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Younger or Older Women?
October 07 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well.....For me personally (and flame if you like) I prefer mid 20 - late 20's. Im 25 and not big on the whole 'im 18 and need to be out every weekend' thing, I find younger women, to be alittle to....well young for me, I've always gotten along with more mature women (mainly due to being in a service industry....well im a painter, but clients tend to have a head on their shoulders). But age really isn't the issue, and i don't want to say maturity, because i don't like the word. So i'll ramble, For me personally (note im single and there's probably a good reason for that) I prefer women with responsibilities (business wise) but reasonably carefree, professional in work but value quiet peaceful times on weekends, someone who finishes work on Friday afternoon and says 'god i just want to get away, lay on a beach and relax'.So getting back on point, age? my age or older, a mature younger woman is fine with me though. I dont like ruling out people just because they don't fit into a predetermined illusion of perfection :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
You've really had trouble getting 30-ish guys to contact you? but you're STUNNING!
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RHP User
16 years ago
i agree with jengirl....thats really weird that youre finding it hard i wouldve thought youd be swamped?! i prefer both :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
hi taby you are a hot looking girl if u were in perth i'll catch up with u regards scooter
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RHP User
16 years ago
Gotta go with jengirl on this one... How can you have trouble finding a guy in your age bracket... You're absolutely stunning!!!As for me I prefer girls that are younger, or up to and around the same age...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Obviously they're intimidated by your beauty. It's a pity that guys are insecure about approaching a beautiful woman, but we are... and of those guys that have no problem with it, they seem to me to be egotists or gay... lmfao... well, that's been my experience at fashion shows. hehe Guys your age are surely alright too. Hugs Gazza
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RHP User
16 years ago
The problem is I dont like guys my age gazpacho41. I like older guys lol I have found in the past that younger guys do nothing more me I find them to... boyish I like a man not a boy. Also younger men or the ones Iv had exsperinces with where bad in the bedroom.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am 44 and love younger guys!! In my experience on and off the pie, it is true, younger guys are hot for older women.. Which obvioulsy suits me fine! I have done my own little survey with young guys and I'd say it is a culmination of things that attract them to us... For example -confidence, not insecure about our bodies, willing to perform acts a little left of centre, ability to take the lead and some have even said that older women look after themselves better than the youngens, as far as cleanliness goes (I am definitely not catagorizing anybody there mind you!!) So bring it on boys!!! Sorry "taby001" maybe you have to wait about 20 years to get those studs to perform like they do for me??? Bambi..xxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Understand that a perferance is just that it is never to the exclusion of all other so what is my preferance: Younger...Much younger I like this age group and if you have an electra complex all the better it is my prefered group. It is also very good for the ego too when you do attract some one in that age group. That being said It is all about whet is between the ears for me if you have an attractive mind I Dont care one little bit about age you can be 20 you can be 70...it is about the individual always. Mike
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RHP User
16 years ago
dammit, I didn't know 30 years put you in the older gents category...That is absolutely awful that people would be so ageist and discriminate against you taby, oh, err... I'm also just 30... *nudge nudge wink wink phwoar* (lol, like you couldn't see the flood of 30+ guys coming in here saying that as soon as you posted :-p )I can imagine its frustrating, but just as frustrating as it is for the younger guys who you're not interested in.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I like all women as long as they are fit, sensual and are into me and Sal. But Sal has strict rules on me not being allowed to play with anyone under 26, below that she thinks I'm a dirty old man if i want to play with girls that are too much younger than me. So I need to agree to this, we need to be united and I like playing. Personally I don't get it, but it's her call. We have met many other couples were people have felt the same. The one thing is the emotional maturity to handle what it is that happens. Sal will often comment to me about these girls who have gangbangs with football players then cry rape. We also met a couple a few months ago where the girl was 19 and by the end of the night in the sex club she 'had to get out of there' So although you are damn sexy lady. You're forbidden fruit. Andy
