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can women really cheat?
July 30 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
What's wrong with having feelings for whom you play with? If you don't like and care for each other how do you trust and explore? NSA to me, still involves emotions just a clear understanding you are not looking to commit to anything more at this stage. Embrace the emotions bud its only going to get better!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Maybe you didnt make your NSA intentions clear enough?
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Bambi_Peeks
12 years ago
Us females can also :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
you were just to damn good at it .... SFxx
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RHP User
12 years ago
In the heat of the moment, get her name wrong ! Fatal.
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
I agree with ruby blossom. Some can n some can't - it all depends on the connection that you have with the person your with! Can men really cheat?? Or do they too get emotionally attached! It goes both ways. I knew a girl who did not get emotionally attached at all - it was only sex - wham bam thankyou ma'am... She only saw the look of the mans cock - but it had to be big otherwise she wasn't interested - she wouldn't talk about anything but sex with these men n from start to finish any encounter was just sex... Some ppl say that kissing is too personal n that can lead to being emotional n forming an attachment with someone. But no one can help who they seem to fall for n who they don't! Mrs C 👅
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am going to through this back at you Married. I bet it had a lot to do with your actions. Did you tell her about your personal life? Did you confide in her? Did you give her the impression she was more important to you then she actually was? I bet you did. How long was this brief fling? You need better screening techniques most likely. A woman who has had an affair before is probably better than one who hasn't. Some married men will only see a woman a 2-3 times before moving on, so that they avoid complications.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Some men just love blaming women.
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RHP User
12 years ago
He said ONE brief encounter....funny a lot of guys fear this will happen and usually only do the one encounter and then disappear.But I have been considering this of late.I have notice that married men/women and couples in open relationships seem to be able to disengage from the emotional attachment because they have this at home. The emotional attachment that is ...they are looking for the spice. Yes I know there are also single men and women who can detatch their emotions too, but I have noticed a few single men and many single women who want a friend in their lover because the sex is more intimate.Of course we dont know if she was married or not, even married people fall for their playmates. Things should be clear from the start mixed messaged fuck things up.And when you fuck around expect things can get fucked up.
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RHP User
12 years ago
from your profile that you are looking for the thrill of the new.....most...,not all,...women are looking for more than that, the one off fucking a stranger...perhaps find women who are attached,theymay be more likely to want the same as you and not be so susceptible to your charms.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sure i can , but having said that whats wrong with having feelings or caring for my playmate when we are together ?...for all i know it is always better when you do it with feelings with emotions and infact it is wonderful , but sure i will never have problem also to disengage my self from the other person , knowing where i stand on the land of RHP ...but when i am doin it, prefered to do it with feelings always , becoz for the reason it is so much more beautiful to explore or embrace each other whole heartedly when together whether for a day, a month or a year, i am just saying....
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RHP User
12 years ago
YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEES women can detach themselves easily to married men.LOOK AT MOI!!FOXY
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Some men just love blaming women. Perhaps their heads are too busy buried in the sandpit, and don't know how to play nicely??The Ostrich SyndromeFOXY
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RHP User
12 years ago
Miss Meeka.... You DO see the irony of your comment, right?!! LOL Gave me a wry smile. Thanks DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am not blaming all men DG. Besides, the OP has made a huge sweeping statement after one short fling!! Just saying that men often can only see one side of it. There were two people involved and usually both parties are partly to blame. Men, take responsibility for your actions. That's all.
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On_Safari
12 years ago
Lol I'll come back with something relevant once I've pondered the dilemma
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RHP User
12 years ago
Totally agree with 2guys...as long as you are both on the same page, there is nothing wrong with a little emotion. Trust and friendship and connection- that's when you can get to the really good stuff :)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
After having very frank discussions with my lovers, I have often been told that Im just like a guy within a womans body. I think it has something to with my insatiable appetite and not wanting anything beyond friendship.It doesnt mean that I have havent formed strong friendships with people that I care about.Minxy x
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm sure it cuts both ways, some of my lovers have more than one so obviously they can, some do get attached and deal with it, and some bail when they realise it's a one way street. Such is life. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
All the in's and out's and then ask the question again and I might answer youWe women can do a lot of things very well if we ut our minds to it. Don't worry if our heart isn't in it, or you piss us off....its easy to 'cheat'Do you find it easy to?
