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Yoni Massage and Squirting without orgasm
August 18 2017
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
On what is causing you to squirt and also whether your orgasms are clitoral or vaginal (g-spot) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
You're not turned on enough, trust me on that, I know what I'm talking about. Even at full or almost full arousal, the guy has to A. Really do it for you, talk the talk etc while getting you there B. He has to be experienced to know when you are ready, a guy experienced with squirters, I can guarantee you, you would orgasm, they know how to work you over, how to rest for a few minutes, then get us worked up again, more oral and really fast flicking with the fingers in an upward motion. The speed of that hand motion will make you orgasm, given you are turned on enough by him. I've had a few guys try and I kind of squirted but I wasn't really into them or them sexually, if that makes sense. The intensity wasn't there. Have you also just started squirting, I'm guessing by the question that's the case. It takes time and finding the masters. I was lucky enough to find a few who changed my life, they taught me what it can be like. You need to find guys like that, and they won't be over 40, take some young ones out for a spin, they are not inexperienced, they have modern experience, big difference, or if they don't have it, they want to learn. Men can learn how to properly pleasure a squirter, most are too lazy to do the research. There's your problem right there. You didn't say how you squirt? Penetration/oral/fingers/free?
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RHP User
8 years ago
Key thing is to avoid the in/out typical of penetration, don't let them shove there fingers in and out, wrong, that's not what they should be doing with squirters. It's a different motion for squirters, being fucked might make you squirt but unless it's at the end of a really intense session, it most likely won't make you orgasm. Happened to me recently. It's not satisfying. It can be taught, but the chemistry and intensity has to be there, along with them thirsting for knowledge, their desire to pleasure you. Lot of guys say your pleasure is important, right sure it is, just long enough to get their pleasure lol
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RHP User
8 years ago
is a fancy word for getting you aroused in a slow sensual way, all good and well, but that has to be mixed with intensity. I also think there are too many learning/using yoni just so they can get with a woman, and the intention would indeed be to ultimately have sex with you, unless they're a paid service that is
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RHP User
8 years ago
There's a common misconception that squirting means a woman has orgasmed but that's not the case. I can also easily make myself squirt by pressing the right button so to speak, but if I'm not turned on in any way and don't have the right sexual stimulation at the same time then I won't orgasm, and it will actually feel pretty yuck. When it comes down to it squirting is simply an involuntary bodily reaction to stimulation of a certain area. Like when you tap your knee in that spot and it jerks. I think a lot of men in particular have this thing about squirting because they don't really understand what it actually is, and they think that if they can 'make' a woman squirt that this automatically means she's had a mind-blowing orgasm. That can be the case sometimes (I have experienced that as well), but the woman still needs to be aroused and sexually stimulated in other ways (usually including mentally) to orgasm at the same time as squirting. The Yoni stuff, can't help you there. Don't know much about it.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Yo I massage, squirting and orgasm (I call it climax for certain identification purposes as that is different to orgasm).... are all three different and not necessarily connected things. And because they're all separate individual subjects, individual responses to them will vary. It is certainly possible to learn one or all.... and also possible to 'train' certain corresponding responses to each.... but there is no 'normal'. Enjoy your responses to touch, and enjoy learning to experience more if that is your aim DG
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RHP User
8 years ago
It has happns quite a few times but I've only climaxed with one partner earlier this year, the sexual chemistry was intense.
