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Witch hunts and the forum police.
December 16 2010
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RHP User
15 years ago
Welcome to Forums Now DUCK FOR COVER! Lol...love your style xo xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
....people are a facinating bunch...I look forward to getting to know you in the forums...observant one
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yep...totally agree that there is a "forum police" who seem to think that because they are regulars their opinion counts for more.I guess that is bound to happen with any forum...here's hoping that if I keep posting that maybe I will become one of the police Mrs NTN
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RHP User
15 years ago
Im sorry to point out that only a single male would post what you have. Being new' maybe you hav'nt had the opportunity to read past posts where couples and single females object to constantly be bombarded with endless messages and flirts just because they are a easy target. It's nothing to receive up to 30 - 50 messages or flirts a week from single males compared to say 10 to 15 from couples and say 3 - 5 from single females... If these single males are ignored it's usually thier own fault because in most cases they refuse point blank to read and respect what people write in thier profile... Thats not a whinge' its a fact ?
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RHP User
15 years ago
I get a lot of messages or winks from guys that don't fit what I am looking for because they don't fully read my profile (common complaint 1). I could ignore them and not reply (common complaint 2) but then they assume that I am too stuck up to reply and complain accordingly. So I reply as politely as possible with a thanks but no thanks. All too often however I get the "I am well hung so you should fuck me" type message (common complaint 3) to which I reply in a similar way such as " I don't fuck guys with dicks bigger than their brains but thanks for the offer". It isn't a case of judgemental snobbery but one of suitability as anyone would see by reading my profile. I suspect that is the case with many people. It takes all sorts to make a world (or a website) and if you aren't happy, like you said ".......let it go".
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well it is what you don't read that is edited off by the forum police...In another instance every post made my one meber was deleted as she was being abusive both in forums and in personal messages to members. So what is a forum : a meeting or assembly for the open discussion of subjects of public interest It is not a mutual admiration society, if it was it would be boring. People have strong personal opinions, convictions and yes morals. I and you should respect and applaude the freedom of expression we have. We should defend anyones and everyones right to say what they believe...we do not have to agree. There are not witch hunts as such, somethimes there is a tidal wave of different opinion. There are cases where a thread will start and you know the poster will be slammed...you have to ask did they make the post expexting that to happen , are they just stiring up fun... I think one of your things here is the apparent imposition of morality in the forums, like you I do agree some of it seems a little puritanical. The point is though that, they are entitled to their opinion. I respect the people who say they will not have sex with a married man I really do understand what they feel. We do have a few gers in the forums, you have to be careful to figure out if we are serious somethimes. Enjoy the forums they are a lot of fun. LC
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RHP User
15 years ago
Oh finally someone has come to put some sort of order into the RHP forum patrols... I think it's a bit premature to just assume leadership and dictate without putting all your policies forth though. We need to know where you stand on: - Fat people at the beach - Can a guy suck off a guy and stay straight? - Hairy vaginas, chests, nipples and tongues - G-strings on 60 year old men.. Hot or not? - G-strings on men - Ponytails bouncing on jogging girls.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Are these little pony tails or long? Do they bulge out a bit just after the hair tie, giving it a somewhat teardrop shape? Are the pony tails bouncing up and down accompanied by race back tops? pony tails and racer-back tops may be like the ultimate aphrodisiac to me. (I don't know what the topic was, but it should now be about racer backs and pony tails)
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RHP User
15 years ago
agree that forums are discussions, or should be. debates are arguments. but the rude self absorbed few on here take it upon themselves to push their opinions and belief down the throats of those who would share knowledge rather than preach it. there is a small few, who are such, but they expose their ignorance and lack of intelligence with their arrogance.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel'agree that forums are discussions, or should be. debates are arguments. but the rude self absorbed few on here take it upon themselves to push their opinions and belief down the throats of those who would share knowledge rather than preach it. there is a small few, who are such, but they expose their ignorance and lack of intelligence with their arrogance. Mikeandshel, I couldn't have put it better. I have fallen foul of those that think they own the forums for daring to voice an opinion that doesn't fit with their paradigms, or worse (so it seems) agreeing with someone whose views differ from theirs. The forums are about discussion, and by definition, it usually means an open medium putting all points of view on the table. I use to love the forums but lately it seems there is an element who use the medium as their own personal vendetta tool or more commonly, to feel important and powerful. A lot of the good forum contributors have ceased posting, simply because of the holier-than-thou attitude of a few. mooka .... who waits to be attacked yet again lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'mooka' mooka .... who waits to be attacked yet again lol On my way Mooka ...oh wait you didnt mean what I am thinking...oops...my bad.... Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Jean_Girard' Oh finally someone has come to put some sort of order into the RHP forum patrols... I think it's a bit premature to just assume leadership and dictate without putting all your policies forth though. We need to know where you stand on: - Fat people at the beach - Can a guy suck off a guy and stay straight? - Hairy vaginas, chests, nipples and tongues - G-strings on 60 year old men.. Hot or not? - G-strings on men - Ponytails bouncing on jogging girls. Thank you JG.. However, in addition to these points I would like to know if the newcomer will acknowledge an alternate possibility, that perhaps there is room in this world for people that believe there can be fidelity in a relationship (ie giving priority to its many responsibilities/complexities in regards to giving priority and care to the emotional connection/well being of the other-in addition to any financial responsibilities to the other eg if you have children or a mortgage together) and yet don't require complete sexual monogamy? Further-would your new regime protect and ensure the well being of the more sensitive of the constituents? Reminding them of the benefit of familiarising themselves with the saying " if you love someone set them free-if they don't come back-why bother?" IE if they don't come back-play your Smiths records (or whatever the f*** your sad ass songs are-admit it we all have that special stash for those self-indulgent why me? melancholy moments), have a few drinks or some warm baths, call your friends-if need be. Be grumpy for a few weeks or months and then say "it was a good lay" and accept it. Rather than go on about it for years after the event. Will you remind them-has worrying, ruminating or getting angry ever changed a situation? Will you question why so many of the people on here much older than me are so cranky and jaded-and why continue to choose to be so? Will you ask them to ask themselves why they thnk they are the only ones that have been rejected, shed tears, had major disappointments, suffered bruises, cuts, emotional and or financial betrayals in relationships? Will you make them realise they will not be the last to do so and life is precious and there are more things to focus on? Will you be the one that tells them you fell in love before-you'll do it again and if it is amazing, if they are the one they'll hang around-in fact they'll walk if not run towards you-it won't feel like work it will feel amazing! Will you tell them it's very likely they'll be doing stupid things like taking risks or breaking with routine to foster the new development, they will find themselves smiling all the time, playing music, dancing around, their writing will take off-or stop, they will experience all the joys life provides etc Will you inform them there is nothing to stop living your life in that joyful way now? Will you tell them to not stop taking chances flirt without expectation-be like a salesperson-expect more no's than yes's and you can't do the same thing over and over and expect different results. Do your policies include-the sideline speech about: if it is was just sex to them-and they dumped you despite your belief they were the one-it is still an excellent result-thank them and your gods that maybe you learnt some new tricks-and to be thankful that you got laid whereas some people never do and if you really dug them-wow you got to do it with them rather than just wonder what it would be like! I'd like to know your policy on attractive and beautiful. Are you of the view that this should only matter to oneself-if you find someone attractive and beautiful and they really do it for you-why would you care whether anyone else thinks they are beautiful or attractive? Will you therefore ban these constant repetitive polls about fat versus thin, long versus wide etc when if they "do it" for you-to make you want to "do it" with them-isn't that all you need? Would you also go with- if you happen to be a bystander-why would you not be happy for some people that have found some happiness together-fat, short, bald, thin, disabled or whatever reason you deem them to be less than acceptable, beautiful or attractive to you-it is for them to decide for themselves what makes them hard or wet? If this is what you're going with long live the revolution! The Queen is Dead THE SMITHS Oh ! Take me back to dear old Blighty, Put me on the train for London Town, Take me anywhere, Drop me anywhere, Liverpool, Leeds or Birmingham But I don't care,I should like to see my ...I don't bless themFarewell to this land's cheerless marshes Hemmed in like a boar between arches Her very Lowness with a head in a sling I'm truly sorry - but it sounds like a wonderful thing I said Charles, don't you ever crave To appear on the front of the Daily Mail Dressed in your Mother's bridal veil ? Oh ... And so, I checked all the registered historical facts And I was shocked into shame to discover How I'm the 18th pale descendant Of some old queen or other Oh, has the world changed, or have I changed ? Oh has the world changed, or have I changed ? Some 9-year old tough who peddles drugs I swear to God I swear : I never even knew what drugs wereOh ... So, I broke into the palace With a sponge and a rusty spanner She said : "Eh, I know you, and you cannot sing"I said : "That's nothing - you should hear me play piano"We can go for a walk where it's quiet and dry And talk about precious things But when you're tied to your Mother's apronNo-one talks about castrationOh ... We can go for a walk where it's quiet and dry And talk about precious things Like love and law and poverty Oh, these are the things that kill me We can go for a walk where it's quiet and dry And talk about precious things But the rain that flattens my hair ...Oh, these are the things that kill me All their lies about make-up and long hair, are still there Past the Pub who saps your body And the church who'll snatch your money The Queen is dead, boys And it's so lonely on a limb Past the Pub that wrecks your body And the church - all they want is your money The Queen is dead, boys And it's so lonely on a limb Life is very long, when you're lonelyLife is