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RHP User
16 years ago
Andy.. wait.. under 26... that's only 8 years younger than you. damb. Does this age restriction keep rising each year.. or is 26 the established mim?? I mean... my age less 8 is.... well... older than you. :( Are there ever mitigating circumstances? You know... role playing.... etc. c'mon.. there has to be an angle... and besides.. what's wrong with being a dirty old man??? It happens to the best of us at some point! I mean, just the other day someone even said I was too old for sex! The nerve@! hehe... that's why god made viagra.. lolz ~ and that's why Im designing the Australian branch of the Benny Hill nursing homes Inc..... somewhere warm would be good I suppose... and close to train station so we can all go on an excursion to CI every second friday. Hugs and tugs Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
Gazza, yes sadly that age does rise. When Sal and I first started playing the age limit was 24, but she has now moved it up to 26. Sal likes to have control of situations and if I kick up a fuss she just wont play... and to be honest its nicer to have a quiet life, then i get to shag more. I love the idea of a younger woman wanting to shag me, i love the idea of an older woman wanting to shag me. I'm not ageist. I would love to teach and would love to be taught. There are no breakable clauses, Sal gets this look on her face when a) she's about to fart b) someone wants to smoke around her c) if a young lass tell us her age and it's below the bar. :P Okay one of those isn't true. Sal never farts. But this isn't about me, I would have a non-restrictive playing arena talk to the missus ... sorry mate I wish I had better news for you.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think its more about the individual and how you bounce of each other, but in saying that in general i have nothing in common with most young ladies, they speak a whole different language, and mostly have different tastes in music that i just can't relate to. On the other hand i have had some nice chats with young women at the pub (without hitting on them). But if one ever hit on me i would be very suspicious of their motives and run a mile. To me, women under 25 seem like bits of kids. Taby001 maybe they are applying the age rule formula.Best of luck to you.Cheers Nev
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RHP User
16 years ago
Andy knows my reasons and expresses his reasons too and that is cool. If he had boundaries I would respect them :P (Um I am sure he does have some) Some women are probably just super cool, super secure in themselves or eager to please their partner no matter what. I am none of those so I guess that leaves us where we are for now. When it comes to males I think i would find under 29 a little too young for me as I prefer older men. Our upper age limit was set by Andy as he feels it is a double standard that i am comfortable being with someone that much older then me. We each can only form our opinions and our beliefs based on our experiences. I have been a young girl taken advantage of and i have a little sister and I see her and her teen friends do some silly silly things. i don't want the responsibility of someone too immature to handle what we do. sometimes i struggle myself. Anyway.....I really mean it, I do appreciate Andy supporting me on this despite how he feels about it. xx Sal
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sorry Gazza....Andy set upper age limit!!! Take it up with him :P I would so do you! xxxxxxx Sal ;)
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RHP User
16 years ago
I used to think that younger girls were the only way to go - until my last rhp friend who was 8 yrs older and absolutely blew my mind....I just had a whole monologue typed out about why I like older and younger women, but when it comes down to it - its just whether people click I guess.. though it would seem (from my experience anyway) that some of the younger girls these days go on with "do you think you could handle me? coz I'm totally wild" rubbish, and when it comes down to it - I'd rather someone who actually puts in some effort please.Having said that, yes I am sure there's guys out there who are the same.And on a personal note - Taby, they don't know what they're missing, right?
