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fingering

March 05 2012

Ok ladies, this might just be me, so tell me , do most new men that venture down your pants, whether by mouth or hand touch you too delicately ?I l love the initial soft touch, a huge build up ( drool) and long slow kisses, but damn if you get me that hot, you better ramp up the passion down there .I am not talking slapping or biting, more hmmmmm firm passion with sucking and hard pussy kisses or putting your whole hand down there (*not up there just down there) rubing and smearing my wetness everywhere , that sort of thing , not little flicks and licks!I know guys get told to be more gentle, and I do appreciate the build up and care they are showing , but once turned on, my pussy can take a pounding :) btw fingering is high on my list of all time favorite activities, I list it on the census form , a highy under rated activity !!!

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    use the heel of your hand, that is a good way to get a woman going.   I have people digging around down there like they lost there bloody wedding ring or something. my pink bits a very senstive   Just warm them up and then blow on them to cool them and then lap away and then, what? what day is it? I must have gone into a trance? umm where were we?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Dont forget that the thumb is a magnificent tool when playing with a ladies smoo...... It's easier to hit the g spot using the good ol tom thumb!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I am squirming in my seat just reading the word. Gush :p

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    One of my favorite past times is running the tip of my nose from arse to clit with my tongue following behind..,,,,

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    with you delicious.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    ladies most men are gentle because, A. we don't want to hurt you. B. We know it can drive you nuts lol and we aren't mind readers, let them know what you want grab his hand or shove his head down there. If their anything like me they will think they have woken the beast within think all their xmasses have come at once.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    always ensure the nails are clipped and filed and then pay attention to her reactions, if she isnt enjoying it, then be more gentle, if she is, go harder... lolA bit of study gets me a long way too.... now that is one subject that i dont mind do0ing my homework for,...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Play it by ear...if the light touch is not doing the job, try a different tact...surely there aren't people silly enough to keep hammering away with the same approach hoping it'll eventually work??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Mr Inadditionto plays guitar and I swear, hand on heart, nimble musicians fingers are sensational...gawd! I think so long as a playmate starts slow and gently, there's scope to take it up a notch or two (or more) once I'm all hot an heavy...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I think it's high time you lot made an instructional video, or diagrams or something. I mean, you know we men love to tinker, but when all else fails we look at the instructions. It's a man thing. RHP instructional videos made by the women of RHP. It's for your own good ladies. Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    can't get enough, and yes using the heel of your hand is very nice

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    One of my favourite past times too- census activity lol!!!About 1-2 minutes of gentle desensitising and then steadily increase the level to just bearable, maintain it til I cum. Love people hell bent on making me squirt, whether I do or not doesn't matter it's the violent finger frigging that makes me whimper, squirm backwards, arch my back, raise my bum of the bed and uncontrollably say Oh fuck! (again and again) overwhelmed by the never ending amazement as to how good pleasure and pain at the same time feels- that does it for me. Awww!!! (frustrated tone) makes my bits ache and throb just thinking about it! Now I need a bath.If they are being too soft I just flip em over, mount their faces and control the level of smearing and grinding- allowing them to breath at times of course ;)What's wrong with slapping and biting Cass xxx My FIFO man- 6 days down/ 8 to go ( it feels like a very long hitch this time.)

  • avidmale

    avidmale

    14 years ago

    While I do enjoy giving a good finging... it has happened that a finger has been described as .. 'too wriggly'.. and id like to think it wasnt the way i was doing it. A viideo? Stalks, great idea mate.. "If they are being too soft I just flip em over, mount their faces and control the level of smearing and grinding- allowing them to breath at times of course ;)"This doesnt happen enough in my opinion :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    So I should not start off with a donkey dong gaffer taped to an old blade on my reciprocating saw (DeWalt of course)?..Bloody hell. I'd just like to say sorry to all the women I got it wrong with..~cracks knuckles~

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    If you have gotme in the mood and kissing there is nothing quite like having that middle finger put in an appearance.   And I loooooove firmer pressure. Take me to another planet!!!! Heavenly <3

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    i find that bringing your finger back to your own lips and tasting that lovely woman before returning the finger usually heightens what the woman is feeling.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Personal preferences vary too greatly. Jenny Lee likes it soft. She says that too hard for too long sends her numb and she'll never get off. My previous wife liked four fingers rammed into her as hard as possible and one of our new FWB's is somewhere in the middle and likes a vigorous fingering with one or two digits.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'zackary9' i find that bringing your finger back to your own lips and tasting that lovely woman before returning the finger usually heightens what the woman is feeling..... Goes weak at the knees ...

