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are there any real people on here???
July 20 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have to admit I haven't ever watched you in the chat rooms. Not that I wouldn't want too, more so because I find the chat rooms pretty much as you described them and I don't spend much time there. There can be 100 people in the room and only ten of them catching! Watching can be fun, but nothing really beats a 'hands-on' approach when it comes to S...E...X and I was under the impression that that's what we were here for. Oops, did I type that too loudly, I wouldn't want to wake the neighbours! Or did I just take a seriously wrong turn at face book?!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey i'm one of the real ones.. have had a fair few encounters with couples and single guys from this site.. And I'm one of those ones that come in cam room for perv and chat.. lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi greeneyes, Call me cheap if you want as I am only a guest and we will stay that way till we get the feel for the site although my wife has used it before. It seems to me from my limited expeiriance on the site and her previous experiance that you are spot on. Finding some one who is what they say on here is a 50-50 set of odds..... Thanks for the heads up though, if I was thinking of paying just for chat room access you may have cured me of that if all I will get is a bunch of people winging about their life. We have had some good contact/s as a guests, so I may just stay that way for a while, maybe it makes only the genuine people contact you..lol.... Keep trying... 50-50 means you have to get some winners now and then. XX
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playfulminx
16 years ago
Maybe people just enjoyed watching you so much that they couldn't help but just watch and errr... have fun playing with themselves? The other thing you have to be mindful of is that if you were seriously 'owning' the room with your show, others will tend to sit back and let you take centre stage. Others may be a bit intimidated for fear of not getting any attention. Only Platinum members can watch more than one cam at once. I sadly don't have much time to sit in chat these days and if I have spare time, I'm more inclined to just meet people from here in the flesh. Still, I am sure you put on an awesome show and sad to have missed out. I might have been tempted to get my cam going :P
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razor2000
16 years ago
Just a shame that you're so far from Sydney out going :(
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RHP User
16 years ago
We hear you and completely understand where you are coming from. We avoid the chat rooms for the reasons you have described and we are constantly frustrated by people who just want to get an msn address so they can try and cyber with you on line. If only people could be up front and honest about what they want then others wouldn't get their time wasted.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Venus and I used to go on cam a few years ago and had a regular 'show'. It was fun, we got to know a quite a few people and had some great fun sex as well. We had Elmo, beads, toys, squirts, vibes etc with special lighting at times. A few got upset at us for 'owning the room' as you say but then we passed the baton to others. One girl in particular...no names mind you.... but she knows and is still on RHP on occasion, spat the dummy one night and blocked us for no reason apart from she felt like it at the time. It was pathetic! From that time on it was never the same for Venus. Shame. Anyway cam shows who is real and who is not. Now we are not paid up we cant do cam. Mars
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RHP User
16 years ago
hi everyone, my wife and i have been on this site for many years and we have met a few people over the years. i am now single and have met 2 women. i'm not interested in cybering, if anything i want to meet for real. see if we click and take it from there. being a typical male, i suppose if it was put on a plate infront of me, i wouldn't knock it back, but really i want a little more than that. well i am real, 3 kids, mortgage, now separated and not because of swinging, due to the fires and crap here in kinglake. is real enough for you???? c'ya later Spud
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yes, there are REAL people on here greeneyedangel, we do have meet ups & we do form friendships. Not everyone on this site is into "camming" or spends every waking moment in the chat rooms. People have their preferences, some like to jump in boots & all, some like me actually like to get to know people before jumping in the sack. We all have our own preferences & we all get different things out of this site - just don't judge a book by it's cover until you've read the first 30 pages :) By all means, show the world want you deem "adults" do - we actually chat on the odd occasion & some of us enter the outside world to actually work. Enjoy whatever you get off this site, just don't expect everyone to be like you
