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do you want fries with that profile?
November 13 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
There are people out there who have never even thought of describing themselves and there wants. They joiun this site...for whatever reason....get all flustered when faced with the profile filling out part and cannot think of a thing to say. They will look at the profile builder for an easy answer and just use what is there. Some may get back to creating a decent profile but many do not. I am not a fan of answering the generic profiles either. If I do it will be with the generic...sorry your profile does not say enough to inspire me.
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Innercircle
14 years ago
No details on profile = no use replying to flirts they send us, when they could have sent a message.The profiles with no substance, ALWAYS tend to be the ones that also reply back with one sentence replies, giving no details, and make us feel like we have to coax the info out of them. Can't be f%cked with that! WAY too many fish in the sea to be bothered chasing blowfish...
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Innercircle
14 years ago
Here's a typical example:We got a flirt a couple weeks ago. We sent a thank you message in return:"Hey guys, thanks for the flirt, made us feel all special and stuff! So, your profile doesn't really tell us too much, and we are curious to learn all about you. Why don't you fill us in... who, what, where, when, and HOW!! Hell, just tell us HOW!! :P Hope to hear back from you soon... P+S"the reply:"Hi, we are after fun. Tell us about you guys. "WHAT... A... WASTE...
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RHP User
14 years ago
I was just thinking the same thing about generic profiles... It'd be nice to have an advanced search option to weed them out the same way profiles without pictures can be excluded.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Generic profiles don't say anything about a person except that they can point and click with a mouse."Hi! I'm a xx year old woman." Yep, great. And I'm a 42 year old man who's just moved on to the next profile.Put something in there that's going to catch my eye and make me want to read more!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Makes me laugh all thse people who are hell bent on I only reply IF...
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RHP User
14 years ago
I love it when I read a profile that says Ï like to have fun...do you ?... no shit Sherlock..do you think thats why I could possibley be on heren as well...???? or even better ""Im lost for words rite now but will come back and update etc.... Read: Im too bloody lazy to take 5 minutes out of my day to try and sound interesting to any potentials but in my mind Im a legend already in bed !!! I appreciate that not all of us are blessed with great written communication skills...but please how are you gonna attract anyone when your on the net which is 90 percent written and visual...and a photo please..any photo...please try catch my eye.......not a silhouette....
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Innercircle
14 years ago
Quoting 'wowwow11' Makes me laugh all thse people who are hell bent on I only reply IF... haha, says he with the generic profile...Some of us don't need to worry about getting replies/messages/flirts/attention. We prefer to save our time for those that are actually socially interactive, not socially awkward. Filtering boring/lame/generic/empty profiles is one good way of doing that. Those same people, from our experience in chat, phone convo's, and real face to face interaction, is that for the majority, their profile matches their personalities. There are way too many other GREAT profiles/people that make an effort. But, whatever floats ya boat.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Absolutely agree that generic profiles should be banned. What is worse is the generic profiles, no picture and "ask me" all combined. Why the hell should we ask you if you can't be bothered to fill in the basics and tell us something interesting about you? Pusscat xx
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RHP User
14 years ago
There are genuine nice guys out their, we may not be the cream of the crop, and sometimes may be a little slow at coming forward, why not give us a shot you may be supriosed, even tho this is a sex dating site, its not all about sex
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RHP User
14 years ago
Not exactly inspiring - difficult to reply to..."I love your combination of drop-down menu choices, gets me so hot!!"You'd be better off bashing caveman fists on the keyboard and posting whatever comes out.Hmmm, interesting... let me actually try that...lq;lkjwreqw;lshall I compare thee to a summer's day?lwkjer wlekjrthou art more lovely and more temperateqlwhjwe lwkjerrough winds do shake the darling buds of Mayqwlkjher asfdjkland summer's lease hath all too short a datelwreh lwkejrsometime too hot the eye of heaven shineslkwjrlkj;a qlwkejrand often......holy crap!! Shakespeare was a keyboard masher?!?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Looks like some should take whaever they could get ..
