M36
Why not be honest in the first place?
January 06 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
OMG I am shocked...Now I am not sure if you are concerned because you have arranged to meet a couple and now you find out he is bi and you don't want to be in that situation. So your complaint is he actually is Bi. If you don't mind Bi guys then it would be a nice bonus. | | I am guessing that your issue is that you are not comfortable with being Bi, perhaps he has hidden it to avoid a homephobic attitude. I have no doubt that he would respect any limits you have. | | Then I could be wrong... | LC
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RHP User
15 years ago
I thought being honest would get me somewhere..
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RHP User
15 years ago
You mean people tell lies??? The horror. Mrs W xx ;)
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RHP User
15 years ago
age, height, body type, cup size, hair type with the picture they provided. Sometimes it's a little off or the pictures don't even match each other lol.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Ahhhhhh Mrs S...As always..Pegging bricks through the windows of bullshit....Love it...Chill
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RHP User
15 years ago
Me and couple X met up for a fuck at their place and all was going well she was giving me head when the hubby asked to suck my cock, i smiled and told him no and that i was there toplay with his wife, he smiled back and kindly said to me that i was to play with both of them or none of them and i told him thats cool and left their premises.
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RHP User
15 years ago
you should have slapped him with it...lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
Just close your eyes. LOL. A mouth is a mouth if you cannot see the body on the other end. Just make him deep throat it.
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RHP User
15 years ago
That's just like saying have anal sex with a man coz it's still an asshole, haha I'd rather not anyways I dislike being deepthroated.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'youngblack' Me and couple X met up for a fuck at their place and all was going well she was giving me head when the hubby asked to suck my cock, i smiled and told him no and that i was there toplay with his wife, he smiled back and kindly said to me that i was to play with both of them or none of them and i told him thats cool and left their premises. have some Questions for you before i make any further comments as in your original post you said"Seems like theres quite a number of profiles here on Rhp of couples that say the male half is straight when he actually is not, Anyone having the same issue or maybe its just me."How well did you get to know this couple before you Met to have sex?Did you converse with both parties before your meeting as to what was expected or the limits of what kind of play you would participate in...?Does this always happen to you...? As you mention a Number of profiles or is the the first time anything like this has happenedCurious...Nudie
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RHP User
15 years ago
'Straight' is subjective, i guess. He might have chosen it to indicate he doesn't want to be fucked in the ass. I think there should be a hetero-flexible option in the drop-down box for orientation :D
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RHP User
15 years ago
Mr Youngblack.. Firstly pleas eput away that dick shot..you are making me jealous!!.. I had a look at your profile. In your looking for you have Couple(mm) tv and ts, among other things. is it possible some people may mistake this as you being bi?..I would presume you were, absed on what you have on there.. Maybe try removing that... Cheers
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RHP User
15 years ago
Its so funny because you can fill out a profile with so much fucking information and still just to be brushed aside by someone who actually would think you are a great person and a horny fuck. The information you put in your profile should be minimal...you know why? People tend to read too much into things and convolute them in thier own weird way....especially women and cpls looking at a guys profile...men for instance are more "facevalue" type creatures...at least thats what i experience and also even if you are lucky and find a good profile and actually have the momumental great fortune of having a private chat...do the following... 1)recent picture 2) webcam verification 3)try not to meet just for sex on the first date...do it in a populated area just in case you gotta make a break for it because he/she is not what they said they were. My two cents
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RHP User
15 years ago
Lifestyle is about communication isnt it... SO make sure you cover all grounds before going off to play people. If you dont want to share that part of yourself, tell them, make the choice before you play and make sure the others or other person is totally aware of your boundries. If they break your rules....leave .................. Simple really .
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RHP User
15 years ago
YB, I think that part of this is your age and your experiance level. I did suspect that the situation was something like that. When you are playing with couple you do need to have a chat about what limits you have. I like couples play and I will suck a cock but I will not have one in my ass...so it is important to express your limits and expectations and it is important you understand theirs as well. LC
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RHP User
15 years ago
i understand what your saying there...your profile says your straight so people should respect that it would be like me turning up and the bloke has brought a woman for me to play with it just isnt going to happen i applaud you for sticking to your guns and walking out the door...good for you roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'youngblack'Me and couple X met up for a fuck at their place and all was going well she was giving me head when the hubby asked to suck my cock, i smiled and told him no and that i was there toplay with his wife, he smiled back and kindly said to me that i was to play with both of them or none of them and i told him thats cool and left their premises. If the couple wants something that is contary to your profile preferences it should be talked about way before meeting, we hit similiar with Bi girls hitting on my straight wife in the bedroom, the effect is the same as you, no once and if it continues get dressed and leave. Once we did not talk about same sex play because all four had straight on their profile so we didnt even think same sex play and...same thing ended up getting dressed and leaving. You are lucky he asked in the bi girl stuff they dont even ask! and sometimes when are told no they carry on with verbal stuff.....How would you like the guy in the couple commenting how nice your body was and telling you how much he would love to..some have no idea or are desperate to play!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'ritmofish' Well if you were truly honest, then there is a good chance you won't get laid here... I ask some guy here, how many woman has he deceived into bed and he call my question rubbish! I dont see why you have to lie to get anyywhere here...i certainly havnt. And yes it was me who you asked that offensive question Ritmo. Not only offensive to me, but you are also implying that some ladies on RHP can be "deceived" into bed. Which too me is an insult to them. Actually how do you "DECEIVE" a lady into bed?...can you elaborate on that? Also if you truly believe what you said in your comment you should close your account now. Because as your profile says I am straight forward and do like to manipulate of lie about things.. a misspelt word and a missed one, but we can all understand it. Or hang on, maybe thats exactly what you meant to write ??
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RHP User
15 years ago
Chatted with the Couple prefuck. They both sounded down to earth and we agreed on everything no anal, condoms a must, etc. I started this thread to find out if anybody has had such an experience also, Did I mention that couple x has quite a number of positive validations from other members that I've been with Mr lovecurvie this has nothing to do with age and experience level. Ritmofish I don't need to lie to anyone
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RHP User
15 years ago
Then no nasty surprises that you don't want to deal with. You did the right thing but 'honestly' what do you expect on here? I'm trying to organise a nice surprise with another woman on here but nearly every 'single' woman I've contacted has turned out to be married and wants hubby along... NO MENTIONS IN THE PROFILES... ALL SAY SINGLE. We are happy to play with open and honest couples but not interesting when they're lying about it it!
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RHP User
15 years ago
That situation you outlined is 'Non-Disclosure' and is not illegal unless one of you is the vendor. Perhaps state your preference(s) clearly in your profile if you feel strongly about things. Everone is different and fully allowed to be in whichever way they please. Good Luck.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hey youngblack, I'm still finding my way in this lifestyle slowly but surely. Probably never be as hardcore as some of the good boys and girls here, but that's fine! What I can say from my limited experiences is that on the site, I've been up front all the way (which might have turned some away as per what Prowling talks about but THATS HOW I WANT IT). So I don't get all that much contact, but what contact I have is good, because they've got a handle on me and know what they're getting.If/when I go to CI, I do the same. Straight up front about what I am. Again, probably not so many 'hits' but thats cool by me. Only had the one experience where i was left with a question mark about someone's ultimate 'aims'.. but a couple of reinforcing comments during play meant that the limits established prior to doing anything, where kept to. Another time, it was a case of compromise where the man of the couple explained that he was 'a bit bi'.. he just kept that for someone else, not me. Again, I was straight up about what I am.Cheers mate
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