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have to agree with the majority! I have been swinging since I was 19, I have had plenty of pauses in activities due to serious relationships however. Sadly I have lost contact with my old "buddies" through the "serious" partnerships that have ended.... One partner of almost 4yrs was never keen to try, or even talk about a swinging relationship between us & in the end - f*cked a close friend of mine! What is that crap! - I can't have extra fun, but she can! (no sweat, I'm over it!) What I mean to say is... It would be great if people stopped talking sh*t & either said what they mean, or did what they talk up. There will always be sad people in sad partnerships that want an escape or perv., even bored guys pretending to be girls. But, if they can stay in the chat rooms or on another site - that would be great! Then maybe we can not have to worry about dreamers & timewasters f*cking up a site dedicated to hooking up! I would even be happy paying for proper membership!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
GreeneyedAngel, I have seen several people have sex on webcam in the chat rooms but not you at this stage. So you aren't the King and Queen you seem to think you are. Maybe it is just the times you are on. It is rare as hens teeth to have two couples having sex in the same room at the same time but there have been a couple of times. It's funny how some people complain that there is not enough going on in the chatrooms then others complain about what is going on in ththem. Some complain when they get on cam and no one takes notice and others complain too many take notice. You say people try to get msn for cyber sex, if I tried to get someone to add me to messenger it wouldn't be for that. I'd prefer to get someones msn I can talk to with a view to meeting. I hardly bother putting cam on these days because it is a waste of time for a guy. I would gladly put it on if someone wanted me too. I normally go in there seeing if there is anyone new. Hardly ever is any females from Newcastle area in there. However I do agree there are a lot of people that aren't here to meet. Some because they have already met people and aren't interested in meeting more. Some are more on the exhibitionist side of things. Some are too scared to meet. Some are trying to meet but like you not finding anyone. Some of that also is affected by location. You are in Melbourne so you should have plenty to choose from. I think your profile doesn't do you many favours though. Your looking for states; I am Looking For tall, dark, very hansome, very muscular, intellectual, well endowed and a gentleman. A man who knows how to treat a lady like a lady..... if you fit this description then contact me....IF NOT PLEASE DONT WASTE YOUR TIME OR MINE Well sorry to say but most will not meet all that, and when they look at your friends list and see 5 guys that look like they spend more time at the gym than sleeping they probably don't bother contacting you as you have requested. If you really want to meet more people then get rid of the above and take people for what they are. Oh and lose the high and mighty attitude, that will put people off faster than anything else.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I've been a paid up member since Saturday... In three days I've been blocked by around 10 people. I wouldn't have said more than two sentences in the chat forum. I was just looking around to feel my way into the community. Really, from what I saw... Half a doz guys wanking, someone playing with her tits and 76 people talking about their kids... I figured I'd give the chat room a miss. Really... If that's what adults do... Where's the kids room? Hugs gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm real, dont go into the chat rooms and dont cyber, but i do meet and i even have a validation!!!!!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
No Actually it Is Not.....If You Read What You Signed Up For in the Terms and Conditions you would perhaps already know the answer and not need to post the Question.... Here is where i think ya May Be Going wrong....... "RedHotPie is an Adults' site, which intends to provide online entertainment and information as well as the opportunity for bona fide singles, couples and groups to interact with other consenting adults who are looking for a shared experience, possibly sexual, EITHER ONLINE or IN PERSON." Your Eligibility as a Member Dose Say "You wish to participate in the online community provided by RedHotPie in a manner that is consistent with the goals and values of an online community, which respects an individual's right of self-determination in matters of an adult nature" You Say....."the chat rooms are full of idiots talking about their boring lives, men wanking and no one actually meeting and greetin"...... Maybey....so......But when someone....or a couple someones....are.....Going for it on cam....ya may just Shock Horror ...! Get someone wanking Off to that....... Boring Everday Chat about In Your oppinion Boring Lives.....dose actually make Connections....with other People......Surprising...but True...... In My Oppinion..........Meeting And Greeting......is usually Done At Social Events On The Events Pages.... Its Not There For Just Special Events....Yanno.....! I suggest You surf The site A Little More ....Like I Do.....To Find Out Whats Going On Attend some Meet and Greets...get To some Clubs......Or Parties of Your Sexual tatses....... My Last Gift ....... Ill Give You A Hammer, Some Wood and Nails......you have cried your River...... Now Build A bridge.....Get Over It......The Real People Are waitin on the Other Side......Of the Computer.........
