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do you find it insulting
September 07 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
Maybe the people looking at your profile need to put on their specs???????Shame you are so far away.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Insulted? No. If they are interested enough, they'll be in touch. In the interim, why don't you check out other people's profiles as well?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi summer.....I tend to browse profiles....I certainly dont respond if I dont meet the age or other criteria that the person has selected....occassionally I might if I think I have something to offer or the criteria is not that clear and I like the look of the persons profile. Don't be offended if you don't get winks or messages.....it's probably saving you time and energy because perhaps that person is not for you....you look great so I would think that you need more than that to destroy your self esteem ?!?! When you do send a flirt/message and you dont get a reply at all....that's annoying but again....perhaps it just wasn't meant to be. Its one of the problems with online romance....but you do get to pick and choose.... Anyway, the glass is half full and Im sure you are getting lots of genuine messages/flirts....so good luck and have fun !! Dog.
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RHP User
16 years ago
It's probably better that they don't send a message rather than flood your inbox! A mountain of unwanted attention could be worse! Don't worry though, you're sexy; the right people will find you :)
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tamworthguy46
16 years ago
Hey there you sexy thing ! I read your profie.....you mention in your profile your an escort, maybee some guys look at that and think your trieng to drum up some work ? I don't think you are, and i personally dont have a problem with that even if you were . I comend you on your honesty, and i hope you fin what your looking for.... xxoo tamguy.
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RHP User
16 years ago
The idea for us in checking out peoples profiles is to see who is out there. If we like what we see (and it doesn't have to be physical) then we will generally message. For example we cannot tell until we look at someones profile whether or not they are smokers. We have a no smoking rule so we wouldn't get in touch. If this gets to you I would sign out of your account.......I think there have been over 2500 views of our profile and we certainly don't get that many flirts or messages - thankfully.
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RHP User
16 years ago
oh and that's Kilee writing that :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
But that's because I realise we don't match what everyone is looking for...Considering we've had over a thousand views this month, it would be way too much to expect everyone to make flirt or message us.We do take repeated views as a compliment tho with or without contact... thnx all! HugsMrs P
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RHP User
16 years ago
There have been times that I have visited a profile and thought "Nope. Not for me" or their profile has insisted on men with 19" cocks or just couples etc etc. I've also visited profiles in the past and run out of messages to send for the day. Don't take it to heart. That is pretty much how life goes. I'm sure you've walked past a guy or girl on the street and done a double take. Had an extra perve. Some will. Some won't. Personally, I think you look hot. Flirt sent :) Bf
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RHP User
16 years ago
wow, I would have thought you would be flooded with msgs, Cause you are one hot summer, Perhaps it is the escort thing, but I would hav thought there were still alot of guys in here that might find it kinda hot, certainly gets me thinkin,, Anyway in the interests of your self esteem, I have cheched you out and sent you a flirt Hope I get a reply hahah riteguy xo
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RHP User
16 years ago
No...I certainly don't think I'm gods gift to humankind that everyone should contact me if they've browsed my profile. I think my profile is pretty cool, but I'm realistic enough to know that everyone has their preferences and I have mine. Via this medium, the only way one can have an idea whether those preferences may or may not match is by looking at the profile. I don't know about you, but pic and title is certainly not enough for me to pursue contact with a person. Certainly not enough to waste my one message per week allotment.
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RHP User
16 years ago
My god your profile and pics are very very sexy.. If they don't message or wink you don't want to know them....
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RHP User
16 years ago
would love to have a taste of summer all nite long- hehehhehehehehehehe
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RHP User
16 years ago
Gotta agree with most of the above, I would not find it insulting, because you cannot see what peoples requirements are until you click on the link. Most just view, and if there is something they do not like, then I guess that is why they do not flirt. It is just as frustrating the other way though, when you do a search, and then click on the profile, only to find something that says you do not meet their criteria !!! Anyways, I sent you a flirt, think you are a fine piece of work ;)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hehe... yes, it's demoralising isn't it. I look at my flirts column and whenever it says "0" I go: *sniff* Hugs Gazza
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RHP User
16 years ago
Flirt sent... Flirty hugsMrs P
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RHP User
16 years ago
I wouldn't worry about it, you will get a lot of views from guest members who cannot message you in any case. Flirts are another matter but still limited so sometimes they will flirt with those that can message them back.Only time you should be worried is if you weren't getting viewed at all. i've been viewed 34 times in the last month yet I've looked at 357 profiles this month. In the last month I received one flirt from a girl with Scotland listed as the state and the profile was locked before I even looked at it. I think it was a spammer. I received 3 replies to messages although one of them was only looking for votes for her amature pics and another decided her age preferances were wrong on her profile.So if you aren't doing worse than that you can smile knowing it isnt that bad.