very long, when you're lonelyLife is very long, when you're lonelyLife is very long, when you're lonely****************************************************************** Meanwhile I've rediscovered... DEAD OR ALIVE -LOVER COME BACK (extended version) GaGa wishes she was as cool as Pete Burns xxxxxxxxxx I've been lying here so lonelyI've been wishing you would telephone me.Oh I just can't lose this desperationWon't you bring around a new sensation?Babyyou got lots of energyyeahGonna give that energy to meyeah.Tell youwe could have a real good timeyeahBabyI can make you mine-al. mineyeah - oh yeahoh yeah.Lover come back to meYou don't have to knock on my door no.Lover come back to me-kick it right down -Kick it right down - kick it right down - right down.Baby all I feel is desperationAnd it's not a very nice sensation.I've been wishing you would telephone meI've been lying here ohoh so lonely.Tell you we could have a real good timeyeahTell youI can make you mine-all mineyeah Baby you got lots of energy yeahBaby give that energy to meyeah - oh yeahoh yeah.Lover come back to me. . .Lover come back to me. . .I hear you knockingwon't you run on in?I hear you knockingcome back where you've been?I hear you knockingwon't you run on in?I hear you knockingcome back where you've been?Lover come back to me. . .Lover come back to me. . .If you could had gone with the the platform: "Whatever gets you back up and out of your trench of despair and sadness people -better to die on your feet trying, getting knocked on your ass time and time again trying-only to get up on your feet againdetermined not to fail than live forever on your knees hoping and praying!"I would have voted for that!NymphetamineDrm
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'mooka' Quoting 'mikeandshel'agree that forums are discussions, or should be. debates are arguments. but the rude self absorbed few on here take it upon themselves to push their opinions and belief down the throats of those who would share knowledge rather than preach it. there is a small few, who are such, but they expose their ignorance and lack of intelligence with their arrogance. Mikeandshel, I couldn't have put it better. I have fallen foul of those that think they own the forums for daring to voice an opinion that doesn't fit with their paradigms, or worse (so it seems) agreeing with someone whose views differ from theirs. The forums are about discussion, and by definition, it usually means an open medium putting all points of view on the table. I use to love the forums but lately it seems there is an element who use the medium as their own personal vendetta tool or more commonly, to feel important and powerful. A lot of the good forum contributors have ceased posting, simply because of the holier-than-thou attitude of a few. mooka .... who waits to be attacked yet again lol To help defend the Mighty Mooka in his search for truth justice and a damn good root ;-) On ya matey
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RHP User
15 years ago
You seem to have most of us pigeon-holed prior to your first post - perhaps it may have been more prudent to settle into the flow a bit first? In fact, my first thought when I read your new topic was that you are an existing member who feels hard done by, so has set up a new profile just to stir the pot further. Apologies if that's not the case, but your post is vehement enough that it seems as though it's already personal for you.The personal drivel here gets really tedious, and I say that as one who has indulged in it myself. There are so many diverse and interesting opinions here that often get lost in the squabbles - such a pity...
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RHP User
15 years ago
shame tho that the 'forum police' cant vet the messages we are sent on the side. we received a series of rather insulting messages as a result of comments we made on a forum recently. small people with small minds seem unable to accept that others wont always agree with their point of view. sad and unfortunate. (for them)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'ritmofish' I got a spam feast from fat chicks! did u mean fest? or was typo? feast fits fat better tho.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Everything you highlighted in your post has happened in this single post alone let alone the entire forum... Learning about humanity yet? Welcome. LS
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Jean_Girard' Oh finally someone has come to put some sort of order into the RHP forum patrols... I think it's a bit premature to just assume leadership and dictate without putting all your policies forth though. We need to know where you stand on: - Fat people at the beach - Can a guy suck off a guy and stay straight? - Hairy vaginas, chests, nipples and tongues - G-strings on 60 year old men.. Hot or not? - G-strings on men - Ponytails bouncing on jogging girls.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'LeoSteve' Everything you highlighted in your post has happened in this single post alone let alone the entire forum... Learning about humanity yet? Welcome. LS Couldn't have said it better myself.JMO...BJxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yes - I tried to ask someone how to IM in the chat forums and got called a "dumb cunt" (no prizes for guessing who...)Now I'm too scared to return...... no I'm not .. just ignore the dickheads - there are wonderful people here.Mr. SR.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Surely not! Not here! No way! You are surely imagining things. lol My opinion differs all the time. Do I care? Na! Does it stop me? Na! But I am dissappointed now as I dont get personal hate mail like some of the others. Boy could I have fun with that lol. Welcome to the sandpit!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'ritmofish'I got a spam feast from fat chicks! i am THE fat chick of the forums...nobody else here is as fat as me....i didnt spam you give fat chicks a break would ya whoohooo im allowed to say fat chick roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
and that's all I have to say (for once)!lilmiss ;)
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RHP User
15 years ago
yes forum police women stop harrassing us men..