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RHP User
16 years ago
There is a lot of people on this site that are real babe
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RHP User
16 years ago
we are real couple from Brisbane new to the scene and are looking for ladies for fun
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RHP User
16 years ago
Chat rooms , Dating sites over the years has shown one thing ... Take it as it comes , N don't get too precious about anything . You are hot one week & later on someone else has the Floor . Great to appreciate some variety . We all take turns yanno . If it becomes stale , move on cause there's plenty of content about these days to entertain . Put it out there and have some Fun . Datefinder is just starting to take off after a very slow start - get on it & make it work 4 you ! Anyhow just enjoying life's variety & the great people keen to leave work crap alone and have some weel deserved fun ! mike . ` ~ just a thought about shows and no-shows ~ '
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well said lovenlust, had a look and heartily agree with you - attitude makes you look psycho, being friendly certainly makes you look approachable. Heck, if I was a guy reading that I would hit the "NEXT" button lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yes, it's true that there are quite a few who set themselves up on here for whatever reason and aren't real. But there are also a lot of real people who aren't necessarily looking for the same thing(s) as 'the rest of us' and who are satisfied with what they have in cyberspace. For some it seems that just the freedom to cyberchat in a forum that's sexually charged is enough of a boost. If that helps them, I don't mind being a part of their processes. This doesn't make them any less real (unless they're just role-playing (and there are some). Then there are those of us who do get together and do have fun together in reality. I've found that even just getting together with someone to talk through stuff face to face over a coffee can help them get through some heavy stuff. And it builds friendships we would never have had otherwise. For me RHP has been (and is) more than just some meat market catalogue of people wanting to get it on. I've had some great group and private chats, both cyber and offline. And getting it on has been great too - lol. Our RHP community contains a cross-section of adults (and some perhaps not-so-adult, regardless of age) just like the world at large. Our community gives us opportunities to explore our sexual natures among other common interests and issues (yep, some of us do chat about other things as well - both in here 'and outside' -lol) - all within the limits of our own levels of comfort.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I totally agree with Nudierudie2.. And hey Razor2000 brissy only a plane flight away mate..
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree with a majority of what has been said and it can be very frustrating finding the real genuine people on here looking for adult fun. I believe that all real people should do as I and other genuine people do. 1) Pay for membership so they can make meaningful contact not just a flirt and expect paid members to send a message. 2) Get validated. 3) Reply to contacts saying lets talk or you are not what I am looking for. Failing that maybe it would be appropiate to have a separate closed section of the site just for paid members who wish to swing.
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RHP User
16 years ago
But as a single guy I do not make the effort any more to try and find girls to meet up with, simply because they dont reply. Having said that if I saw a girl having sex in the chat room I would assume that she is anavailable so I would not bother approaching her.
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RHP User
16 years ago
there are so many real people on here just in a land as big as ours its hard to travell far to meet so cam and chat is all some can have for now
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RHP User
16 years ago
Cum to Sydney and meet us anne & tony
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RHP User
16 years ago
am dark and have a very big one... would love to meet new people
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RHP User
16 years ago
am dark and very thick...
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RHP User
16 years ago
If you come on a site like this expecting instant easy gratification you will likely be disappointed. The site provides opportunity! Its a smorgasbord of options, something for everyone , but you need to adjust your expectations accordingly. Theres chat for those that need friendliness and some level of intimacy and cam for the visuals, and the voyeurs. There are forums for the thinkers , pictures for those that want titillation. There is the opportunity to seek those of like mind and hot body. And yes, of course , to meet in person .Any and all are ENTIRELY VALID. What you are seeking FOR will nor be the same as the next person. Some people want a full diary of new people to physically meet and fuck , others just want the possibility of doing so. Some want adventure , some are fully involved in a lifestyle eg swinging . Many just want social contact with possibility of sex. If someone chooses messaging or chat , while the other wants an instant meeting , neither is right or wrong, but they do need to screen more carefully or be accepting of differences. Personally , the up front approach message "Hi , wanna meet tonight?", doesnt do it for me. Engaging the mind and imagination is what ignites me. People who want to "skip the email ping pong" up front write themselves off my list and probably I am no longer on theirs either:) Tolerance fellow bloggers, tolerance.
