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fat chicks at theme parties
April 22 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey baby, be proud of yourself and what you have....
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RHP User
16 years ago
I say go and have a ball. Revel in your weightloss (I did! lol) but dont forget that some guys like women with lots of curves. You are what you are so let your personality shine through. Have a fun party.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Lol @ the fat chicks furphey. Theme parties can be hit and miss. I mean I am forced to wear something that draws attention to myself and I never know how far to go. I don't want to be the only one show up in theme... I do look pretty odd in fishnets and rabbit ears. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
i agree with everybody else....revel in it...so what if your a fat chick....love that body hun im a fat chick and its great....have fun at the party xx roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey pervette! I have only been to one theme party - it was so nerve racking in the lead up (I'm not toned)... trying on the outfit a dozen times...not happy with the thighs, the tummy...and all that crap really. Once I put my head into the space of "having fun"...I had a blast. Like me, other people just want to mix with other happy people! Have fun! Jx
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RHP User
16 years ago
There are plenty of us out there that can appreciate a womans body in all its glorious forms. There should be more of you out there embracing your bodies and your sexuality, you would be suprised at the attention some, but not all, will give you.
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RHP User
16 years ago
OMG yes...I wish i had my pre babies body...but my hubby says all the time...oh no...you look much hotter now...and i am double the size i was before...in all places. Sexiness is not the body but that of the mind...its how you accept yourself and show confidence in knowing who you are... Hope you have fun... Mrs S
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RHP User
16 years ago
I can so get what your asking and meaning...... I am by far not small nor average or lil over weight and I dread invites anywhere where there is gonna be all these beautiful slim to average women wearing what i could only wish to be able to wear, to me I see Id only have one choice go as a pumpkin. I'm not sure on how large you are as I know everyone may have a few hang ups and gets rather annoying hearing a women 10 kilos over healthy weight range say oh just go i do and I'm over weight. Id personally be having panic attacks. I'm on here yet scared to meet any man fear of rejection or misconception I'm only large in my eye's as my pics don't show it and well they really would assume wrong. Seriously I envy and admire those who don't give a fuck about how they look and will go put themselves out there not fearing rejection, teasing or sniggering. Yet I get compliments on here and I think yeah that's sweet but that's cuz you haven't met me.If you want to go and your happy to go wear something and not so worried about your size bout worried bout having others see it as wrong fuck them. But if you will feel uncomfortable for entire time that you can't relax don't go as I am going off own experience. Hell my best mate Roxxy we're so alike yet worlds apart she does not give a shit and laughs at me ALL THE TIME over my anxiety and how I can't believe a compliment. She allows herself fun as she doesn't care me I hold myself back and I HATE it and can't get past it only cuz I know there is a raging naughty fun girl trapped who is also affectionate loyal and sweet and I can't wear what I like and I get passed over not given a chance for who I am.Be like my wonderful friend Roxxy if you wanna go get out there and party babe, and like suggested dress appropriate for size which if your like me leaves not many choices. I believe all people can be gorgeous no matter their size (just not me lol)Bubbly
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RHP User
16 years ago
just come....dress up....accentuate the good bits....hide the others! lmaoOh...and im a fat chick too....but fuck i got some great tits!!And the face aint bad either...so I focus on them....get me some black pants or a long black skirt...and im good to go.Its all about having fun....and there is gonna be sooooooo many peeps there...so come....have a blast....meet some new friends...and have a laugh!Hope to see you there!!!JMO...BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Fully agree with what others have said, specially OBS - just be yourself and you will have fun.I admit it, I am probably considered a fat guy, can't change that and know certain attire would look stupid on me. The last couple of theme parties I have attended I used the fact that I am not slim as I use to be. I chose costumes that suited my build and had a ball (and was comfortable lol) although I must admit the Mr Incredible suit did leave little to the imagination lol Mooka
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RHP User
16 years ago
Just tell everyone you heard it was "Fat Chick Theme" and give the skinny girls dirty "fat chick? I don't think so!" looks. isnt it funny how fat chick is ok when it is used by a fat chick first. (Sorry - not my fave term actually... but I'm really enjoying the buzz of using it, seeing this thread has ok'd it now :p )
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RHP User
16 years ago
I like that bout the tits and face. So with you there LMAO@ Jean.So glam ur hair up give it so va va voom make those lips stand out (ones on your face)Show off your Cleavage and if nice legs still show them off, accentuate ur body shape if you got hour glass show ur waist etcIm sure you will look hot...Ok guys what colours would attract u to this beauty? Come on handy hints of colour and costumes. Show your Bootylicious
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RHP User
16 years ago
Jean - I'm guilty of that quite often! I'll refer to myself as a fat chick on occasions and incur some death looks from my other lovely chubby girlfriends. I've always thought that words are just words and that it's only the intent behind them that can hurt, but I guess not everyone agrees. MissBJ, love love the new profile pic! Pervette, personally it's my belief that people are sexy - not bodies. I don't think that's a unique view either from what I've read on these forums. Anyone else here a huge Gok fan? He's a stylist that's on a mission to teach women of all shapes and sizes how to work what they've been blessed with, but more importantly how to love themselves and how they look. It's all about the bangers, love!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Your gorgeous BJ!!!! Bubbles xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
what would u say to someone who's not confident in herself but wants to do it to make her partner happy (he's been wanting to swing for a while but i havent had the confidence for it). any suggestions?
