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do couples still want single guys
March 31 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
We almost never bring in single guys. too full of it n usually want to be the centre of the action n lacking in manners. Then we find the exception whos great! far prefer other couples but even then so many its just the guy whos into it n the woman doesnt really want to be touched by anyone but him! Its the exceptions that make it all worthwhile tho!
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RHP User
16 years ago
We love single guys!!!!! But, we dont want ones that r too shy or not shy enough, not too big or not big enough etc etc I think the male of the couple dosent want to be intimidated?? I think you'll find if u keep lookin u'll find the right cupl and then play often!! Alot of cupls want singles, afterall there's no feeling like watchin ur mrs get stuffed whilst kissing hubby :) But most cupls are choosy with singles, so keep with the flirts etc, you'll find the right ones!!! Goodluck ;)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Simple, you used to be part of a couple, that couple included tits, pussy and a cock. Now that ur single you no longer have the pussy and tits bit, only the cock and that is the whole problem for you mate.I'm part of a couple and have no dramas at all finding people to meet but if I were single, no hope. Its all about pussy, bugger for you hey. mr pip
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RHP User
16 years ago
lol thanks for that piping haha i see the problem now i have a dick lol gee now if i didnt have one i wouldnt be in this problem huh whats a man spose to do but yer keep trying actully it would be great to find a f.b on here who was into going out swining now that would help matters for me an her lol not tht she would need any help cheeky that is def a right answer in a confuddled sort of a way but soo true as a male you dont want to be dominated usually or def intimadated so you have that call with your partner,myself i just used to the idea to what ever the other ppl were i meet more intimadating chicks than i did guys not so much inthere appearence more there attitude,this aint helping my cause much tho lol,whats the best profile you have been attracted to as a couple looking for a single male ??
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RHP User
16 years ago
ohh an suzie yes the exceptions are def worth while,we used to call it on the spot meetings where we would just be out meet up with a stranger an go home those wwere great nights when they went well,i never did notice any guys tryin to be the center of attention it was always my ex who wanted to be lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
of course couples and single girls want single guys...its hardly "all about the pussy"...zzzz but couples have a guy in mind, so its the numbers game.. Id look at the pic in your profile and read what youve written, see if its what you would pick, or what your woman would pick from all the other single guy profiles? we met a single guy last weekend, didnt dress up or create any excitment...so we said no thanks its hard to find a cool guy who can work with a couple and this is probably not a place to look for single women .. cheers Neo
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RHP User
16 years ago
darky I didn't mean to put a dampener on things for you mate. About 2 years ago on a similar site we had 3 profiles, one as a couple, one for mrs pip doing her girly thing and I thought I'd do one for myself and see how I went. Well the couple and female profile did extremely well, as for mineand mind you the mrs wrote it for me so it was done extremely well. Good luck mate.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Dark Gent,I know there are couples who appreciate an extra male body. It all comes down to presentation and communication. A well written profile that provides a little about yourself but not so much it bores the reader to tears.Think about your potential playmates and how they would think, write to your audience.When I was part of a couple, I read through many single guy messages and could generally pick the players from the fakers. I guess this experience has helped me to write to couples so they know I'm genuine. I can pretty well answer a lot of their fears/hesitations in the first email.