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sweetgem
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Men, take responsibility for your actions. The blaming act is what I always disagree with! Marrieddiscreet, it is way POSSIBLE for many women to detach ourselves from the casual fling! One is replying to your thread now don't burn the whole garden simply because you got cut by one rose
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RHP User
12 years ago
He did not make a broad sweeping statement. He asked a broad sweeping question !- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Most definitely. Have done it a number of times.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Most women or men can do single encounters with no emotion. Ofcourse some don't find this type of encounter satisfying. Where i think people run into emotional entanglements is when you build a bond, get to know each other, share something of yourselves beyond just the physical. Assuming you like each other to begin with, the above actions will have you form an attachment and feelings invariably get involved. Personally I think this type of connection lifts sex from good to "Oh My GOD!!!" This doesn't mean the parting needs to be messy when the relationship ends.
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Beachlover1999
12 years ago
I definitely know women can and do as I can differentiate between a one off encounter or an ongoing NSA. I agree probably not that satisfying and hence my reluctance to meet attached men in my town as no chance of dinner, coffee or a drink just a few hrs and see ya byeee after they have checked their mobiles a hundred times...... Just my experience of course! However, as occurred to me with someone from here, we didn't see it coming but really connected, it was amazing, body and soul haven't felt like that for years and it threw him to...... But alas he chose to go to this other woman who I don't believe can or does allow him to be wholly him........ You can't choose who you fall for, natures selection process...... So yes we can do it and I guess there is always a risk, that is what emotions are there for and can test (hurt) us. I think for me it is impossible to want to have sex of any kind unless there is some connection, isn't that what whores are for? ;))
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RHP User
12 years ago
Those women that say they can detach their emotions from sex. Really? Is the sex pretty boring then? I agree with KarynB, When there are no emotions then it remains a one night stand because the connection/emotion wasn't there so it's not worth seeing them again. I would rather have a rub myself, at least I don't have to worry about shaving my legs or twat. OP I don't think you are really after sex without emotions. What you are really asking is can a woman have a fling without becoming possessive, without wanting more, without becoming demanding. Well, yes, some women can. But as I said you should probably choose women that are little more sophisticated when it comes to affairs and flings. And as a married man, keep the flings short. Saver all round.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Saver should be safer.
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On_Safari
12 years ago
Hit the nail on the head.....I might also add constant communication to clear the air and keep well established boundaries. And OP maybe she's just as relieved as you are to be rid of you? Just sayin'? ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have had 2 regular lovers for the last 6 months, well one a FB and one a FWB With my FB the sex is good but not mindblowing and there is no emotional feelings or attachment. With my FWB the sex is ( or was ;( ) mindblowing and there were a lot of emotions involved but with that came the passion that made it so great. Maybe its just me but that passion is there because of the emotions So yes we can cheat and detatch ourselves but then you may meet some one and the chemistry is just there and no matter how hard you try it cant be denied
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RHP User
12 years ago
Once you underestimate the power of a woman's mind, you might as well pick your fishing rod up and put it in the ocean, not on RHP! :-P- Posted from rhpmobile
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Beachlover1999
12 years ago
I'm hearing you JayJay and sorry to see your sad emoticon. I hate the pain (hurt) but love the highs, I may as well not be alive if I thought I would never feel that feeling again!!!! 😃😎💋- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
You haven't come back to respond to anybody? Why do people start conversations then never return?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have Feelings & Emotions ... I would not be Intimate with just anyone Connection & Friendship needs to be there
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RHP User
12 years ago
Bosses wife could Which I guess.. is why my Ex bos is now my Ex boss :) But.. you know... young,hot, Exotic and foreign... VERY worth it.. and, I was ready to retire anyway... and I DO like being retired at my age :) ESPECIALLY with the memories of her still fresh...
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RHP User
12 years ago
lol@ OPYEah yeah..... youre not as irresistible as you think.LMAO DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Kaleidoscope' Most women or men can do single encounters with no emotion. Ofcourse some don't find this type of encounter satisfying. Where i think people run into emotional entanglements is when you build a bond, get to know each other, share something of yourselves beyond just the physical. Assuming you like each other to begin with, the above actions will have you form an attachment and feelings invariably get involved. Personally I think this type of connection lifts sex from good to "Oh My GOD!!!" This doesn't mean the parting needs to be messy when the relationship ends. Great answer lady :-) It needs to be said that for some people (like myself) a "Friend WIth BEnefits" means a friend in the first place - so we need to have a good chemistry, connection, rapport - whatever you'd like to call it and then the sex comes naturally ;-) This does not mean we cannot play with others as well and part ways when mutually agreed - and remain friends in other ways (like on a social site for example)Mr Sparks
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