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RHP User
14 years ago
The other thing is,they are new to this yet have a bunch of people as friends? What is that rent a crowd? I do not put a person on as my friend unless I have met them face to face. how the hell else would I know they were the real deal unless I meet them. I do not have cyber friends, no eat cyber dinner or have cyber fucks..well maybe in a pinch I can write an hot story for some lovely guy to get friendly with his hand. ...I digress umm where was I? oh yeah , no profile yet tons of friends bit of a paradox me thinks
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RHP User
14 years ago
WTF.. come on this is a business. Its a dating site. Tools are provided for people to contact each other. It is not a public service.I have been here for 4 years and it has changed my life. I have noted that there is a high level of elitism in the forums. Signing up to this site is the the opposite to placing 'No Junk Mail" on your letter box.Gosh should we be asked not to be nerds. To only send messages that Shakespeare would be proud of. Should paid up members demand a "only sexy and intelligent people can contact me'. A subjective point of view.Like saying don't smile you have bad teeth. Dont grunt because you have a keyboard.The majority of people (yes you women to) just go by visuals. I will construct a lovely worded message, open my private gal and next time I check if my message has been read I have been blocked. So do we have to be sexy.. Must we be smart. Is a bank account number needed. Can you hammer a 9 inch nail into a plank with your cock... Can I call my mummy.Please... Why do so many complain. Go watch TV if its such a hassle. My profile changes often.RHP is like a city street. You walk along and if someone smiles at you, you either smile back or walk on. Hands up anyone that has been forced to join.I have met some of the most beautiful people on RHP. No need to change a thing OP.Ill just dare to be lonely. Ill just dare to be different. Ill just dare to think that I am the sexiest thing on Earth... Love you all, except that person over there. Oh and a mirror for you all. Take a look, shame you are not as perfect as me.I despise the whats wrong threads. RHP works because it does not vet users. RHP rocks even in socks.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I suspect that some of the generic, ask me profiles are lurkers and the reason they use flirts and short messages are due to the fact that they constantly type one-handed..........
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RHP User
14 years ago
While we all like a bit of mystery and thrill of the chase there are some also that prefer to keep their RHP profiles discreet - you can find out more on social type sites of course if you bother, but that would also require intelligence (?) Not sure if I want to give all my ammunition while you're on my profile - then again if I had you at hello... :-)
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RHP User
14 years ago
they must be pirates, poor things lost a hand to the ticking croc, I shoulda known how insensitive of me.
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RHP User
14 years ago
.....I think the crocs name is Mrs Palmer......lol.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Blindman67' WTF.. come on this is a business. Its a dating site. Tools are provided for people to contact each other. It is not a public service. I have been here for 4 years and it has changed my life. I have noted that there is a high level of elitism in the forums. Signing up to this site is the the opposite to placing 'No Junk Mail" on your letter box. Gosh should we be asked not to be nerds. To only send messages that Shakespeare would be proud of. Should paid up members demand a "only sexy and intelligent people can contact me'. A subjective point of view. Like saying don't smile you have bad teeth. Dont grunt because you have a keyboard. The majority of people (yes you women to) just go by visuals. I will construct a lovely worded message, open my private gal and next time I check if my message has been read I have been blocked. So do we have to be sexy.. Must we be smart. Is a bank account number needed. Can you hammer a 9 inch nail into a plank with your cock... Can I call my mummy. Please... Why do so many complain. Go watch TV if its such a hassle. My profile changes often. RHP is like a city street. You walk along and if someone smiles at you, you either smile back or walk on. Hands up anyone that has been forced to join. I have met some of the most beautiful people on RHP. No need to change a thing OP. Ill just dare to be lonely. Ill just dare to be different. Ill just dare to think that I am the sexiest thing on Earth... Love you all, except that person over there. Oh and a mirror for you all. Take a look, shame you are not as perfect as me. I despise the whats wrong threads. RHP works because it does not vet users. RHP rocks even in socks. Amen to that!