abcplus1

abcplus1

M59 F56

dead in here or just us????

April 19 2012

Activity in RHP seems to be a little slow of late, no one looking at our profile, not much appearing on the 'stream's home page. Those few we have messaged of late don't bother replying. Is it something we said? :-)

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Your profile is inviting, however, it may fall in the same situation that guys have - If you're looking for ladies, it won't be that often that your profile will be visited.Also, I have a feeling the home page stream is geared up to your ages & wants - that is, seeking females.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    i put up with this all the time   no one looking and no replies   hmmm maybe i need a pic??   Hugs

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Coz I am still inundated with looks, messages and flirts....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    ** a tumble weed blows across the forums, somewhere in the distance, a dog barks...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    We don't see things AS THEY ARE.....We see things AS WE ARE...It is just the way it goes..... Feast or Famine...I do understand that it is hard for those whom are looking for the Elusive Single Bi Female...It may surprise you to know that 90% of blokes are looking for exactly the same thing...Males spend more time searching profiles than womenand the Men seeking far outweigh the women seeking...so the odds are against you from the get go...Most women do not bother with searching or looking at many profiles... (I must be an exception) because they don't have to....they are usually wading knee deep in Emails

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Depends what you're after I guess. For me, I'd take one or two quality messages (thanks very much) over frequent, ill-formed ones that make me struggle to compose a response...but that's just me .Lots of people look at our profile, but not necessarily those I'd be looking for so the numbers are irrelevant. But if you're lucky, there can be an unexpected bonus.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Women are mostly like Oysters and sit there attached to their rock and sift out whatever comes their way, mostly not proactive at all.Also, you are searching a very small segment of the site, fems and fem couples.Try searching couples, as long as your fair dinkum about playing with the other bloke, just hookingup with couples and then trying to exclude the male of the other party isn't a great idea!Happy hunting!Cheers Felonius....I could go a dozen Oysters right about now....yummo

  • abcplus1

    abcplus1

    14 years ago

    ......after all, over the past 12 years, only 1 of the females we have been with with have come from a site. 1 was a friend for many years prior and 2 others we met through a non site based chat room. But it just seems of late things have been extra slow, haven't organised a date via rhp in months, several have made the.effort to reply once, then nothing.....never understand that.