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Women Flirting

April 23 2012

Interested in your (the wide, knowledgeable RHP audience) views on why some women flirt with a bloke, when he is with another women .....is it because they just enjoy the 'chase' without the possibility of the 'kill' or just to prove that they have it to attract the man away? Love to hear your views.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    they are just natural flirts   i flirt with anyone...well unless you make me wanna throw up   Hugs

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Both of your scenarios above don't allow for the woman to be human I mean how obvious is this flirting? is she being very suggestive or just a bit of friendly banter that is considered flirting by someone elses definition?Has she just been introduced to the man through her friend the partner? could she be just trying to lighten the introduction by being overtly flirty and therefore quite obviously making it non-threatening to her friend (who she winked at without your knowledge lol) .Some may enjoy the chase but not the kill, some crazy ass woman may even do it to prove her imagined 'got it' but it never pays to generalise with these assumptions, not all women are man and woman eating monsters

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I guess it depends on the depth of the flirting..if there is suggestions of intent then the line is crossed.some people are just very friendly..its the over friendly ones that you have to make a call on..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    roxxyrose ,is that throwing up after you flirt over dinner perhaps? Why do women flirt,why is the Earth round not square,two of lifes' great questions.,surely. As D_G_T said, it is all about perception.Unless she is gazing into your eyes,hand on your leg,rubbing your crotch under the table,it is possibly just a woman being friendly. But some women and some men enjoy the flirt,the chase ,simply because they like exercising their sexual power.They have absolutely no intention of following through,and dont really care who they hurt in the process

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Many times a question is asked on these forums and the only answer a person can give is because it fells good. If I find a man attractive I am going to engage in some light hearted banter and flirting. If the feeling is reciprocated then often the flirting turns a little heavier, a little raunchier, a little naughtier and it is something that both do together. It does not matter if we are with a partner or not. Finding someone attractive has little bearing on the one we are with and many times flirting is harmless. It does not mean that we are about to leap into bed with you or start dry-humping your leg in public. (well the last one I may be tempted to do) Some people are incorrigible flirts. Most times it does not mean a thing. Are we supposed to NOT find others attractive, our heads are NOT supposed to swivel after an attractive man...just because we have a partner does not make us dead from the waist down.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I can only speak for myself but I'll do my best. I flirt. There, I said it, out loud and typed here for the world and his brother to see. I flirt with just about anyone who talks to me (and probably some who don't). I flirt for fun, I flirt for attention and I flirt because I can't help it. It just sort of falls out of me. I flirt with men and with women, with people I find attractive and people I don't.Mostly, it's social flirting and doesn't mean I want to seduce them. It's entirely different to sexual flirting but no everyone appreciates the difference. Generally, social flirting is subtle. If I want to seduce someone, they'd know it. It's an art form and people who are naturally flirty will recognise and appreciate other flirts. I do.My point is, flirting (just like people) comes in all different shapes and sizes. You'd need to spill the beans a little wider to even begin to identify the motive behind your flirting scenario. It could be just harmless fun.But everyone is different - just my humble opinion.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I can not flirt to save myself !! I wish I could , it feels awkward and invites unwanted attention . I admire the confidence of serial flirters!! I avoid it unless I mean it, if I flirt with you , I want to fuck you :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    oh i want Delicious Couplebris female to flirt with me

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I can't help myself sometimes if I see an opening for a sly double entendre, I'm in...I don't see as any of the OP's examples other then I enjoy a sexy banter with like minded souls no fun flirting with someone that doesn't get the joke.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I the male half am a total flirt always have been hopefully always will, and i agree with InAdditionTo flirting has many different levels and i enjoy hanging out with the people that understand it.