Your imput on House parties

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  We went to our first house party back in Sydney a few years ago. We were lucky enough to attend with another couple whom we had been chatting to for a while before hand so it made it easier. To be honest we did not know what to expect, some of the thoughts running through our heads were - does everyone strip off at the door, what is the etiquette involved, how do you approach the topic etc etc. What we found totally dismissed all previous ideas of what it was about. Apart from the hostess answering the door nude it was just like a normal party apart from the matresses on the floor in the private rooms etc. We spoke with lots of people had a partial nude swim in the pool and eventually started in the downstairs lounge area with the freinds we met there and had a great time. Mid way through I wanted another drink which was upstairs in the fridge and the etiquette question was raised, should I put clothes on to walk upstairs, maybe just jocks, maybe nude as most other people were nude or partially nude anyway. I sided with caution as I remembered a large upstairs loungeroom and wondered if there was people sitting there chatting watching telly so put on the jocks mind you still fully erect. Needless to say I got upstairs and sure enough the loungeroom was filled with people watching telly and chatting all checking out my pants problem lol. In reflection we had a great time it was a couple only event so no singles which was great and also had a focus of BDSM with a dungeon etc and demonstrations not something we are into but it was still insiteful to see and at least be partly involved and experience we surley would not have had if we didnt go to the party. I recommend newbies to go to a party preferrably with another couple you have met or chatted to it definately eases you into it. Make sure you pick a good party that is not a full on orgy fest where you are expected to drop all and fuck anything that moves with a pulse. Lastly just make sure you have a clear set of boundaries discussed before you get there or discuss the plan prior to being in the moment we have seen lots of dissapointed couples due to being carried away in the moment. Get out there an enjoy Mr and Mrs Shag

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  House parties are a treat but it's not always just about sex. You'll find new friends with which you have common interests! You'll discover things you didn't think about. You'll become less judgmental and more accepting of a wider variety of sexual interests. You'll be amazed, intrigued, shocked and perhaps disgusted all at the same time. :p The thing that struck me first was how nobody had two heads. I mean, they're generally genuine people ... normal, non judgmental people with a thirst like your own to quench. You might feel insecure, wonder whether you will fit in.. etc and there always seems to be a wide eyed newbie tonguing to join in but reticent to do so... There's really only one thing for it. Everyone is there for the same reason. True not everyone is there looking for everyone else, but you'll know who's "friendly" towards you... buy reason that people at a house party aren't usually backward in coming forward. Having said that, I think the host makes or breaks such events. An experienced host seems to have a way of making people feel at ease.HugsStalky

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I have been to some really awesome houseparties....where everyone is free to progress at their own pace...where there are no expectations.But then....I have been to parties where the attitude wasget naked and fuckas soon as you walk in the door...and if you dont...youre asked to leave.I guess on the upside...I know who to not invite to mine!JMO...BJxxx

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  15 years ago

  Our first experience.... Well it was about 15 years ago for us at a house in Spring hill. We were so scared and both held eachothers hands walking up the steps. We were greated by this huge bouncer guy and he asked us our names...we both shit ourselves, you see we were not prepared for that...we looked at eachother and gave fake names.....and giggled. We entered the party, there were 3 rooms up stairs and a bondage area downstairs with a huge in ground pool outside. It was very nice and the people were friendly and all dressed to impress. There was one lady on the cross she was getting eaten out by heaps of guys.......they came all over her....it was a bit ewwwww....but she loved it. Then a lady lied down on the floor right in front of bryan and I and all these guys just started fucking her and licking her....you could almost feel her breathe on us we were so close to where it was happening.. I didnt know where to look, i was sort of embarrassed yet aroused. Bryan and I were giggling and trying not to let anyone touch us, as they were so close. The room stank!!!!!of sex.... Well we decided to leave that area and go upstairs and play in one of the private rooms...... We entered the room and sat on the bed....we got undressed and started to kiss and cuddle..but..... all of a sudden we could hear the people in the room next door...the lady was screaming...OMF FUCK ME Harder...the walls were being banged ...and we started laughing....hence to say we could not perform Bryan could not perform rather...hehe.....it was way too funny. We decided to get dressed and leave...BUT....we had only been in there for about 3 minutes....we thought ....everyone will say.OMFG they were quick....so we sat really quiet on the edge of the bed. laughing and giggling listening to the antics next door. After about 20 minutes we thought we would escape...we held our breathe and opened the door.... TO OUR SURPRISE NO ONE GAVE A SHIT...NO ONE LOOKED AT US..NO ONE SAID ANYTHING... We then thought omg they all have thier own agenda...we just wasted 20 mins sitting in a empty room trying to be very quiet in fear of people thinking we were way to fast.... We left and laughed all our way home... But might we say there we so many bad nights of too many single guys...too many old men....too many drugs at a lot of the parties we attended over the years... That is why we have made CI like it is....a safe and non threatening environment limited single guys after selection and DRUG FREE

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