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first time anal sex...
February 14 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
And just when you feel relaxed, relax some more. Then relax more again and relax again and enjoy it. If you're not enjoying, it just won't happen. Don't force it just because you think you want it or that it will please him. It you think that way IT WON'T BE PLEASANT. If you're not a naturally wet girl, use lots of lube. When it happens, OH MY GOD!!! IT HAPPENS!!!!!!!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I used to bug this particular girl for anal... she had a bum.. BEGGING to be done One evening, I get home from work.. and she is in a gorgeously attentive mood.. She says... "Babe: go shower and get into bed ready for me - I am ready to try this anal thing!" Fck yeah!!! I get myself clean and hot and horny.. I hear her in the shower herself... and fluffing around in the bathroom.. I swear, she was humming as she walked into the bedroom... Carrying a large bottle of PJUR Smiling an EVIL GRIN Sporting a 10 inch STRAP-ON
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RHP User
13 years ago
Good for you! It takes a real man to accept the full 10" of throbbing cock in his butt. Bet it hit the back of your throat. Yeah?- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hello tallcurvy, there are some interesting and informative questions that that have been answered before on his forum. However as an overview..... You need to clean yourself out first, you can buy enema kits from the sex store. As first time you could try fingers first, then work your way up to more. Small butt plugs perhaps. You need to go slowly at first until you get past the first ring of fire, lol, the first lot of muscles. Lube is recommended. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
...to wear the damn strap-on inside out. After taking the big 10 inch in the front door...she would have barely noticed anything else invading from the rear. Plan your work...work your plan.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Anal Eze. $8.95.
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RHP User
13 years ago
:)
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RHP User
13 years ago
There are anal training kits available too, basically various sized butt plugs that you can progress through until you acquire the muscle stretch you require ;) and desensitizing sprays, jojoba extract lubes,etc may be of some help.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Meeka, thanks so much- i appreciate your advice although ring of fire...scare the crab out of me! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Crap ...not crab...there are no crabs.....oh shit i give up.. :-(- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well, I'd suggest foreplay, foreplay foreplay... and some lube.Use gloved fingers if clean out and etc not possible and work your way to something bigger.... not the 10inch strap that Cavey spoke ofThe emphasis is on trying it and building up enjoyment, not rip me another one and be forever put off..Safe Analing
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Messolonghi' Anal Eze. $8.95. Seriously! I wasn't kidding.....
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RHP User
13 years ago
once.
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RHP User
13 years ago
To relax and play with your clit, best advice I was ever given- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Go to the sex shop and you can buy a anal lube with a numbing agent in it , best money you will ever spend ! Just takes that Initial edge off ! Then you will love it .
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RHP User
13 years ago
Explore first, lots lube, slow, see how far you can go, break that initial barrier of pain/discomfort, use fingers, perhaps toys.. No rush, there are no specific "rules" if you are cool beyond that by all means try the "real deal" ;) Some people will go back for more, others won't, you won't know until you try it ;) Enjoy! TD&H- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hey tall and curvy, what no body else has told you is there is a few sets of muscles to work through first before you actually can enjoy it. Try taking control and backing onto him until its in there and you feel comfortable, trust me if he has done it before properly this will turn him on because it means your ready for him. once you both know its sliding well you can get a little more adventurous... Dont worry about enemas only the porn stars get to do that, you knwo your body cycle and if its not a good idea its not a good idea simple as that. I was once told "if you play with fire you will get burnt" so very true, jsut try not to be embarressed, if he is a real man he wont say a thing..... Anyway that is my advice....... Oh and use ALOT of LUBE, i hope this helps you out girl, i had to ask a gay friend when i first was faced with the dilema
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RHP User
13 years ago
so true about relaxing, my gf's do enjoy it, but slowly at first then i can go harder. plenty of lube helps too. nothing like being in her arse & feeling a vibe or dildo in her pussy from the inside i enjoy a finger in the arse when getting head, but a 10" strap on, i dunno????
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RHP User
13 years ago
We have found that the best way to relax, is to start small.A small vibrator will help relax the muscles - make sure it is small and smooth.Then gradually get bigger, and go slow.You can also try a few different sized butt plugs.Once the muscles have relaxed, you are ready to play......slowly haha
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thank you so very much you are all so great and helpful~ truly appreciated! - Posted from rhpmobile
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