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condom's
June 23 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well, I'm a chick, so obviously it's a bit different but you know what, I can't tell the difference if there's rubber there or not.I also love latex gloves...can barely notice a difference in sensitivity with fingers when wearing them so not sure why it would be different.Guys just bung it on, a deep seated need to spread their seed I reckon. :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
well I definitely can feel the difference. The whole sex experience is just not as slippery wet and squelchy with rubber on. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Oh... As for sowing seeds.... I've had a vasectomy so that whole idea is of no consequence to me. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
if you put lube on the inside of the condom as well... it apparently creates a feeling that is closer to skin on skin that not.... but personally I won't have casual sex without a condom.... it's just not worth the risk....
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RHP User
16 years ago
There is no comparison.The benifit is not worth the risk, no argument there. But where feeling, and feeling alone is concernedthe two are just not comparible. I could "fuck", or have sex with a condom on no problem, but "making love" with a condom on could never feel right. It may only create a seperation of 1mm, but where love and lust is concerned, 1mm is just too much!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I prefer without. My penis is so much more sensitive without. I do use them if i am having a one nighter though. I also get tested for STIs (every 3 months) regularly if I have had unprotected sex. xo
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RHP User
16 years ago
I most definately insist on a condom as I'm not willing to risk STI's or oopps pregnancy however I hate them with a passion as I think they reduce the feel of skin and veins for myself (who really cares what the bloke feels :P) The other pluses are it tends to make guys last longer and for a large proportion of blokes I've been with that's a good thing! It also means I don't have to sleep in the wet patch. Mrs Sassy
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RHP User
16 years ago
Lube on the inside is only a marginal improvement. to understand this difference ladies, Put a condom on two fingers and manouvre a couple of fingers into your muff... Concentrate on what the fingers feel.... Then remove the glove and repeat... notice the fine details? The feeling of the viscosity of vaginal mucous for instance. Well imagine magnifying that sensory perception by 100 or more sensory receptors found at the end of a mans dick and there's the difference. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
well put stalky, it is all about the feeling, wet and wonderful and whats with the ribbed condoms, do you females feel them or should we just turn them insideout and get twice the plesure lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' Put a condom on two fingers and manouvre a couple of fingers into your muff... Concentrate on what the fingers feel.... Then remove the glove and repeat... Get your girlfriend to help you. Now kiss... oohhh yeah - and rub your nipples against each others.... Now post the video!
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RHP User
16 years ago
It feels different. As a female I can tell the difference so it makes sense that men can too.I remember reading in a Dolly mag many years ago that if a guy tells you that, he is lying. It occurred to me even back then that if there was no difference in sensation then what other reason would there be for a guy not wanting to use it????xx Salina
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RHP User
16 years ago
Personally, i hate them with a passion, but they are a neccesary evil, niether mrs B or myself would play without them. PBG, your fingers are the most touch sensitive part of your body, so it stands to reason that they would barely notice a difference, but by comparison the penis is not nearly as sensitive so even a thin latex condom is going to reduce the sensation. All in all though, i'll take a disposeable latex condom over the old reusable sheep gut ones from ye olden days or a visit to the doc's for a course of penacilin xx The bewildered
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RHP User
16 years ago
Don't care about the difference in feeling at all, if you play with others safe sex is a must, especially in this lifestyle. No matter who or how long you have know someone CONDOMS are essential. Sometimes the person you are playing with may not know they have an STD and therefore pass it on to you and your partner, Some std's lie dormant and the host doesn't know they have it. Always play safe, never have sex with someone without a condom unless it is your partner, and you will enjoy the lifestyle to the full extent. After all, as a couple....playing simply is NOT that important and the saying we have here at CI is.... IF IT IS NOT ON....IT IS NOT ON!. SIMPLE If we witness someone playing without a condom on our venue and we know they are not their partner we will evict, after all that is a condition of entry to our club...our sign in book says that all patrons practice safe sex ( not with your partner especially ) but with others.
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RHP User
16 years ago
If a single guy has on his profile to the question Practice safe sex: ALWAYS.. THEN HE IS WELCOMED. If he has Practice Safe sex: If required...we don't want him here. ALWAYS IS A MUST HERE AT CI.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Lolz Leesa.. this was a question about how they feel.... but the fact that they are ESSENTIAL for playing really cannot be stressed enough. I've seen too many lives ruined by a careless attitude. I thank you twice bebe. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
I know stalky went off topic a bit, but i feel so strong about that ...sorry.hehe first for me to go off topic forgive me..
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RHP User
16 years ago
I was talking about sensativity as I really can not feel the difference other than they feel tight and keep me up longer. And was wondering if it has to do with the person or is it because some guy's are cut or uncut. Some guy's we have talked to would rather not use them because they say they can not feel the same sensation's as they do when they don't use one. We say NO to the idea of unsafe sex but it's a question as to why would they not wan't to use them these day's. Even if it doe's dull the sensation.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Good for you Leesa. Glad to hear your club has that rule. I feel very strongly on the subject too. It's amazing how many people have bareback parties etc. I know each to their own but honestly in this day and age it is ridiculous.
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RHP User
16 years ago
just easier on yer ownahahahahahahahahahhahahaaEarl
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DonnaBrett
16 years ago
Well for me (male half) .... the difference is so extremely minor, it's not an issue. Obviously condom brand/type can play a part (ie: thicker ones not good)..but really the only problem with condoms for me is the interruption to play while the pack is opened & the condom put on. Putting lube under the condom is not advisable as they can easily slip off & you don't even know.In a perfect world it would be great for us not to have to use them, to be in a melee' of bodies & to be able to freely change from one girl to the next would be fantastic..but alas, we don't live in the perfect world. Condoms are a must in this scene and and I would hope the 'singles' scene in general & folk who don't want to use them are virtually playing Russian roulette.Also in the instance of an orgy situation...condoms should be changed between each girl. I have seen guys trying to sneakily do two or more girls without changing. You guys might be safe..but think of the ladies!!
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