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm about to email a mate in Hervey Bay and get him to slap all of his single mates.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well Taby it seems you aren't totally forthcoming. I sent you a flirt and you weren't interested...ok maybe i'm just above the range you are looking for. Maybe it's because of distance i don't know. I'd be extremely surprised that you cannot find older guys wanting you, or is it just the ones you want dont want you? Back to age preference, I don't really have one but it is a bit annoying if the other person doesn't have a car. And I'd knock back a good looking smoker but not someone that maybe a little inexperienced.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I saw a fair bit of that when I was your age, a lot of my mates had experiences with older chicks saying all that stuff about experience, but also some would admitt that what put them off some of the chicks their own age was the stuck up attitudes of some girls and as you've said some girls are only into older guys. I have the opposite problem these days, it's the younger girls showing all the interest and the ones my own age not showing any. I'm not complaining, it's great, I lead a very adventurest lifestyle so girls my own age see me as not willing to settle down but the younger girls want some excitment and romance with a guy who's not going to get all clingy on them. So if your ever over in Bunbury WA, look me up.Cheers, Mark aka Redhotgun
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RHP User
16 years ago
lolz Trishl.... ya darlin' what are you talking about you bewty... how's abut you me and young Andy_xxx and Taby get together and commiserate the reject I just got from SalAndy :( .... I'm sure we can all work something out that works. :p ... maybe if we turn the lights down low and switch name tags or something.. hehe! Hugs Gazza
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RHP User
16 years ago
I prefer to find a women who wants to experiment and have some enjoyment trying new things out in the bedroom. Sometimes it is an older women who is looking for these things; and other times it is a young 19, 20 year old who gets so turned on by the mature partner... I say as long as you find the right person for what your hoping to achieve then age is no worries... Also, i find it difficult to say that Taby wouldnt have had no offers from 30 year old men around her area.. Maybe she is a little picky in what she exactly wants from her 30 year old, and no 30 year old has caught her eye as yet... And good on her too, its her choice she can be as picky as she wishes, i know i am... I only msg those which have caught my eye and are ppl I believe i would be truely interested in meeting.. .Enjoy your evening everyone:)
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RHP User
16 years ago
hmmmm, well, as a 32 year old (Vinny speaking) I've had one end of the spectrumt to the other. After my wife, I swore off younger girls and only saw older lasses. However, strange twist of fate, I ended up finding my soulmate without even looking, and she happens to be 9 years younger than me!!!! It all depends on whether or not you click. If you "click", age means nothing.
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RHP User
16 years ago
taby 001 you should not have any trouble finding guys as you look very attractive. im sure not all guys in the 30,s are looking for older ladies, just some. best of luck.
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RHP User
16 years ago
People seek different experiences.Olders seek young ones.Young souls seek the matured.Same may apply to race, beliefs and preferences.Sometimes its the contrasts and the opportunity for exposure to very different types of experiences, places, activies and people that act like opposite poles of a stong magnet. There is too old and there is too young but we may never look or talk our real age.You'll find mature souls trapped in young bodies.You'll find young souls in old flesh.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Rockguy28 you have hit the nail on the head. Its not that the age of guys im looking for dont message me. Its more the fact that im picky. and i mean why shouldnt i be? its my body and i should be picky about who I give it to. I do not belive in one night stands. I am looking for a playmate someone I can have a regular thing with.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey......:( I never rejected you! You obviously, so bitterly disappointed by Andys post, stopped reading ours altogether!xx Sal
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RHP User
16 years ago
well bugga me a stunningly beautiful woman struggling to meet older men wish i lived in Hervey Bay he he he. Well taby as a 46yo male i've got to the age where i'd love to meet a younger woman not under 20 though they must have a little experience. Gawd its almost a fantasy now a younger woman ha ha ha. I think its the illusion that i think i'm still look young and am handsome enough to be attractive to younger women my ego needs pampering.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I can say that age is not that important reallybut there are some experiences you can only get when you are older and have a young lady in your bed . There is a certain beauty that you experience as an older person . Maybe it's you appreciate more what young beauty is .. Some people have filters with age etc but I prefer to look at what energy is created through communication. Sometimes with age difference communication is more physical and sometimes more mentally driven. if you get both then its as good as if your ages are far closer together. You always have to take on board older people mature into different needs and that can become an issue. Younger girls can be as good in bed as older women . I have found younger females who had experienced an older guy in their early years or had early sexual exposure have always been the more abled .
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RHP User
16 years ago
yeah trishl , love older women ,more expirienced not up themselves,(mostly) take things more slowly and more open minded, as for you my darling, every one knows that a car that has been run in is a better buy. youve sold me, what a bargain. message me ,im yours.and wont trade you in for a newer model lol.
