Wife's fantasy - always multiple partners... For real or ...?

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  It's her call as to what is to be done and what is to be imagined. Does she know you're on RHP? If so, get her to have a look at a few of the profiles and forum posts. If you can show her that these fantsies aren't uncommon and that there are lots of 'normal' people who make them a reality, she may feel less uncomfortable with it. If things are still to remain a fantasy but you feel they are going stale you might try one of the games Jennylee and I play. We look at pics from a porn site, choose one and make up a story about it assuming that one of us are one the people in that pic. Good luck.

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  hottjohn

  13 years ago

  ya ask her what she d like them to look like hair colour build tit size oand maybe match it to a friends looks and talk abouthaving them join in with you

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  MP, why not try playing the same game but on a night out such as a man or woman she finds attractive in a crowded bar or fav restaurant instead of in a sexual situation. On a side note JM's advice often crops up on the forums in that if she doesn't want to play then trying to push the issue isn't the way to go.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  a married man looking for a married woman.I assume you are not in an open relationship. Or are you hoping OP that you will be able to introduce this woman to your wife... Tricky,very tricky OP...and why is ''don't even think about it confusing''?...it seems clear to me that she enjoys FANTASY... she is not discussing what she wants to do in reality.Two different things in my opinion.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Ask her what her fanatasy is and see if you can find some common ground

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Appreciate responses and will use suggestiosns. Thanks.Do appeaciate those who take time to check out the BF's of a poster.Those who judge... suggest nicely that you try walking a mile first.Interesting thought that during my first years of marriage I used to have a nightmare that I had 'accidently' been unfaithful. Felt like nightmare as it made me feel so awful afterwards. That doesn't happen now.Perhaps another thread would be appropriate. "Marriage, 25 years in....how do you manage"

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  You would need to ensure your wife feels 100% secure in your relationship. Like every sane person she will not do anything she perceives as dangerous to the survival of your marriage. You would do that by giving her your full attention and devotion so she feels desirable, wanted and truely loved. Only then can you begin to separate the fact that just because you are deeply in love does not mean you can't engage in some "horny fun" together to spice things out.Hope that helps :)

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I will do anything :)- Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Maybe u should let her go out and play whilst you wait at home.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  What Rocknminx said:   As part of the "Fantasy talk" next time.. talk about her going out with a girlfriend...and getting "hit on" Dirty dancing with him/her.. flirting.. making out a bit.. and work it from there...   MAYBE she will start hinting she "Might go out one night with a couple of the girls from work..."   Good luck...

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  My wife loves to be watched while having sex. There are times she left the bedroom door while our friends were at home, so that they could see us having sex. She lets me watch her bang another guy. Its hot to watch my wie getting fucked dirty by another .

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