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Blindman67' WTF.. come on this is a business. Its a dating site. Tools are provided for people to contact each other. It is not a public service.I have been here for 4 years and it has changed my life. I have noted that there is a high level of elitism in the forums. Signing up to this site is the the opposite to placing 'No Junk Mail" on your letter box.Gosh should we be asked not to be nerds. To only send messages that Shakespeare would be proud of. Should paid up members demand a "only sexy and intelligent people can contact me'. A subjective point of view.Like saying don't smile you have bad teeth. Dont grunt because you have a keyboard.The majority of people (yes you women to) just go by visuals. I will construct a lovely worded message, open my private gal and next time I check if my message has been read I have been blocked. So do we have to be sexy.. Must we be smart. Is a bank account number needed. Can you hammer a 9 inch nail into a plank with your cock... Can I call my mummy.Please... Why do so many complain. Go watch TV if its such a hassle. My profile changes often.RHP is like a city street. You walk along and if someone smiles at you, you either smile back or walk on. Hands up anyone that has been forced to join.I have met some of the most beautiful people on RHP. No need to change a thing OP.Ill just dare to be lonely. Ill just dare to be different. Ill just dare to think that I am the sexiest thing on Earth... Love you all, except that person over there. Oh and a mirror for you all. Take a look, shame you are not as perfect as me.I despise the whats wrong threads. RHP works because it does not vet users. RHP rocks even in socks. Just a little insight, if you don't mind. Isn't that the purpose of a profile? Agreed, visuals are a good place to start, but then to read a whole lot of pre-defined lines.....well, perhaps a little Shakespeare is in order:"full of sound and fury, signifying nothing."
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RHP User
14 years ago
How would it be if the advertisers for TV and radio were only allowed to use a small set of stock phrases to advertise everything from condoms to cars? How would we be able to tell if the product was suitable for our own purpose? I don't think we asking for anyone to write an epic, be humorous or poetic. Just write enough to tell us who you are, what you like and who you want to meet. Easy to do. It's not astro physics!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Blindman67' WTF.. come on this is a business. Its a dating site. Tools are provided for people to contact each other. It is not a public service. I have been here for 4 years and it has changed my life. I have noted that there is a high level of elitism in the forums. Signing up to this site is the the opposite to placing 'No Junk Mail" on your letter box. Gosh should we be asked not to be nerds. To only send messages that Shakespeare would be proud of. Should paid up members demand a "only sexy and intelligent people can contact me'. A subjective point of view. Like saying don't smile you have bad teeth. Dont grunt because you have a keyboard. The majority of people (yes you women to) just go by visuals. I will construct a lovely worded message, open my private gal and next time I check if my message has been read I have been blocked. So do we have to be sexy.. Must we be smart. Is a bank account number needed. Can you hammer a 9 inch nail into a plank with your cock... Can I call my mummy. Please... Why do so many complain. Go watch TV if its such a hassle. My profile changes often. RHP is like a city street. You walk along and if someone smiles at you, you either smile back or walk on. Hands up anyone that has been forced to join. I have met some of the most beautiful people on RHP. No need to change a thing OP. Ill just dare to be lonely. Ill just dare to be different. Ill just dare to think that I am the sexiest thing on Earth... Love you all, except that person over there. Oh and a mirror for you all. Take a look, shame you are not as perfect as me. I despise the whats wrong threads. RHP works because it does not vet users. RHP rocks even in socks. Elitism is the belief or attitude that some individuals, who form an elite — a select group of people with intellect, wealth, specialized training or experience, or other distinctive attributes — are those whose views on a matter are to be taken the most seriously or carry the most weight; whose views and/or actions are most likely to be constructive to society as a whole; or whose extraordinary skills, abilities or wisdom render them especially fit to govern I had to look that up to see If I was one of the special people. I may have some of those attributes but I try not to shove my thoughts down peoples throats. The idea of a forum is to discuss things,and if only a few put into the discussion then yes it can look like we hold all the opinions of all the people. We are a diverse bunch that have a common thread in our lives, and that is the hedonistic desire for sexual pleasure. We are here to find people we want to have sex