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Why would a couple prefer a single MALE over a couple?
April 17 2018
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RHP User
8 years ago
I don't know if single males wanting to join a couple could be described as unicorns. Perhaps blowflies might be more accurate - ubiquitous, far too many of them, and frequently annoying! 😆 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Its more fun all round and less drama. Not all couples identify as swingers, we don't, but we LOVE bi mmf and moresomes. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Should anyone have to explain or justify their preferences.... ever? 🤔 I file this under :- “You like the things you like” 😎 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I know a couple of male unicorns, and they are lovely respectful guys. They are asked to join couples because the lady wants 2 cocks to keep her happy and the hubby get off seeing her pleasure. They see the same couples often so must be regarded as more than just an annoyance. And bi mmf is more sought after than you would think... Its been too long
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RHP User
8 years ago
I have no doubt there are great MMF guys out there and couples enjoying the extra M, I was more referring to the common phenomena of swingers clubs having to restrict single guys, or couples who have to insist "don't call us, we'll call you" to single men, or the deluge of offers that couples get from single men compared to single women. Plus poking a little bit of fun at the whole thing! A couple seeking a guy ending up dealing with a cloud of applicants all buzzing around trying to be the one who scores the nectar... - Posted from rhpmobile
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HotNightsGC
8 years ago
Some women just need lots of cock. A high sex drive in women is fairly common and more openly spoken about among couples these days. And a lot of male partners love seeing their women being pleasured. So I guess, to put it bluntly. it really just comes down to supply and demand. For those women who need that extra something, there’s plenty of single guys willing to give it to her 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
You're having a ffm. And during the ffm your girlfriend/wife is not only allowing you the pleasure of the fantasy but she's actively encouraging you to "fuck her harder!" And for her to "suck your cock" imagine how much of a turn on that would be!! When I was part of a couple on here I was always a little "meh" about the mfm. It wasn't until I came back on here as a single guy and was given the honour of being the 3rd for a few couples that I witnessed the energy and love between those couples.Many women have very similar fantasies to us blokes and we should do our utmost to encourage that :)
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curiousnhorny05
8 years ago
It’s also possibly much easier to find a good connection with one person rather than two. And then all four parties getting on is an added dynamic. Would I say no to a couple but it seems harder to get to that point of meeting. But yes being pleased by two men is very nice indeed. I always get a silly grin when I think about it. One very happy wife here :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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horneycouplewa
8 years ago
I wouldn't say it a preferential choice as we love both. Have had the wonderful pleasure of meeting with a guy for Mmf and then going out later, I guess it's a warm up 😏 I do tend to have the habit of inviting an extra guy to our group orgies also. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Personally I want them both for myself 😈🙊 ( just cos ) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Maybe if I was around the neighborhood perhaps I might get an invite???
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Rlee552
8 years ago
Neigh, stomp, stomp
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sweet_cherry69
8 years ago
Ooh la la tell me more! Some cold nights in Albany to snuggle up with you two would be interesting... SC 🍒 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Some cold nights here in port kennedy too x - Posted from rhpmobile
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curiousnhorny05
8 years ago
Put it this way nobody was cold. It’s an absolute pleasure being shared. Never a dull moment that’s for sure. Very empowering believe it or not. Looking forward to the next time I get to partake. And yes my partner also enjoys his wife being shared. Win/win 😊😈😜😋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
to what has already been mentioned. There is the added part of not all women being bi, as well as not all men in a couple wanting to partake. That was pretty much our situation when we played together. Mr did not wish to play with other women, however, LOVES sharing me. Also, I am not particularly bi so if we were to play with another couple, the lady probably would not be getting what she would be wanting. So single males worked best for us. And now I am playing solo, single males (or those that play solo) are still the preferred flavour :) Also, I agree with firenice05, preferences need to be considered and honestly being attracted to both in a couple isn't as easy as you would think.
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
We started on our swinging adventure in late 2012 / early 2013. Our first "play" was with a really nice single man that we met at a swingers club ( our first visit to a swingers club) in Elsternwick. Since then, we have had a few MFMF, FMF and MFM sessions and so can look back and think about which combination we enjoyed most, and why. For us, as a very close and long term happily married couple, we get a lot of pleasure by watching one another being pleasured. The most important part about this, is the eye to eye contact and facial expressions, between one another, whilst enjoying this pleasure. We generally are always touching / holding hands & kissing one another during these sessions, looking deeply into one another's eyes and thus sharing the pleasure in a subconscious, connection of our minds kind of way. Google "Compersion" to see what we are trying to explain. Our tastes, and motives, have evolved over the past 5 years and we have found that that we enjoy a MFM 3some far more than we enjoy a MFMF 4 some. The reason for this is that during a MFM 3 some, we are still very much connected, but during a MFMF we might 'split up' and be a little further apart and so not necessarily holding hands and or making deep eye to eye contact. And it is the bonded, close & intimate eye to eye contact, with one another, that is what is so special for us, when it comes to swinging. We find that its much easier to find a compatible single guy than to try to find a compatible couple, as with the latter all 4 personalities need to be attracted to one another, and that's often a very hard thing to accomplish. We are in this for our enjoyment, both on a physical and mental level.
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RHP User
8 years ago
It’s about getting the most out of every experience! We are comfortable with single guys, girls and couples. We have varying tastes each day ... we enjoy mixing it up. But which experience we fancy we give that person 110% of our energy. We all need to experience different things to find our true calling Ours is sex! 😂😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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ElectricDreamers
8 years ago
It's about 50/50 for us. We enjoy a little hotwifing from time to time but guys are good because while they have to get on with my husband the chemistry only needs to work 2 ways... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
If ya guys ever looking for a single guy. HOLLA!
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rick181au
8 years ago
The wife and I started swinging in the mid 70's when we were 35 / married 15 years, we were in a nudist club where their was a lot of swinging going on, we were in the scene there for around 5 years, our family situation changed and we stopped swinging for a few years, when things settled down we started dabbling again, but were in a different location and found it hard meeting couples where the four of us all hit it off after the initial lust wore off, it always turned out that one of us were taking one for the team so the other one could enjoy some fun. We decided to try M F M threesomes, I had always enjoyed seeing the wife going with other guys, and sex with my wife after she had been with other guys, their was never any trouble funding willing guys and a lot of sexy fun had by all, we are now mid 70's, slowed down a lot, but still up for it at times.
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