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You + Me = :(

May 17 2011

Swinging and Dramas are like honey to a bee. You upset someone because you didn't put a smiley face on this message. Or you're texting from the phone and it comes across as rude. Or you just give up because it's all too much like hard work. I've lost friends because I've been all snooty about something that's been said, a liability taken by one person to another. But sometimes it's just plain fun, it's a drunken night, or a dinner, and a few laughs. You know when you've met a true friends when no matter what you are, say do, you're forgivin in the end. It's like a mini relationship. For example we had a cheeky little threesome, our new lady friend stops what she is doing leans in to look at something past me, then asked in a friendly but unsure voice. "Is that a Doctor Who pillow case on your bed?" And the best thing is she still talks to us today :P The other thing that has happened to us recently is a couple we haven't spoken to in a while got in contact, they had had some serious dramas in their life and as with this lifestyle things just drift apart. It was lovely hearing from them again, no talk of playing just talk of life and an unspoken knowledge of a lifestyle we both share and respect. People come and go, some from misunderstanding. I personally hate to offended, but you can't please everyone all of the time. But if decided that swinging really is worth it because the keepers stay, and the others, well they stay happy and we might meet them another day. The pont to this was two things? Two questions. Have you had something abit silly happen to you mid way through a shag? Or have you lost friends because misunderstanding + pride = :( ??? andrew

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RHP User

15 years ago

What's the saying.. you can please some of the people some of the time but you cant please all of the people all of the time.The sillyest thing I had happen was when I got a cramp in my foot and leg half way through a shag.. Felt so stupid jumping around like a idiot with hardon. End result we both ended up laughing that much we couldnt get back into it.. Everytime we tryed to be serious one of us would burst out laughing and that was that. We just couldnt finish. Anyway' we took a raincheck so maybe one day we can finish where we left off.. ( maybe lol ) One of the hardest things to do is not laugh when youre both trying to be serious.. All it takes is a snigger and ur gone..Yes' misunderstanding are common on here Im sure. I reckon its because everyone you chat to has a different expectation to the last ppl you spoke with.. so if your brain is working overtime with different ppl and personality types, you're sure to stuff up sometime. Mr JJ

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RHP User

15 years ago

I had a friend that thought she was open minded so I shared some of the things I got up to with her. She wasn't as broadminded as she thought and told me she didn't want to know about it anymore. I thought fair enough and kept quiet about the kinky side of my life but it didn't work. She made silly remarks saying I slept with lots of men or things like that which showed she didn't understand but when I tried to explain I got told I was telling her too much and she didn't want to listen.Unfortunately I find it hard to stay friends with people who I can't confide in about what I do or discuss my lifestyle with freely.

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