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getting ditched

November 27 2009

Hi guys just wondering how many chances u would give someone who ditched you? Ok the story.........................we met a guy who seamed really interested about coming over to play. After him begging to come over we said ok come over but wait until 10 so know kids are sleeping. He didn’t end up coming over and when I asked what happened he said he got to drunk and didn’t want to make a dick of himself. well we invited him over 3 more times and we still haven’t seen him but he keeps asking when he can come over......................we organised to play with a couple who we are friends with. I was so excited we mucked around when I was preg. id packed our bag with my cute outfits and toys only to find out they organised to play with someone else the same night and told us they were to tired................just this week had a couple ask when we were going to hook up. Told them come over 4 a swim and c what happens while sons at school. They sent a message on msn saying they’d b over in an hr or so. So got organised 4 them 3 hrs later they were on msn just chatting to us about hooking up. I said thought u were coming over today they went oh we can come over now. To late had to get son. The next day they sent a text asking us to go to there place to play we couldn’t. they invited us up there today but now we find out they are going away.........................thank god we met a awesome person from here who actually came over when they said they would and played or id be y bother trying when we get ditched........starting to get a complex I think we are nice and worth plating with.

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RHP User

16 years ago

so many of them on here...singles pretending to be couples, the list goes on....promises promises one strike your out they will screw with you again and again

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RHP User

16 years ago

ONE and ONLY chance no second goes.. Why waste your time with people with lame excuses not to play? Your obviously here to hook up with REaL PLAYERS and i mean real players as in those who actually hook up and play.. Not these people who think they are players.. To me real players are those who play the real game no head games no excuses.. The guy who said he was to drunk blah *gone* he new he was meeting you to play why go and get drunk specially after he begged to come play..He has no form!! To the first couple BLAH liars if they are friends they wouldn't of lied to you.. And last couple blah.. Doubt hey was interested..Is all a mind game by sounds of it... Saying it how i see it from reading your post.. Its hard to find genuine people..But there are some out there somewhere... Nothing wrong with you at all Ballinacpl they the ones with the problems.. Goodluck in finding real PLAYERS TIT

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RHP User

16 years ago

I think it depends on how excited you are about them. You know, some people seem to like being treated with contempt... while others just seem to be here to fuk up your day. hehe. Dats internet dating for you. Hugs Gaz

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RHP User

16 years ago

yea these many pepole on net who say they want to play then chicking out at the last min.. but we have find a nice couple one here so we wont give up... everything u said tit is what we think also i'st their lost not ours..

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RHP User

16 years ago

not u gorgeous at all! dont kno y people bother doing this ... wot a waste of time & a big annoyance. must b even more frustrating when u have kids to work around. its a damn shame that there are so many of these types on rhp - makes it disheartening for us hot, up front play mates that like to be organized! i had one guy email, text & call me for weeks & then on the night we were meant to met up didnt hear from him..he contacted the next day saying "I didnt do much last nite babe" ...???? then did the same again the next time... weirdo no.1 another who was meant to meet me out on sat nite, text me to ask where & wot time, i txt bak, got no response, txt bak again & still no response (also in my too hard basket) then he has the nerve to text me on mon to ask me how my nite was & tell me his phone was broken with HA HA after text after it..??? weirdo no.2 guy number 3 decided he wanted a phone buddy & called & text me almost eveyday for a few weeks with no suggestion of a meet...i got the shits & told him i was not up 4 this ... i dont have time for idol chit chat 4 weeks on end with someone i have never met b4. makes u wonder wot some people r on here 4... i dont take it personally tho as how can i when these people havnt even met me yet! u should not take it personally either - some people r just strange my rule now is one chance & ur out. I am also much more concious of giving out my number & arranging meets util i have a certain amount of confidence that the person is decent & reasonably reliable In saying this i have also met a few great people who have been 'the real deal' & they will get there just desserts!!! ha ha

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RHP User

16 years ago

In response to mizzjane09.. I am "weirdo no.2" We had messaged, sms'd and swapped private galleries and from what I had seen and the "discussions" we had, I was really looking forward to catching up - she seemed like a nice, fun girl which is exactly what I was looking for. The Saturday night we were supposed to meet up - and I know this is the shittest excuse but it's true - my Iphone died (apparently it's water damaged). Anyway, I wasn't able to find a replacement until Monday at which point I sent a message to mizzjane09 with the above explanation and an apology. The response from mizzjane09 was basically a condensed version of her post above. I sent another message on RHP to apologise but I didn't receive a reply. I've since met other girls from this site and while I won't name names, I'm sure they would confirm that I'm the real deal. Fake profiles and pretenders are to be expected on sites like this. It's a little disappointing to be viewed that way when it's so far from the truth. Again, mizzjane, I apologise.

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RHP User

16 years ago

I think as Gaz has highlighted, thats internet dating.Unlike the old days, where you had to front up "IN person" and have the balls to get things going.The net has made it sooooo much easier to get connected with people, and made it sooooooo much easier for people to be faceless and use the net to stroke their ego's.This allows a heap of "Posers" into the playing field.So this is how we will be playing it out-We have kids and only get out a few times a year. When the next opportunity arises, i will be inviting EVERYONE out- for drinks ONLY! i believe this will take the edge off and make it very non threatning. If no one turns up, stiff shit we are going to have a great time anyway. If everyone turns up, cool, it's party time, with no need to commit, but if you do hit it off and want to play, then a quick whisper in the ear letting them know, can soon see you having more fun.This does one of two things, one it allows you to suss out the guy/couple, and see if there is a spark and attraction, and if he / they are what they say. Two it allows you to flirt and build up the anticipation, which to me is rather exhilirating.We are actually looking to go hit the tiles in a few weeks time with some brisbaneites, so we shall see what happens and let you know

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RHP User

16 years ago

We just had to cancel a play date due to secret womens business..ladies u know what i mean..it came 1 week early.. We haven't had that yet, i can normally pick the time wasters then just right click block on msn.. Till next time

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RHP User

16 years ago

we understand that young_explorers and the part of them saying they will be there and not turning up n then ring u the next day asking when can they come around to play again... I mean i am sure u guys ring up and explan why. Some things like that u can not help but just not turning up bit and then ring the next day acting like nothing happen and want to know when they can play with us is what i mean....

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RHP User

16 years ago

After 14 yrs of marriage my wife started getting love letters from other men and she also sent them posed pics of herself in her bra.what the fk is that,needless to say the marriage is over...but why go behind your husbands back.at least some HONESTY would of made the break up a bit less painful ......thoughts anyone

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RHP User

16 years ago

I think nearly all member of RHP have had their fair share of 'no shows'. I know I have. It's never easy, sitting around waiting for phantoms to turn up. Especially when the lead up conversations are that they're keen as mustard to meet. I think by allowing countless encore meetings to occur, only to have them 'no show' on each occasion is simply perpetuating the insecurities in yourself. I agree 'shit happens' and first dates might end in a no-show. But they'd wanna' ring or at the very least SMS why? After that, if they don't meet for a second time, it's time to move on. The other person is likely a fake or fraud, a tyre-kicker or day-dreamer, inconsiderate or incapable of being completely forthright and simply not worth your precious time anyhow. With so many people here and out in the 'real world', we shouldn't allow ourselves to be 'led down the garden path' by 'no shows' all the time. I say, "once... maybe?... twice a no show... forget it!"

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