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ocean_man
16 years ago
Well now I am confused! I thought I was real, but what has got me really wondering is this ............... If Greeneyedangel is the only member here who has ever had sex on cam with someone else, what the hell was I doing with that lovely young lady from............ hmmm might be a bit too much information there!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey mate- I missed the show! Damn. :p
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RHP User
16 years ago
Firstly I want to agree with Nudie.. well said babes! Secondly ffs some of you ppl can WHINGE whinge whinge whinge...harden up! Thirdly RHP is what you make of it, if you want to meet ppls make the effort to be genuine, flirty and fun. I've met a few guys from here and had some fun with them, so its not rocket science. Some use it just to chat to ppl, that is afterall their choice so good for them. If you don't like something my god...leave! Fourthly OMG the chat rooms are great! I go in there regularly and chat to so many awesome ppl. Sure there are some wankers in there but hey thats life you get that everywhere you go. But in general, there are some really fantastic, genuine ppl in the chatrooms so don't be so narrowminded about it. I know sometimes I have a shitty day so I go into the chatroom and omg seriously the laughs are so good I have tears in my eyes and my belly hurts, we have a grand old time in there. So stop being so uptight some of you.. ENJOY IT! Over the time I have chatted in RHP there have been some standout awesome ppl in there and I love them all because at the end of the day they make me smile, they make me feel good, they make me laugh and I really do love the friendships I have made from here. Thanks to those of you who are friends of mine..love yas lots xxxx And yeah thats it from me :D Harden up whingers! hahaha Kaito x
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RHP User
16 years ago
GO GIRLS...YOU TELL EM!!!!Farkin hell....this is like when peeps that come into chat and whine that its boring.Sheesh....fuck off then ffs.I am a real person....and I meet real people.....but I am not here to fuck and run.If youre not interested in anything other than a quick shag....then Im not your girl.Plus...there are some shallow fuckers on this site.....anything other than a size 12 or smaller just aint good enough!So don't complain that there arent real peeps here....you just aint looking in the right place.Oh....and Im in the chatroom almost every day...and Ive never seen you.....so??????Gaz....come in again.....search me out......light green, bold, non italicized and underlined....say hi....OK??I shall lube everything up for ease of entry...so to speak!! lmfao!Meh....it is all what you make it....some people expect wayyyyy too much methinks!Just my opinion....BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hiya Erotic - Angel........ Having been a viewer of your delicious cam shows ... which i am very thank full for id also like to point out i wasnt there to watch you but was there to watch the guy you were camming with. I am a regular watcher of this guy as are most girls in chat ..... He has never complained to myself about just watching and i always thank him and yourself after you little shows... You are not the only person who has sex on cam in chat there are quite a few others as well ..... one of which myself.. I dont do it all the time and neither do u..... As for the meeting people.... I wont fuck just anyone and if i had the time to get out and meet real people i probably wouldnt even be on this site.... Id prefer to actual know the person who im going to jump in the sack with..... But also in saying this i have been stood up a lot of times so the meeting bit is not as easy for some. I agree with nudierudie very well said..... everyone is differnt and have different ideas about what this site is for..... all i can say is I AM HERE FOR ME..... AND I WILL DO WHAT GETS ME OFF WHETHER IT BE WATCHING OR PERFORMING
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree with the girls above (Miss BJ n co) If people dont want to meet thats probably because you're not their cup of tea so to speak OR they dont want to meet for whatever their reasons. Get over it. Ive only met a couple of guys, and only for a chat, still looking for someone Id like to take further. This is an online dating/swinging site... you cant EXPECT anything from it ;) But hey, if someone's a quick chat and lets go fuck kinda gal, I'm sure they'll be kept pretty busy x
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RHP User
16 years ago
Funfun...who was the fella she was on cam with??You got me curious now!!! lmao
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RHP User
16 years ago
Of course there are real people here in the chat rooms , Couples International Chat room here every Friday and Saturday nights show the swingers in action on the venue, if they choose to go into the room and show off.This is proof that people do meet and play as there has been many hot sessions in the cam room at CI on a regular basis.Chat rooms are for fun, be it chat or adult play or talking about anything people choose.Redhotpie chatroom is next to none, we have found it the best way to meet and chat to people and have meet hundreds of peeps from the chatroom at our venue in person, from all over Australia.So dont sit back and just watch peeps, talk to eachother, join in the fun and experiene the best site around at it full extent.Couples International
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XtremGuy
16 years ago
I have heard the same thing from a few girls on here. Guys are all flirty in rooms but when push comes to shove chicken out for whatever reason.. Not all of us bail. As for chats yeah they gone downhill over time I must say. People bitching their bored or alike. Im always up for a drink wether it be just as friends or more but they rather sit there bitching. lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yes there are real people here that actually want to meet and play. But it does take sometime to"sort" through I must admit as there are certainly "fakes" and of course just "gawkers". But like anything doing worthwhile, when you make the effort you will be rewarded and we've met some beautiful fun sexy people thru here. For the people that know us we dont like endless exchanges of messages or chatting or chat-rooms or web camming, we just want to establish a connection and know each party is genuine and then arrange to meet and play together. How hard is that? Very difficult for many here as some people dont even have the manners to reply (my mother brought me up to be a good girl and always reply to invitations even if it was to say 'no thanks') thats why we now much prefer to meet at one of Sydney's inner city swingers clubs so that if they dont turn up we can still have a good night. And its easier then the awkwardness of arranging private meetings (cancellations, no chemistry, not turning up, where to meet etc) and we always meet nice couples there - we dont do the group thing - just play with another couple (or 2!!) in a private room. So keep trying. Its fun when you do get it right!