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RHP User
16 years ago
big_cpl20s go at your own pace, dont do it because your partner wants to, swinging will enhance your relationship only if you are both fully relaxed, committed and have full and open communication but dont let your size stop you, If that all that holding you back take the plunge, we have met couples of all shapes and sizes and from many walks of life at parties and intimately. We have never seen anyone teased, laughed at or otherwise. If and when you are both ready, take the plunge, dont let size hold you back. start with meet and greets these are a great way to meet others in the scene without any pressure to play
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DonnaBrett
16 years ago
Hey big_cpls20s.... Sweetiepie hit the nail right on the head...unless you are BOTH into this 100% you could be playing with fire. We've been in the scene over 10 years..and we have seen some train wrecks ie: couples in turmoil cos one was'nt really into it or was talked into it by their partner . Strangely enough..from our experience, in 90% of instances where it goes pear shaped... it's the male who wants to try it...and it's he who can't handle it when they finally play, whereas his initially reluctant partner ends up loving it !!! Good Luck!
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RHP User
16 years ago
My first swingers party was a nervous one because I was big. But everyone is there for the same reason, to have fun. So go, enjoy yourself and relish it ! xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey Pervette the only thing that will stop you having an amazing time & enjoying yourself immensely at the party will be your mind not your body. A big beautiful sexy lady who knows it is sooo hot & once you allow yourself to enjoy it, that is also what you will portray to others. You only have to read some of the sexy ladies replys to your thread to see that. If your mind still has you feeling a little self conscious could i possibly suggest including a corset in your party attire, WOW how hot is a sexy lady in a corset ! and mmm mmmm the pleasure of enjoying slowly taking it off you will drive any man or woman nuts. Not to mention it may allow you to free your mind to see, feel & enjoy yourself & your sexy body without feeling self consciuos. Enjoy the party & all that goes with it sexy lady. Mac & Leanne
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RHP User
16 years ago
i went and had an awsum time ... was so much fun.. no one cared about what everyone looked like ..
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RHP User
16 years ago
just wish i didnt go with a user....
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RHP User
16 years ago
YAY for Pervette...When ever im feeling bad about myself and my size i always get on RHP cause here there are not many people that judge...Go us bigger girls
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RHP User
16 years ago
go and have the time of your life,as long as you are happy with yourself.bigger women are just as sexy as thinner women.
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RHP User
16 years ago
first of all im sorry if it seems i commented twice,im not sure if my first comment work.thankswell go and have the time of your life.as long as you are happy with yourself.bigger women are very sexy too,just as sexy as thinner women.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi, Every time I go to a theme party it's the sexy bigger girls that get the most attention. I for one prefer size 14 as a minimum. Anything up from there, even better. Have a great night.
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RHP User
16 years ago
unless people are super sloppy. . . u girls shouldnt worry. . its the product of ur hot n smokin minds that will blow people away. . then ur body makes it happen. . . if i could say though. . .i believe u will be more confident and be more sexy if u dont attempt to wear things that were designed for smaller woman. . be proud of ur own sexual self. . hey. . u deserve to be driving ur chosen playmates crazy for who u are. . .not 4 a person that u think folks want u to be. . that is my humble opinion. . b frm ysayno
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm with you all i love a good curve on a women !! you wouldn't be a women if you wern't all differnt!
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