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big cock v small vagina
December 03 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
it is very much a common issue. It is probably more important for a well hung guy to be a skilled lover than an average sized guy as a well hung guy can inadvertently cause a fair bit of pain.The only trick to getting around it is finding someone you are physically and mentally compatible with. Women come in all shapes and sizes and the right fit most definitely exists for you. Have fun looking for her :-)
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RHP User
14 years ago
As a doctor I can assure you that size is not the issue, either you being too big or her being too "small" - the vagina is a wonderful instrument capable of carrying and the delivering of a baby - of various weights and sizes.......the key to your issue is if you are finding that your woman is not enjoying it, it could be that she is simply not aroused enough, and not ready for penetration (talk to her..communicate) and requires additional stimulating attention....or if she is apprehensive due to your size, slow and easy does it....the positions that you mention,are of deep penetration that is true...so it is up to you not to be heavy handed by thrusting or rushing in, you need to go a little slower, tease and easy...taking your time and if possible concentrate on stimulating your partners clitoris, at the same time, which most women will enjoy..... Anatomy fact - the first 3cm of a womans vagina has all the nerve endings...and is the most sensitive to stimulation - start your partners stimulation there...slowly entering her and withdrawing...it will drive her nuts (you too) - or use your fingers...and the fabled G spot is halfway up this inside wall....so in theory you only need 4-6cm of penetration to get your partner revved up, so give that a thought. A womans vagina can accomodate most penises as it dilates even further when fully aroused.... A bigger/thicker cock for women is sometimes preferred - as thicker penises are more likely to stiumulate the clitoris during penetration. Note the following: Rest assured that women spend a lot less time worrying about the size of your package than you do, being a good lover, has nothing to do with the size of your penis...its about the lengths you will go to, to satisfy your partner..and the largest sex organ is the brain...start there...
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missangelina
14 years ago
What a shame u live in WA. They grow big boys over in the west.You just need to find women who enjoy being stretched and being filled up to their cervix. lol I do.Very difficult to do in normal life because you cant usually ask prior to going into a relationship how deep their vagina is and if they like well-endowed men.That is the advantage of a site like this - you can check this out first. lolThe only other advice I can give for u to not make the smaller ladies uncomfortable is lots of foreplay and lots of lubrication. However sometimes people's body types just do not match - it is a size disparity issue.Good luck. I am sure you will find a girl or several girls who will adore you just as you are.
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RHP User
14 years ago
thats why I only play with women that have a 6L capacity...thats why I disguise a drill's depth gauge as a cock ring (screwing it on was a _bitch_)thats why.. *sigh* who am I kidding, that is (sadly, or not sadly) not my problem :p
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'sydneyboy3au'thats why I only play with women that have a 6L capacity...thats why I disguise a drill's depth gauge as a cock ring (screwing it on was a _bitch_)thats why.. *sigh* who am I kidding, that is (sadly, or not sadly) not my problem :p l Come here and let me hug you all better. I am sure you have many other wonderful attributes and really...size doesnt matter. Truelly it doesnt....
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RHP User
14 years ago
I went through this with my last boyfriend. It takes a while to get used to.
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MrJingles
14 years ago
Quoting 'irresponsibility'it is very much a common issue. It is probably more important for a well hung guy to be a skilled lover than an average sized guy as a well hung guy can inadvertently cause a fair bit of pain.The only trick to getting around it is finding someone you are physically and mentally compatible with. Women come in all shapes and sizes and the right fit most definitely exists for you. Have fun looking for her :-)very good point, hence I am practising my skills as often as I can...
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MrJingles
14 years ago
Quoting 'SLK27' As a doctor I can assure you that size is not the issue, either you being too big or her being too "small" - the vagina is a wonderful instrument capable of carrying and the delivering of a baby - of various weights and sizes.......the key to your issue is if you are finding that your woman is not enjoying it, it could be that she is simply not aroused enough, and not ready for penetration (talk to her..communicate) and requires additional stimulating attention....or if she is apprehensive due to your size, slow and easy does it....the positions that you mention,are of deep penetration that is true...so it is up to you not to be heavy handed by thrusting or rushing in, you need to go a little slower, tease and easy...taking your time and if possible concentrate on stimulating your partners clitoris, at the same time, which most women will enjoy..... Anatomy fact - the first 3cm of a womans vagina has all the nerve endings...and is the most sensitive to stimulation - start your partners stimulation there...slowly entering her and withdrawing...it will drive her nuts (you too) - or use your fingers...and the fabled G spot is halfway up this inside wall....so in theory you only need 4-6cm of penetration to get your partner revved up, so give that a thought. A womans vagina can accomodate most penises as it dilates even further when fully aroused.... A bigger/thicker cock for women is sometimes preferred - as thicker penises are more likely to stiumulate the clitoris during penetration. Note the following: Rest assured that women spend a lot less time worrying about the size of your package than you do, being a good lover, has nothing to do with the size of your penis...its about the lengths you will go to, to satisfy your partner..and the largest sex organ is the brain...start there... Wow a sexy Dr! After your comments I have just increased ny knowledge 10 fold :) Thanks
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RHP User
14 years ago
And can I tickle your tonsils? Nothin like waving your meat in the air.