with, your right its not a date site. However we all need a bit of a filtering system, its a natural human way of finding a mate. We filter to get to what we hope will be a mutual pleasure. We do that in real life, while doing recruitment have you not heard “it takes thirty seconds to make an impression”. This is no different that that. Unfortunately we all tend to stereotype people, as you did by saying that those that post are elitist, In that one comment you to have done exactly what the others do by expressing their opinions on people with generic profiles. Debate is good for us all, it challenges our entrenched belief, and for many here RHP does change our views on sex and relationships and helps us look at ourselves through the thoughts and opinions of others. I have had people write that they like the posts, that sometimes they want to post but just feel they may stuff it up. Some of us are like to talk,some to listen. I am as you may guess a talker so I talk here with my finger tips, I hope not to drown out anyone’s voice. I do not think for a second my opinion is the valid one.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I just received two flirts. One guy was 22 and the other was 31. Both of them had mostly "ask me" for their profiles. The older guy had done the generics to complete the "about" and "looking for" sections. The younger guy had one incoherent sentence for his "about me" section and "surprise me!" for the other. Both had blank sections for "sexual interest" and "fetish interest". Despite the lack of information, apparently I am just what they are looking for and to please message them because they are keen. Not keen enough to put a bit of effort into their profiles!! So I followed my usual custom - I make the same amount of effort to reply as they did in making their profiles.
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RHP User
14 years ago
we ignore those who answer questions with the 'ask me' tab.......we'll always assume its the answer we dont want, so dont bother asking...'ask me' on relationship means married, so blocking is our first reaction...omg our block list is 100's deep........if people cant just put it out there, we just dont see them as an attractive option....'ask me'?? ffs we want you to tell us you morons! like photos, if there is no information......its a guessing game. we arent here to play games like this, and straight away move on out of boredom....captivate up people! with written words and suggestive and inviting photos.....
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'rockercouple80' Here's a typical example:We got a flirt a couple weeks ago. We sent a thank you message in return:"Hey guys, thanks for the flirt, made us feel all special and stuff! So, your profile doesn't really tell us too much, and we are curious to learn all about you. Why don't you fill us in... who, what, where, when, and HOW!! Hell, just tell us HOW!! :P Hope to hear back from you soon... P+S"the reply:"Hi, we are after fun. Tell us about you guys. "WHAT... A... WASTE... LOL!!!.. They dont say much dont they? lmao... What a waste indeed.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Maybe the generic is attracting fellow generics, and this is how they do it. Leave the preset clones alone. It's hard not having imagination and a clue.
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RHP User
14 years ago
my personal favourite is 'smoking': ask me...this translates to me as 'yah, i smoke, but will pretend not to if you're a hot non-smoker'...relationships can be complicated, and putting tick options for 'i'm shagging my ex but he's still living with his mail order bride because of visa issues, i have joint custody of the dog and i'm not quite sure whether we'll get back together or not but god-damn he has a nice cock...' would just be ridiculous... but smoking? come on, it's a yes/no answer... with 'like a chimney' and 'only when i'm drunk teehee' as side options... also possibly a 'i'm a militant ex-smoker who campaigns about air pollution but ironically drives a diesel 4wd that has some serious gas problems...' but if you smoke, at least have the guts to say so...back on topic, yeah, i hate maccas profiles. but, i know a lot of guys who are articulate, but put them on the spot and they'll clam up. so maybe a trial period, ie you can have wanky phrases for 2 weeks, to see what you think of the site and whether it's worth putting in the effort to write a proper profile, but after that 2 weeks or whatever you get booted if you're a guest and haven't put any other effort in...
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RHP User
14 years ago
I don't know if this has been said already (it's late, i'm tired and my eyes are blurry, so reading the whole thread is a tad beyond me ATM), but I always just assumed that the very generic profiles were copy and paste fakes...Unless when a profile is being put together, there is a template somewhere around that gets followed?Ive found it to be a tad bit disheartening...
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