RHP

RHP User

M63 F65

for couples

May 02 2011

what led you to Red Hot Pie? what was the journey (whether it be of discovery or fantasy) that made you join the site and begin to play? please tho, this is a question I am asking of couples (M+F) who play together, not of singles, as thats a different question entirely.......

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    We joined RHP to meet other couples to swing with. Fantasy / discovery dont know. How about sex with others is fun and a little bit naughty. there was no need for either of us to explore our sexuality we know what sex we like. Forums after being a member for 5 years we looked at them, after being swinging for quite a while.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    In the end curiousity became the better of us.... We tried at a club down the Gold Coast and once tasted what it was about, wanted to advance and know more what else went on behind the scenes as people dont discuss openly about swinging we went on the search ourselves. We have tried other sites but really none are quite like RHP.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    HiFor us, swinging was something we talked about for a good few years before actually doing anything about it; after all, talking about something and actually doing it can be completely different things. We've been together for almost 17 years and we came to realise that love and sex were separate things. Sure, they come together just as easily as they separate but ultimately, they are different. We think of it rather like breakfast: We happily eat the same breakfast of toast every day, knowing its filling, good for us and satisfying. But sometimes, we fancy a full-on English breakfast complete with sausage, eggs, bacon etc and it leaves us feeling sated, contented and just a little bit naughty having thoroughly enjoyed something a little bit different. The next day, we return to toast breakfast, remembering the memory of the day before but embracing the toast with renewed vigour.It's a rather bizarre analogy admittedly, but it works for us. Once we accepted it was okay to want something different sometimes and established that it was something we wanted to explore as a partnership, the rest was just about having the courage to do something about it. We tried a club but found it wasn't really for us; we wanted a more personal and intimate experience. So we signed up with RHP, understanding we would have to just 'start cooking'. Which we did! And here we are.Good question, thanks for posting.Jak

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Always wanted to be a fly on a wall at a swingers party So my lover at the time (now husband) said "I'll take you to a party if you're serious" so we went along and I enjoyed the sexy atmosphere, the friendly people and the feeling of freedom walking around naked gives me. One week while Mr.Passionatepair4 was away on business I search the web to find a site and signed us up and created our couples profile... when he came home I told him I had a surprise and he would either be very happy with me or I may be in trouble. That was 3 years ago in June and we have met some of the loveliest couples you could ever hope to share your bed with! We have so much fun when we play and the reclaiming of each other at the end of the night or next morning if we're totally shagged is fantastic, the sex just keeps getting better! If only I'd known about swinging earlier...lol... my lingerie collection would take up more than just one wardrobe. I enjoy reading the Forums most days and I always recommend them if I chat to a new member as they can be so funny, educational and the hot sexy stories have been working a treat, it's also enlightening regarding other couples compatibility. Hugs, Shell ooxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'InAdditionTo' HiFor us, swinging was something we talked about for a good few years before actually doing anything about it; after all, talking about something and actually doing it can be completely different things. We've been together for almost 17 years and we came to realise that love and sex were separate things. Sure, they come together just as easily as they separate but ultimately, they are different. We think of it rather like breakfast: We happily eat the same breakfast of toast every day, knowing its filling, good for us and satisfying. But sometimes, we fancy a full-on English breakfast complete with sausage, eggs, bacon etc and it leaves us feeling sated, contented and just a little bit naughty having thoroughly enjoyed something a little bit different. The next day, we return to toast breakfast, remembering the memory of the day before but embracing the toast with renewed vigour.It's a rather bizarre analogy admittedly, but it works for us. Once we accepted it was okay to want something different sometimes and established that it was something we wanted to explore as a partnership, the rest was just about having the courage to do something about it. We tried a club but found it wasn't really for us; we wanted a more personal and intimate experience. So we signed up with RHP, understanding we would have to just 'start cooking'. Which we did! And here we are.Good question, thanks for posting.Jak no... not bizarre at all.... clever really... thank you.....lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'passionatepair4u' Always wanted to be a fly on a wall at a swingers party So my lover at the time (now husband) said "I'll take you to a party if you're serious" so we went along and I enjoyed the sexy atmosphere, the friendly people and the feeling of freedom walking around naked gives me. One week while Mr.Passionatepair4 was away on business I search the web to find a site and signed us up and created our couples profile... when he came home I told him I had a surprise and he would either be very happy with me or I may be in trouble. That was 3 years ago in June and we have met some of the loveliest couples you could ever hope to share your bed with! We have so much fun when we play and the reclaiming of each other at the end of the night or next morning if we're totally shagged is fantastic, the sex just keeps getting better! If only I'd known about swinging earlier...lol... my lingerie collection would take up more than just one wardrobe. I enjoy reading the Forums most days and I always recommend them if I chat to a new member as they can be so funny, educational and the hot sexy stories have been working a treat, it's also enlightening regarding other couples compatibility. Hugs, Shell ooxx sensational...all good... we are trying more and more wonderful things, but only wish we had more weekends free for fun...lol