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can a man give oral as good as a woman ,if not why
October 07 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
A skilled lover is a skilled lover.............the sex is irrelevant. There are unskilled lovers of both sexes.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Are you talking Hetrosexual or Bisexual? If Hetrosexual ...dont know cant suck my own cock!
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RHP User
14 years ago
sorry let me elaborate i have had conversations with two friends who are female and bi-sexual who have both stated that in their experiences that woman are better at giving oral sex to a woman than a man i was just wondering is that true or have they just been unlucky in finding a skilled partner for that
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playfulminx
14 years ago
Agreed - It's the degree of experience had by the oral performer :) A skilled lover will also know that every woman enjoys things differently.
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RHP User
14 years ago
In my experience women know how to touch other women the way we like it but it's just a different things. Sure all guys believe they are amazing at oral because women have lied to them all these years mostly. I'd say 2 in ten are amazing at it (and i'm easy) another 2 of that 10 are good but not amazing and the rest........believe they're amazing. I've had far more male lovers than female lovers but a womans touch is called "soft love" for a reason. Oral though is a completely different thing. We chickies are (in my humble opinion, could be wrong; it's happened before and i'm sure it will happen again) difficult. Harder to get off and over the edge than men. Most guys can get me excited, even noisily excited but few can get me over the edge. Every chick likes something different and we don't like to be critical so often our communication isn't fabulous. To be fair, the male ego is a fragile thing and we don't want to bruise it. I stand by my original statement though. Skilled is skilled.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Its not a matter of the soft touch and girls or boys being better at giving oral. My wife gets over the edge most times over the past 32 years, pretty good actor she is....not LOL! Its a matter of of the girls being Bisexual married to Guy and longing for some BiSexual action. Like a straight girl cant answer the question the OP asks!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I don't think she can say, since she has had no female lovers. Although you can judge in your own case, do you have any boy toys who suck your cock better than your wife does? And you know, i have heard from MANY women of your wifes generation who have spent 30 or 40 years married who have never once in all that time had a single orgasm so that's between them and their pussy and their poor decieved hubby, bless im It was the done thing many moons ago, "sex is for men, just let him do his business and get off" They learned from their peers how to fake it successfully and actually most men of the time weren't interested in being a good lover anyway, it was all about them and how they got off. Thank goodness this is a different era where women love sex and thank goodness men these days know that the better they are in the sack the better sex they are going to get out of their playfriends.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I THINK SO I have also been known as magic tongue
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RHP User
14 years ago
whether it's a guy or a girl doing it, we're all individuals, we all need different things and a good percentage of us are influenced more by the other things the do-er does well, like make us feel comfortable and sexy and turned on as well as hitting the spot hard and relentlessly ;)
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RHP User
14 years ago
How things and generations have changed in 10 years ? Are you sure you can claim its a generation thingie, guys giving bad oral and sex? We have heard on these forums from the single girls growling about their exes routinely of ALL ages on here. We do agree with you some couples of all ages may be locked into that type of selfish sex but a generation thingie no! I think Krissy and curiousnewgirl explanations are leaning towards the way we feel.....good sex is dependant on the depth of your mood and feelings for others, combined with our previous statement that Bisexual Girls married to guys are longing for girls play which is another contributing factor to the OP question. Anyways....Its a well known fact that couples in their mid 40 mid 50 can teach the younger ones a thing or two about the joys of sex......
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RHP User
14 years ago
I don't think so. I don't think skill is age related either. There have been AMAZING younger lovers and MF Lousy older lovers and visa versa. So with age and sex out of the picture...still seems that skill is an individual thing
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RHP User
14 years ago
Oral sex for me has always been a problem, happy to give but not get. Until I meet this guy who insisted on going down on me, usually I was pretty crafty and would have their cock in my mouth so they forgot about me. It was for me a control thing I guess, as your pretty vulnerable when a guy is going down on you. Well I wriggled around a bit trying to avoid what to me had always just been uncomfortable. But then he grabbed my wrists and pinned my hands down so I could not push him away. Another little trick was he pressed my tummy down near the Venus mound so my clit was up a bit,. The rest is history they called the police! They thought a woman was being murdered in the hotel room. I swear I cried out so loud and long. The guy just looked up between my legs a big wet smile on his lips and said wow talk about share the joy, they must have heard that a block away. I think that its all down to that moment, just when the ducks line up and its all happening for you in the moment. I am a bit hard to get over the edge, but when I do I free fall. As for the fake it stuff, it was a promise I made to myself when I got divorced. I would never fake it and would never have sex unless the chemistry was there.
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RHP User
14 years ago
exactly......have to agree here as we have encountered both.........its definitely not 'gender specific'......
