RHP

RHP User

M51 F52

first swingers club visit

February 13 2023

Hello all, would it be possible for you all to give us some pointers for first visit to a swingers club and pointers to have a successful visit. Would love to know dress code and what not to do as well. Thanks

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    Are you thinking Infusions, 103 or Sensationz? . Each has a very unique vibe and therefore clientele. 😉 . To be honest, the best thing to do . . . is just go with ZERO expectations. Sex/Swinger clubs are intimidating, and they can be a little ‘cliquey’. .. Just “attending” and not playing the 1st time, is the best way to approach it. It certainly is a lot of fun just watching how others ‘play’ 🔥 .. Please ask any specific questions if you are curious about any of the 3 clubs in Perth. 😎

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    3 years ago

    Just walk through the door ,that’s the hardest part the rest is easy when you find the people on the other side of the door are Just normal people same as yourselves Mr b

  • ReyandJean

    ReyandJean

    3 years ago

    Swingers on Reddit has a lot of answers to this question, if you're interested in a broad view and reviews of first nights by beginners. Most important, decide if you want lots of extra males. Choose your night appropriately. Dress code varies on the night/club. Many don't dress down in the bar area. Some require more skimpy attire in play areas. No one is going to force you into sex. Travel at your own pace and don't be afraid to tell people what level you are comfortable participating at (even/especially if that's just drinks and chat at the bar). They'll appreciate the heads up. Take it easy on the Dutch Courage. Keep checking in with each other and confirming you are both behaving within agreed boundaries. Cruise the play areas. Many swingers appreciate voyeurs and being one is likely to heat you up, too. Remember, sex is good fun. Have a hoot.

  • JohnAnn2227

    JohnAnn2227

    3 years ago

    Hi, Wear something sexy but what you feel comfortable in. You can't go wrong with heels and a LBD. Wear some knew secy lingerie. For your hubby get him in a pair of chinos and a polo/ shirt sleeve shirt. Nice shoes not joggers. Have a couple of drinks before you go to calm your nerves but don't get drunk. Communicate, discuss boundaries and have a safeword. Set a simple goal such as "we are going to at least get naked in the spa and chat with people" or " we are going to get naked and play together in the group room without swapping". Just keep checking in with each other and remember no means no. Good luck!