M44

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June 22 2010

gday all most of you know me from the chat room as i am around most of the time and i come here have a chat and have a bit of fun along the way. now i consider myself a fairly easy going bloke, some of you have met me and person and know exactly what i am like and i condiser them now not just chat friends but firends. however i have noticed however some ppl dont like me for whatever reason and think that rather chat and maybe get they get to know me they think its just a better idea to block haev better off not seen not heard is the saying thats fine i dont have a probelm with that , in saying that however there is another saying and that is dont judge a book by its cover, labelling ppl while yes it is just a chat room and you shouldnt get hurt by it but sometimes ppl do get hurt by it , i should know it has happend to me in the past and i know it will priobs happend in the future. i just wanted to express the way i am feeling , i dont know if what i am saying is right or wrong but its just the way i feel btw rhp can ya do something about the lagg in that chat room its really bad cheers Trent_23

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RHP User

16 years ago

Hey Trent, I rarely visit the chat room.. but Ive been blocked in there more times than I can count. I think mostly becuase I click on someone's cam and then get distracted by work.. othertimes I read the crap that is being sprouted int he chat room and just walk away. I'm fine with that. So block me bebe. All you all. It's like watching a pop up toaster.... something's going to happen soon.. hehe. .. oh.. except for beachbloke.. whoa! hehe. Hugs Stalky

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16 years ago

Don't take it personally. There are heaps of people in there that get on cam and then block anyone that is watching them. I don't go in there much...but like Stalky I will say my hello's, maybe chat a bit about the topic at hand and then usually get bored and forget to close the box and notice 2 hours later that I am still logged in lol. I am a serial one second cam kinda person....I click on a cam as quick as I click it off. Amazes me how people can tell that you have looked as it was no longer than 2 seconds lol. (They must have nothing better to do). I have been blocked by men and by couples who's cam I have had a quick look at....meh...who cares? There is one couple in there and from what I have heard...they have blocked just about everyone...must be a very quiet chat for them lol. Water off a duck's back Trent

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RHP User

16 years ago

Agree with Stalky and xxFunloving, dont take it too personally. Chat room is like any other type of community, or hell even the school Playground!! Not all the kiddies are going to like or want to play with each other no matter how they go about presenting themselves. Some in there all I say is "Hi' to.Others I have built up a rapport and am quite happy to chat to and sometimes all your buddies are in the one room and its mayhem keeping up lt alone saying a hi to someone for the first time..You have to remember as well, when the dreaded lagg isnt happening the room can move quite quickly and often a hello can be over looked. Or as the also the case a private conversation may be happening and they may only be looking at what they are typing to the other person..All the above has happened to me. As for blocking I rarely ever use it and its generally the over zealous rude punter that gets the red flag. Thats basically my sole purpose of it but as Funloving has said at the moment there are a few couples weeding all and sundry that dont fit there criteria- there choice.They are obviously using the chat room not as a social function but as a shopping expedition! If ever it got too much for me Id just walk away for a bit and try again later Hope you enjoy your experience in there again soon! Mrs Sat..( who is known to do a lagg strip to compensate the boredom of never ending lagg but seriously RHP...its getting a bit of a joke of late..)

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RHP User

16 years ago

Hey trent its this easy .... just dont go into chat rooms , or if you do just ignor anyone that isnt friendly to you ,,, life is way too short to get hung up on people that dont have the time to be nice andy

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