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You're Unbelievable and So Irresistable! ... Or not!
February 12 2016
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RHP User
10 years ago
Its always nerve wracking going to meet someone, even if you have been getting on via messages beforehand. I met a guy in my local bar. He looked really nice when we chatted on cam and I was a bit nervous. As I walked in he was standing at the bar. He turned around and saw me and his face broke into the most warming smile......I melted! We still catch up and I will always remember that smile. On the other hand, I met someone who sounded really nice, then when we met he wanted to play straight away and I said no, my profile says meet first? He finished his drink and stood up, said goodbye and left. Then messaged me later? Wont happen. Oh and persistent checking on the phone is a turn off. On a first meet its plain rude.
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JessicaRabbit
10 years ago
Lust - a sexy smile, smells really good, well-dressed and makes eye contact. Turn-offs - Bad breath (I had one RHP meet where when he went in for the hug I got a whiff of very strong bad breath, it was all over after that), BO or looks dishevelled/dirty. Plenty more that come out later on, but those are from initial impressions. Miss Rabbit xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Doesnt matter how many meets Ive been on, the nerves still rise a little just before I finally meet. I start worrying that Ive put my good pics up and maybe how I see myself isnt what others see. Silly last minute insecurities. But its always a sigh of relief ( from me)when they do look like their pics ( I dont skype or cam first) and when they first see you, they break out into a smile and not a look of disappointment. Ive only had a couple of bad meets, where one used really, really old pics and the other used someone elses.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Smile. A smile that spreads from the eyes, not just the lips. Gentle brushes along the forearm with strong, tender fingers. Engaging conversation, eye contact, intoxicating but not overwhelming smell. Turn offs? Pushy. Talking too much about himself, or talking with a specific agenda. Paying more attention to what's going on around us, or what's going on on his phone. Smelling like cigarettes. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
turn ons - smells good, well dressed , well mannered, smile, a hug - I'm a hugger! good conversationalist with a good sense of humor turn offs - biggest one would be poorly dressed in something that looks like it just came off the floordrobe, bad body odour, bad breath, talking about themselves too much or me needing to carry the conversation .. and for my own weird one - long finger or toenails on guys i have no idea why it just really bugs me lol!
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RHP User
10 years ago
She... turned up! Ok, jokes aside, that means not only is she real, she has the genuine heart to take time out of her day/life, in which she could be doing nearly anything with anyone, yet here she is, deciding out of all those things that she would rather spend her time with me and in my company instead. That always warms my heart and often gives me butterflies. What leads to a connection: affection, conversation, touching and/or just being close, smiling, laughing (at me or with me), a slight shyness on her part draws me in, I like the cute and innocent look - on the surface at least :) Turn offs: being distracted, smoking like a chimney, ... actually, I don't really need to list all these, as they're typical, and I've never had a truly bad encounter, these issues would normally come up during the contact before the meeting, in which case it probably wouldn't have gone ahead.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Positive. Sparkling eyes, positive vibe, spring in the step, good kisser, nice tits. Negative. Not sayin'
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
I see different things in different people, sorry I just can't pin point, as it's not just looks alone. I just like what I like. Sometimes, it may take me a few meets (not often tho) before I see deal breakers shine through, mainly behaviours of some sort. I try really hard to listen and observe, and pick up on that. A wise person once told me that. So I've listened. :) As for libido killer, I just know as I'm just that not into them. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
10 years ago
What turns me on : - a man who is taller than me, the taller the better! - broad shoulders, so he can wrap me in his arms, OooOOooohhh... - a solid chest that I can lean against, mmmMMmmm... - confidence - masculinity / alpha males / suggestion of dominance politely reined in (MAJOR turn on!) - eyes that indicate a depth of character - a man who looks like he can physically sustain a good romp session (Woohoo!!!) - a man who isn't intimidated by my independance, my strength of character, my gaze and by my intensity. This lioness secretly wishes for a lioness tamer! C'mon, big boy... make me purr! LOL!!! - gentlemanly, but with a mischievous glint in the eye What turns me off : - motormouths; - shabbily dressed guys; (Poison IV, "floordrobe" made me laugh! :D); - bad breath, BO, dubious personal hygiene; - drones on and on about self, even after I deliberately show signs of boredom / distraction; - men who expect to be entertained - WTH, it's a two-way conversation and I am not a showgirl hired to entertain! - men who look O-L-D. It's not about the age - it's about the attitude and the amount of pride one takes in one's appearance. One can improvise and still get something good out of a coconut that has spilled some of its water but if a coconut comes as a dry husk, it's not much good for the thirsty and hungry! LOL!
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RHP User
10 years ago
If I arrived to find him ready? Swoon!!!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'PatchworkGirl' If I arrived to find him ready? Swoon!!!!! - Posted from rhpmobile ____________________________________________________________________________________________ "Ready"? As in... unbuttoned shirt, pants unzipped part-way, obvious bulge showing?
