterness and jealousy in this world.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have never bothered trying to pick up at the gym, usually just have a good perve. But I think I might try from now on after seeing these comments...
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RHP User
14 years ago
It was when I got on the treadmill, started up ok then looked at the hot guy beside me I pressed the fast button,shot off the tread mill into a bench press thing, rolled over that hit the weights and got a wedgie when a muscle guy picked me up by my pants. I am just too sexy for my own good at the gym I like to go on the treadmill, put the music up loud and sing out of tune very loud Nobody likes to make eye contact with me at the gym They all start to leave when I walk in. I know they just are jealous of my Lycra , and my head band and my leggings Its my look the Olivia Newton John look. The camel toe really drives men nuts!
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