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Young couples/singles meet.
September 05 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
We don't want to offend anyone on here because everyone here is entitled to have some fun regardless of age it's just that we feel more comfortable meeting up with people around our age. We were looking into going to the Burswood Swingers Club but we emailed them and were told that the main age group that go is around 30 so we changed our minds. We just wish there were things like that for younger people because we're really keen to try new things just with people our age. It's like how those who are around 50 may not be comfortable doing things with an 18 and 20 year old. It's nothing to do with them it's just the age gap that makes us uncomfortable because our parents are around that age and it's weird thinking that on the 1 in a 10000 chance we might see family friends there or our parents which we try not to think about.
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RHP User
16 years ago
at a 'party' just the other night and was discussing that with a guy there, an under 40s meet would be great - and maybe less intimidating/enticing for the ladies of the couples too (some of the more delectable ones seemed a bit put off when faced with a crowd of blokes that could be their Dad)
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2more4fun
16 years ago
I don't think you can really complain about events just being for the 'older' set when it seems no one in your age group is prepared to put their hand up and get an event happening. Maybe (here comes a generalisation...) the 'younger' set are more likely to throw the idea into the 'too hard' basket? If that's the case, it's a shame as it's not THAT hard to organise an event and the rewards are many :D So:1. Get in touch with hotties in your age group. If you're only a Guest then you may need to either upgrade or get in touch with a couple who do have an upgraded account. At any rate, it helps to have a couple of friends help organise the night.2. Pick a date and venue that suits most people you're in touch with. Work out if you just want a drinks night or if you want to plan an after-party for players. If so, will you get everyone to pitch in for a hotel room or host it at someone's house?3. Get final numbers of attendees. You don't need a huge amount of people but work on 50% attendance. You'd be amazed how many people will text you on the day and say they can't come blah blah.4. If you have a good number attending, you probably should ensure that your chosen venue can accommodate everyone and make sure you pick a good time to start (before the place gets too busy). The last thing you want is your guests to end up in queues or lost in the crowd.5. If every guest is to your liking, give people details of the after-party.6. Get dirty.We used to do this ourselves and still do as age isn't the only segregating factor for swingers (ie - we only play with people who own canoes). Seriously tho, instead of waiting for someone else to orgainse something, it's really worthwhile getting your own party happening.As for venues, I don't think most swingers clubs will host a night specifically for under 30s unless they're sure they can cover costs. You can always ask them :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Our average age of our patrons is around the 20- 40 mark...and all of them come from Redhotpie....so i dont agree at all.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey 2more...so when are you organising your next party then ? Trev
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RHP User
16 years ago
We are open every weekend at Couples International., but we are in Birsbane.Leesa
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RHP User
16 years ago
We are a older couple by age lol and attened partys such as saints&sinners ,purr ,kat parties .Each time we go its a diverse croud young,old ,thick ,thin varried races and have the best time with them all .You are free to chat to who ever young or old. They are no means no policy events So just saying in our experiance you can meet who your looking for and make some great friends along the way(but we are lucky in melbourne to have a variety of events)
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RHP User
16 years ago
this was the same problem we came across as we started out we avoided clubs for the same reason.... might be for some ppl but we are not interested in the older ppl (absolutely no offence) so if any younger ppl end up organising this let us know
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RHP User
16 years ago
youngprth88 good to see you back if my memory serves me right you brought this up quite a while ago,and decided to organise your own event for the under 30s and put a party post up.You got heaps of interest ,but i dont think the party happened ,why was that? not having a crack here btw,just curious brenbob
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Innercircle
16 years ago
keep us in the loop. We would like to try out the Burswood clun, but would prefer the younger meets...
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Innercircle
16 years ago
if you get something going in Perth, let us know, we'd come along.
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RHP User
16 years ago
interested in attending and even helping to organise one
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RHP User
16 years ago
BUMPS
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RHP User
16 years ago
Try Hot Young Couple, I think they may have had a name change I thought they were called Young Swingers before. Anyways they do hold events look under clubs tab for the details, they should be listed. Also search for groups, if I recall there are a couple of young ones there.Hope this helps. xx Miss Honey xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Finding a venue is the problem. I suggest you do a bulk raid on one of the clubs on one of their quiet nights. You'll still get the few older peeps and some who lie about their age but if you keep the venue "secret" and hit it en masse you will far outnumber them. if it works well for the club, they might even consider it as a regular feature. At least then you aren't forking out for facilities to have it at home. The important thing is to have a fukin good time. :p Hugs Gazza
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RHP User
16 years ago
looking into it... hmm i dont know i have to say its alot more for the older crowd but i dont know maybe evn just a nite meet at a club or something?
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RHP User
16 years ago
hey summer,i'm Al. If your ever looking for a date to go to one of those events i would be delighted to escort you ;o) - I would love to see what those spank parties are like)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ok guys and girls me and my man contacted a club last night (voodoo lounge) and they responded by saying they are very interested in holding a young swingers night. so i am going to contact the Maitre De of the club and make a date to throw up some ideas so if you have anything specific please tell me so i can bring them up at the meeting
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Innercircle
16 years ago
We know the owners, so i'll put in a good word for you guys :) They are hosting my b/day party this weekend.
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RHP User
16 years ago
We like the sounds of that :) Thanks for organising something we hope we can make it! What date were you thinking of making it?