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RHP User
16 years ago
We're new to the site, never done the chat thing, dont msn, simply try messaging to organise meets. I must say I've asked that same question re "Couples" sending messages askin for your profile then nothing. No response, no futher contact. Others we've met online give numbers but dont answer, or are always busy etc... It is very frustrating. So in that respect i agree with angel, but i also understand that for some of us life gets in the way. (Some of us dont choose to be guests, we just cant jusitfy or afford the extra expenditure. Kids are bloody expensive little critters.lol) However. We have also met some lovely genuine people, who have guided and advised us despite never having met, and to those couples we say a hearty thanks. (U guys know who you are) So far we have not yet managed to organise a couples meet, but i would have to agree with previous forum replies, it does seem to be 50/50. So the way i figure, im due to hit the good 50 anytime now so ill keep tryin. Thats all we can all do, besides sit in boredom, just keep tryin. lol Sooner or later i trust we'll meet good friends and playmates. Already got the good beginnings of friends.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree with bj and Couplesint. I always go in to chat rooms Plus there is alot of peole whispering to people that are mostly arranging to meet up. I have been on this site for over 2 years and i have meet some great people (whom we got up to cooffee parties and what ever) just from the chat rooms. Also if u dont want to get blocked all the time or in the minute u click on cams say HI FIRST IT DOES HELP all most of us just block if u havent said hi ITS COURTSEY
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RHP User
16 years ago
We have been on RHP for 3yrs , have met some great ppl, even the odd single female. Having said that our Reply Rate: 43% for msgs sent, mainly thanks but not what we are looking for? Reply Rate: 11% for winks sent. I think it would be great for RHP to have rates for your own reply rates, you intial msg rates?? We reply with email, phone contact, in some cases PG access as well, is it so hard to reply??? One thing that burns our wick is couples profiles where the female no longer plays, should these not be changed to single profiles, or the single female profiles that never reply???? Here and now we state for all on the site we will respond to any and all who msg or wink, even if its to say no thanks. C & A
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RHP User
16 years ago
Personally...I would reply to alot more winks and messages if they had bothered to read my profile!!I get so many that go against what I SPECIFICALLY ASK FOR!!!Then they have the audacity to complain that I don't reply??? WTF???It would be good if we could write our own replies to winks...say...100 characters or something...coz sometimes the replies they have don't quite say what I want to say......anyway.I wish there was one that just said.....Thank you!Just my opinion....BJxxx
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totallygenuine
16 years ago
Hey guys im very genuine & i've met alot couples & singles (you know who you guys are) on this site but at the same time i have come across alot of time wasters & pic tossers oh here.. i usually give access to my pg with my msg's & check my sent msgs column a few days later & if it shows my msg has been read & see no reply i block them access to my pg it works for me cause in my msg's it states just a quick reply (COURTESY) even if i dont fit or such & such...(so all you rude,time wasters & pics tossers ***k off to another site!!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Foxy2003..... .... We met on here.... and decided to stay for chatting and socialising.... it clearly states our intentions and what we will or wont do......So not all couples are here to playand as for your comment: "One thing that burns our wick is couples profiles where the female no longer plays, should these not be changed to single profiles, or the single female profiles that never reply????"why pay for one or two separate accounts, when we can both chat under this one......??Mrs wacountry
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RHP User
16 years ago
CITYSEX Couple are real,Boy they are hot as well.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Totallygenuine.....I dont know if you know this....but if you have any rude pics in your PG....a guest cannot view them.So sending a PG of "restricted" pics is really just a waste of time!As for messages.....some really are shit...and dont deserve a reply.Just my opinion....BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Maybe a new reply option to flirts could be "F@%K off you tosser you obviously didn't read my profile". Seriously though I like the suggestion of having a personal reply rate figure on the profile. It would show people who the ones that bother to make an effort are. I know mine would be 100% for both messages and winks.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Dear wacountry , we can read , and your profile is fine it clearly states "here to socialize" we totally respect that, and would not approach you for anything else. If you re-read our post its clear, we are only refering to profiles that infer a meeting when there is no intention to meet? Glad to hear you met on RHP lucky you.