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MrJingles
14 years ago
Quoting 'MrandMrsErotic'And can I tickle your tonsils? Nothin like waving your meat in the air. Like you just dont care!
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RHP User
14 years ago
As a guy who is 194cms tall and size 15 shoes but sadly a 2 inch cock (joking) I have been through this ever since Uni and earlier. You will find lots of good fits and btw women who have given birth naturally are awesome in the fit department : ) Firstly, size probably does not generally matter too much. But for two equally skilled lovers it does matter and there are differences And some women prefer bigger when some do not What’s that expression its not the size of the wand just the magic you can make happen J Secondly (Girth Measures). Girth really is simple to measure objectively. A simple strand of string around the penis just 5 or 6cms from the base.(because that is where the penis rubs against either the sucked out clit and/or against the nerve concentration at the vaginal opening). Where girth varies its just that one measure that matters from a female pleasure perspective. Thirdly, (Penis length measure) the only objective way to measure penis length is to cut a card slightly longer than expected length. Stand up with an erection (or better still raging throbber – the hardest form of erection). Place the card lightly on top (but lightly against abs or pubic mound) and mark where end of penis is (and re-cut card). Then measure the appropriate length of card. That gives an objective measurement that is not subject to false readings. Other factors. The degree of ribbing on my penis, pudic artery, of bumps, of foreskin tightness and size of engorged corpus shafts and engorged penis head as well as tight (or zero) foreskin all make different feel impacts. Only when I have a throbber or am penetrating do I go to my full size (even if that is merely a small extra length). These factors make the skin on skin feel much more intense and pleasurable. Curvature: Some penises are curved (mine is not curved, so I can’t comment) but a curve might be useful. Circumcision: Some penises are circumcised (mine is not circumcised, so limited comment). In my case I am turbo focused on hygiene. This includes wiping off with toilet tissue when out and needing urination, shower pullback of foreskin for cleanliness and finally when I moisturize my face at night I also moisturize under my foreskin etc at the same time. Live with what you have: If you go to a consultant to see possibilities of reduction then he will measure you and outline surgery but way too many risks in loss of feel. Classifications Normals In a survey of 12,000 European fit (BMI Nature makes the penis fit best. Specifically time for semen to separate and allow the sperm to make their journey, thru the cervical canal and thru, to the uterus. It turns out these is a perfect size of penis about 7.02 inches. There is no way that my penis will go through the cervical canal – no way. But there is an end stop which is slightly beyond the cervical opening. Hammering that end stop is pleasurable to the male but varies on female preference. Under the right conditions the vagina expands and 11 inches is tight but nice. So I think or suggest normal is less than 7 inches, smaller is around 3 inches, larger is around 9 inches and Big is 11inches. So... Short I except or suspect small wont do the job. But could be just fine with the clitoral things and basic vaginal opening. Long has the advantage of better bareback (skin on skin) longer strokes and depth but just feelings. - Also great doggy or morning spooning with pillow between a woman's knees (easier slip into vagina) but bad for some who don't like it too deep. Or who don't like hammering and legs in the air or too deep / too tight. Its really important for a guy to lube her and relax her and penetrate before full throbber size. Finally, technique is best measure of performance. I am sure. Just as simple as what I guy can do with hiscock during the penetration parts of making love with each other. On balance no matter what they say many chicks like Big, especially initially. *** Just my biased view ***
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RHP User
14 years ago
Something l only just recently realised myself through self play....I was always afaid of a well endowed gentleman. Now just moving on .... Quoting 'SLK27' A womans vagina can accomodate most penises as it dilates even further when fully aroused.... A bigger/thicker cock for women is sometimes preferred - as thicker penises are more likely to stiumulate the clitoris during penetration.
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RHP User
14 years ago
UTT, looks like your're going to have become a very skilled, educated lover and find a chicky who is in touch with her own body and sexuality.