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RHP User
16 years ago
In my opinion it duznt come down to age at all but maturity...coz I have met a few younger guys who were just as good as a 30yold and Ive met sum older guys who r absolute cock heads ...so rlly the right age to meet a guy/girl is wen theyve matured and no one knows wat age that will be ;p
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RHP User
16 years ago
Most of the sex i had between 17 and 24 was with older women. I was hitching around Oz and had a field day! Yes they taught me "good loving" and patience and how to please them. Yes maturity does cum into it as well(re- Hotazice). As far as trying new things...... i don't agree. Older women just don't fuck around. Straight to the point! But so can the hard bellies be............
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RHP User
16 years ago
it's not the physical age, it's the mental and emotional age...
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RHP User
16 years ago
it's not the physical age, it's the mental and emotional age...Be patient taby, and keep looking...but IMHO....i think u r concentrating too much onthe physical age, yes, probably older guys will be better in the long run...but just think if ya could get a younger guy and mold him to your needs...bet that would make ya lick your lips, huh?...have fun...ooohhh trishl...>>>...races off to submit resume for licking nipples job...Jose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
an interview?....woo-hoo!!...skips round and round the room with silly look on faceok...>>>...races off to get resume, finds a suit...hey, lost me resume...pouts...never mind...i'll..oops, better, not say...he-he...>>>....packs back-brace for trish...looks for other things to help trish when she's tired...he-he
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RHP User
16 years ago
I too like older men, I'm extremely attracted to them I am young, I love sex and I'm willing to try new things and yes you're right Tabby001... so why is it people seem to think that women are more experienced, who's to say that a younger woman isn't experienced? How are us young woman supposed to acquire new skills and experience if we are never given the chance....?
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RHP User
16 years ago
wow It is so good to see soooo many intelligent wonderful people out there who have so many views. My baby is 9 years older than me Im 19 and he's 28. I love it. Most guys my age are immature and act like knobs. They walk around like they have a kong dong between their legs but in actuality they dont. Trust me. I go clubbing with my friends and guys yell out slut ! or Ill fuck you so good baby. I got tired of it so I turned around to one guy and said come on get it out lets go right here in front of everyone stud ... the result ? ummmm ahhhh well not here etc etc he shat himself. Women love MEN real men. I was watching my guy the other day, the way he walks and talks and handles himself he is REALLY manly. I mean apart from his tattoos and muscley body he has hair on his chest like a man and he talks like he knows what he's talking about. He is well travelled and has had a lot of life experience and this is a turn on. Most of the time I find myself getting all worked up by him just doing the dishes. He is quiet and gets on with it. It really is sexy. Now im not saying he is a blokey bloke type guy, he has confidence. I know that no matter how shitty life is the second he wraps his big arms around me I feel safe and nothing can penetrate that. Now THAT is a turn on. Most guys can go on blabbing about how good they can fuck etc etc but nothing compares to a man who can look deep into your eyes and make you melt. This is what turns us women on. My baby will give me this look I call it the "caveman" hahaha because i just know that its gonna be a hot night. I cant tell you how many times he has just pulled the car over and gone "get in the back" and its resulted in wild sweaty sex in many a public spot. Now that is passion.I think older guys tend to have this tendency to know what they want you know? Nothing turns me on more than the smell of him it really is MANLY. heheEnough blabbing from me for now. Have a wonderful day guys xxxxxLeesha.
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RHP User
16 years ago
i couldn't agree more with xhardcorecouplex....over the douchebags most definately. Alot of young guys need to learn to live/love/grow with there hearts/brain instead of their slongs. My pet hate too is going to nighclubs, its a real turn off epseically since I go to have a fun night with my girlfriends only to be annoyed endlessly and rubbed up againts (oh god that is the worst!)......I often think its more a slaughter house for guys-take your pic at the kill, rather than a place to let loose and dance the night away!
