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confidence wanted but intimidated by it
June 20 2010
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DonnaBrett
16 years ago
Or maybe it's just a case that these guys have got tickets on themselves & can't handle rejection LOL. Some time ago we were looking for a number of guys for a GB. We were only choosing those suitable and rejecting others in a very polite way as we don't like to offend people. However one guy couldn't accept it...kept sending messages "What's wrong with me?" , "Why don't you like me?" etc etc. That sort of carry on isn't gonna get anyone anywhere....then many months later he messaged again in relation to another ad...thinking we wouldn't know him?? LOL Don't worry about them Jensta...delete..block! Problem gone!
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RHP User
16 years ago
sweetiepie Theres always a fine line! there is between pleasure! n pain! too! The reality is they want sexy! confident! but only in a cheeky playful sexual manner! but a true confident person is that way in all areas of life! GET REAL GUYS! WAKE UP AND SMELL THE ROSES! BEFORE ALL THE GENUINE SEXY CONFIDENT WOMAN! EXIT FROM HERE! xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Nah... by confident we mean "uninhibited"... we don't men we waqnt some bitch trying to tell us what is good for us. :p Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Im no bitch! I have had alot of guys this weekend tell me i got tickets on myself! after i tell them i not interested in them, FUNNY THAT! i dont put u all in the same basket! If a guy wants confidence gotta expect that im upfront u know upfront from anyone is a good thing! Im not 18 I have lived, I get frustrated with all the disrespect and games that go on! And by the why I wouldnt like it either if woman behave the same way its the behavior not the gender xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
ohhh do i understand this one yes there is a big difference between confidence and ballsy but you know what just because you turn a man down doesnt mean you should cop abuse for it the men are just upset cause you had the guts to say no, when half the guys on here dont and will just ignore you if they dont want you there is nothing wrong at all with a girl being confident you go girl....dont stop what your doing...if the men cant handle it...fuck them off roxxy
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'jensta'Im no bitch! I have had alot of guys this weekend tell me i got tickets on myself! after i tell them i not interested in them, FUNNY THAT! i dont put u all in the same basket! If a guy wants confidence gotta expect that im upfront u know upfront from anyone is a good thing! Im not 18 I have lived, I get frustrated with all the disrespect and games that go on! And by the why I wouldnt like it either if woman behave the same way its the behavior not the gender xxx You lost me when you seemed to confuse telling someone you're not interested in them with confidence. I think that's assertiveness, or decisiveness. . Confidence is the way you walk. The way you stand in the shower when someone is lathering you up. The way you look into someone's eyes and smile uninhibitedly, feeling comfortable in the skin you're in.. waking up with someone and not running off to apply spatulas of makeup before they see you... sex in the sunshine or with lights or candles on because you're not hung up about some wobbly bit that only you can see. . There's a difference. And confidence is sexy. Balls aren't. . PS - And Stalky is (as always) right too lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
i think you boys are only half right there....Trish has it you have to be confident to be honest and say what you want and to ask for what your after yes its the way you hold yourself but there is more to it then just that why is it if a woman says whats on here mind....or if she says not interested to a man she is scary or a bitch??? Jensta's right guys...you either want it or you dont.....make up your bloody minds and let us girls know what you all decide roxxy
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Jean_Girard'You lost me when you seemed to confuse telling someone you're not interested in them with confidence. I think that's assertiveness, or decisiveness. . Confidence is the way you walk. The way you stand in the shower when someone is lathering you up. The way you look into someone's eyes and smile uninhibitedly, feeling comfortable in the skin you're in.. waking up with someone and not running off to apply spatulas of makeup before they see you... sex in the sunshine or with lights or candles on because you're not hung up about some wobbly bit that only you can see. . There's a difference. And confidence is sexy. Balls aren't. . PS - And Stalky is (as always) right too lol Said it in a way I couldn't.