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RHP User
14 years ago
What you need mate is a wing man.. someone to grease the wheels a bit... you know... like a strap on or a dildo.. only realler.... a proxy cock. I'd like to strap Sydneylad on just quietly, and give it a bit of a spin around the farm. What a team! :pThere's a job for every tool in the shed, and practice makes perfect..HugsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
The OP needs to learn Anatomy from a professor or even Google not out of a side of a Weetbix box....arggggggggghhhhhhhh! Not all women are "built" for large cocks and neither are all women built to have children vaginally and I always thought that my kids were held in my womb and not in my vagina! Sheesh "Dr" hope you don't give PaP Smears.. I would hate to come to you ffs...they even have to use a different "duck's bill" for me to alot of others and I am not alone! Women ARE built different and it doesn't matter how wet or excited you get her...there are just some women who are NOT built to take large cocks!! . Obviously you know that size DOES matter as you have also suffered the rejections because of size. It is not always the smaller men that get rejected! In the end...if a woman says "NO" no matter what the reason you need to respect that! Good luck out there xo xFunlovingx
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MrJingles
14 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' The OP needs to learn Anatomy from a professor or even Google not out of a side of a Weetbix box....arggggggggghhhhhhhh! Not all women are "built" for large cocks and neither are all women built to have children vaginally and I always thought that my kids were held in my womb and not in my vagina! Sheesh "Dr" hope you don't give PaP Smears.. I would hate to come to you ffs...they even have to use a different "duck's bill" for me to alot of others and I am not alone! Women ARE built different and it doesn't matter how wet or excited you get her...there are just some women who are NOT built to take large cocks!! . Obviously you know that size DOES matter as you have also suffered the rejections because of size. It is not always the smaller men that get rejected! In the end...if a woman says "NO" no matter what the reason you need to respect that! Good luck out there xo xFunlovingxIf only a girl like you would say yes life would be complete :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'ExploreFun' But there is an end stop which is slightly beyond the cervical opening. Hammering that end stop is pleasurable to the male but varies on female preference. be carefull with that... u can both get hurt... put myself out of action for about a week once due to getting a little bit too carried away and have done it on other times and also hurt myself, but not as bad. Ive also had some girls like it and some find it uncomfortable...... best thing is to turn it into dirty talk "u want it deep baby?" something like that imho LS
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RHP User
14 years ago
Its a blessing and a curse !! But take it from me you gotta get em wet !!! Reeeaaaally wet !, i love eating a nice shaved pussy till its soaking but dont sstretch em by stuffing ya hand in there keep it nice and tight ! So when you both can work it in there its nice and lubed keeping it tight just adds to the pleasure !!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I adore thick cocks however my body does not enjoy length. My husband was perfect for me, only a 6 but so lovely and thick. I couldn't even do doggie with him so doggie is out for me. It has actually bought tears to my eyes in the worst way. Her on top should be fine if you don't pull her down, she can slide you in as much or as little as she likes. Personally I don't like female dominant positions, can rarely cum that way but you can regulate the depth of penetration that way, same with reverse cowgirl. Flat doggie is also good when with guys with a lot of length, the angle is different from normal doggie and it doesn't hurt. If guys with length just remember that it's not a dipstick, you are not searching for oil or digging a tunnel to china either for that matter, everything will be fine. You may say that it's not much fun just going 3/4 of the way in but it can't be a lot of fun if she just wants you to stop and calls an end to the whole thing.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Where's the gore from this post? You know the horror story of snapped banjo strings and torn taints? Obviously a dude with a monterous cock needs a companion sporting a horse collar between her legs... and for every jack there's a Jill or a finger in the bum. Which makes me think about fisting. I mean to say, there's no cock that big yet... there are those who indulge. I'm beginning to wonder if this whole topic is, gawd help us, just a sneaky little advertisement! Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
Nooooooo!!! Shirley not!!!!! A sneaky little advertisement?? You are SO cynical Quoting 'StalkyStudFatDic'Where's the gore from this post? You know the horror story of snapped banjo strings and torn taints? Obviously a dude with a monterous cock needs a companion sporting a horse collar between her legs... and for every jack there's a Jill or a finger in the bum. Which makes me think about fisting. I mean to say, there's no cock that big yet... there are those who indulge. I'm beginning to wonder if this whole topic is, gawd help us, just a sneaky little advertisement! Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
Goodgirl Like the advice !! I like teasing girls especially my wife only putting it half way in or just the tip !!!😜 gett em wet make em sweat leave them wrecked !!! Thats aboutit for my advice lol the rest is all fuck faces and grunting
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