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RHP User
15 years ago
Mr Seductions, Would you kindly explain what an IM is and how one performs it ?? Is it something one performs ??? Can I only do it in the chat room ??? Im too scared to go in there too... Oh and if it is something boring and technical could you supply diagrams In fact............. if it is something sexual you might want to supply photos lol !! A confused and maybe slightly ignorant but very curious and keen to learn Miss b
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'TassieRose' Quoting 'ritmofish'I got a spam feast from fat chicks! i am THE fat chick of the forums...nobody else here is as fat as me....i didnt spam you give fat chicks a break would ya whoohooo im allowed to say fat chick roxxy Hmm....I beg to differ....i would say i am MUCH fatter than you....and I didnt spam him either...nor do i have him blocked.I coudlnt be fucked wasting my time!JMO....BJxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'seductionrules' Yes - I tried to ask someone how to IM in the chat forums and got called a "dumb cunt" (no prizes for guessing who...)Now I'm too scared to return...... no I'm not .. just ignore the dickheads - there are wonderful people here.Mr. SR. hey if you got called that, then it must be a compliment as I was called the same over comments posted in another forum.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'seductionrules' Yes - I tried to ask someone how to IM in the chat forums and got called a "dumb cunt" (no prizes for guessing who...)Now I'm too scared to return...... no I'm not .. just ignore the dickheads - there are wonderful people here.Mr. SR. As far as i know....to IM (instant message) someone...you go to that persons profile...then click on "more actions"...then on "start chat".Im not sure what membership level you need...but I do know that people can set it so that they can't be IM'd.Hope this helps.BJxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
But the RHP Forums are alive and kicking!!For a while there, I feared they were dead, but clearly they were just re-generating.Lots of new blood with lots to say, not to mention a fresh injection of wankers to mix it with the reliable regulars, the amusing dreamers and the sexually mediocre!Long live the RHP Forums!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi Miss BPMiss BJ couldn't have said it better but I'm sure she will provide diagrams and photos if you ask nicely.Mr. SR.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'm an implusive little being probably to much so for my own good lol. So if you read one of my posts forgive me for my impulsive ramblings lol... Those who know me personally nows the time to bite your tongue lol and stop nodding...All my posts are meant in good spirit so please take them in that spirit.Its all good at the end of the day.Oh and the fat bit who cares how others see you its what you think of yourself that matters ... I take the view you want stick thin get out there and find one ... perfectly comfy in my curvy 46 yr old body.As to comments on forums to quote Orbitron even an idiot is entitled to an opinionForums are about freedom of speech so sit back read and chill and have a giggle if you will...
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RHP User
15 years ago
see such nice kind generous helpful people in the forums....unlike those chat ppl it seems lol thank you Miss BJ and Seductions somehow i feel strangely disappointed tho.................i so wanted it to be naughty !! miss b....off to find something to thrill her curious little mind
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RHP User
15 years ago
In reply to: "seductionrules: Yes - I tried to ask someone how to IM in the chat forums and got called a "dumb cunt" (no prizes for guessing who...)Now I'm too scared to return...... no I'm not .. just ignore the dickheads - there are wonderful people here.Mr. SR." And how on earth can most of us ever know how wonderful we are without an idiot or two to highlight the comparison?! Blessings on the "idiots" for they allow the 'intelligent majority' to congratulate themselves on the gift of intelligence that is bestowed only on the worthy and to know just what lovely people they are - although I think it's a terrible shame that kindness doesn't seem to be an equally desirable trait! Regarding the judgmental attitudes on the forums, beware! In having an opinion we are actually displaying our judgements! Personally, I promise to judge everyone and everything from the basis of my own experience and opinions, expect others to do the same and expect that everyone will have a different expectation, different opinion and different set of rules. I promise to ignore most of the unsuitable, respond nastily when I've had a bad day and am feeling fed up. I promise to only see others who fit my narrow criteria as being worth knowing and then justify how judgemental I was by seeking validation from others. Then I might go post on the forums complaining about how judgemental everyone seems to be! In short, I promise faithfully to be judgemental and narrow minded according to my own personal perspective....how strange, I'm sounding disgustingly normal. I think I'd better go get help.....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'LeoSteve' Everything you highlighted in your post has happened in this single post alone let alone the entire forum... Learning about humanity yet? Welcome. LSOh the irony of it!, funny though! , I laughed out loud reading your reply.Have fun in the forums, I think they might be getting a wide berth from my end, I prefer the amateur pics section!. I might come back and test the water some other time, take it easy bro!.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'nameisinuse' Have fun in the forums, I think they might be getting a wide berth from my end, I prefer the amateur pics section!. I might come back and test the water some other time, take it easy bro!. This further confirms my suspicions that nameisinuse was a profile created for the sake of starting a thread anonymously. If so, it was a pretty lame thing to do. As if there isn't already enough petty squabbling here!
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RHP User
15 years ago
He’s not “assuming leadership” and “dictating” anything Jean, he is merely posting his OPINION. Who is “we” that “need to know his policies” ?? the forum police maybe ?? Me thinks you are part of the forum patrol he is referring to in his post.
