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Would You do what i have Done.....?

May 20 2010

Here is one for ya........I Enjoyed My single swinging Lifei have always Loved My playmates when i was Single.....I was single for Almost 4 years and for the last year or so i have wanted ...and Searched for LoveAlmost giving up hope of Ever finding itSurprise .... Surprise....... I met The Man of My dreams Here......and i was Awake.....I was Never asked to drop My playmates......But i Made the choice To do so.....My Man is everything i ever wanted and everything i have ever dreamed of and MoreSo Here is My Question......Would You Make the Same Independant Choice I Have For Love.....?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    in a split second. hugs rosebud

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'rosebud68' in a split second. hugs rosebud still dreaming :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I did n my man was the only one for me for nearly till 2 decades... till HE introduced the idea of play... n here we are... Mr P' 4 Mrs P' 4eva!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'ChikyGirl' Quoting 'rosebud68' in a split second. hugs rosebud still dreaming :) im with you girls...id give it all up for the right man roxxy xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Nudie, for the right girl for me ..i would without any doubt...I am sure we all want someone to grow old with and enjoy together forever..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    If you find the right one, you don't need anything else. Its just that they are such a rare occurence.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Good for you Nudie But 2 x marriages, eventually an almost non-existent sex life in both,.... Ive found my new dreamgirl........ Her name is REDHOTPIE ! ;)

  • DonnaBrett

    DonnaBrett

    16 years ago

    Good for you! Everyone sees things differently...we're lucky cos we have the perfect life together! But after ten years of swinging we couldn't give it up now...it's like a drug , we're addicted! To us... Monogamy is like holding your breath...you can do it for a while ....but not forever!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I'm happily a one man woman at heart... always have been. I enjoy the open discussions that RHP offers. I am very comfortable with my own sexuality and that of others BUT it doesn't mean I want to replicate everything I hear, or watch. You can have lots of fun on here AND be MONOGAMOUS ! xx Miss Saturn

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    we can all wish hey

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I think its what a lot of us desire and seek ... ultimately

  • platinumblonde69

    platinumblonde69

    16 years ago

    Hey Nudie..Congratulations....I have a theory....If it feels good....Go for it....And it obviously feels right....so enjoy...xoxoxo

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    heck if you meet someone at the supermarket or bakery or RHP lol you go serious allbeit! Life is a journey! xx fyi good post!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    ...in a new york minute....isnt that what everyone REALLY wants...?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I did the same as you NR and dropped my playmates but regretted it later when I realised he wasn't the guy for me. I am so glad that I have some very understanding playmates that were happy to play again. I hope it turns out very different for you though. All the best.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    YES!!!!!!!!! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Meah. That theory works just fine and dandy when you've found "the one" right up until you discover the other one, who falls into place by accident and then you find yourself head over heels in love with "the two". None the less, congratulations. Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Absolutely!! Benn there done that. Will do it again. xoxo

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Great To Hear That Love and Romance Is still In The Hearts and Minds of Others....If the word Monogamy was mentioned to me 2 years agoI would of said " dont Swear at Me".....lolMy Playmates were always Freinds First ...Playmates Second...I know they Understand my Choice and are Happy for me.....We are Still Freinds Nothing will change that....My Man Is Indeed the One...The Real Thing......A Man That calls me Beautiful instead of Hotwho will lie under the stars and listen to My Heartbeatwho wants to show me off to the worldwho holds My hand in front of his friendswho thinks Im just as pretty with My Pj's onOne who is constantly reminding Me of how much He Cares and how Lucky his is to have Me.... I know How lucky I am To Share Life with HimHe is a Man that knows all My Flaws ......Differences..... Mistakesand still Loves me with all that he HasA Man that turns to his friends and says, "that's her" Wishing you all Lust Love and Happiness.....Nudie....xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    When someone shows they love you to the world, it is the best thing. It sounds to me like you have made the right decision for you. And like many others have said, I would love to find that someone that I have a total connection with. Go well, WTG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I would give it it all up in a heartbeat to find that feeling!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    like haveing your cake and eating it too,,, got to keep the best playmate of them all,,,,,we just cant stop giggling,,

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I am always really happy when someone finds the perfect match for them. And I'm thrilled to see so many dedicated RHP players who ultimately have the same romantic dream I do! Puts a little faith back into my jaded soul. But having said that, I'm not averse to a relationship with someone who still lets me 'play' on the side, especially if it's his fantasy! Life's too short for me to settle for one guy right now. :) Good luck Nudie and to all of us still in search of our soulmates. xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I need a woman like you Dee. I am more than happy to see my partner continue to play, as long as we are open about it and I can join her from time to time. Its the pleasure that my partner is getting that is important to me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Whilst its hard to say for sure, I would be more than happy for my partner to be playing. I don't have that jealous streak as long as we are open about what is happening. I wouldn't really be looking to play myself without my partner, but would get joy from the pleasure she receives.