RHP

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Your MMF/ FMF experience on a newbie party

April 27 2014

I recently met with a couple for their first MMF. It was interesting to say the least as the poor girl was nervous as hell and was gulping her wine all night. The husband and I were talking and he said that it is scary for him as well, but necessary for their first step into swinging. The wife agreed and laughed (giggled) and said that she is excited for the evening and just wanted to get her heart rate down. The lead towards the actual sex was actually very real and interesting, if this makes sense? We had a great time.My question is, how was your first time being the 'experienced' one in the group? You can be playing with a first-time couple or a first-time single male/female. How did you get them to warm up to you and start the play?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    All this 3 way talk Mmmm. Mrs_AJ

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    We drank a bit, she had more than us, listened to music and talked. As the night went on we got a bit more open with each other, talk turned to sex and sexuality. Have you been with a couple before? Are you bi or Bi-curious? Things like that, then the MRs and her asked each other to bed at the same time haha. The girls took each others hands then went to bed together and just touched and felt for a while until I joined in. It was still a nervous and fun experience for us even though we have done this a few times now ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Of course I say that now but I do not want to drink....much lol Id rather be shaking with nervousness than tiddly and not aware whats happening. Mrs_AJ

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    One Guy couldnt cope with it despite being the main one of the three of us that wanted it.... he arived early and left early .. think he best keep it to a one on one ... as I tried to advise and which I prefer. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Was with a couple we met at Utopia a few weeks prior. We decided to meet at the Plough Inn for a few drinks, a chat and dance to get to know each other. We all seemed to have had an attraction for each other from when we first met so this made moving back to their unit a lot easier, but still a little daunting being our first experience. Our hosts were fantastic, they organised a drinks, nibbles and to break the ice, out came the fun adult games. We eventually moved into the main bedroom to swap partners and enjoy some really nice foreplay, nothing was rushed or pushed onto us. We don't have to go into specifics, but being open minded and wanting to explore all types of play with them, we both enjoyed a great MFM and FFM experience. We don't look at this couple as our FB's (as we dislike this description) but more like good people we catch up with to "enjoy their company."