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RHP User
16 years ago
hey neo thanks for tht but ive found tht being honest in my profile has worked to my benefit,woman know what to expect to start of with,although this works well with single woman it hasnt worked tht well with couples yet.not that i intend to change things as for the pics well they are who i am,due to sports commitments i cant put a face pic up but i send them out in my private gallery i guess not evryone is going to like what they see. pipping no dampner mate an it hasnt stopped me trying obviously you need to do something that stands out in the crowd,i do tht in my normal life lol so i just need to do it here lol an it should work to my advantage!!! crusing yours thus far has been the best advice of all i guess allways being in relationships and having other commitments you forget how to deal with the hook up thing,i guess i had it too easy for too long as my ex would just go get someone an tht would be it all had to do was stand at the bar lol.... hopefully i get some more advice tho keep it coming lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
Just read your profile...cruising 2010. Yep i get your point.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Think most has already been said, joining the single male club is a bit like rocking up to the unemployment office and expecting to get a 100K job offered to you just for being there.I do have one bit of advice for you though; having looked at your profile it is rather annoying having every sentance spaced out with one, two and sometimes three lines till the next one. Makes it look like you have deleted stuff out of there and is a pain having to scroll so far down. Get rid of most of the spacing, it isn't required and does not help at all. A lot of women that look at your profile will not bother to scroll down so you are not letting them see a lot that you have written. Also some are a bit harsh with punctuation.It might not make them flock to you, the only thing that wil is getting another partner...catch 22, but will improve the profile.every bit helps
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RHP User
16 years ago
we enjoy asking single guys to join us. its not "all about the pussy" as others have suggested, sometimes its 'all about the cock". you just have to be the right guy at the right time. its about attraction more often than not, and availability as well.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Single guys get a real bad wrap for a lot of reasons.We are so proud of all the single guys that we have allowed to enter our club from here (rhp) they are all courteous and respectful and are all proud members of our club now.Single guys have had a bad wrap for a lot of years, and the way we select our single guys, everyone knows that when they come to the club on a Friday, they will not get hassselled and will not feel like they have walked into a meat market.Most of the time no one knows which ones are our single guys, as they are asked to be part of the club, and not just sit in a corner and or stalk people.If they do that they should not be here.You see most guys think it is hard to get in to our club, but reality is , it is not.You just must supply a face picture, this is not about looks but about personality and confidence.If a guy is married he probably wont put his face picture up so it sorts out those that are wanting to play up behind their partners backs. We ask for respect with regards to that as our couples and single ladies are here for single guys, not married guys with a hidden agenda.It is simple there is never a single guy that has registered to attend our parties with a face picture on his profile that has been turned away.So our attitude is...put up a picture, make yourself be know and get out and about and meet the real people on rhp in person , dont sit behind your computer and wonder why people dont respond to your messages, most of us simply dont care to respond to all the messages we get from single guys. I would be sitting at my computer all day long.Oh hold on , that is what i do now..lolJust be yourself, and take a plunge and go to a club and introduce yourself to other like minded adults.Hope that helps.Leesa
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RHP User
16 years ago
Going to CI boosted my chances considerably. Not only because meeting people in person works a hell of a lot more, but also because it gave me the experiences with couples that I need to know what to do and say. The trick is to be confident, but not a know-all. Everyone is there for different reasons. Listen to them, probe a little to see what they want and then casually assure them that you understand and that you can deliver. After that it's just a matter of actually delivering what you said you would. So be honest!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Just a note, Our venue is for hire on week nights, so if you want to organise a private party, let us know, we are happy to let you use the venue for a small cost . Call us for details if anyone is interested as the venue is booked a lot ,and you would have to book in for the night you wish to use it. Bryan and Leesa Couples Internaitonal
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RHP User
16 years ago
I too am in the same boat. I have been the cpl and the single male over a few times. We are at the bottom of the pickings and, like me I guess, you know you don't fit the usual inexperienced or crude guy image outlined above. I know I am very capable to bring an uncomplicated, well presented class experience to a cpl, they just don't know it yet. It's a big ask and has elements of risk for a cpl(as you may remember when you were a couple). When I was 'coupled' it took over 6 months to engage fully with a few meets before hand to guage the womans attraction. keep in mind cpls are twice as busy in life too(kids work e.t.c.). I have been observing here for six weeks with a profile written 2 years ago and have finally found the time to asess the site and its inhabitants. It appears to be a really good community reminding me of "Whispers" years ago(you may remember them?) If we keep up the posts and get familiar with everyone (like we are now) our profiles wont matter too much. I only want to find one good couple and that takes time. Couples only generally want to find one good male for occasional fun. The chance will arrive and it will be sensational, you know it!
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