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RHP User
10 years ago
OK, here's a question I've been dying to ask - has anyone ever met someone who ticks all the boxes and makes them horny as hell upon meeting up for the first time, you start to relish thoughts of meeting again and how you are going to ravage them etc etc but suddenly, it all falls flat and they opt to leave? I had one such encounter a few weeks ago and whilst I have "moved on" there's still a nagging thought at the back of my mind, and a gnawing feeling in my heart. I'm interested in hearing about your experiences.
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RHP User
10 years ago
..... a great smile ... and any other queues for welcoming enthusiasm .... ... -ve people who hog the conversation
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RHP User
10 years ago
I would rather a guy not continue with me, than a guy who isnt overly attracted to me, but can see that Im attracted and thinks, what the heck, I will just fuck her anyway.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'willowtree_2' I would rather a guy not continue with me, than a guy who isnt overly attracted to me, but can see that Im attracted and thinks, what the heck, I will just fuck her anyway. ____________________________________________________________________________________________ Hmm... That is so true! My thoughts and judgement had been so clouded that I failed to think of it this way!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes, typo ... But if he's reading, I'm ready!!! :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Does he have a pulse...if yes,then goody ...If his name isn't Lazarus,two goodys 😍xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Summer_solstice' I forgot: talking about their ex(es). That's the one that sets my alarm off.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I actually like hearing men talk about their ex's. If you listen closely, you can learn a lot about the man's personality from how he talks about her, and also ascertain if he's ready to move on or is he still lugging around baggage and needs more time to lick his wounds. It's a precious indicator of his current state of psychological and emotional health and emotional (un)availability. Last year, I could not speak about my ex without tearing up and feeling heartbroken. Now, if I do mention him, it's like a distant memory that's firmly entrenched in the past and has no more business in my present life nor my future.
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RHP User
10 years ago
This is true.how a man speaks about the omen in their life can be a revelation. But after too many two hours of being bored into a coma I no longer listen so intently.I can usually figure a few things out in the first half hour.xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
Indeed,Freudian slips are revelatory too 😛xx Freya
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RHP User
10 years ago
Talking about an ex is one thing being interrogated is something else again, some women are like a dog with a bone over the ex, and I actually have a not overly friendly but amicable "relationship" with my ex so then the inevitable questions are about getting back together ! Can't win !
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RHP User
10 years ago
And the reverse is true too...After two hours over lunch,not one question about me.just lots about his ex ,money and an unfortunate encounter with a person who was less than honest about their sexual orientation, he threw a huge tantrum when I declined to see him again.. He made me pay for my lunch😱...wot a cheek,my time is worth more than $15 per hour !!!!! xxFreya...and yes I am joking
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Freya70' And the reverse is true too...After two hours over lunch,not one question about me.just lots about his ex ,money and an unfortunate encounter with a person who was less than honest about their sexual orientation, he threw a huge tantrum when I declined to see him again.. He made me pay for my lunch😱...wot a cheek,my time is worth more than $15 per hour !!!!! xxFreya...and yes I am joking ____________________________________________________________________________________________________ Oh my gosh! What a horrible experience!
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RHP User
10 years ago
And this is why I limit the time if I meet someone ,to a drink or coffee,even then at a coffee meet I was proposed to ..I am still single😝xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
Clearly someone who couldn't afford a counselling session :/
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RHP User
10 years ago
Including looking like their pic, always a plus. Their smile can both comfort and set the pulse racing. Their eyes, holding eye contact. I do like height but it's not a must provided that's there's not a towering gap. And then there's just hat gut feel you get when you see them, hopefully it equals whatever has been built during the build up to seeing them. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
What everyone else has said. I don't mind a phone on the table considering men usually don't carry bags - but leave it be! A huge welcoming smile, not checking your watch and your body angled towards me.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hot/sexy- A woman who smiles, is normal and natural, courteous and comfortable in her own skin. VERY NOT hot - A woman who keeps playing with her phone at a meet, messaging, possibly even taking photos while 'checking her messages'. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Freya70' And this is why I limit the time if I meet someone ,to a drink or coffee,even then at a coffee meet I was proposed to ..I am still single😝xxFreya ______________________________________________________________________________________________________ We are both single by choice and discretion. We have our own reliable and autonomous Quality Control safeguard that prevents us from getting entangled with problematic and/or dodgy peeps! Hehehe!
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cbdlivin
10 years ago
Quoting 'Summer_solstice' Ideally: He'd be wearing Converse (sorry Annie :-p), and enjoying the surroundings or reading. He'd flash a big smile when he saw me and give me hug. His phone would not be on the table and he'd ask as many questions as he'd answer them. Turn-offs: If he was late without letting me know, smoked, answered his phone and engaged in conversation during our date, talked only about himself, continuously looked around checking out other women, or was rude to staff. Finally you give a how too guide.. I am sure a few people will be taking notes...
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