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Tart_Du_Jour
15 years ago
What happened to do things the traditional way? By that I mean throwing someone in a lake to see if they are lighter or heavier than a duck. Seemed to have worked for a number of years.
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jalockit
15 years ago
Simple really, if you don't like the tone of what's been written, stop reading it and move on. :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'MissBJ' Quoting 'TassieRose' Quoting 'ritmofish'I got a spam feast from fat chicks! i am THE fat chick of the forums...nobody else here is as fat as me....i didnt spam you give fat chicks a break would ya whoohooo im allowed to say fat chick roxxy Hmm....I beg to differ....i would say i am MUCH fatter than you....and I didnt spam him either...nor do i have him blocked.I coudlnt be fucked wasting my time!JMO....BJxxx hey i dont have him blocked either...is that where we're going wrong BJ??? and by the way BJ...much fatter than me my big fat white arse...you look wonderful roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
I love this stream- an opening post suggesting hypocrisy, a stream proving it true, yet also showing that hypocrisy isn't just on one side of the argument.Oh- and lots of diversions en route.Frankly this is the most friendly 'vigorous discussion' I have seen on a forum in ages.Congratulations all! Might even dare to post myself again sometime..
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RHP User
15 years ago
Love ya!!!!!!!!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
I think people have gotten sidetracked, as SydneyBoy rightly pointed out, this thread should now be about pony tails, and how they bounce... with or without racer back tops... Maybe SydBoy should start a separate one... My favourite ponytail is on Kristy Swanson in the Buffy movie....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Snowshoe' Quoting 'nameisinuse' Have fun in the forums, I think they might be getting a wide berth from my end, I prefer the amateur pics section!. I might come back and test the water some other time, take it easy bro!. This further confirms my suspicions that nameisinuse was a profile created for the sake of starting a thread anonymously. If so, it was a pretty lame thing to do. As if there isn't already enough petty squabbling here!And I wasn't going to reply but what can I say, you're not even close, a quick sift through was enough for me to realise that half of the people posting are looking to have a pop at others, stick to the day job, 9-11 wasn't a conspiracy either and Elvis isn't alive.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Jean_Girard' Oh finally someone has come to put some sort of order into the RHP forum patrols... I think it's a bit premature to just assume leadership and dictate without putting all your policies forth though. We need to know where you stand on: - Fat people at the beach - Can a guy suck off a guy and stay straight? - Hairy vaginas, chests, nipples and tongues - G-strings on 60 year old men.. Hot or not? - G-strings on men - Ponytails bouncing on jogging girls. Jean, he is not “assuming leadership or “dictating” anything, he is merely having his OPINION. Who is "we" that "need to know where he stands" ?? The forum police ?? I couldn’t agree with you more namiisinuse.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Baise_Moi'What happened to do things the traditional way? By that I mean throwing someone in a lake to see if they are lighter or heavier than a duck. Seemed to have worked for a number of years. I like your thinking there... how bout burning @ the stake to see if they survive... you know I always thought that was a strange one... I mean if you burnt someone like that and they did survive... wouldn't that just piss them off even more and therefore unleash all kinds of pain??? hugs Wayne x
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RHP User
15 years ago
luving both of your work, lots of great advice. :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'comengetsome' He’s not “assuming leadership” and “dictating” anything Jean, he is merely posting his OPINION. Who is “we” that “need to know his policies” ?? the forum police maybe ?? Me thinks you are part of the forum patrol he is referring to in his post. Thanks... is it OK if I drop you a note if I need anything else explained??
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'nameisinuse' And I wasn't going to reply but what can I say, you're not even close, a quick sift through was enough for me to realise that half of the people posting are looking to have a pop at others, stick to the day job, 9-11 wasn't a conspiracy either and Elvis isn't alive. Hey, if I'm wrong I'm wrong - I won't lose any sleep over it one way or the other. You must admit, you "had a pop" at most of the people here. Words like judgmental, snobbish, scorned woman, deliberately abusive, forum patrol, and judgemental whingers applied to men, women and couples is pretty strong for a first posting, especially when you decided to exit just as quickly as you arrived.So 9-11 wasn't a conspiracy? My dictionary defines conspiracy as "an evil, unlawful, treacherous, or surreptitious plan formulated in secret by two or more persons". That sounds pretty right to me... unless you're suggesting that one guy planned it and flew all four planes...