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RHP User
16 years ago
...is the key here. You're dealing with the typical pouty child who got knocked back lashing out. The guy who is insulted because he thinks he's all that and can't believe he doesn't meet your standards so his response is to be a dick while he sulks in the corner licking his wounded ego. LOL Confidence IS sexy. Very. Arrogance isn't and sometimes there can be a fine line between the two but I find a confident woman fantastic :) Nothing better than a woman who knows what she wants and is willing to seek it out, go for it and not compromise. Now if only I could find one like that here... LOL
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yeah I guess like others have said the balance between confidence and superiority. I don't have an answer to the dilemma but I can assure you I'd rather be rejected by a confident woman (it is a bit of an ego crusher) then being rejected by someone who cant see their own beauty and lets that keep them from enjoying the company of someone. I was going to read your profile and take an outsiders view of it as for me personally this is a good way to assess someone(its not the be all end all) but its locked as you have changed something. I'm sure its probably a mix of burnt egos meets ballsy that has left you on the receiving end of some negative feedback. I guess any feedback is good feedback because you can learn from it!Thanks Rob
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RHP User
16 years ago
Confidence it's a complex behaviour easily mistaken for bravado or pretence , arrogance or cockiness. It is also often mistakenly portrayed by some in the same way. Often people describe themselves as confident use it as an excuse for a lack of manners or just plain rudeness ....... oh you don't like me cause I'm confident. . For me its about being able to admit that your wrong, that you don't feel comfortable. That you know when something is not right for you but being well enough in yourself to admit it and to those around you. Have to agree with Jean its about being comfortable in your skin etc. There is an enormously wide line between being sexy and confident and a bitch. You can indeed be one without the other !But often those without confidence dont see it! Brae
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RHP User
16 years ago
maybe my problem is im just a bitch if thats the case...im glad to be one roxxy
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RHP User
16 years ago
I've never been called a bitch in my life before (well except jokingly by friends) until joining RHP. I find it hilarious! :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
confidence –noun belief in oneself and one's powers or abilities; self-confidence; self-reliance; assurance: His lack of confidence defeated him. Confidence isn't about being outspoken, up front and out there. Confident people are at their best without speaking, the way they engage others with their eyes, their body language and how they can move purposely into somones personal space without causing alarm and making them uncomfortable. In my experience, people who lack confidence or have insecurities often compensate by talking too much and often are mistaken for being conceited and having tickets on themselves. generalization –noun a proposition asserting something to be true either of all members of a certain class or of an indefinite part of that class. I find it dissapointing that you would vent your frustration at being criticised by making a generalized rant condemnng all men to the same group. It's not the fault of the rest of us that a few guys thought you were full of yourself and nor did we lay the criticism on you. denial –noun an unconscious defense mechanism used to reduce anxiety by denying thoughts, feelings, or facts that are consciously intolerable. In your own words you said " I have had alot of guys this weekend tell me i got tickets on myself! " I'm not being a smartarse but in my experience, if several people tell me I'm being a prick then it's highly likely I am. Maybe, just maybe, where there's smoke there's fire? Just a little fire perhaps? belligerent –adjective of warlike character; aggressively hostile; bellicose: a belligerent tone The use of this word may be over the top but not alot. "GET REAL GUYS! WAKE UP AND SMELL THE ROSES! BEFORE ALL THE GENUINE SEXY CONFIDENT WOMAN! EXIT FROM HERE!" Do we really need to be yelled at?
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RHP User
16 years ago
geez ruggedly you turn me on when you talk logically roxxy
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RHP User
16 years ago
Good Self Esteem = Confidence Unfortunately too many people mix good self esteem up with brash cockiness and over the top commentary. I would go so far as to say that at least 50% of the people on here have self esteem issues including myself. These same people will pretend to be confident, either on here or in their private life. Too many people are involved in jobs that they simply do not like or are outside their comfort zone just to make ends meet. Wouldn't it be nice to say shove it, this is not for me, but what do we do then? (self esteem issue) I coash a mixed junior soccer team and whilst outwardly these kids at 14 seem confident they continually show the effects of low self esteem. It is my role to coach skills, both football and life. This team of beginners is going pretty well and improve each week because I have been able to build their self esteem only to see others try to destroy it. It seems that we do not want anyone else to be "better" than us so we continually shoot them down. I guess by trying to improve the lives of the team players I am trying to boost my own self esteem. It's the old story, What goes around come around, Do unto others, you know the rest.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I understand the frustration of being upfront, saying how you feel then being shot down, this is in a similar vein to the post about people wanting honesty and then not being able to handle the truth. Although Stalky is stirring the pot he makes sense :PRugged, I agree with you too..if I am told more than once that I am behaving unreasonably by more than one person then I probably am . maybe the problem is the delivery of the rejection and maybe the people you rejected are just pratts, you were right in your decision to turn them down and then they validated your decision by getting narky at your decision. Some people do not take rejection well and the more any of these men thought they were in with a chance the more disappointed they are likely to be.People need to think about what or how they say something and how it is going to make the other person feel, I also think that you have to be careful and if you know you are not interested make sure you do not string the poor bugger along just because you like the attention (Please do not think for a minute that I think this is what you have done, i am just looking at this from all the angles and speaking generally).xx Salina
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RHP User
16 years ago
Its simple... Confidence is knowing what you want ' how to get it' and how submissive you are to even begin to enjoy it.. Assertiveness ' a passion killler' a big difference.. Confidence and Grandure... even a bigger passion killer.. How the hell would you even want to make love to a person who has that many tickets on themself... Talk about a turn off.....
