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You'd think this is obvious but...

December 28 2024

Here are some simple things you can do to give yourself a better chance of having success in the community. Feel free to add more in the comments. 1) DONT SEND UNSOLICITED NAUGHTY PICS!!! Ask first. not only is it respectful but you don't know where the recipient is when opening your pics. 2) READ PROFILES, If you aren't what they are looking for respect that fact and move on. You arent the exception, you're not that special. 3) In the chatroom DONT DIRECT PEOPLE ON CAM. 4) If you wouldn't say it to their face don't say it online. Guys you know some of the stuff you say online would get your lights knocked out... so switch your brains on, show some respect and JUST DONT. 5) MANNERS MANNERS MANNERS, they cost nothing and can get you everything. This next one is a little more niche... 6) If a profile says they are only looking to play with bi people respect that... saying that "you're a bi guy but you dont suck cock, touch cock, fuck, get fucked and will only let the guy touch you if a woman is there" doesnt make you bi, it makes you sleezy. The message you are sending is that youll tolerate the guy just so you can play with the girl and thats really scummy. 7) If you are a couple, have a picture of both of you up. Putting your wife's naked body on display while pulling the "I need to be discreet card" is bullshit and we all know it. If you can easily put her tits on display then you can put a clothed pic of yourself form the neck down up as well. 8) If you are a couple's account who is unverified then there's a 99% chance you are just a horny man whose wife (if you have one) has not clue you are on here. 9) Unverified accounts 99 times out of 100 are just fakes and flakes. Its not hard to verify, if you want to be taken seriously just verify. If you are so worried about data leaks blah blah blah then perhaps this site isn't for you. 10) Saying "Im new" isnt a valid excuse to justify your poor behaviour. You aren't new talking to people. DO BETTER!

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Ex007

one year ago

Great post but unfortunately those who need to read it do not come to the forums. They are lucky to know the forums even exist. The simple folk are easily distracted by tits and arse. They simply do not get past the swipe page or the smutroom.

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NeoAndTrin

one year ago

Great list. As usual though it will be lost on 99 of your target audience because they don't come in here or will just say no one tells me how to act. But hey even if it preemptively changes 1 or 2 people's attitudes then it's still been a worthwhile post. This sort of thing really should be in a disclaimer that new people have to agree to when they sign up.

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Flirty2020

one year ago

@wolf&kitten Well written. We feel exactly the same way. Unfortunately it is mostly males who are the problem, many of whom are also posing as females and couples. The directing in the chatroom is out of control, not to mention their disrespectful commentary. This has chased so many people away.

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RHP User

one year ago

A more interesting discussion is why they do it. That would be way more insightful because although we’ll-meaning, I doubt those would have any effect even if said target read it. There’s an underlying issue of upbringing which I think affects how most approach online dating and hookups. I see it in women too, not just men. I’ve dated and fucked both just to be clear. I know exactly what you’re getting it but it’s always intrigued me why their ceiling is so low when it comes to interacting with others.

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RHP User

one year ago

Sadly it is very simple but the answers and reasons probably are not as simple. The digital age has done a lot of damage across the board. And when a place like this is called a casual dating and hook up site that said damage is going to be exacerbated. There are always going to be those that make it worse for others but I am a bit sick of the blame being put on men. Yes the men are the main culprits and I detest those dicks making it difficult. But it is the males who do the messaging the chasing and yes, make the majority of money for these sites to operate. Females do not have to do much at all from a profile point of view. Sadly just deal with the lack of respect from those dicks sending bad messages. But things aren't going to change so we all just breathe. Think you summed up what most here in the forums feel with this post

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Mrs_Deep_Love

one year ago

Save your breath mate, regardless of what you type, those type of people won't listen. Even on the off chance that they read it.

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SydFembino

one year ago

Love the post! Kindaa disagree with the one about bi ppl but I don't have much of a say in it other than being bi since I'm not a couple ;3

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