RHP

RHP User

M56

gay for over 20 years mid life crisis and want to find a couple

October 08 2012

Hi people Im new to this site and looking for some answers. Basically i came out at 21 as gay, never been with a woman and rarely find any women sexually attractive. But lately Im finding myself more and more into the idea of sex with a male and female, mainly cause im nervous as hell to be with a woman on my own. What Im finding (at least on other sites) is so many guys wanting to play with me and promising a meet up with himself and a partner yet it never comes through.Are there really any true bi couples out there or is it just an urban myth? I love men of all ages and sizes and want to learn/ explore this new side to my sexuality yet the offers just arent happening. Im not sure why, plenty of women have come onto me when im out and about, same as plenty of men but never together. what gives?Thanks

Comments

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    13 years ago

    Dilemma!!! Not in the same boat BUT reckon you might have some luck on this site. Play safe and be careful though, I'm new here too and it has been a tad overwhelming and intimidating.   You're curious, it's only natural....OS

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Hang in there mate. I'm certain you can find what you're looking for on this site but it's going to take some time, effort and a frustration or two/three/eleven. Patience and persistence are routinely rewarded here when the right person/people come along. I suggest getting to know people online and try to sell them on your personality, not just your curiosity. Though the curiosity is an excellent start, I think there will be a couple or two out there who will be really turned on by the idea of "turning" a gay man. ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    because you are gay. I know a few bi men and I know they wouldn't fuck a gay man as they only ever play with other bi men. I think it's something to do with their masculinity as gays are perceived through main stream society as being a bit on the queen side. I'm not labeling all bi men as it's just what I have seen. Saying that though I am sure you will find what you're looking for on this site. Happy hunting hehehe

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    thanks people starting to get a few cool couples messaging me so let ou know how it goes.To inspirit funny how men are so different when no girls are around lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Your profile says you're gay and you're unsure about MF couples.   Reading that as a woman makes me think you'd want to do my man with me sitting in a corner feeling very left out.   Maybe rephrase that a little?   And what are "severe drug takers"? Intravenous ice users?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'DeviousMissM' Your profile says you're gay and you're unsure about MF couples.   Reading that as a woman makes me think you'd want to do my man with me sitting in a corner feeling very left out.   Maybe rephrase that a little?   And what are "severe drug takers"? Intravenous ice users? Thanks Id rather be the one in the corner watching at this stage, getting an idea of what you straights get up to. I know that sounds pervy, but it is what it is. Truth is i would be concentrating on the guys physical appearnace and attitude. i love watching Big guys fuck woman. I want to get into it but need a good hetero male teacher, they must be out there as over the years Ive taught many a straight man to take and suck cock.As for severe drug takers its in reference to the gay guys in Perth that have to get out of it to have sex, they know who they are

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'rg1234' As for severe drug takers its in reference to the gay guys in Perth that have to get out of it to have sex, they know who they are Sorry, I read that comment as "I do a bit and I don't care if you do a bit, as long as you're not an addict".