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RHP User
16 years ago
I certainally not ballsy, im a confident woman that is feminine, and happy in life, I certainally do stand up 4 myself as i have more selfworth not to! What I am saying is some men say they, want a confident woman that is comfortable with herself, knows what she likes and wants, then when it comes down to it, and both looking 4 different things or not my type after futher communication as thats how we get to know theses things, im honest and say im not interestest, good luck with your adventure very politely, I understand they my have had hope, but hey Im genuine and honest! ...................................................... Its like a child throwing a tantrum when they dont get what they want!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'geturroxyoff' geez ruggedly you turn me on when you talk logically roxxy RHP needs a "like" function. I'm with Roxy!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Polar_Bear_Girl' Quoting 'geturroxyoff' geez ruggedly you turn me on when you talk logically roxxy RHP needs a "like" function. I'm with Roxy! Oh me toooo! I have a bit of a weakness for nouns and adjectives!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm sorry Jensta but your not making sense. Your original post says that you believe all men want a confident woman but are intimidated by confidence which resulted in several guys saying you have tickets on yourself. In your latest post you are suggesting they are throwing tantrums when they don't get what they want. Im afraid I must tell you that people who are intimidated will generally get as far away from whats intimidating them rather than toss a tanty. Are you really trying to say that men are spoiled brats who kick and scream when they don't get what they want or are you saying they are frightened of confident women? Are you still including all men in this dramatic generalization or is it just RHP men, swingers, singles or just men you know? Why are these men getting their hopes up? Are you processing men like a job application or are you meeting in neutral territory and just mingling? Are you flirting with these guys giving them false hope? Are you making it very clear what you're looking for in a man? As I suggested in my first post, when several people say the same thing you have to start wondering where the problem is. In my opinion your last post suggests even more than your original post that your just pissed off the guys thought you have tickets on yourself more than guys misrepresenting what they really want in a woman and even just in this thread alone your sending mixed signals. No wonder the guys can't work it out, I'm guessing the courting ritual with you is like doing the cryptic crossword in the dark by braille or perhaps I'm not so clever and losing the message in your grammar...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Lolz... Rugged... I'm reminded of the Monty Python skit... "Is this the right place for an argument?" Of course, you do realise that you are using "logic".. which, as it happens, reminds me of yet another Monty Python skit. hehe. Personally, I think the word confident has been mis-quoted. AS person can be confident or they can be unsure. Being unsure is more often a reasonable attitude to take in unfamiliar circumstances. It shows some measure of reason and dare I say it "logic". As I previously said... I think the word we were lookign for was "uninhibited" rather than confident. A person can be confident without being a bitch about it... a person can be unsure without being a bitch about it... Let's face it.. if you are a bitch... it doesnt matter if you are confident or not ..hehe... Men are not going to find that aspect of your character attractive. :p Now Jen, I'm not saying you're a bitch.. Im just saying I dont wanna be lumped in with a wanker who spat the dummy because you gave him a knockback. Oh.. and I agree completely with Jeano and Rugged. :p Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
AINT THAT THE TRUTH!!! As I said I dont put all you men in the same basket! but there is alot of dickheads on this site, I know there are some great guys on here, thank god 4 that! otherwise I would have exited long ago. Anyone who has met me would tell u, that Jensta is not a bitch!!! more likely to ask me why im always, happy and smiling, If I could reply by video! on here I would! and then u would see. xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
a tantry wantry just because you said no...roflmfao...hot damn girl...you go...some of the guys here don't like being lumped in with all the spoilt brats who throw a wobblybecause ya won't fcuk them...oh deary, deary me...now woman!....give me back my dummy and hurry up with me botty!!!...jose is hungry...