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RHP User
16 years ago
For me, I've only had one sexual partner and she was only a couple of years older than I. However, I am also attracted to women that are in their 30-40's, it doesn't really matter on their age, some people are just sexy, or you just happen to click with them. It's not just their looks though but their personality as well.I know a bunch of young girls from working in a bar who are extremely attractive (almost a pre-requisite of working behind a bar for girls), but do my fucking head in with the immature stuff they babble on about, and how they attention seek, and how they expect everyone to do everything for them. I mean, I'm a gentleman, but don't take the piss. Not an attack on women, because there are plenty of guys that I avoid whether it's because of their attitude, or even if I'm good mates with a guy and he happens to hang around with a bunch of tossers who are disrespectful and want nothing more than to get drunk and start an argument.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Older women are more grounded, usually know themselves well and are comfortable in their own skin. They seem more genuinely confident rather than trying to act confident. Conversations are usually more meaningful, they respect things more and appreciate quality. I've found older women are more independent, have a higher sex drive are wittier and can seduce which i think requires good confidence to do. Older women don't play the childish mind games that younger gals do whilst they experiment practicing jealousy, envy, lust etc. I just keep finding gals my age so dense and strictly materialistic. Younger gals can have nicer bodies but considering physical looks are only 1 of my criteria points out of about 10, i'd say an older women would win me over on that 90% that most younger gals neglect.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Taby....I'm 32 & you flat out rejected me.How did the reply go?That's right..."Short answer no...long answer,nooooooooooo" I prefer young girls with petite bodies.I've been with older,but I fond they have alot of baggage from ex's who put them down & ran off with "tighter firmer" younger women.I do like younger women for many reasons,but I'll still have fin with a woman in her 40's if she was fit & took care of herself.
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RHP User
16 years ago
are u serious? guys around 30 reject you? they must be idiots as you're a total hottie i'd never say no to a girl like you
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RHP User
16 years ago
trying to find mature women but there all playing hard to get.
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RHP User
16 years ago
both, they both offer different qualities. i prefer youger ladies myself but i have also had the older.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Would be pretty good so they could teach me a thing or two!
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RHP User
16 years ago
In my experience, you have a much greater chance of landing a "starfish" chasing girls in the 18 -21 age group.I'm 29, pretty much all the best sex I've had in my life, they were older than me, in the 30 - 40 range. I know it's cliched but there is a level of comfort with their bodies (and perhaps their skills too?) that a lot of women in that group have, that younger girls just don't. Experience always trumps looks for me, up to a point of course, if I wanted to look at something pretty I'd go stare at a rainbow. ;)These are just generalisations of course, not all young women are inexperienced, not all older women are confident and highly skilled.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I get what you are saying Taby but I really think it's reasonable to take people on to check their fitness for purpose regardless of age. One thing that I notice in this forum is, setting aside all the foolish and harmless banter we do, how insightful and developed are the opinions of many of the young people here and sometimes it's surprising how immature some of the oldies can be. Take individuals as they come regardless of age. I may not be interested in having sex with people the same age as my kids but some of the guys and women in the younger set are great comrades and very entertaining. Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
Totally agree with that post
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RHP User
16 years ago
I don't really have a preference but I do always seem to end up with much younger women, my partner is only 25 and I'm 48, my ex is 30. I generally try not to ask out much younger women but still end up dating them, possibly because most of my friends and work mates are around 25 to 30 and it is more difficult to meet older women (married and or at home looking after the kids). My partner is young, incredibly beautiful but much older and more serious in her personality than a lot of 25 year olds so as someone else said I think it has more to do with when you just click with someone. You are a very interesting girl and obviously more mature than a lot of other 20 year olds - maybe that's why you like older men also. Cheers and best wishes Taby
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RHP User
16 years ago
I like younger girls, but some times you can't see through all their make up, older girls look more natural.