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totallygenuine
16 years ago
Miss BJ, Hey im aware of that i have 2 restriced pics & the other 7 or 8 pics guests have full access to..i set my pg so guests have full view of my face & body pics as well & Lovelust 72 i TOTALLY AGREE on the that flirt reply..
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm fiinding the RHP thing most satisfying :) kudo's sexy people, you know who you are :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Not everyone is as open minded as you seem to be. I think it's great that you are the way you are but for some of us, who this is a new experience for, it takes time testing the waters to get comfortable, and you should never put yourself in a situation that you are really not comfortable with. What I'm into when I meet a nice girl at a club and decide to go home with her is based on the way she looks and most importantly what she has to say. It seems a lot harder for me to judge whether or not I could imagine myself with someone on here. All this being said I have found it a huge turn on meeting people, checking out their pics and sending hot messages back and forth. This, for me, is where I am at, at the moment and as I will no doubt get bored (and more comfortable!) with this I can see myself making physical contact more and more often. Just my thoughts and feelings. Cat xxx PS I think your kinda hot! hehe
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RHP User
16 years ago
Going off your description of a male that is unrealistic except as a fantasy in your head....I'm pretty sure I know why people watch but no one will contact you. Just some quotes.... "All i can say is watch out,this woman bites!!!!!!" "tall,dark,very handsome,very muscular,intellectual,well endwed and a gentleman." baaaaaaaa hahahahahahaa........oh my god....that's like asking for a double D supermodel who loves giving deep throat blow job and taking facials,craves anal sex and threesome especially for her man that has brains,a big bank account,will be at my beck & call blah blah..... Get real!! You've set yourself up for someone that does not exist, and if they do and they look that "hot" with a big dick..9+ I'm guessing you're talking about....why would they join a sex site??? They'd just go screw one of their Barbe Doll wannabe's who's chasing him to fix er insecurities. Cheaper and easier alternative...go to your local toy store and buy Ken Doll.....I think his height is about 9 inches!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
erotic angel, how up yourself you sound! "myself and a male buddy on this site are probably the only ones on here who have actually shown you all what grown ups do.......and that is have sex"I've been around a while, seen MANY hot couples have sex on cam, as well as singles putting on shows, and I've cammed myself. I also chat - because conversation is one of the great tools human beings were given for getting_to_know_other_people!!! Some of us like to chat, in the rooms and / or msn etc, before we decide if we want to meet people from the site.And the beauty of free choice is we are allowed to do just that. Just like you are allowed to leave chat, not come in at all, message people to their profile, or not, cam, or not, watch cams, or not ... and sadly, post narcissistic, pointless, narrow minded forum posts. I'm all for freedom of choice, shame sometimes it gets so poorly exercised.
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DonnaBrett
16 years ago
Hey erotic_angel....careful how you word your question... we posted a kind of similar question about players & pretenders in another thread...and what we said was so twisted around & completely taken out of context by some people it got to the point of ridiculous! LOL
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RHP User
16 years ago
Maybe we should all lighten up and realize we are all different. Some are hardcore, some are not, some are curious...some want to take that curiosity to the next level...but all express some interest in the swinging lifestyle, whether it is just a passing interest or a determination to live the lifestyle to the hilt. I don't think we should be judging one another, heaven knows, society in general does that to those of us who identify in whatever manner - as swingers.
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RHP User
16 years ago
A lot of people giving there mind arn't they, so thought i would put my two cents in. I agree there is to many time wasters, such as guy's pretending to be a couple or a female so they can get their rock's off. Get a life. We have swung quite a few times and met some nice people from this site, so all people are not fake. It all depends upon what it is you are really after, as you are into cyber im sure people will want to watch you as you are willing to show them, but i wouldn''t complain about that, isn"t that what you are doing. Have been blocked and have blocked as not all people are seeking us or us them. Would like to say, contact people, chat with them and enjoy the company face to face rather then face to computer. Good luck in your search and have fun while doing it.