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RHP User
16 years ago
I find! it Alarming!! at how often!!! exclamation marks and BIG fonts are being used!!!! in this threadI'm confident I can read the regular sized text quite fine thankyouverymuch
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RHP User
16 years ago
tread gently in the sandpit.... I have met jensta a number of times at drinks nights and she is a confident lady.....and fun, easy going company in a social situation. Cant say I know about her having balls or not.....I like men to play with, not women. :) I do know we all have the potential to be a bitch (this thread has bought out the bitchness in a few men & women it appears)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'sydneyboy3au'I find! it Alarming!! at how often!!! exclamation marks and BIG fonts are being used!!!! in this threadI'm confident I can read the regular sized text quite fine thankyouverymuch IS 4 SURE
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RHP User
16 years ago
OK, while we are airing our differences...... Ive never been fond of the use of the emoticons. I just think they're dumb.. hehe. HUgs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi Stalky Hope its not too cold for you today was a freezing night in Melbourne Am happy that I get to stay in bed all day today aren't I lucky might have to look at playing with myself oops too much info but is better to please yourself and knowing what to do and the new vibe is just the bomb But it is going so much overuse that the police thought that I was using too much electricity and thought I was growing a crop but when they left I had 2 new numbers but one was off a 79 year old police man I really am innocent and sweet but the devil made me do it xFunlovingx
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RHP User
16 years ago
in case you are having a dig at me...exclamation marks, bold, etc are used to emphasize a point...!!!and so sorry old chap...didn't realize you were so persnickety!...and not to mention a S.I.T.M.sheeshjose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
if u have a look I always use a larger font on here! its not just this post!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'sydneyboy3au' I find! it Alarming!! at how often!!! exclamation marks and BIG fonts are being used!!!! in this threadI'm confident I can read the regular sized text quite fine thankyouverymuch Confident you may claim to be but it seems to me you are finding the text on this thread intimidating heheBesides where's the fun in 'regular sized' lololol!!! This is RHP ya know... Huge hugs... Mrs P'
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' OK, while we are airing our differences...... Ive never been fond of the use of the emoticons. I just think they're dumb.. hehe. HUgs Stalky Only dumb till we use them... then they speak for themselves :-P Hugs... Mrs P'
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RHP User
16 years ago
So hard to categorize oneself....but i'll give it a bash!Im confident when out in the world...yet can be crushed by a harsh word from a loved one.I am generally easy going and one of the gang...but can be a total bitch and behave like a brat as well.I like to be friendly and speak to others in an uplifting and complimentary way....but can be arrogant and derogatory when someone tries to act superior to me.Soooo...in saying all that...while i try to be a friendly person....some fuckers just rub me the wrong way!And while I really do try not to resort to being nasty...I will certainly use my smarts to out-debate them!Now...to get a more accurate description of who I am...you would need to ask my friends...AND my enemies!JMO...BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
A REAL MAN is a womans best friend........He will never stand her up and never let her down.........he will reassure her when she is insecure and comfort her after a bad day.......he will inspire her to do things she never thought she could do ...to live without fear and forget regrets.....he will enable her to express her deepest emotions and give in to her most intimate desires......he will make sure she always feels like the most beautiful woman in the room.....and will enable her to be the most sexy. confident, seductive and invincible.................... ............................................... no wait.......sorry........im thinking of wine.............oh well never mind .......................................................... confident sexy seductive invincible happy and single miss b
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RHP User
16 years ago
