RHP

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getting into the swing of things

August 29 2010

Hi everyone... i was just wondering, my husband and i are getting into the whole couples / swingers and group thing and sorta would like advice as to how to go about it??? sorta like unwritten laws and such maybe?? cheers

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Well first of all a couples profile would definately help! Sit down with each other and come up with some of your own rules - like what each other wants and will do and what you wont do and stick to it. When you do go swinging, sit down and talk about the night as it actually brings you so much closer. Start with just meeting people for drinks and see if you all click and then you can have fun. But most of all respect yourself and your partner and talk! Have fun! Pusscat xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    We really do need a Miss Manners Guide to Swinging....lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    thanx for the advice... we have talked for a great length about it... i guess easing in would be the way, sorta weeds out the time wasters and such, trouble is down bunbury way, theres not a lot of people who swing that we can contact...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    wowld love to show and please both of you its good fun all round and relaxing fun fun fun

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    What advice we would give is no advice. We all know are limits, etc follow your own heads not what others advise as we ARE all different

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Yes we are looking at swinging too, i havnt gotten much on couples in our area either Lilmanda. We also have discussed things at great lenght, just getting to the next step is where we are at

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    well this is our couples profile now, and lilmanda is now one half of loudzzz... and thats exactly where we are at too, discussed it and keen to try, husband and I first and foremost want more friends wether that be for play or just relaxing with, and yes there is a massive shortage of couples activities here in souwest

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    and dont you just hate it when you cant reply because you havnt paid a membership and so your message button is broken :(

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Minx_MXrider' and dont you just hate it when you cant reply because you havnt paid a membership and so your message button is broken :( The reply buttons still works though!!! The auto-reply, quick-reply, reply and template reply.Hugs... Mrs P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    maybe email?? not sure ifwere allowed to post it here tho, ive attempted it a few times but doesnt seem to work

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    or click that box thingy lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Minx_MXrider'emails or click that box thingy lol Yeah & if they're paid up Premium plus or platinum, they'll be able to read it Aaahhh.... hugs... Mrs P