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RHP User
16 years ago
and you are whoYou work here do you.Or are you the owner
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platinumcherry
16 years ago
well i will say this qutie frankly i have been reading the comments frm here and there all very interesting indeed but i think its to the person wat they want to do some one said on here that a few of the members on here are here to get there jolly good on em i reckon i have meet a few peeps frm here there are some idiots yes but hey there everywhere the web cam room isreal i seen couples on there doin thing good or them i say..
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have been on this site for over 3 yrs....and its only been the last 5mths that I havnt been a paid member. I am constantly amazed at the number of people on here who are of the belief..." Since I do it - so must you or that means you are fake...a wanker...or 'not genuine'". You feel .... myself and a male buddy on this site are probably the only ones on here who have actually shown you all what grown ups do.......and that is have sex . ????????????? You are kidding me arent you? I have seen lots of things on cam (some which has turned me on...some which I have laughed til I cried...some which has made me gasp- OMFG!!!!). I have been on cam many times-mostly doing nothing more than chatting. But there has been times when I have been sexual on cam. I have done many meets-most of them for coffee or a drink - very few that have resulted in a sexual experience....but wow...those have been great! This may come as a bit of a shock erotic - but Im not actually on here for YOU...Im on here for ME. I dont feel the need to do what you do...keep up with what you do on cam...or have you pass judgement on me as to whether Im a grown up or not due to what I may or may not do on cam or while Im in the chat rooms. You are kidding me arent you? One of the things I really enjoy about RHP is the diverse people, I love the chatting, the cams, the pics, the forums (loving reading other peoples opinions) even the fights! I also realise that the actual act of sex (whether its a cam show or not) is NOT the only way to have a sexual experience here. ....so once again You are kidding me arent you???? Erotic...your way certainly ISNT the only way. Lighten up hunni....because you are not the only sex cam that keeps this site going...surprise surprise...there's lots out there. Just my opinion...which may not interest you...but hey...when we put it out there.... cheers :-)
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RHP User
16 years ago
I've only been on here a few days,and i've found a mixture of people who ignore your flirts and email,pretend to be interested by sending you flirts back,and end up being just idiots playing games,or people who put false pics up.Maybe if we had more mature adults on here who actually want to MEET PEOPLE AND HAVE SOME FUN,it might be a lot better !!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I totally agree. I'm also sick of people who in some form force you to take on an offer. BVlackmail doesnt work with me ppl so if i dont send you my pg there is bloody good reason
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RHP User
16 years ago
I really tired to send messages to people that don't take the time to answer ...Yes or No is so easy to tell what you think ...I ready to have a lot of fun, i have already meet a wowen that was happy to see me ...Don't be shy, just send me a flirt or a message I will answer you ... I have also my phone number listed , but no one use it ... be the first ...I can do all that you want ... ALL !!!Hope to see you soon ...Julien
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sexslaves
16 years ago
we agree with you angle as been on and off this site for quite a few years now as paid and none payed members find it the same you have to sift through the Bullsh*t when you read profiles you have to read through the lines as you can tell a lot about a person on there profiles but even going to swingers clubs it very much the same a lot of poses guys walking around cock in hand showing everyone but thats where it ends and couples walking around looking on thats it we have done a few public shows in one of sydney swingers clubs with 2 females putting on a show and guys wanking and ask them to go though the girls they put there cocks away and walk off and as cam shows who is to say that that is that couple you see it when someone arranges a group meeting everyone is for it and then the day after you get all the excuses why they couldnt make it. I thought this was a swingers site meet people and get in and do the deeds if all aggree not chat for months on end
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RHP User
16 years ago
Newton Crosby not know this! cheers Johnny5, (number 5 ...stupid name, want to be Kevin ...Dave)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Meh I am who I say I am... just cant find anyone who is what they say they are
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RHP User
16 years ago
Havn't read all 57 other respondents but this is a classic case of the kettle calling pot black. I have contacted you Erotic_Angel more than once & have never received a repsonse. Real people who play are indeed rare here but why not start with yourself. Yes a sexy lady receives lots of attention but come on. You are ready to let fly in the forums but in reality are not willing to do the basics like answering people's mail.. I don't expect from this that you'll suddenly want to meet & fuck but at least you would ackowledge that you aren not the only one here to wants to meet & play. Incidently, you & a male buddy, dosen't that make you a couple ? If so why don't you get a couple's profile ? I don't know why so many people carry on about things here. Take what you want & leave the rest. Happy new year.
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