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feelings

April 27 2014

For all the singles who mingle on here. What happens when you end up having feelings for someone on here? What do you do? Do you continue as you do? Do you jeopardize a good relationship by spilling how you feel? And what happens when someone you're seeing has say a few people on the radar. And there's feelings from mutual parties? Does anyone find it can complicate things? Just curious.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    in life is complicated.....what ever you do.....I say go for it....you have only one chance in everything.....so when it doesn't work out how you thought it should you at least tried. Also no one can predict how we feel about a person today tomorrow or on any other day....we can't sit in a glasshouse and do nothing......how boring would this be. And hurt, disappointments, happiness, feeling love for someone is just so "human" like and that's what we are humans, you are allowed to feel, so feel. Remember tomorrow could be your last day......so what do you have to loose, that's how I live

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Sometimes being honest about your feelings can jeopardize a good relationship, especially if those feelings aren't mutual. What I have learnt though is that you have to stay true to yourself, even at the risk of loosing what is, in your mind, a good thing. I also think that some women tend to develop feelings quicker than men do and if those feelings get voiced it scares the shit out of the man. A lot of people won't show their feelings as then they might come across as clingy and/or needy. I hope this helps.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    12 years ago

    This is going to sound a little crazy to some...this is the main reason I don't do many relationships with the opposite sex - does my head in too much. I have learnt not to go anywhere near anyone who has a "few" people on the radar....due to my own personal experiences. Yes I agree it's great to get out there and meet people and see other people...but sometimes it gets to complicated, emotions grow, feelings develop and so on, when spending time, one-on-one. It happens, it's human nature. Sometimes those feelings/emotions can over run someones brain and get out of control, because one is unsure of what the other is thinking or feeling..lack of communication and lack of skills to separate the heart and the head and unable to control those emotions. I believe tho, when meeting people from here it is best to be honest straight up, no lies and deceitfulness or anything like that...be open as best one can be with good communication. It's is best to be open about feelings, sometimes....sometimes it can work in favor and other times ruin it. Each relationship is different so I can't really tell you what to do or how to feel - sorry OP I am not very good at this kind of stuff. Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    The sticky strings.....tis a tricky thing the balancing act of protecting the heart.....so you have a choice,tell all,risk everything or try and hide..take a risk I say xx Q

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I love love. I don't leave partners guessing how I feel. If I'm into you, you know. If I'm not, you also know. If you feel the same way, great, because it means we can explore and see where things end up. If you don't feel the same way I walk away immediately. I have no interest in torturing myself or kidding myself or playing guessing games. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    12 years ago

    If you are going to be intimate with someone over a length of time then feeling could very well develop. Whether or not you decide to act on those feeling, is completely up to the individual..... Communication and honesty are the tricks with any friendship/relationship...... Nothing ventured, nothing gained.......💋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Ahh obviously you care ! And for that you shall suffer the pain that can be misconstrued for love that is lust !! You must for always differenciate between the two and understand both ! It can be difficult you should never conceal your feelings for another but always be open but remember never be possessive or jealous or try to control anothers actions especially when it comes to dating and sex !! Remember mutual feelings between two people towards each other will take the next step if that is your destiny roll your dice but never be disappointed with the numbers you recieve if it was meant to be it will be :-)) feelings are good to have and share :-)) - Posted from rhpmobile