  • RogueGeek

    RogueGeek

    14 years ago

    It seems most guys (and even some girls!) are just too hard on me :(And some buys, once they get into doing something you have to hit them on the head to get them to change..."Oooohh, can you be gentler?""But I am being gentle""Just ease off a bit""But I am being gentle""OUCH THAT HURTS" Duuuuuhhhh... If I ask you to go gentle then GENTLE THE F**K UP!!! Sorry... I'm still to learning to speak up about what I do and don't like during the act...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    One of my favourite moves.. I'm a musician as well and I do agree with Inadditionto, guitarist finger's do get a fantastic response :) A# td&h

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    with you Delicious and a a good grinding while face fuking

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    They're probably like that after experiences with girls like ms at 69 and myself who are awfully sensitive to direct contact and prefer a gentler touch. Much the same way that some guys like a firm grip and others less so. Lubricant is the key :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'multiples_xxx'What's wrong with slapping and biting Thats what i say - Mrs Ruf LOVES the playful biting, slapping and spitting on haha.Then i get out the big guns, and alternate with the rough play with a soothing Corona!YUM

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I've found that those who start off slow and tease all around the big C get me worked right up and when I can't stand the tease any longer I'll grab their heads and demand whole mouth action with the big C needing lots of hard attention.   I've had a lot that have just gone straight for the spot and that has put me off immediately to the point where no matter how soft or hard they try, it won't happen, ever!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    InAdditionto is right,musicians fingers...oh my. They know exactly what to do, when to go slow, and when to go fast and when to alter the pressure. I like being played like a fiddle... well, more like a double bass ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    one past girlfriend cold only cum if she fingered herself with my dick, another came after about 60 seconds a real screamer, my last wife took about 30 minutes

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    This topic takes me back to the sweet old days when I used to finger my girlfriend like crazy when we were both 16.I remember pashing and fingering her slowly at the start and then so hard as we got more and more in to it.The harder I fingered her....the wetter she became mmmm, the sounding of her pussy was just awesome....the slurp, slash and slippery wetness would make my cock begin to precum and the scent of her pussy on my fingers was heaven scent.So hard fingering for me mmmm.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    and to also feel the woman build up the intensity of cumming.Its slow soft touches and licks and you work from there in accordance to how she behaves and the feedback you get (sorry, I know my anatomy well)...Spend some time and work upwards towards the heart from the perineum to the labia...left then right (no good just teasing one side now is it

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Does anyone remember those old oil ads where Adam Gilchrist is in the ad... talking about how you used to have to let the engine run at idle for 15mins before driving at full power ? hahaaha   I usually find that paying a little attention goes along way... soft for some situations, harder for others... reading body language & movement, encouraging and acting on feedback... all lead to an enjoyable outcome   But I do find it especially exciting when the warm up lead to full throttle action with that motor spurting out flames all over the place, and then cooling down appropriately :)   Until ready to go again

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Ohhh, it is my favourite thing....When you have met someone new, getting hot and heavy, sliding your hand down her little delicate panties and slipping your fingersover her dripping pussy.And then that moment, you first slip your finger inside a new pussy.Her sighing, you feeling the wetness and tightnesswith the anticipation of what is to follow ;)HEAVEN!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'jamesnp' Play it by ear...if the light touch is not doing the job, try a different tact...surely there aren't people silly enough to keep hammering away with the same approach hoping it'll eventually work?? unfortunately james, there are people that are that silly

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    That is so hot, the very sexist thing to feel a man do that :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    i LOVE a good pash and finger sesh...sigh.Dont get nearly enough!Thing is...sometimes I like it firm...sometimes I like it soft..but I ALWAYS like it well lubed.Us gals have to speak up and say what we likeand our partners have to be prepared to listen.We all like it differentand just coz the last chick said you were the bombdoesnt mean this one will.JMO.BJ

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Seems so....the responses have proven as much......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'jamesnp'Play it by ear...if the light touch is not doing the job, try a different tact...surely there aren't people silly enough to keep hammering away with the same approach hoping it'll eventually work?? Yes there are James...too many guys out there are into jamming those fingers in going as fast as they can! I have said "OUCH" and "BE GENTLE" and even have grabbed their hand and pulled their fingers out...but, when they start up again and they hear me moan...they once again start the jamming and hammering! After the second time...I get up and am out of there! I love my pussy too much to have her abused by some twat that doesn't know how to satisfy a woman! xFunlovingx . PS: To answer the OP...I LOVE being fingered...as long as he does it right with the right pressure and speed at the right time...I can have the biggest O's...mmmmmmm!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Most guys go too hard for me at the start. Once I am warmed up it's ok but I prefer a cock rather than fingers any day.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Great topic Delic,I love to handle a hot pussy, cant really describe in words what I like to do, better to show you but manhandling would be an apt description. Sometimes hold a woman by the neck while other hand and fingers work away down below. Always working toward a combination of a tounge lashing of the clit while fingering alternating with some cock fucking...good to have aa bit of variety but love to feel a woman come while all holes are filled with fingers and tounge is busy....mmmmmTD xx