Young guy needing some advice...

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Hey mate, Fantasy is not reality. I was a reluctant participant initially for differnet reasons to yours but then I met someone special.    People fantasise about all kinds of stuff that they never do... or that doesnt work out or feel the way you imagine. I recommend that you just continue to follow your erection with an open mind. I don't mind what gender people are, if they turn me on, they do, if they don't turn me on, then male or female, I accept that they don't.   Seems to me, you just haven't fooled around with a guy that turns you on just right. Maybe the "act" you fantasise aout, whatever it is, will never feel the way you imagine. Maybe you will never will meet a guy who turns you on just right..... but chances are that there will be... and you'll think...  "I gotta get me some more of that".   Hugs Gazza

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Hi,   As always Gaz gives good advice. I will just add a couple of things that I think weigh on us. Firstly we are bought up with various degrees of homophobic behaviour. The fact that we find other guys attractive in a sexual manner can sometimes just scare us...the fantasy is fine because there is no chance of us coming to a realisation that we actually do enjoy something. When imagination gives way to fleash it is then that we confront some demons on occasions, it is at this point intime we find we do actually enjoy mucking around with guys as well.   The very best way to be relaxed with a guy is in a MMF threesome firstly you are in a more comfortable situation and your arousal levels will be up in any case...this is how i was introduced to sucking and being sucked by a guy and it seemed like the most natural thing in the world. I had decided I was going to go with the flow before hand, it was vry easy to be washed along in that flow.   I think some times, regardless of how open minded we think we are, there is a simmering fear that you will discover you like guys better than girls.   I sould not really dabble in psycology since I really have no experiance in it but it seems logical to me. Live your sexual life on the basis of if it feels good then just do it. There is no need to search for any meaning as to why you like certian things...   Well I am done I hope you can get something out of this...   Mike

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  playfulminx

  16 years ago

  I remember a guy I knew was absolutely dying to try oral sex with another guy. It was a longstanding fantasy of his. He ended up at a public park a la George Michael one night with his then girlfriend and cruised a young guy. He tried oral sex with him and decided that he didn't like it. Never a word about it again. But who knows? He may be thinking about sucking other guys still these days but has no intention of realising those thoughts. It's just something he enjoys and gets him off.You're pretty young still so just enjoy the fantasy and one day you might come across a dude that actually does get you hot in reality, or you might not. Doesn't matter :)

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I don't think it's wierd at all. I have a few fantasies that turn me on so much, but I actually don't think I would like them in reality at all. That's the beauty of fantasy you can make it however you want in your head to suit exactly what you want or need at the time. But in the cold light of day things don't go the way the movie plays in your head and then it can possibly be a dissapointment. Don't think so hard.  You don't have to understand why- just have fun and enjoy them :) And you are ony young - as far as your sexuality is concerned you have plenty of time to work it out one way or another. Good luck :)

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  That's a shame GirlInLust.But you never know until you try. ;)

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  That's the thing.. you don't actually have to work it out.. just follow that erection.... lolz.   Hugs Gaz

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