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RHP User
15 years ago
...nameisinuse just loaded the gun, don't you think? The "forum" just fired the shots
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RHP User
15 years ago
yeh they make sure if your outrightly straight forward and mention certain things your subjects will not be shown , the truth hurts with alot of people and being honesty is not what they like to see being posted , heaps of bullshit artists are on rhp
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Morticiaaa' ...nameisinuse just loaded the gun, don't you think? The "forum" just fired the shots Yes, I completely agree, but the expertise with which he loaded it and the fact that he left once he was satisfied that it was going to get messy suggested that it was all rather intentional, didn't you think? To the credit of everyone here, it didn't get nearly as messy as I thought it would.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Tend to come out when others are being openly abusive and taking things to the personal level. Honest opinion is fine so long as it does not abuse others and vilify them. Just try not to make it personal, if you can, and your comments should be fine.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Snowshoe' Quoting 'Morticiaaa' ...nameisinuse just loaded the gun, don't you think? The "forum" just fired the shots Yes, I completely agree, but the expertise with which he loaded it and the fact that he left once he was satisfied that it was going to get messy suggested that it was all rather intentional, didn't you think? To the credit of everyone here, it didn't get nearly as messy as I thought it would. I had no intention of becoming a regular poster, and nor do I, but for some reason it keeps me posted on the forums I've talked on and I find you most amusing, it's only a forum, it's funny that you log onto a thread with witch hunts in the title and start your own!, I'm not Rumpelstiltskin! just someone who's made an observation. To be honest I don't get it?, I checked out the forums shortly after joining and for an adult site they're not really sexy which is where my lack of interest came in, as for the forum police, well it doesn't take opening many threads to notice that a select few couples and singles seem to have decided themselves to be self appointed judge and jury's and I didn't get the point in that either. Seriously, what's the point in claiming to be sexual deviants, then logging on and chastening people for being horny?.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting OP: Having joined recently I decided to browse the forums and see what was being discussed and who was contributing, I was highly amused to read some of the judgmental and almost snobbish stand points some people are prepared to take.Monogamy seems to something taken very seriously, especially by some swinging couples and the odd scorned woman!, there seem to be some guys who are bewildered that women don't bother to reply and then there are guys who are deliberately abusive.I am starting to wonder if some of the members of the forum patrol have been transported straight from the 50's.A word of warning, nobody wants to get naked with a bunch of judgmental whingers, if you don't want to fuck someone don't do it, simple, but don't complain they've winked you or happen to be as horny as you are but don't suit your judgmental criteria, and if you want to fuck someone and they're not interested...............let it go.Guess you'd had enough of the forums before you pulled the plug during this thread OP. As one of the many regulars who hasn't been visiting so much lately, I had a bit of a laugh at how nothing really changes in the forums over time. His and her stories constantly repeating.I don't see that your reference to the 50s has to do with anything though, the attitudes your OP describes crosses all age boundaries. I reckon we all need to know that we are worthy of consideration. I'm thinking that if you really, actually got your wish that people... let it go, the forums'd be awful boring as it would be without the regular posts of new OP's like yourself lol. Hehe and I really can't keep myself from saying that it is not judgemental whingers that people seem to have an issue about getting naked with... I would have thought so but I read in the forums that it's more about looks... Hugs, Mrs P... Merry Christmas RHPers
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RHP User
15 years ago
Has any one actually read the "terms of use" section at the bottom of the page particularly "Offensive and Prohibited Content or Behavior" paragraph 3 "Refrain from racist, bigoted, threatening, abusive or other antisocial behavior or posting such content on the site or in chat rooms or any instant messaging feature." particularly the words "Antisocial behavior", apparently the main tenet of this thread and unfortunately a vastly subjective phrase. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ If your so hard done by, call in the real police, the ones that run this site. Simply clicking on "report abuse" will make the appropriate staff aware of a users breach of the very ambiguous par 3. RHP is not obligated in any way to enforce its terms in par 3 but I'm sure that users that repeat breaches may be convinced to change there behavior or even booted. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ But in the end if you don't like what some messages to you. Grow up and deal with it
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RHP User
15 years ago
seems as if your profile doesn't go with the purple circle none of your posts will be posted , 1st hand experience all comments made on this subject have been bypassed for show , unless your in the purple circle or a paid member then forget about giving your comments .
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RHP User
15 years ago
Here Here!
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RHP User
15 years ago
...and a policewoman's uniform, hat, nightstick etc. Does this make me one of the "Forum Police"???
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RHP User
15 years ago
It seems to me that there is a very strong common point that everyone in the forums has. We LOVE the forums! This is because there are so many different people with different opinions sharing theose opinions openly. If everyone agreed on everything, there'd be a lot less people logging in here to read what's new each day. Vive la difference!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'irresponsibility' It seems to me that there is a very strong common point that everyone in the forums has. We LOVE the forums! This is because there are so many different people with different opinions sharing theose opinions openly. If everyone agreed on everything, there'd be a lot less people logging in here to read what's new each day. Vive la difference! I agree, but personally I drop out of threads as soon as the personal crap gets started. There are so many good opinions about, but some people are intimidated out of posting and good opinions are lost in squabbling. Vive la good behaviour!
