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Young guys profile advice.

June 20 2012

This won't paragraph thanks to my iPhone so I'll try to keep it brief(ish). Why are so many guys asking for everyone else to write their profile for them?? Do they not have their own minds?? Methinks not.... The problem is that with all the advice (and it's wonderful advice - therein lies the issue), thread posters are turning illiterate, moronic, serial killers into worldly, classy, fun and spontaneous gentlemen! Guys, if you really can't put together a profile that can attract the attention of whoever you're looking to attract, maybe you're on the wrong site. Some profiles hand done such a 360 that when some poor unsuspecting lady or couple meet with these guys whose profiles are, well, everyone else's - they won't remotely be the same person standing in front of them. Beware of turning these guys who can't think for themselves into someone they ain't! What can you do to make your profile "better" put some thought into it and be YOU!

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RHP User

14 years ago

How many have actually changed their profiles after seeking advice? Perhaps it is just a way to get noticed.Afterall, to actually transform a seriously deficient profile requires a certain degree of skill which is lacking in the first place.xHugs H

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RHP User

14 years ago

Apollo, I don't think it is a case of them being illiterate, nor really actively seeking advice. Have a look at most that 'ask for advice' on their profiles here in the forums. They are normally youngish (under 40) normal RHP guys. I think at least some of them use it as a cheap arse way of getting heaps of women to view their profile and to be able to contact women or couples without having to pay for membership. If you notice, even if their profile is badly written, normally what they write here in the profile is coherent and fairly grammatically accurate - why the difference. And the big thing is, how many have you seen that have changed their profile based on the advice given?

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RHP User

14 years ago

I received a flirt from a guy who had lifted his profile word for word from Roxxy, he'd just changed the male words to female words.So I messed with him for a bit (oh, wow, your profile is so original and funny, but it's almost like I've seen it before????), and then once he'd changed it I blocked him up. Fucking moron.Those people are the ones who need a serious wake up call.

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RHP User

14 years ago

This was the gist of my embedded message in my post, on the "Improve my profile" thread over in "Guys Ask"I did it to see who the "switched on" women were and who was gazinginto the mirror touching up their lippy....lolThe replies spoke volumes....lolCoincidental that Apollo came to same conclusion, but " switched on" none the less!Cheers Felonius

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RHP User

14 years ago

I think it is great that all you sexy ladies are willing to give advice.........it seems so much harder for guys( men) to try and type ..what they are actually saying.it is so much easier to come out and say....i want to have sex with you(deff after a few drinks:0)..so I think coming out with a good sexy comment is a difficult thing!!

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RHP User

14 years ago

My reaction is always "everyone, shhhhhhhhh! Stop upping the competition!"

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RHP User

14 years ago

Well I think the profile is the first impression so it only give you a start does not really take you all the way. I got advice on my profile which I did use. But once I start messaging people they should know if I am a good person or not. But the change in profile will give me a the chance to let them find out.

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RHP User

14 years ago

However, most people will talk to a guy for a while before meeting him (or are advised to) and so if their messages and behaviors don't match the way the profile is written, it all adds up...I think a true serial killer would be organised enougj and practiced enough to know how to appear normal, after all that's why it takes longer to find them than the one off who is convicted after number 1. Unless the opportunity driven and disorganized psychopath, who would have plenty more readily available prospects out on the street that can't be traced back to a website and emails back and forth... Just thinking...