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RHP User
16 years ago
no idea yet just looking for people tog iv ideas what they want to see there
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi Guys we are the same, its very hard to find younger couples out there. We would Definitly be up for a party keep us in the loop.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Reading this thread I was just wondering what happens to couples like Rockercouple where one partner is considerably older than the other. From what has been said they would not be welcome because the young couples comments on here all say they are not interested in people over 30. So although the female half of the couple would be welcome, none of you want the guy (that sometimes may be the case regardless of age according to other threads). So does that leave them on the outer? Are they ineligible? What if there is a 20 year old with a 40 year old which I have seen in profiles before? Just questions that come up in my mind.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yep, We too agree that the 'normal' clubs are usually full of older people, who are fantastic people, but when your younger it makes things a little harder, So, I your organising a 'younger' party in Perth........ lets us know for sure ;) xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Why don't we organise to meet this weekend at a selected bar at a certain time? It needn't be anything formal like an organised party, just an area for drinks? If people hit it off, they can wander off themselves, and if not, you're there to have a good time anyways so no foul! :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well, I think we'd be up for a social meet and greet. Would even be happy to organise an event, but having several housemates means we need to keep such things on the proverbial 'down low', making it difficult to do so.
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RHP User
16 years ago
We could all invade TGIF at the Burswood club ;)
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RHP User
16 years ago
That's a fantastic idea, except for the fact that: 1. I've never been there, and am a little .. well... didn't hear fantastic things about the place from a friend? Anyone else care to comment? 2. I am a little afraid of turning up and being the only ones from this forum conversation there, 3. Sat would be a better night, for couples? Anyhoos, will run it by my man and will post later to see if he's up for a pop in tomorrow night. Its my last weekend here for the next month (I've got an overseas assignment), so he may just want a quiet night in...
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RHP User
16 years ago
As much as we luv ya' the 18 to mid 20s is not really where we want to be. However' we count ourselves lucky that occassionly we have had both gurls and guys in that age group wanting to connect up with us. We also understand that to others ' anyone over 30 may be veiwed as parental figures which we completely understand.. Casting my memory back' I probally felt that way once myself. Fortunately' maturity brings the realization that age is only a number and many wonderfull people can be found at any age. I really admire the young ppl who looks at the person first.. They are pretty special ppl... but we all have our likes and dislikes and our comfort zones so we cant really deny the younger ones having theirs.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm sure someone further up the thread stated clearly that "younger couples" aren't being exclusive - but it does feel weird being approached by someone who is as old, or perhaps even older than your dad! Just like how I am sure how some couples who have teenage kids wouldn't want to be at a party with some of their kids' friends. Whilst some more matured couples are quite the veterans on the scene, the fresher here clearly haven't had the same learning opportunities - so perhaps it may be wise to let them explore their sexuality on their own once in a while. My husband and I (with the age difference), slip in and out of below and over 30s crowd quite easily, (as we're both old souls and yet children at heart)... And I have found that there is often little difference between the 'younger ones' and those not. Its just a matter of what people are comfortable with, and whether they connect - and in that order.
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RHP User
16 years ago
could the fact of you gtting older and bing in the age group that we are not really that keen on hav something to do with it and not anything to do with maturity? thats like saying you would swing with an 80 year old or however old your parents are and not mind?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Lmfao.... my lower limit is anyone approaching the age of my children. just had a 21st at home the other day and gawd there must have been 60 naughty school girl outfits and seems all the lads were either centurians or wearing a toga... lolz... A wonderful night of dancing and I had to keep hitting myself with a wooden spoon for thinking naughty thoughts but there you go ..... Anyone under 25 is way off limits. Enjoy yourself kiddies! Daddy can play schoolgirl fetishes with the thirty plus year olds- Without feeling paternal. Being with lovers the same age as my kids feels creepy.... it's just not right. Hugs gazza
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RHP User
16 years ago
Naughty Ingenue.. Just want to make the point that we are not veterans on the scene... In fact we are brand new.. I tryed to look at both sides of this discussion and posted what I did. Young Perth88.. I think you may have misunderstood what I was saying. I urge you to read the very first and last sentences I posted. They are the most important ones. The inbetween is just my observation of life.. EG: Do you think the same today as you did say 10 or even 5 years ago ? Probally not.. but whatever you think then or now is important to you at that time. And that was my point.. We've been contacted by girls and guys in your age group and reply to all unless they are wombats.... Our preference is 30 + simply because they are more accepting and more comfortable to be around. But I agree'' enjoy your youth while it lasts..
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RHP User
16 years ago
Let us kno how it goes. We will be keen!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi young perth ppl, i'm keen to join in if you's are looking for single guys aswell?
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RHP User
16 years ago
That sounds awesome, we would love to get out there and do something like that if I actually knew there would be a young crowd :DPlease keep me informed.
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Innercircle
16 years ago
just last weekend we were discussing this. No idea why something wasnt organised, but we shall step up and volunteer to do it.Few different ways it can go:Meet and Greet at a park, maybe a Sunday arvo, bring a BBQ pack and some drinks...orMeet and Greet at somewhere like the Voodoo Lounge.orMaybe a meet and greet at a pub on a saturday night, or sunday arvoOf course it would simply be to get new people wanting to wet their toes into the scene, to come along and meet like minded younger couples. No pressure.Either post here, or send us a message (guest members can contact us for free) and we'll organise it. Just let us know which type of meet/venue you'd prefer.
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