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RHP User
15 years ago
these forum police, do they get a spunky uniform??lmao!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'MissSuziWong'these forum police, do they get a spunky uniform??lmao! hahaha love it Suzi lmao :-)
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RHP User
15 years ago
the forum police only come out after complaints from people who post. sometimes the real nastiness happens off forum, when individuals begin to send hate mail to those who have posted comments/opinions or such that others disagree with.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I am new here so I will jump right on in and most probably make a complete egg of myself BUT peoples opinions are like our skin, they come in all textures, tones, some are infectious, some are soft, some too harsh, some abrasive, some are sensitve others flaky! Look at the website that we are a part of - honestly it is not for precious petals, we need to take what we read with a cup of salt and then discard it if it is not true. At the end of the day it is text on a forum, if you don't like what is said then move on. No doubt I will piss people off in my time here, I can choose to ignore it or if I believe it analyse it. Unfortunately when you get so many people from many different walks of life coming together you will get fireworks, try going onto a parenting forum WOW you can really see fur fly there! And for the record I reckon I have the biggest bootilicous arse on this forum
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RHP User
15 years ago
Welcome! Love your work! Cant see any egg from where Im standing. For the record wholeheartdly agree re: parenting forums..wonders if we visit the same. All I can add to your well worded post is try as well working in the the retail/public sector to see the vast range of from normal to absolute nutters. You cross them all.P.S Dont be shy now you have dipped your fingers into the pond. Can't say I'll agree with everything you say not knowing your views or opinions but healthy debate is good debate. No need for forum police to cuff me and tie me to a pole( unless he has abs and handcuffs -everything else is optional, why are there none of these types?..)..I have seen some on here that are a bit to put it gently..a bore to read, but Im sure they float some one elses boat, Im sure there are as how many "love ins" can you have in one area?. So I just move on to a topic that does interest me or try and explain my ideas. P.PS Happy New Year first post for 2011!!xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Saturn65' P.S Dont be shy now you have dipped your fingers into the pond. Thanks Saturn65 - I am an extremely shy person sexually, but I now know that is through inexperience rather than prudishness. Take the sexual side out and I am an extremely amusing person - I love a good laugh and getting physical. I have realised recently that I am a really frisky person who needs variety and raunch. THANK GOD I have found this forum Sorry I digress - I agree with all those that say HELL YES to the real forum police with abs, strong hands, shoulders, and thighs with handcuffs, attitude and opinions on how they want us positioned! Some things do not need agreement. Now off to search the forums for said forum police .... who wants to join?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Mused_Pair' I am new here so I will jump right on in and most probably make a complete egg of myself BUT peoples opinions are like our skin, they come in all textures, tones, some are infectious, some are soft, some too harsh, some abrasive, some are sensitve others flaky! Look at the website that we are a part of - honestly it is not for precious petals, we need to take what we read with a cup of salt and then discard it if it is not true. At the end of the day it is text on a forum, if you don't like what is said then move on. No doubt I will piss people off in my time here, I can choose to ignore it or if I believe it analyse it. Unfortunately when you get so many people from many different walks of life coming together you will get fireworks... Perhaps it's just off-the-cuff wording, but it sounds as though you're spoiling for a fight. I doubt if anybody will argue that you have the right to hold unpopular opinions and argue them enthusiastically, but that won't piss people off. What will is if you indulge in the personal attacks that chase off people interested in in genuine debate no matter how much others opinions may differ from their own.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Probably because I don't profess to be perfect! I try to be careful and respective of people and try to not offend but because of said imperfectness I will make faux paus', I am a frisky person but most definitely not looking for a fight. Can I ask though Snowshoes why you think people are so sensitive and so easily offended when someone disagrees with them? Honestly hand on my beating throbbing heart why do people put so much stock in what anonymous people on a forum type about them? If people are interested in genuine debate then their feathers generally do not get fluffed and they do not take offense; we are now entering the debate of semantics and unless we are having a debate on semantical relevence then we are going to go round and round in circles. People who need validation through forums are going to take offense irrespective of what the forum is about. I totally agree with you that people should feel free to express their views and opinions without fear of societal retribution and condemnation, but until we find the perfect eutopia people really need to self regulate and use the correct procedures to place a complaint if they feel they have been mistreated or repeatedly misunderstood. You have questioned my post and I haven't taken offense, I appreciate an opportunity to reclarify my musings - thanks Snowshoe HAPPY NEW YEAR