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RHP User
8 years ago
With most of what has been said above. I can squirt and cum, either simultaneously or on their own. A squirt without orgasm is simply fucking messy and annoying and at times painful (as i_Touch said, high arousal makes it less painful). This is why I truly avoid play or stop play where the person I'm with is looking for a squirt using the machine gun fingers. The misconception many people have is that a squirt is a cum. I have been guilty of ignoring comments like 'you wet the bed, you've cum heaps' um ... NO! In party situations, plays are often 'quick' and the 'spot' for squirting has been found by many men and women through research and practice. In these circumstances, a squirt is often thought of as arousal and or a cum. I cum easily and squirt easily BUT neither of those happen if my mind and body are not in tune. My mind must be uncluttered and seduced long with my body (texting, sexy phones calls, in the moment chat, foreplay etc) so that I relax into an orgasm. The less I focus on the end result (orgasm) the more I find I can cum. I've had the pleasure of Yoni massage from a heteroflexible friend (a female friend who uses Yoni as a means of being with women and giving pleasure). Only with her, she takes her time to deliciously pleasure and I've had an intense orgasm every time she's used Yoni. I wonder if it's her patience, her tender touch, the fact she's a woman and knows herself the hard work some women have to put in to orgasm, is the key to the high arousal I feel. I actually won't try that with anyone else but her :) I was intrigued by the focus being away from the clitoris or penetration but stimulation of the vaginal as a whole ... a sexy, sensual experience for me :) Mary xx
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RHP User
8 years ago
I would love to help with that
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RHP User
8 years ago
Your honesty is cool, both for the giggle and the info. 😘
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Katkat
8 years ago
4 me is very intense feeling usually will take 30-40mins a guy eating me out depends how good he is with his clitoral sucking & with his finger. I have cummed multiple times over & over but climaxing is the best feeling ever when you're about to squirt & just gush everywhere u don't care at all it's like all this rush feeling in your body just let it go best feeling ever. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I was actually going to post something similar myself. Agree with some of the other ladies. Depends on your partners skills. I love Yoni massage (fingers massaging your vagina inside and outside with fingers generally) slow and sensual. I don't usually gush. I do differentiate gushing and squirting. Gush is pee and squirt is vaginal fluid which is slippery and has no smell. Many an argument has been had on other forums about this but right or wrong that how I see it. I had my first ever gushing and best orgasm session the other day. Gushed a lot and also sitting on top had 8 or 9 rolling orgasms gushing each time. I was highly aroused and it was constant penetration one way or the other and hard and fast. Even surprised myself and didn't know I was capable of such a thing. On the subject of gushing/squirting is there anyone who is turned off by it or is it just a huge turn on?
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'midnightblue71' On the subject of gushing/squirting is there anyone who is turned off by it or is it just a huge turn on? One lady was prolific... and I enjoyed her responses. But another..... I didn't enjoy.To say I was turned off by it was more a function of its excess, at the time. And I mean..... a half dozen very plush towels weren't enough. She barely required touching before she would press down and squirt profusely, and repetitively. I was happy that she was very satisfied.... however the logistics of washing sheets, cleaning the floor etc were a bit tedious....... maybe I just wasn't enjoying her enough to accept and welcome that from her as I have with other lovers? Whatever the reason, there was never a repeat occasion. DG
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Up4HankyPanky
8 years ago
The belief is that women hold tension, stress and emotion in the walls of their vagina. The purpose of a yoni massage is to relieve the stress and bring out the emotion. I have been studying the art of yoni massage for almost 2 years. I have read a lot of articles and I have been trained by tantric practitioners. I agree with I_Touch_Myself2 in that it has become popular and some guys are using it as a way of being with a woman. A yoni massage is not a hand job for women. If that's what you are after then don't bother looking any further with yoni massage. A proper yoni massage should last around 2 hours, starting with a full body massage. A yoni massage is not to be followed by sex and the giver should not receive anything in return. There is also no expectation that the woman will orgasm. Orgasms are a welcome side affect but they are certainly not the aim of a yoni massage. The woman should feel totally comfortable knowing that there are no expectations of her at all. She can just lay there and totally relax and focus only on her breathing.If you are interested, message me and I can direct you to some tantric practitioners that both my wife and I have visited together who are very good.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Your comments on the whole accurate, but I take an objection to the part about guys over 40 not being able to make a woman squirt...... you must have been with the wrong over 40 guys.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Ive just stumbled across yoni massage. My husband has given me 2 so far and both times they were so intense i cried.. I agree that the woman does hold stress sin the walls of her vagina.. yoni massage is the best release. I felt so close to my husband afterwards.
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LissnJules
8 years ago
My partner and I have tried all the techniques but i get re intense need to pee and give in and go to the bathroom. Is this the beginning and i need to persist?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Hi there,Yes persevere by all means you are at the very early stage, my partner took a good couple of months heading to the bathroom thinking she needs to pee before finally being relaxed enough to let it go, loves it ever since. Trust yourself, if you have pee’d before starting to play, it isn’t pee your feeling, go for it
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RHP User
8 years ago
It’s a DVD set out together by Steve P this cowboy womaniser from the 90s. He has a whole body massage and hand techniques to stimulate the orgasm/squirting. Very eye opening and worthwhile. It’s promoted as a couples video so find a guy to watch it with if you don’t have a bf. You may have to torrent it, I’m not sure how readily available it is anymore. - Posted from rhpmobile
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