Okay, can't help but throw my 2 cents worth in here... Rejection is something I find a lot of men and women for that matter just cant handle... I will only speak for myself here (as I always do)... I personally like a woman with confidence, one that can speak her mind and do it with confidence, the one who knows who she is and is happy in her own skin and it happy to explain to me what she is and isn;t looking for. But bagging somebody or replying with a nasty message just because they have been rejected just shows lack of confidence on their part, and to be honest I think it's just quite childish... If I had a positive response for very single message and flirt I sent out I reckon I could give Hugh Heffner a run for his money, lol... but alas that doesn't happen because this is the "real" world. A nil reponse to some can be taken in a negative way, but for me it simply just means that my profile or message hasn't inticed her or "intrigued" her enough to want to reply... it's that's simple. So guys, if you're reading this and you are one of those people who want a confident woman... be prepared to take a bit of critisim, a bit of "hard truth", but take it all as constructive... remember confident women really do know what they are looking for and maybe you're just putting yourself out there with a vibe that the ladies take as negative... worth thinking about I think anyway. Okay really lost the rest of my train of thought now... so stepping down off the soap box (hate it when that happens mid post, lol), but it gives you readers the reprieve of my dribble!! Take care and live in harmony peeps :-) Tiger x
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RHP User
16 years ago
Why so heated? Confidence is cool. Self-respect is great (and some of what's been discussed strikes me more as self respect). Keep it, exercise it, it's good for you.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Self confidence with an assuredness of one's own sensuality and sexuality are indeed admirable traits, whether in a man or woman. However, self confidence to an extreme becomes arrogance and self assuredness becomes bombastic...perhaps even to the extent of self incrimination or embarrassment. I personally would not find those traits admirable nor desireable in anyone. | I would suggest that we all have the option to create whatever persona we may choose. We then must live with it, right or wrong...and either become it's benefactors or it's victims. | Perceptions and choices...we all have our own.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'couple30ssydney' Quoting 'Polar_Bear_Girl' Quoting 'geturroxyoff' geez ruggedly you turn me on when you talk logically roxxy RHP needs a "like" function. I'm with Roxy! Oh me toooo! I have a bit of a weakness for nouns and adjectives! i just have a weakness for the man in the tee.... well look at us three, all confident enough to tell a man he turns us on roxxy
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'missbowpeek' A REAL MAN is a womans best friend........He will never stand her up and never let her down.........he will reassure her when she is insecure and comfort her after a bad day.......he will inspire her to do things she never thought she could do ...to live without fear and forget regrets.....he will enable her to express her deepest emotions and give in to her most intimate desires......he will make sure she always feels like the most beautiful woman in the room.....and will enable her to be the most sexy. confident, seductive and invincible.................... ............................................... no wait.......sorry........im thinking of wine.............oh well never mind .......................................................... confident sexy seductive invincible happy and single miss b My friend Scot is like that, he makes me feel invincible, strong and proud. Through him I am a cunning linguist, I wax lyrical and I venture places I dont normally go... pitty Scot is only a shortened version of his real nameScotch
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Jean_Girard' Quoting 'jensta'Im no bitch! I have had alot of guys this weekend tell me i got tickets on myself! after i tell them i not interested in them, FUNNY THAT! i dont put u all in the same basket! If a guy wants confidence gotta expect that im upfront u know upfront from anyone is a good thing! Im not 18 I have lived, I get frustrated with all the disrespect and games that go on! And by the why I wouldnt like it either if woman behave the same way its the behavior not the gender xxx You lost me when you seemed to confuse telling someone you're not interested in them with confidence. I think that's assertiveness, or decisiveness. . Confidence is the way you walk. The way you stand in the shower when someone is lathering you up. The way you look into someone's eyes and smile uninhibitedly, feeling comfortable in the skin you're in.. waking up with someone and not running off to apply spatulas of makeup before they see you... sex in the sunshine or with lights or candles on because you're not hung up about some wobbly bit that only you can see. . There's a difference. And confidence is sexy. Balls aren't. . PS - And Stalky is (as always) right too lol on here for some time now, for someone to explain exactly what this 'confidence' thing is. Finally someone has!!! Thank you Jean, you can't know what a difference it's made to me to read what you wrote.lilmiss xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'lilmissfussy' Quoting 'Jean_Girard'on here for some time now, for someone to explain exactly what this 'confidence' thing is. Finally someone has!!! Thank you Jean, you can't know what a difference it's made to me to read what you wrote.lilmiss xxx Thanks... I am pretty awesome aren't I? lol. . Be careful though - if you take all my posts seriously you could be in for some real problems!! or fun come to think of it lol.