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Mused_Pair' Probably because I don't profess to be perfect! I try to be careful and respective of people and try to not offend but because of said imperfectness I will make faux paus', I am a frisky person but most definitely not looking for a fight. Can I ask though Snowshoes why you think people are so sensitive and so easily offended when someone disagrees with them? Honestly hand on my beating throbbing heart why do people put so much stock in what anonymous people on a forum type about them? If people are interested in genuine debate then their feathers generally do not get fluffed and they do not take offense; we are now entering the debate of semantics and unless we are having a debate on semantical relevence then we are going to go round and round in circles. People who need validation through forums are going to take offense irrespective of what the forum is about. I totally agree with you that people should feel free to express their views and opinions without fear of societal retribution and condemnation, but until we find the perfect eutopia people really need to self regulate and use the correct procedures to place a complaint if they feel they have been mistreated or repeatedly misunderstood. You have questioned my post and I haven't taken offense, I appreciate an opportunity to reclarify my musings - thanks Snowshoe HAPPY NEW YEAR I don't think that people get offended when someone disagrees with them. There's some really spirited and interesting debate to be found in these forums - that what keeps me (and presumably most other people) reading. There is a pattern though, where differing opinions cross into personal slanging, often quickly reinforced by supporters. At that point, interesting debate dies and we watch the thread degenerate until ultimately it's removed. Do people care about being personally attacked? Yes, despite what you rightly say about the opinions of a stranger.I like what you say about all of us being free and able to express our opinions - at first blush, I'd say you've got plenty to say for yourself. So welcome, and Happy New Year to you too!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Snowshoe until I find my niche and get my mojo grooving I might have to stalk your posts ... you mustsound like you know where all the fun is
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Mused_Pair' Snowshoe until I find my niche and get my mojo grooving I might have to stalk your posts ... you mustsound like you know where all the fun is Ah, you flatter me! Both by thinking I know where the fun is and by providing me with my first stalker! All the same, I'm always happy to lend a hand... or whatever is called for...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'onlythebest50' Be aware, some forum posters while they say publicly they don't like personal attacks, their style will be suttle sarcasm making out your stupid, then they think because it was a suttle attack you wont have the intelligence to pick up on it. The rule of thumb that I try to use for myself is to never say anything in the forums that I wouldn't tell someone to their face. That takes care of the blatant personal attacks as well as the sarcasm and belittling. I've resorted to it myself so I'm not pretending that I'm any less to blame than anyone else, but I do try...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'onlythebest50' Be aware, some forum posters while they say publicly they don't like personal attacks, their style will be suttle sarcasm making out your stupid, then they think because it was a suttle attack you wont have the intelligence to pick up on it.To me that's worse than a obviously personal attach. You may also want to be aware that maybe the subject of this thread have instant posting and due to that the postings are not going in order quite often responses are answered by previous postings that had a delay on posting. But appear in ordered that they were submitted but not displayed.Good Luck and Welcome. but whats funnier is that people dont get it when others are taking the piss out of them and get all offended. like any of this means anything? its not real, its make believe fun isnt it? a competition even ffs?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel'. but whats funnier is that people dont get it when others are taking the piss out of them and get all offended. like any of this means anything? its not real, its make believe fun isnt it? a competition even ffs? Further more it is very hard to pick up nuances in text. There is no facial clues. If somebody is openly abusive towards me or my family...I will retaliate...the same as you would if I really insulted your wife in a forum post. You may think this is not real but behind the facade are real people, real emotions and real feelings.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' Quoting 'mikeandshel'. but whats funnier is that people dont get it when others are taking the piss out of them and get all offended. like any of this means anything? its not real, its make believe fun isnt it? a competition even ffs? Further more it is very hard to pick up nuances in text. There is no facial clues. If somebody is openly abusive towards me or my family...I will retaliate...the same as you would if I really insulted your wife in a forum post. You may think this is not real but behind the facade are real people, real emotions and real feelings. yes very real. and no, i wouldn't bother with a retaliation, why should I? if you were insulting my wife, your post would condemn you, as your peers would be reading it as well. As for the nuances etc, i believe I pointed that out weeks ago, but never received a response, so figured it was far too obvious for the supposedly well educated people these forums attract. these are forums, designed to be conversational and open, not arguments and debates. not a place for personal attack and name calling or even threats of violence and retaliation. sharing of opinion, not shooting down of belief and understanding. its not me or us who post things offensive and controversial, or abusive.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' Quoting 'mikeandshel'. but whats funnier is that people dont get it when others are taking the piss out of them and get all offended. like any of this means anything? its not real, its make believe fun isnt it? a competition even ffs? Further more it is very hard to pick up nuances in text. There is no facial clues. If somebody is openly abusive towards me or my family...I will retaliate...the same as you would if I really insulted your wife in a forum post. You may think this is not real but behind the facade are real people, real emotions and real feelings. Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'onlythebest50' Be aware, some forum posters while they say publicly they don't like personal attacks, their style will be suttle sarcasm making out your stupid, then they think because it was a suttle attack you wont have the intelligence to pick up on it.To me that's worse than a obviously personal attach. You dont seriously think that the rest of us dont pick up on this do you? dont worry, we do, theres a few who post quite regularly who might as well be waving a flag , their crude attempts at veiled sarcasm are thin indeed and not very difficult to see through...............lol. oops. gonna get all sorts of accusations now, lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'MistressT' ...and a policewoman's uniform, hat, nightstick etc. Does this make me one of the "Forum Police"??? I've been a very naughty boy officer... What size batteries does your nightstick take? :pHugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
sometimes there's just waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too much stuff to read.at lea
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