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RHP User
16 years ago
ps taby001 you look great! :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
ill disagree but i can onlt persume from my perspective, u ur self taby maybe lookin for an older guy possibly because u think theyll treat u reight and are more settled, but to them and once again im only assuming just another opinion, you are not settled and ready to settle down, as much as you think u might be most girls aroind our Age belive they are ready to settled down get married have kids and then its done.. but as time goes by they realize they RUSHED into it and change there mind, check the devorce rate statistics for confrimation, while over 30 maybee atrracted to you and are welling to have sex with u its just such a gamble that u might take what u can n run... this is only one perspective i have from seeing it happen around me so ive lost a little faith in the whole true love thing aswell it all depends what ur looking 4 i guess, plus saying that siced posting this forum i bet u have had alot of msgs from the 30 yr old age gap but how many of them are what you are looking for obviously there has to be physical attraction but may i ask what are you lookin for in a guy that is seperated by a paticular age?
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singlewood
16 years ago
Being an older man lol i have a tendancy to prefer women my own age, mainly because if the woman it much younger there is nothing in comon to talk about after the fun
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RHP User
16 years ago
I like both for a few reasons one of which is that when I was around 18 I had a 32 year old fb that didnt expect any commitment from me had an awesome body and taught me alot about myself sexually and boosted my confidence alot(I was a bit self conscious before that) and I guess now when I think about being with an older woman I get that same excitement from being able to get someone with more experience rocks off and it works the other way too knowing that your more experienced and you can teach a hot younger girl a few things in the bedroom. And I have to agree I shocked that your having trouble hooking up with older guys your stunning and I know alot of guys my age that would lose a small finger for a chance with someone like you... Id say good luck but dont think your gonna need it. Where is hervey bay anyways? lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
as a man nearly 40 id love to be with a younger woman, wife has given blessing,but in saying that i love women 18 to 80 i love giving pleasure
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RHP User
16 years ago
to be honest age has actually nothing to do with it , it depends on ther ability to connect with each other , my last partner of 12yrs was 16 yrs my junior and a stunner , most of my relationships were with younger ladies , there was no concious thought about it , i only pursue things with people i feel comfortable with , and connect with , age simply doesnt enter the picture with me , in my experience ive found nothing to support that older women are better than young ones and vice versa , it depends on the person your with , and if the chemistry is right who gives a shit what age they are that said thou sometimes it's more important to share a comfortable silence than an awkward conversation stay picky and patient your very good looking and maybe boys your age cant believe there luck , and simply get too excited stay happy free
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RHP User
16 years ago
Don't give up on yourself yet girl, seems like men can have a midlife crisis at any age my X is 26 I'm 50, we were together for 8 years, I still prefer younger guys but sometimes a change is good I guess!! And sweetty your still hot so get out there girl :) Ive decided I'm going to have a midlife crisis and enjoy it, I'm losing weight, I got some goth boots and some fishnet stocking lol Im even going to get my belly button pierced again :) when its flatter that is :) Oh by the way I was also traded for a younger model but she is 3 times my size, so go figure, men are just confusing at any age :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
I find a lot of them have some real issues, especilly ones who have had a bad prior long term relationship and are in their 40's, thats a generalisation though. Cant say i have had the pleasure of a younger women in about 15 years, but i don't chase them either. For me its not about age, its about attitude, i don't really like rough bogan type women with tatts all over them and the ow ya goin maaaate style about them whether they are 20 or 60.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I realise no one has replied on this topic for a month, but being a recent guest, thought to through my two cents in. I cannot say I have a preference, but there certainly is a difference. Younger girls in the main seem more keen to try things, I find they are more "giving" physicaly- for lack of another word. However they can also be quite frivilous. Older women tend to be more set in certain patterns or focussed on the way they like things - as such they don't appear to be as giving - often feels more like taking. However they can connect with your mind in a way most younger women don't. I appreciate this is me generalising based on my experiences and perhaps has little to do with reality. Taby you should have no concerns - I am sure you make many mens lists. :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
It because its taboo. Having someone older is just exciting....... for both parties. Just like your looking for an older partner (maturity experience ...blah blah) so are the men. But it doesn't stop us guys looking for someone our own age.I spose it just comes down to the "click"
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