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RHP User

14 years ago

i agree with Most of the above points.But serial killers and physcopaths,really?!,while pre cautions on a site like this a prudent i would say a lot of guys my age and younger fall into the oversexed and under-read category.Which is unfortunate A lot of young/old guys get directed here through pop ups while they are watching porn,which is a sorry state of affairs but so be it.they already have the attitude that its a place where everybody wants it now and is bereaved(spelling) of human decency.So when it dawns upon them that normal social rules apply they seek help i would imagine.they get it from you ladies after all. It boils down to do you girls want to read a profile that is crude and direct or just easy reading the first may be more honest on behalf of said author and therefore make it easier to make a judgement on possible compatibility. For fear of being accused of looking for attention i`ll say this....I for one have never looked for advice here or elsewhere,although i popped my ''internet cherry''on a UK site whilst living in Edinburgh,maybe i dont get as much attention as a result but at least i`m comforted in the knowledge thats its mine.Promoting that angle among the newbies is probably best policy So maybe if Guys are looking for advice in the future write HONESTY repeatedly and in capitals instead of a couple of paragraphs on what you look for as in the end its the palm twiddling droolers as constructed by you wonderful ladies(meant with no sarcasm) that will decieve you. Dx Quoting 'Dark_Moon_Lilith' However, most people will talk to a guy for a while before meeting him (or are advised to) and so if their messages and behaviors don't match the way the profile is written,it all adds up...

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RHP User

14 years ago

Ummmmm sorry I just got distracted by Krissy's oiled up assets..... I reckon give the guys a break, so long as they're not directly copying what other people have on their profiles. Some people just aren't comfortable at describing themselves, at a loss for words or simply find it difficult to string a witty sentence together with easy flair. We can't expect them all to be Neptune_drifts and ChasingMidnights (God I miss that man), can we? And hey, I'm sure a well-worded, smart-aleck profile doesn't attract everyone....not everyone sees wordplay and wit as a necessary requirement, after all.

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RHP User

14 years ago

I think it's pretty safe to assume that the organised Pyschopaths won't be found on dating websites, to much of a paper trail.The chances of an encounter with a murderer are extremely rare, in any casesociety is actually farly safe. Mind you in parts of Sydney you would be forgiven forthinking otherwise.The point I was alluding to is that women can be making a rod for theirown back, in helping some guys to misrepresent themselves and their qualities.Kind of like making the sheepskin for the wolves back in some cases.Then you have to spend time digging down to the real animal.Then of course there will always be the real diamonds in the rough, who justaren't great at expressing themselves through the written word.Cheers Felonius

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RHP User

14 years ago

I'm ninety five percent sure CM is still here and posting. Though using a different Tack, But have seen enough parallels tobe fairly sure.Cheers Felonius

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RHP User

14 years ago

For asking girls to come to dates with me pre-drunk in my profile. Believe me, that wasn't my intention.I actually really don't want to spend money on you "getting to know you", And I'm hotter when you're pissed. First impressions are always important, and my fragile ego requires your stumble/giggle/hiccup/smile entry so I know I am better than you. I've spotted at least six guy's profile's now sporting a "get smashed first I'm cheap" motif. FIFO plagarists!RA

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RHP User

14 years ago

There's some things they just can't ask their mum to do. Sure cooking, cleaning, wiping their bottoms - that's all quite acceptable for your mummy-boy-still-living-at-home package, but asking mum to write your sex-site profile, well that's just embarrasing. Either that or they are hoping mum's on here too, and they will give them a hand anonymously.

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RHP User

14 years ago

Anyone who wants a profile should write their own details as it comes out of their head. THIS' tells you something about the person up front rather than someone sugar coating it for them.. I would hate to go to all the trouble to meet someone who is totally different to what you think they are . OK' like everyone else' I feel for these guys and girls who just cant seem to string the right words together, but it gets back to 'we are who we say we are... We all owe that to each other.. Mrs JJ

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usnow

14 years ago

Isnt it all a ploy to get hundreds of people looking at your profile ? They say advertising pays ! Swingnew .

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RHP User

14 years ago

It's very simple. These sites are a treasure chest for females. They can be picky, shallow, judgemental and any other name you want to call it. Females get to choose and decide, so the best thing to do is just be honest with your profile. A lot of guys think there going to tell women what they want and then go on to tell women how badly you will want their cock lol. You can't force women to sleep with you lol. Open, honest, simple and put yourself out there to give yourself the best chance to find a match.

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Ivoodoo

14 years ago

Most serial killers seem to be the smart literate ones :) they can twist and turn an manipulate words to get what they want.... It's the flatbrim joe blo with the unit shirt that need the help...

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