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chat room expectations

January 05 2011

Hi everyone I'm just curious what you all think about people's expectations when they go into the chat rooms. I was recently having fun chatting away and having a bit of a perve as we all do sometimes when a guy was having a go at people who watch him or others on cam but don't put one on themselves. I thought it was a bit harsh as I didn't think it would be a problem in an adult chat room to be watched if you're on cam. Isn't that the idea? And my thinking is that if you choose to go on cam you have to expect that some people will just want to enjoy watching you and shouldn't have to feel guilty about not returning the favour. Some people may not have a cam, other's may be too shy to cam up in a public arena like that. Maybe I missed the part in the chat room rules book that says if you perve you also have to be perved on ... maybe someone can enlighten me. Cheers

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RHP User

15 years ago

forced you to turn your cam on I doubt there'd be a lot of people in there. Some just like to watch, some like being watched. There shouldn't be rules on this. There is no etiquette for chat rooms. If you wish to remain anonymous then thats your choice and I doubt any amount of caps or cursing can change that. unless it's your friends putting some peer pressure on you haha. And like you said some might not even have a camera.

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RHP User

15 years ago

Everyones different. From my time in the chat rooms Ive seen more then just one bloke get quite uppity about other men watching them on cam.Also I have seen both male and females state that if a person is watching them that they'd better speak up and say something to them or else they will get blocked. As so many topics have pointed out, there are a lot of fake/profiles etc I do think that maybe a few "females" in chat room are actually blokes copping a free perve...either that or I have a few "female??" that always- and I mean ALWAYS!!! view me when Im on...seriously (whispers...) there are some really hot guys/fems that cam in chat room..move on...Overall, I dont care who is watching when I cam, as long as they dont start with the barrage of lewd or offensive chat/whispers then Im cool for them to view.Actually for me the quieter they are the better lol as Im normally chatting to people in there and it can get distracting.Some may whisper what they are actually doing whilst Im camming and do I mind? Knock yourself out I think ..as long as you dont expect me to watch! People cam at varying degrees for all sorts of reasons. All anyone can do is state there own case as to how they like to be viewed and people should respect their wishes after that.P.S I agree with you its your right not to cam - but its also the other dudes right too block people if he doesnt want non cammers viewing him.

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RHP User

15 years ago

As with any adult site with chat rooms, sometimes they attract ppl with selfish views. You turn a cam on your allowing ppl to watch as they please. Be cautious of what you show. Ppl are capturing webcams, converting in to movies and publishing on the net!

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RHP User

15 years ago

Thanks guys for you comments and especially to Casscade for the info on people capturing the webcams ... hadn't heard that so will be more careful. Cheers everyone and happy chatting ... and camming lolAleve

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RHP User

15 years ago

Some people need to stress less and just enjoy the fact that some people (male or female) are enjoying the cam being shown. Aleve.... happy to watch you guys anytime... lol... or even be watched... xoxo Casscade.. also thanks for the heads up about ppl capturing video and re-posting it... xoxo The averages...

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