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RHP User
16 years ago
xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
..but please don't but I do think I've developed an instant man-crush on Mr Rugged, damn logic is sexy! Should I buy into this argument? Nobody listens to me anyway :( - harden up fella and get some confidence you say? OK it's impossible to know the full extent of what he said, she said in Jensta's knock backs. What I will say is that it's hard to be gentle on here and easy for a confident person to come off as down right rude. So Jensta, confidence is beautiful but a confident person who is caring should also be wary that they could shatter someone else's confidence. If you've been chatting with someone a while and there's a few good reasons why you don't think it'll work then just telling them "sorry there's a few things I don't like about you, goodbye" would really hurt. I'm always one for honesty and if you and they have invested some time in your conversation then I'd think actually letting them know exactly what it is (of course in a nice way) would be best or even better to list the problems you see and ask them what they think about them before just pulling the plug. It's a bit like reality tv here, a bit too unreal and we forget how we'd act if we were face to face with a person. The sexiest confident person is also a caring person too.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Jean_Girard and Stalky, I understand completely where you are coming from with regards to confidence. It is how you see yourself and how you believe the rest of the world sees you. As in the same. I wish I had a lot more of it. I have certainly gotten more and more of it as I have gotten older. I worry less and less what others think because I'm not as hard on myself as I used to be when I was younger which is such a shame. How many people look back now and appreciate the fantastic body they had then only back then you didn't know it. I met a women once who was not that attractive and had far from the perfect body. She showed me a pic of her in a boat in a bikini. She showed me the photo with such pride and enthusiasm. You could see in the pic how happy she was during the moment and she did look beautiful. It is when someone shows you a pic and shyley says. "Oh don't take any notice of me I look terrible there!" that kills the moment and has everyone feeling uncomfortable. So when we are much happier with what we have , we have more fun in the bedrrom and so does our partner. Women especially are bad at doing it to themselves for fear of what he might be thinking when what he is thinking is "I so wish she could relax and we could have fun." It is a bit like that one glass of wine that makes us all feel that bit sexier when really it is that we are feeling that bit more confident. Try it next time and just pretend that you look as hot as all hell and I bet after you will start feeling it. Don't forget to bring a very lay back, happy guy that is comfortable in himself too. Sometimes it is the"shit hot" people that are the worst offenders. Miss K
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RHP User
15 years ago
In this world we are all, different, which is great, be boring otherwise! Im confident! and caring and genuine! when I say that im not interested or say no to a date i am gentle! Im sorry if some cant handle that! I dont do sympathy dating! I have toughen the fuk up since dealing with some dickheads on here! Now when I get a U want a fuck or blow me msg i give them what 4 And why shouldnt I they talking to me with disrespect, and I certainally wont put up with that, yes I could just block them! but wtf why not give them what they deserve! Example! Hello thanx 4 the mail, why would I want anything to do with someone as direspectful as u! Im tipping u wouldnt be getting any sexy fun on here! with your opening line, just remember yes its a sex site, not a whorehouse! fuk off 9 times out of 10 they msg back im sorry but as if I would be Interested, And also theres nice guys who just are not my type! yes could be friends! but without sexy benefits! We all have types that we are attracted to! We are human! U gotta have an attraction and a connection to have hot horny sex! On the flip side there are alot of wonderful people here so please dont get your knickers or jocks in a knot! Im sure at some point u woman on here have had some disrespectful mail, even u guys would have, so im sure if yous think about it u will understand! xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
YAWN
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well said...
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RHP User
15 years ago
just because your confident doesnt mean that a guy will go for you, it has nothing to do with intimidation i think. Its if we can be bothered honestly
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RHP User
15 years ago
Jensta - take it as a compliment, you're a self-assured woman who knows what she wants and is happy with who she truly is. Alot of the time guys can't handle it! And by the sounds of things I think they're just cut they got rejected and hence have to neg you in the process. Water off a ducks back, babe! You'll come across that one spesh guy that is absolutely mesmerised by your confidence and charm!Pertaining to knock-backs and rude rejections on RHP - we all know that things can be misconstrued. Especially when we're just reading words off a screen and can't understand tone or intention. Sometimes people can be rude, sometimes people don't realise they are.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Woman always believe they are something they arent. A lot will complain about something that is not right with themselves.but in reality, their body is just something that is on the outside. What is really important is what comes from the inside. I have meet woman and as always we all look at the outside, but when I get to know them, there is always something far greater than their looks.So ladies, dont be hard on yourselves......
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RHP User
15 years ago
so very boring
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