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think that a woman who occasionally adds in a fake orgasm isgood. Everyone knows that many men go extensively to please andgive (I know I do). I am a poor receiver but thats because its over rated for the guy and I fear gagging, loss of control and more - much better to see and feel and sense and hear a woman cum.It does need to be viable and preferably with clit gyrating against cock is its sucked out. Adding in a fake orgasm is anice touch and makesme feel good especially when fake is admitted. Of course real clit, vag, g orgasms are desired. Depending on mood (slow sensual, hammering NOW, Hammering controlled) a fake can add to the intensity.
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RHP User
14 years ago
For the most part, out of the gate (so to speak), a woman is better at eating pussy than a man is. This has generally been true with each encounter. Every woman I have been with has been good at it. Obviously because they know what feels good but don't be discouraged girls. A man can be trained. My man can make me come each and every time he puts his tongue to my pussy. This was not always the case. He was a bit clumsy in the beginning but he would ask me what I like and I would direct him. He doesn't require direction any more, he just goes to work and gets the job done. He eats my pussy better than anyone else, male or female. Other girls have commented that he's good with praising him as being the best. As with everything it's a very personal and individual thing. Other woman will have different things that really hit the spot. I expect the same is true in reverse. A gay man would probably be better than any woman instinctively but we can learn too. I never really enjoyed giving head years ago but now, since I've learnt to do it well, I take pride in my performance.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I went down on a woman...omg what a chore! Credit where credit is due, you guys have it tough!!! I enjoyed it until my jaw locked and my tongue cramped lol. As I said first time so I am pretty sure I must of been rubbish. Being a woman did not mean I knew how another woman liked to be touched.I was so excited the first time a made a woman orgasm, actually I am excited anytime I have. It takes far more effort that getting a guy off. What I have found is that women will spend more time doing it than men and women do it differently . As I am sure is the same for a male....it is best when it is not treated like a race or a chore, knowing the person doing it loves giving and is turned on by it, well that is even better.xx Salina
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Salsa_McCans' I went down on a woman...omg what a chore! Credit where credit is due, you guys have it tough!!! I enjoyed it until my jaw locked and my tongue cramped lol. As I said first time so I am pretty sure I must of been rubbish. Being a woman did not mean I knew how another woman liked to be touched.I was so excited the first time a made a woman orgasm, actually I am excited anytime I have. It takes far more effort that getting a guy off. What I have found is that women will spend more time doing it than men and women do it differently . As I am sure is the same for a male....it is best when it is not treated like a race or a chore, knowing the person doing it loves giving and is turned on by it, well that is even better.xx Salina Sucking cock is WAY easier, I have so much more respect for guys who eat pussy well since I started trying to do it myself. I've broken my tongue on a girl (ripped the lil bit of skin underneath) trying to fulfil her request of fucking her with my tongue, and the first time I actually got a girl there I was so excited I fell off her/the couch, kicked a wine glass over and SMASH! glass everywhere. So graceful... heheAlso, just because I can take my own bra off with a flick of finger/thumb does not mean I don't fumble and struggle with another girl's bra LOLxx Sarah
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RHP User
14 years ago
Aside from the guys vs. girls thing, it's about compatibility of both partners, not just the giver's degree of skill. Or perhaps more the giver's ability to ascertain what technique, style, speed, timing and attention to specific sensitive areas delivers the greatest amount of pleasure for their partner. It's always a bit tougher the first time with a new playmate. You just need to try a few things and watch to see what gets the most enthusiastic response - and do more of that! In my own experience of the girls I've gone down on, the things that make them come vary wildly, and believe me, it's certainly not the the case that the 'soft touch' is always the way to go!@MissSarahCurious Ow with the broken tongue thing! I hope your sacrifice was appreciated! :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
I've had experiences with both when swinging......I can say the woman that went down on me did just as good a job as her husband. In the heat of the moment and not looking I would be unable to tell you who was there at any given time as they were both so good.....pity they moved to Cairns. I believe it is a skill that either sex can perfect and in this case....both did.
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RHP User
14 years ago
i take pride in giving a woman oral and i no i can give as good as any woman can trick is fellas you got to use your ears as much as your tounge so you no when youve hit that sweat spot then find the rithem and the pressure she responds to best then give it to her till she nearly comes then back off a bit let her get a bit frustrated then when shes riggliung arond trying to get you back on the spot grab her hips from undernieth and push her legs up with your shoulders and plant your face in there and drop that toung on her clit the way she wonts it and go for gold dont stop untill she cant stand it anymore and if your mouth and tounge are aching you just suck it up and keep going no matter what happens and when youve finshed even the lightest touch of the tounge will send shocks through her
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