contact from people from other states

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Hiya Tuscan xx   A few that i chat to from over east like the distance from a safetly perspective - love the social/cam etc without the pressure to meet.   Not that i chat much these days but I found my eastern states friends much more open and liberated - until I say I am coming over for a work trip - want to meet :)   On the other side it is exciting to get off a plane have a liason with someone for a night band fly back home....

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  If we had a $1 for every message we got from interstate couples. Telling us they are just about to move to brisbane or some other story we would be rich. Not once has any of them followed through. We tend to just reply with get back to us when your actually in Brisbane. Another issue is we are not so much into one time meets and that's so logistically its most likely going to be just that.We do agree its a big teas to see a hot profile only to find its interstate but we wouldn't wast some ones time who we didn't have intentions of potentially meeting like some do.Tim

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Well, generally not - but I live on the NSW/ VIC border half way between Melb and Canberra, and a few times ppl mentioned they were travelling through - there could have been a coffee or a nice hot encounter - as they say "break the drive to stay alive" ;-)So now I mention the location if I see that people have their travel profile on - even though I'm not a paying member, it's good to put a face to who's who on the forums...!

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I agree , drives me nuts ! Contact me when you are here , otherwise just a waste of time when you are not into constant message or chat ! We like to get to know people, dinner, drinks etc , not really into one offs with couples . We get at least 4 messages or winks a day from interstate couples ( some very hot and just our type!!) X

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  A lot of eastern staters just recently. Flirts and messages and views. They must be looking at moving over here. Perth is in the top 10 best cities in the world every time. And for good reason.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  funnily enough, as i opened this topic to read what had been said, we received a flirt from a tassie cpl..... ? not quite local?

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Yep I get a few interstate people contact me evry now and again but ALOT of the times it has happened is when its been a regular of the forums and I guess they ahve just wanted to contact me to have a buit of a chat becuase I guess they feel like they have got to know you a bit already by what I ahve written on the forums and want to know more. Being the chatty person I am usually more than happy to have a few e mails back and forth. However this is not of a sexual nature as your right its most likely not going to go anywhere and like Tim mentioned I am the same as in I am not really into one off encounters.   However, a couple of months back I was contacted by a guy from Sydney.. a few messages back and forth and even exchanged numbers and a few pics as he said he was travelling to perth in January.. anyways a couple of weeks after he had made contact I actually won a 4 day trip to Sydney.. I let him know I was coming over and he seemed very pleased. I told him I was free to catch up on that Saturday or Sunday night I was there... was put up in a flash hotel... anyways there were messages on the Sat night back and forth but led to not meeting up and then there was NO contact at all on the Sunday...I was very much less than impressed and will not be doing that again!

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Most guys that try to add me from Interstate are guys who are only into cyber sex! In my whole time on this site I have met 2 guys from Interstate...one came here to specifically meet me (what a fizzer that was) and the second guy was here for a sporting tournament! The second guy keeps messaging me...but whenever he says he has days off and he is coming back over..I don't hear from him for about a month! . So many guys say that they come here regularly for work...but if you don't cyber with them nor sext with them...they usually drop off and then try again 6 months later! OR they tell you they have just been to Melbourne and when you ask them why they didn't contact you...they disappear again! Only local guys for me now! Which is a shame as I like the odd meet up with Interstaters...they don't live in your pocket the whole time! xFunlovingx

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Or something said under they're breath. .I occasionally receive flirts or compliments from interstaters, usually just to say they like my profile, pics or how I present myself here in the forums.Every now and then I find someone whom I'm able to continue talking to after it's established we're not likely to meet and that's great. I've had some wonderful communication with a few people whom unfortunately I'm unlikely to meet. Friendships have begun with less I know.It's always nice to receive the compliments but it can be soooooo bloody frustrating when you have a similar attraction to the person. I'm not able to travel much but I can see the tease aspect and ability to be more open for those that actually don't expect to meet.For me, the people I've messaged with from interstate it's always been of a, "If only" or, "If you're ever up my way" kind of contact. There may or may not be an exception to the rule of course though. .If I were able to flit across the country meeting people nilly and giving them willy I could easily see that the people I'm attracted to and are attracted to me would not be as interested. It's fine being a Casanova for some but I feel it's quality not quantity that's the way to go. If the quantity happened to be quality? Who am I to complain? .CheersRusty

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  so far we've had invites to stay at places like launceston,cairns and bunbury.... that included return airfares, lol.... but yea we receive many many messages/flirts from interstate, either from people who just wanted to touch base on a forum discussion, or the pics we've posted, but also sometimes from those hoping to play....we have outstanding invitations from all over, so no matter what direction we travel next, theres someone wanting to meet us. (well, meet Shel i guess..lol). people travelling to the gold or sunshine coasts often contact us in the hope of indulging, and we regularly field invites from business types who are staying in brisvegas for one reason or another...but its not really what we are seeking, so contact usually goes nowhere....we receive more mail from guys on their own than couples, but lately, even tho we dont look nor are actively seeking, we've had a fair few ladies messaging and flirting with us from interstate...oh and yea, overseas travellers with RHP profiles have also been in contact.... one couple from miami, another from LA. saying they were coming to the goldie, would we like to meet............?

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I get a few from (alleged) women who type/speak very poor english and tell me they are looking for a life partner, who has Christain values and will make her the happy girl, treating them with honesty and love and integrity.. Reminicent of "Tom Tom turn around, dont ever let me down, don't ever leave my life...."   and go on to tell me I am EXACTLY what they are looking for... I am not sure what they read in my profile but.. it sure doesn't say anything about me having those values on the sanctity of marriage and monogomy etc...   Apart from that.. I am and older hairier male.. I dont get many texts at all... :)   caveman.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  for me, with sex aside for a minute..... i'm leaving myself open to the possibilities that exist with finding those curious and interesting minds, near or afar, and how they might add to my life....... whether it be emotional, physical or spiritual.... or purely just someone to share a laugh with.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I was just trying to let you know that I appreciate your forum contributions. Actually there might be more to it if we weren't a continent apart.

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