RHP

RHP User

F40

body types

May 15 2011

hey there i was wondering guys do u really judge a girl by her body??? ive meet a few guys on here that love what they see in my pics but when it comes to the crunch they seem fine then i never hear from them again??? yeah i am a girl with a little paddin is it to much to ask to be liked for who i am and not my body

Comments

  • Hanna_ybbn

    Hanna_ybbn

    15 years ago

    Here's a hot tip from me, Hanna, a size14-16 real woman;Love yourself, embrace who you are.I understand it gets a bit frustrating when it happens over and again but sincerely do not give a shit about these men.You are an attractive girl, intelligent and you deserve that which you desire.Finding a love connection on sites like this; exception, not the rule.Have a good, long hard think about what you want from RHP. If it's love you seek; be prepared to get your heart bruised a bit and your ego crushed from time to time. If it's just to seek connections with like-minded people for sex then know what you will not tolerate and stick to your guns. Set the rules!!Why would you question yourself because of the actions of a few people you barely know and probably wouldn't want to anyway from the sounds of it?I've so been where you are kiddo, hang in there Han x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Well of course, just as women do to men. The trick is finding the ones that judge yours favourably.Cheers Nev

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    everyone likes different body types and shapes so i wouldnt take offence to anything. No one body size is a real woman you cant simply say that either as plenty of woman on here that are size 8 to 10 or whatever are real women also. Not saying that 18 to 20 isnt a real woman some guys like thin girls and others like the larger girl

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Yeah. Isn't that part of how you are supposed to weigh up the whole package. :)HugsStalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Devil are you making an assumption it is your body type, that they dont contact you again???? Are you sure it is about your body type and not something else?? Perhaps they were just after a quick root and nothing more. NSA is this. For me on this site i look at everyone as a sex object and how best can i use it to my gratifiaction. Bit like when u play golf and u choose the correct club.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    SO SO TRUE HANNAH xx Quoting 'Hanna_ybbn' Have a good, long hard think about what you want from RHP. If it's love you seek; be prepared to get your heart bruised a bit and your ego crushed from time to time. If it's just to seek connections with like-minded people for sex then know what you will not tolerate and stick to your guns. Set the rules!! Why would you question yourself because of the actions of a few people you barely know and probably wouldn't want to anyway from the sounds of it?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    You go on about men beening judgementil on body shapes & size. What about the age limit you put on your profile. So you ask why do men do take you the way you are why not take older men for how there are. We are all not over the hill when we are over 40. Not all men are slizes on this site

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'CarlosSpicyWienr' Well of course, just as women do to men. The trick is finding the ones that judge yours favourably.I'd agree with you Nev, and of course we all have a body type that we find attractive and I don't have a problem with that..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I think what Devil means here is that despite being frank and honest in her profile that she has extra padding and being true to her pics, guys want to meet her but don't want to take it further. Beauty is obviously in the eye of the beholder - so don't take offence on the comments you get on here and keep moving on....you'll eventually find what you're looking for on here.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Oh course everyone will judge by shape /height/color/location etc. i think the trick is to have proper body shots on your public gallery....and face if you can. Then theres no surprises or change of heart once they see your PG Having boob shots and ankle pics can be fun...but can be misleading when you also tick average for build?? Be honest is best...if people dont like us from public pics...thats great, its saved our time and theirs :>

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Men judge women the same way women judge men! Personally, I don't judge the book by it's cover. I like to get to know the person, how she thinks, if she looks after herself, hobbies...excreta. Just see if we click mentally first.But I also need to feel a physical attraction to the woman also.