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RHP User
16 years ago
lol.. hehe right back at you Mrs P!... hey, I bet you say that ato all teh devilishly handsome 40+ year olds.. hhehe hugs GAzza
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RHP User
16 years ago
I wouldn't find it insulting, it happens alot. Some people just like to perv, some just wait to see if you will say something first, and I guess yeah some would just not like what they see, BUT everyone is different. Some like big, thin, short, tall, bla bla bla. But you have nothing to worry about, your hot indeed!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Only the ones that make me laugh and think at the same time heheheheheHugsDeb
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well you seem to have amended your profile as it doesn't mention the escort thing now, but who cares anyway. People have to look at your profile to read what it says so that they have some idea if they want to contact you. Having said that though, a lot of people dont read profiles properly anyway. but it is all good, dont be offended and dont take it to heart.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I do agree with most of the comments posted above.. esp BadDog...As to the escort job you hold .. some guys guys may not like what you do. Me ! I'm no-one to judge you. As I was an Escort myself and have had a long and wonderful/Loving relationship with another escort(female)The job is a choice(mostly) and some truly enjoy it(as I did) But I stray from the topic at hand ... Don't be insulted if ppl don't flirt , that's their loss for not wanting to know a little more about what seems(based on what I've seen and read in your profile to be a very very yummy young ladyPS As always "The choice is Yours"Enjoy your journey, Jonesy76
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RHP User
16 years ago
And zero messages or winks. If i let that affect my self esteem I would have committed suicide a long timke ago.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I don't find it insulting. Ther are far more insulting things on RHP like emailling and exchanging personal views and details with someone for a while just then to be one day asked to pay to have sex with them on a personals/dating website, etc.Everything is ok in its own place and on their own merits.As with this topic of discussion I have observed that it can sometimes be a good thing and in some cases means some people may have been intimidated by how hot you may have appeared to them so dared not to approach.However if the anchorpoint of our emotions and self perceptions is internal we are never moved or affected by what others may think of us for we know who we are and what we stand for. That is my personal opinion.Very comfortable in my own skin and so should you in your sexy complexion.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Profiles are like a box of chocolates . . . you never know what ya gonna get. . . until you look.
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RHP User
16 years ago
are you for real. Toughen up this is online dating.I'd rather contact people then have them contact me. At least I dont have to tell white ones about why I'm not interested.
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RHP User
16 years ago
ur 20,female n pretty.....try MY side of the fence lol*off to find the razorjust keep on keeping on! xo
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RHP User
16 years ago
Watch and be watched!Damn Summer, we'd be in touch in a second but you're in WA
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RHP User
16 years ago
This place is like a supermarket. You walk through the isles, glansing at the products. Sometimes you stop and read the ingredients that are displayed on the label. If you like the product, you take it home and try it. We get lots of people reading the ingredients of our profile, but then deside that there is too much salt, not enough pepper or no colouring E220. Then they put it back. Easy. The fact that you look at the label doesn't mean you have to buy......
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RHP User
16 years ago
I often see others looking @ my profile & then I go into theirs and have a look, if I like what I see & they meet my requirements then I might send them a wink/message. I guess if you dont meet their requirements or they just dont find you attractive, you just have to accept it & keep searching. No point in sending a wink/mesage if you out of their age bracket etc, its a waste of a wink. Some profiles are very particular ( and they are entitled to be) and wont respnd to males, over 30's, couples or distance restrictions (examples)...I guess you just have to be patient and eventually you will get some attention...Im still waiting to find mine (sexy lady friend) xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hot damn......but you are too far away......but i enjoyed the look nevertheless...Don't take it to heart summer...what do you want?...an inbox with toooooooooo many emails, flirts etc...or genuine expressions of interest?...Now...who pinched my email button?....*goes off muttering to look for it*....jose
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RHP User
16 years ago
I don't know about you summer but one thing that does get frustrating or feels insulting is when you send people messages and if they aren't interested don't send a reply or even acknowledge a thing about the message and everyone on here knows exactly what i'm talking about
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RHP User
16 years ago
I do not find it insulting. It just means you are not what someone else is looking for and that is quite okay with me as there are people on here that do not fit what i am looking for either. Infact, i do not understand why people get annoyed or upset when people do not respond, that obviously tells you they are not interested without it having to be spelt out....for me i think that is better, at the end of the day would you be happy if you got reponses from everyoone who was not interested telling you they were not interested? i think i would find that more upsetting and it would make me feel self conscious.....that is just my opinion.
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RHP User
16 years ago
we find it insulting when people that we look question us as to whether we liked it or wished to meet, purely on the strength of a look-see. cmon guys! looking is half the fun, dont make it into something otherwise!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree with most people here, people who don't flirt but look is not a judgement on you per se it them ruling themselves out of being what you want. I sent you a flirt when i check out you just now - and i meet nothing but your age criteria and got the little warning up and everything. Good on you for being open about your career choice, happy to see other industry peers around finding a private life too. I was too scared to mention my occupation on my profile for fear i'd get banned from RHP as they'd assume I was promoting. I';ve been banned from other social networking sites for filling in the occupation fields and its discrimination to think that adult industry people don't have a private life - but hey what are you going to do on the internets!Don't take it to heart consider it saving you sending a whole bunch of no replies.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi summer im with everyone else i wouldn't let it get to you,some guys will just perve on the pics and not read the profiles.some times distance can play a part or what your seeking might not gell with what they are looking for.But hey your are not the only one this happens too.xoxoxheymumma
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RHP User
16 years ago
i am use to it it is hard. and said you go to the truble sending a message and thay don't reply. that sux too.
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